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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do people find it offensive if someone messages to comment on how gorgeous they are.

Just because someone sends a message does it strictly mean they want to fuck u!

Looking at some of the m and f bodies on here wots not to admire without necessarily wanting more.thoughts welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll say thank you if someone sends a nice complement. If they carry on and obviously not what I'm looking for they don't get a further response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its not offensive if someone says someone is gorgeous/lovely/sexy or whatever other analogies one wants to use.

however, to describe graphically what one would do with that someone given half a chance, is a little distasteful (and also to suggest you will find them one day lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all communication is good, a compliment is very nice... don't read something between the lines, smile and say thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send out compliments...if it eventually goes nowhere so be it, it is rare I'd send out anything to someone who clearly wouldnt be interested in me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it very offensive if they don't

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

cant understand why anyone would find a compliment offensive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do people find it offensive if someone messages to comment on how gorgeous they are.

Just because someone sends a message does it strictly mean they want to fuck u! "

I often message and compliment women I like the look of on here, though I don't expect anything in return I'm not gonna claim these compliments are entirely innocent however, I'm honest enough to admit I'd probably fuck them given the chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always thank people if I'm lucky enough to receive a compliment. I've often messaged guys who I think are fit to compliment their pics but for whatever reason aren't for me but I rarely get a reply as I think many on here assume if you message someone it means you're after a shag!! Not so in my case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd think it was nice. I'm perfectly capable of saying no thank you when the time comes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And from posting on this thread I've just had a message with a nice compliment

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've sent messages to people both male and female and complimented them on having good photos. I have no ulterior motive and have no intention of meeting or chatting, just rewarding and recognising artistry and effort.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Being complimentary shouldn't be a problem for anyone. Being too gushing or labouring the point would tend to be tend to get towards being irksome.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Offensive is a strong word....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And from posting on this thread I've just had a message with a nice compliment

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truly deserved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And from posting on this thread I've just had a message with a nice compliment

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truly deserved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always say thankyou compliments are nice, if they are honest.

If I see someone who has nice classy pics, makes me smile... Etc etc.. I have no qualms in paying them a compliment, even if they or we are not what we/they are looking for, it's nice to give and recieve compliments... I see something I like .... I say so!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And from posting on this thread I've just had a message with a nice compliment

u look nice,do u take anal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And from posting on this thread I've just had a message with a nice compliment

u look nice,do u take anal?"

no I bledi don't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And from posting on this thread I've just had a message with a nice compliment

truly deserved

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I see some hot pictures I tend to wink (yes wink!)..doesn't particulary mean there is an ulterior motive- just an acknowledgement that they are sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always say thankyou compliments are nice, if they are honest.

I totally agree

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

I used to thank people but they felt led on from the response. Now i stash most my pics & don't respond to random pms as its just easier for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And from posting on this thread I've just had a message with a nice compliment

Just tried but was refused on Jurassic grounds!!

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

"I'll say thank you if someone sends a nice complement. If they carry on and obviously not what I'm looking for they don't get a further response."

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Yes just that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And from posting on this thread I've just had a message with a nice compliment

truly deserved

Thank you

And your welcome lol xx

Gets coat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And from posting on this thread I've just had a message with a nice compliment

truly deserved

Thank you

And your welcome lol xx

Gets coat

You've pulled!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've sent messages to people both male and female and complimented them on having good photos. I have no ulterior motive and have no intention of meeting or chatting, just rewarding and recognising artistry and effort. "

Charming Steve!!!

And there was Fox and I planning a road trip to include Brighton!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do people find it offensive if someone messages to comment on how gorgeous they are.

Just because someone sends a message does it strictly mean they want to fuck u!

Looking at some of the m and f bodies on here wots not to admire without necessarily wanting more.thoughts welcome."

No I don't find it offensive but I would prefer it if they did want to fuck me

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

Charming Steve!!!

And there was Fox and I planning a road trip to include Brighton!!

If memory serves he missed his own orgy recently

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've fabbed some of your pics, Obi!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

What orgy?!?!?! Oh no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Charming Steve!!!

And there was Fox and I planning a road trip to include Brighton!!

If memory serves he missed his own orgy recently

Ok - who's been spiking my JD with....erm....more JD??

What bloody orgy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fab the pics that I like surely that's what it's designed for ? To message them also seems a bit OTT but certainly not offensive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do people find it offensive if someone messages to comment on how gorgeous they are.

Just because someone sends a message does it strictly mean they want to fuck u!

Looking at some of the m and f bodies on here wots not to admire without necessarily wanting more.thoughts welcome."

We have no problem with this. Provided people don't make a nuisance of themselves, and know when to stop, or take no for an answer.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'd say thanks, but do get a bit miffed if their second message is, 'so wen can I fuk u?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When someone mails me to say how gorgeous I am I ask which pic they like the best. They never reply after that.

Some people don't half talk bollocks.

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By *--Cinders---Couple
over a year ago

a place near Blackpool

At my age and my size, am happy with all compliments,

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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

I always reply with thank u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a gorgeous shoe woman!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have a gorgeous shoe woman!

That was for steel btw

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

some live to be offended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have a gorgeous shoe woman!

That was for steel btw

Thank you.

You have a very attractive armpit.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"some live to be offended"

I take offence to that.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"some live to be offended

I take offence to that."

enjoy

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

TAKE THAT BACK!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"TAKE THAT BACKSIDE!"

anal is not my thing sweetie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll say thank you if someone sends a nice complement. If they carry on and obviously not what I'm looking for they don't get a further response."

Very much this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have a gorgeous shoe woman!

That was for steel btw

Thank you.

You have a very attractive armpit.

hmmm off to change avatar!

No more complimenting you on your shoe!! OI

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Do people find it offensive if someone messages to comment on how gorgeous they are.

Just because someone sends a message does it strictly mean they want to fuck u!

Looking at some of the m and f bodies on here wots not to admire without necessarily wanting more.thoughts welcome."

we don't we get lots of people messaging with compliments who live muct oo far away to ever meet, its nice because it usually means that its a genuine compliment and sometimes, just sometimes people say things they don't mean just to get sex

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"TAKE THAT BACKSIDE!

anal is not my thing sweetie x"

Now you're putting words in my mouth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have a gorgeous shoe woman!

That was for steel btw

Thank you.

You have a very attractive armpit.

hmmm off to change avatar!

No more complimenting you on your shoe!! OI "

Apologies... I thought you might be offended if I said 'great tits'!! x

Oh and your shoes are far sexier than mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do people find it offensive if someone messages to comment on how gorgeous they are.

Just because someone sends a message does it strictly mean they want to fuck u!

Looking at some of the m and f bodies on here wots not to admire without necessarily wanting more.thoughts welcome.

I had a snoop at your pics the other day because I was nosey about the 'ginger pensioner' post. You look great! x

No I don't want a shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"all communication is good, a compliment is very nice... don't read something between the lines, smile and say thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not offensive if backed up with a little content.

One word messages whilst not offensive are just boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not offended if I believe the compliment is genuine without hidden motives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have a gorgeous shoe woman!

That was for steel btw

Thank you.

You have a very attractive armpit.

hmmm off to change avatar!

No more complimenting you on your shoe!! OI

Apologies... I thought you might be offended if I said 'great tits'!! x

Oh and your shoes are far sexier than mine."

Haha nut job!

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