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"And there are a lot of guys with "straight" on their profiles that are anything from curious to fully experienced bisexual. Our profile is hidden, but we are a bi couple and mostly get approached by straight guys. So if you think you're avoiding Bi guys, chances are you're not. " Agree with this and its the main reason we only meet bi guys at the club where we can be sure they are genuinely bi | |||
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"And there are a lot of guys with "straight" on their profiles that are anything from curious to fully experienced bisexual. Our profile is hidden, but we are a bi couple and mostly get approached by straight guys. So if you think you're avoiding Bi guys, chances are you're not. " Well said! I am bi, but play straight if the male is straight. I know many guys on here that are bi, but state 'straight' on their profiles so as not to scare off the homophones. What makes me laugh is straight guys in a couple who think that a bi guy will jump them at the earliest opportunity... we do have our standards. Your wives may be worth fucking, but you aint | |||
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"I am straight, But, I see Bi Curious,on quite a few profiles, especially men. I organise GangBangs, in Manchester, and so am used to being amongst naked men. When I am looking to invite men to my GB's if I see 'bi curious' on their profile, I tend to avoid them. Can someone please explain what bi curious means. " Why do you avoid them? | |||
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"I am straight, But, I see Bi Curious,on quite a few profiles, especially men. I organise GangBangs, in Manchester, and so am used to being amongst naked men. When I am looking to invite men to my GB's if I see 'bi curious' on their profile, I tend to avoid them. Can someone please explain what bi curious means. Why do you avoid them?" Homophobia? Or fear of testing his own sexuality? | |||
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"Judging and excluding bi- men like this just encourages them to be dishonest. Why automatically assume that bi- men can't respect the limits of others? Just as most straight men aren't attracted to every woman and can usually refrain from getting grabby when it's unwelcome, so can most bi- men." Hence my question to the OP. It's not always that people think a guy will jump on them. Some people just don't like the idea of two guys together. Same as some women don't like the thought of two women together. | |||
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"I am straight, But, I see Bi Curious,on quite a few profiles, especially men. I organise GangBangs, in Manchester, and so am used to being amongst naked men. When I am looking to invite men to my GB's if I see 'bi curious' on their profile, I tend to avoid them. Can someone please explain what bi curious means. " Do you also tend to avoid bi-curious women? | |||
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"Bi curios/ bi sexual... doesn't mean they want to play bisexual always. Just means they are ok with some bisexual stuff sometimes... When arranging meets make sure you tell people what's expected. It's all very straightforward. " I agree 100% with the comment above. Most contacts I get are from bi-curious or bisexual men. Very few from gay men. | |||
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"Judging and excluding bi- men like this just encourages them to be dishonest. Why automatically assume that bi- men can't respect the limits of others? Just as most straight men aren't attracted to every woman and can usually refrain from getting grabby when it's unwelcome, so can most bi- men." I agree with this comment 100% also. Bi curious or bisexual men are not predators - I find they are very open minded people who very much respect other peoples limits. Cathy | |||
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"Judging and excluding bi- men like this just encourages them to be dishonest. Why automatically assume that bi- men can't respect the limits of others? Just as most straight men aren't attracted to every woman and can usually refrain from getting grabby when it's unwelcome, so can most bi- men. Hence my question to the OP. It's not always that people think a guy will jump on them. Some people just don't like the idea of two guys together. Same as some women don't like the thought of two women together. " I can't see why that should matter though, especially in a group situation, when it isn't going to happen. It's nobody's business what someone has done before, as long as they adhere to the rules of the current meet. I don't like the idea of people wearing fur or eating fois gras but I don't issue lifestyle questionnaires to potential partners and exclude on that basis. They won't be wearing fur or eating fois gras in front of me, or expecting me to do so, so no problem. | |||
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"Like someone above said, even if they say they are straight, they might not be. As a selection criteria for a gangbang, it's flawed. You may as well make a decision based on colour of their car. " Good point. I dont mind sucking a nice cock, but if they drive a white car... boaaarrkkkk | |||
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"Like someone above said, even if they say they are straight, they might not be. As a selection criteria for a gangbang, it's flawed. You may as well make a decision based on colour of their car. Good point. I dont mind sucking a nice cock, but if they drive a white car... boaaarrkkkk " My car is champagne coloured | |||
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"Judging and excluding bi- men like this just encourages them to be dishonest. Why automatically assume that bi- men can't respect the limits of others? Just as most straight men aren't attracted to every woman and can usually refrain from getting grabby when it's unwelcome, so can most bi- men. Hence my question to the OP. It's not always that people think a guy will jump on them. Some people just don't like the idea of two guys together. Same as some women don't like the thought of two women together. I can't see why that should matter though, especially in a group situation, when it isn't going to happen. It's nobody's business what someone has done before, as long as they adhere to the rules of the current meet. I don't like the idea of people wearing fur or eating fois gras but I don't issue lifestyle questionnaires to potential partners and exclude on that basis. They won't be wearing fur or eating fois gras in front of me, or expecting me to do so, so no problem. " People have their own reasons for not wanting to meet some people. I respect that. x | |||
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" What makes me laugh is straight guys in a couple who think that a bi guy will jump them at the earliest opportunity... we do have our standards. Your wives may be worth fucking, but you aint " I class mysrlf as straight, I tried the bi route years ago when I was exploring my sexuality, it didnt work for me so that was that, in our experience when having a 3some we find it more relaxed with a bi guy rather than a straight guy, I can confirm he wont try and touch or bum you when your not looking so to the OP your clientele will be safe with a bi guy and you wont even be able to spot which one he is | |||
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"Like someone above said, even if they say they are straight, they might not be. As a selection criteria for a gangbang, it's flawed. You may as well make a decision based on colour of their car. Good point. I dont mind sucking a nice cock, but if they drive a white car... boaaarrkkkk My car is champagne coloured " But it is a people carrier.... boaaarrkkkk | |||
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" What makes me laugh is straight guys in a couple who think that a bi guy will jump them at the earliest opportunity... we do have our standards. Your wives may be worth fucking, but you aint I class mysrlf as straight, I tried the bi route years ago when I was exploring my sexuality, it didnt work for me so that was that, in our experience when having a 3some we find it more relaxed with a bi guy rather than a straight guy, I can confirm he wont try and touch or bum you when your not looking so to the OP your clientele will be safe with a bi guy and you wont even be able to spot which one he is " Unless he's wearing a badge! I'm bi but you could never tell and I almost invariably have sex with women not men. | |||
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"This untrue and vicious rumour that my car is a people carrier is absolute utter and complete bollocks. " Is it a pink Beetle? | |||
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"This untrue and vicious rumour that my car is a people carrier is absolute utter and complete bollocks. Is it a pink Beetle? " That would be too manly for our Steve | |||
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"This untrue and vicious rumour that my car is a people carrier is absolute utter and complete bollocks. Is it a pink Beetle? That would be too manly for our Steve " x | |||
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"Judging and excluding bi- men like this just encourages them to be dishonest. Why automatically assume that bi- men can't respect the limits of others? Just as most straight men aren't attracted to every woman and can usually refrain from getting grabby when it's unwelcome, so can most bi- men. Hence my question to the OP. It's not always that people think a guy will jump on them. Some people just don't like the idea of two guys together. Same as some women don't like the thought of two women together. I can't see why that should matter though, especially in a group situation, when it isn't going to happen. It's nobody's business what someone has done before, as long as they adhere to the rules of the current meet. I don't like the idea of people wearing fur or eating fois gras but I don't issue lifestyle questionnaires to potential partners and exclude on that basis. They won't be wearing fur or eating fois gras in front of me, or expecting me to do so, so no problem. People have their own reasons for not wanting to meet some people. I respect that. x" Nobody is asking the people at the meet though, this is the organiser making the decision for everyone. And as pointed out, he's probably already invited numerous bi- men without even knowing. | |||
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"And there are a lot of guys with "straight" on their profiles that are anything from curious to fully experienced bisexual. Our profile is hidden, but we are a bi couple and mostly get approached by straight guys. So if you think you're avoiding Bi guys, chances are you're not. " this.. | |||
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"And there are a lot of guys with "straight" on their profiles that are anything from curious to fully experienced bisexual. Our profile is hidden, but we are a bi couple and mostly get approached by straight guys. So if you think you're avoiding Bi guys, chances are you're not. " I'm tempted to put my profile as straight just for the giggles | |||
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"I think putting it bluntly. Bi curious people are straight. But can go the other way for a good kick now and then. And it's easier to find guys to please you and please. P.s. I am straight. " Ah, but you've said it twice - does that count as denial? | |||
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"Judging and excluding bi- men like this just encourages them to be dishonest. Why automatically assume that bi- men can't respect the limits of others? Just as most straight men aren't attracted to every woman and can usually refrain from getting grabby when it's unwelcome, so can most bi- men. Hence my question to the OP. It's not always that people think a guy will jump on them. Some people just don't like the idea of two guys together. Same as some women don't like the thought of two women together. I can't see why that should matter though, especially in a group situation, when it isn't going to happen. It's nobody's business what someone has done before, as long as they adhere to the rules of the current meet. I don't like the idea of people wearing fur or eating fois gras but I don't issue lifestyle questionnaires to potential partners and exclude on that basis. They won't be wearing fur or eating fois gras in front of me, or expecting me to do so, so no problem. People have their own reasons for not wanting to meet some people. I respect that. x Nobody is asking the people at the meet though, this is the organiser making the decision for everyone. And as pointed out, he's probably already invited numerous bi- men without even knowing." Good point. | |||
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"Judging and excluding bi- men like this just encourages them to be dishonest. Why automatically assume that bi- men can't respect the limits of others? Just as most straight men aren't attracted to every woman and can usually refrain from getting grabby when it's unwelcome, so can most bi- men. Hence my question to the OP. It's not always that people think a guy will jump on them. Some people just don't like the idea of two guys together. Same as some women don't like the thought of two women together. I can't see why that should matter though, especially in a group situation, when it isn't going to happen. It's nobody's business what someone has done before, as long as they adhere to the rules of the current meet. I don't like the idea of people wearing fur or eating fois gras but I don't issue lifestyle questionnaires to potential partners and exclude on that basis. They won't be wearing fur or eating fois gras in front of me, or expecting me to do so, so no problem. People have their own reasons for not wanting to meet some people. I respect that. x Nobody is asking the people at the meet though, this is the organiser making the decision for everyone. And as pointed out, he's probably already invited numerous bi- men without even knowing. Good point. " Not probably - he definitely has - as shown on some veri's. | |||
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"Judging and excluding bi- men like this just encourages them to be dishonest. Why automatically assume that bi- men can't respect the limits of others? Just as most straight men aren't attracted to every woman and can usually refrain from getting grabby when it's unwelcome, so can most bi- men. Hence my question to the OP. It's not always that people think a guy will jump on them. Some people just don't like the idea of two guys together. Same as some women don't like the thought of two women together. I can't see why that should matter though, especially in a group situation, when it isn't going to happen. It's nobody's business what someone has done before, as long as they adhere to the rules of the current meet. I don't like the idea of people wearing fur or eating fois gras but I don't issue lifestyle questionnaires to potential partners and exclude on that basis. They won't be wearing fur or eating fois gras in front of me, or expecting me to do so, so no problem. People have their own reasons for not wanting to meet some people. I respect that. x Nobody is asking the people at the meet though, this is the organiser making the decision for everyone. And as pointed out, he's probably already invited numerous bi- men without even knowing. Good point. Not probably - he definitely has - as shown on some veri's. " Nice detective work! | |||
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"Judging and excluding bi- men like this just encourages them to be dishonest. Why automatically assume that bi- men can't respect the limits of others? Just as most straight men aren't attracted to every woman and can usually refrain from getting grabby when it's unwelcome, so can most bi- men. Hence my question to the OP. It's not always that people think a guy will jump on them. Some people just don't like the idea of two guys together. Same as some women don't like the thought of two women together. I can't see why that should matter though, especially in a group situation, when it isn't going to happen. It's nobody's business what someone has done before, as long as they adhere to the rules of the current meet. I don't like the idea of people wearing fur or eating fois gras but I don't issue lifestyle questionnaires to potential partners and exclude on that basis. They won't be wearing fur or eating fois gras in front of me, or expecting me to do so, so no problem. People have their own reasons for not wanting to meet some people. I respect that. x Nobody is asking the people at the meet though, this is the organiser making the decision for everyone. And as pointed out, he's probably already invited numerous bi- men without even knowing. Good point. Not probably - he definitely has - as shown on some veri's. Nice detective work! " Priceless!! | |||
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"Judging and excluding bi- men like this just encourages them to be dishonest. Why automatically assume that bi- men can't respect the limits of others? Just as most straight men aren't attracted to every woman and can usually refrain from getting grabby when it's unwelcome, so can most bi- men. Hence my question to the OP. It's not always that people think a guy will jump on them. Some people just don't like the idea of two guys together. Same as some women don't like the thought of two women together. I can't see why that should matter though, especially in a group situation, when it isn't going to happen. It's nobody's business what someone has done before, as long as they adhere to the rules of the current meet. I don't like the idea of people wearing fur or eating fois gras but I don't issue lifestyle questionnaires to potential partners and exclude on that basis. They won't be wearing fur or eating fois gras in front of me, or expecting me to do so, so no problem. People have their own reasons for not wanting to meet some people. I respect that. x Nobody is asking the people at the meet though, this is the organiser making the decision for everyone. And as pointed out, he's probably already invited numerous bi- men without even knowing. Good point. Not probably - he definitely has - as shown on some veri's. Nice detective work! Priceless!! " In all fairness, maybe prior to meeting the OP the 'veris' in question were straight and the have turned to the dark side since then!!! | |||
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"Judging and excluding bi- men like this just encourages them to be dishonest. Why automatically assume that bi- men can't respect the limits of others? Just as most straight men aren't attracted to every woman and can usually refrain from getting grabby when it's unwelcome, so can most bi- men. Hence my question to the OP. It's not always that people think a guy will jump on them. Some people just don't like the idea of two guys together. Same as some women don't like the thought of two women together. I can't see why that should matter though, especially in a group situation, when it isn't going to happen. It's nobody's business what someone has done before, as long as they adhere to the rules of the current meet. I don't like the idea of people wearing fur or eating fois gras but I don't issue lifestyle questionnaires to potential partners and exclude on that basis. They won't be wearing fur or eating fois gras in front of me, or expecting me to do so, so no problem. People have their own reasons for not wanting to meet some people. I respect that. x Nobody is asking the people at the meet though, this is the organiser making the decision for everyone. And as pointed out, he's probably already invited numerous bi- men without even knowing. Good point. Not probably - he definitely has - as shown on some veri's. Nice detective work! Priceless!! In all fairness, maybe prior to meeting the OP the 'veris' in question were straight and the have turned to the dark side since then!!! " Maybe the turned to the "dark side" during a meet with lots of other "straight" guys. Scandalous Ps I reckon Santa bringing cluedo has really paid off | |||
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"Having had a few threesomes ruined by straight men, we now avoid them, so if guys contact us with straight on their profile when they are really bi they miss out, simples." We just tell them that the guys will be playing first and I might not even play at all. That sorts out the 'real' bi ones. | |||
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"It means your thinking about it...and why as most bi men can play straight" I can't . Don't wave chocolate in front of me and not expect me to eat it. | |||
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"And there are a lot of guys with "straight" on their profiles that are anything from curious to fully experienced bisexual. Our profile is hidden, but we are a bi couple and mostly get approached by straight guys. So if you think you're avoiding Bi guys, chances are you're not. Well said! I am bi, but play straight if the male is straight. I know many guys on here that are bi, but state 'straight' on their profiles so as not to scare off the homophones. What makes me laugh is straight guys in a couple who think that a bi guy will jump them at the earliest opportunity... we do have our standards. Your wives may be worth fucking, but you aint " could i just state that this post may not be wholly accurate. you cant site homophobia on someone decision not to meet openly bi men. shit, V has a gay son, so that can hardly be the reason for us not to meet bi men lol and it definitely has nothing to do with me worrying about him jumping me. i would hope they would have more self respect lol | |||
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"Having had a few threesomes ruined by straight men, we now avoid them, so if guys contact us with straight on their profile when they are really bi they miss out, simples. We just tell them that the guys will be playing first and I might not even play at all. That sorts out the 'real' bi ones. " Where do I sign?! | |||
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