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By *hyllyphylly OP   Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Have any of the bi people on here gone into a "normal" pub and pulled someone of the same sex?

This is something I would like to do, but a bit nervous about meeting the most homophobic guy in the world and his mates.

My bi fem best mate almost did last week, but the lass's boyfriend wasn't impressed and dragged her home.

Oh PS, Halifax has 0 gay pubs or clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I daren't even try and chat up a woman in a gay bar, no chance I'd try in a straight bar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if in a gay bar

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

It's different for females though. Generally (not always) we are quite a tactile species, give us alcohol, and we are even more so.

I've done it numerous times where I've started chatting to a group of girls on nights out, and ended up kissing one. But they are usually 'lipstick lesbians', not gay or even bi, just doing it for the attention it brings from men.

I did once start talking to a girl on the bus, and end up dating her for 4 months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only if in a gay bar "

*this includes swinging clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive encountered women on nights out who aren't remotely interested in women as such but think it would be ' fun' to kiss a woman - or to please their man

Strange huh

I think just carry on as you are - be who you are and it will happen if its meant to happen .. don't think its a good idea to start randomly chatting up a man in a bar though

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Hit Leeds - it has a great scene and the Viaduct is possibly my most favouritestist pub in the whole world, including Yorkshire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ewww I cant imagine it, I like Men !

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Have any of the bi people on here gone into a "normal" pub and pulled someone of the same sex?

This is something I would like to do, but a bit nervous about meeting the most homophobic guy in the world and his mates.

My bi fem best mate almost did last week, but the lass's boyfriend wasn't impressed and dragged her home.

Oh PS, Halifax has 0 gay pubs or clubs."

Sorry to say you'd probably get your head kicked in round here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't bother in a straight pub. Not unless your gaydar is exceptionally precise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes - both of us have been approached with same sex offers on 'normal' nights out. He's had the most offers, but was less pleased with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hit Leeds - it has a great scene and the Viaduct is possibly my most favouritestist pub in the whole world, including Yorkshire.

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I miss Rockshots. x

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"

I miss Rockshots. x"

Never been to it, but Leeds is a cracking night out

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Dead easy in Brighton, the rainbow flags and stickers and 'we are gay friendly' sings on the door give it away...never tried, never will.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Sings? Signs!

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Ewww I cant imagine it, I like Men !"

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

I met an ex girlfriend at a nilla event once. Theatre in sheffield but she was very direct & asked me straight out.

People find me

I must have ' bi sexual horny & something else' stamped on me... Somewhere

But then i also pulled a bloke in homebase with 3 kids in tow

Im just approachable in real life / people are sympathetic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't advise a guy to try it. For your safety

Stick to places you know you won't get a slap x

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By *iPeopleMan
over a year ago

London


" I must have ' bi sexual horny & something else' stamped on me... Somewhere "

Would love to go looking for it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't bother in a straight pub. Not unless your gaydar is exceptionally precise. "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't bother in a straight pub. Not unless your gaydar is exceptionally precise.

Well said "

But even if it were , a bi/gay bloke might not appreciate being approached in a normal pub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't advise a guy to try it. For your safety

Stick to places you know you won't get a slap x"

Find that a bit weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't bother in a straight pub. Not unless your gaydar is exceptionally precise.

Well said

But even if it were , a bi/gay bloke might not appreciate being approached in a normal pub "

Then, presumably, he'll say so. The same as a straight person might not want to be approached in tesco. In my book you take your chances where you can.

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By *athylacyTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

Blackpool is very open minded....

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