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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Bloody difficult isnt it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bloody difficult isnt it?

We use clubs as easier but got some good plans for 2014.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tend to find you have to engage with people to get anywhere.

that said, maybe your problem could be a lack of couple meets in the first place.

just looked on your profile and it doesnt suggest you are looking for other couples, and veri's dont do anything to dissuade this feeling.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Were vetified by 23 couples and have some veris from those weve met?

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By *rank_SimoneCouple
over a year ago

Bideford

"Bloody difficult isnt it?

Very difficult .......... but much harder for 4 to clique.

Although saying that some people don't really try ...... pictures are good for the initial opinion. But until you have met you will never really know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes thats the thing four involved..and needing attraction x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Were vetified by 23 couples and have some veris from those weve met?

oh, ok then. must have missed them, can only see 2 from couples and the rest from guys lol.

but your text still never mentions meeting couples.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have changed it a bit and added more veris cheers for the advice xx

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By *at2Couple
over a year ago

north Down

"Yes thats the thing four involved..and needing attraction x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have changed it a bit and added more veris cheers for the advice xx

thats fine, sorry i wasnt criticising.

just noticed those things and guessed it may not be helping.

we certainly would anyway

just not local lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok ....its cool.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bloody difficult isnt it?

might have more luck with some clear full body pics of the male half too especially in the first 8 on the front page, remember the other woman will want to know about him too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feast or famine. Always good to meet in socials, parties or clubs

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

2 is hard,4even harder.

There's always one ugly bastard in the mix.

I'm nearly joking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2 is hard,4even harder.

There's always one ugly bastard in the mix.

I'm nearly joking.

Hey I am not always there

But 4 way attraction is very hard to find, plus it takes longer as every decision has to be agreed by both sides of both couples. Clubs are easier though.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"2 is hard,4even harder.

There's always one ugly bastard in the mix.

I'm nearly joking.

Hey I am not always there

But 4 way attraction is very hard to find, plus it takes longer as every decision has to be agreed by both sides of both couples. Clubs are easier though. "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bloody difficult isnt it?

might have more luck with some clear full body pics of the male half too especially in the first 8 on the front page, remember the other woman will want to know about him too. "

When I look at couple profiles I want to know what the guy is like too. Who the heck would meet someone you'd never seen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try it with the BDSM thrown in the mix, even harder lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bloody difficult isnt it?

might have more luck with some clear full body pics of the male half too especially in the first 8 on the front page, remember the other woman will want to know about him too.

When I look at couple profiles I want to know what the guy is like too. Who the heck would meet someone you'd never seen?

Agree with that, there are alot that only have pics of the woman and none of the men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bloody difficult isnt it?

Its what you make it but sometimes its not easy to find a couple you both like.

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By *uckoo clockCouple
over a year ago

Merseyside

You would think the couple couple thing is pretty easy to find on a swinger site but the realty is its not for all the reasons mentioned so far and more.

Our solution has been parties where we often play with others but not necessarily who are a couple !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes i keep telling mr kitty i need pucs of him xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 way attraction is not easy but it's worth it when it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bloody difficult isnt it?

Sure is , especially as we like going out. It puts a lot of couples and even single men off meeting in a pub first.

Single guys are the worse, only want to meet in car parks or come to our house at 3 pm for. A quick shag or for a quick blowjob,

I am sure these guys would have a pink fit if I wrote to them asking to do that to their mrs ,

We don't do swingers parties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find it difficult too. Mainly because all the pictures are of the female and the odd male torso thrown in. We won't meet any couple without seeing both of them x

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By *ntandbreeCouple
over a year ago

East London/Essex

We always find that the woman is attractive and the guy almost always is the (How did he bag her kinda guy) and seeing as most profiles don't have any pics of the male it's really difficult to make any kind of progress. Unfortunately we have had to hide most of our pictures as we can't keep up with Fabs from people we would rather not even see our profile and that also has a negative effect on our success rate in meeting genuine couples-having said that though I do believe that most people like the idea of swinging but get scared when something starts to materialise and it all becomes to real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We always find that the woman is attractive and the guy almost always is the (How did he bag her kinda guy) and seeing as most profiles don't have any pics of the male it's really difficult to make any kind of progress. Unfortunately we have had to hide most of our pictures as we can't keep up with Fabs from people we would rather not even see our profile and that also has a negative effect on our success rate in meeting genuine couples-having said that though I do believe that most people like the idea of swinging but get scared when something starts to materialise and it all becomes to real"

and probably bugger all to do with your attitude too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a Hard life being Perfect but someone has to do it i Suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its a Hard life being Perfect but someone has to do it i Suppose

and you carry it off so well lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its a Hard life being Perfect but someone has to do it i Suppose

and you carry it off so well lol"

Years of practice my Man

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By *ntandbreeCouple
over a year ago

East London/Essex

Yeaa real mature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you want some people to see your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Were vetified by 23 couples and have some veris from those weve met?

Can't have found it that difficult then

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

for us its never been about quantity but quality, friends are for life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Learn something new everyday on here, there was me thinking it was single men who find it bloody difficult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am that man batting above his average,lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

". Unfortunately we have had to hide most of our pictures as we can't keep up with Fabs from people we would rather not even see our profile"

That is probably the silliest paragraph ever written

We have fab'ed pics for people the other end of the country that we have absolutely no interest of meeting. Only a message implies an interest in meeting. A fab means a well taken / edited picture and there is no action required so nothing to "keep up with"

Use message filters to manage who can message you and all is well in the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

". Unfortunately we have had to hide most of our pictures as we can't keep up with Fabs from people we would rather not even see our profile

That is probably the silliest paragraph ever written

Use message filters to manage who can message you and all is well in the world. "

Couldn't agree more, we fab pics that we like, it doesn't mean we are hoping to meet the people just that one of us likes the photo

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Try it with the BDSM thrown in the mix, even harder lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try clubs and socials!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always happy to meet Cpls who read the profile fully its long to be honest but at least you will know where we coming from . I am also a male who has punched well above his weight lol . But after 2 bottles of wine I look ok

there are some lovely Cpls on here but also a lot of time wasters and wantabees xx

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