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"Or a sign that many people are struggling financially?" This. | |||
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"Splits from their partners and he moved back with his parents so that his ex could keep the family home for the kids?" I did this.... Longest year of my life! | |||
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"I can accommodate but don't call me middle aged as I've not had a crisis yet ![]() ![]() | |||
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"All these are reasons why it irritates me when people post on here jumping to conclusions that if someone cant accommodate they must be married and cheating. " Even worse that they assume that because blokes don't live at home they can obviously accommodate. You show me one single person on a normal wage in London that can afford to live by themselves. I'm not badly paid and it still costs me a packet ![]() | |||
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"Live with their Mum. Now we're sure that in some cases this may be true for many reasons. But of late when we ask why the male can't accommodate that reply is increasingly common. Is this the latest ploy from married/involved men ?" My ex-husband sold his four bed house to move into his mum's one bed flat to look after her when she had her leg amputated. One of my playmates has moved his mum in as she's suffering from dementia, another friend is going through a divorce. Whilst I don't meet men who are unable to accommodate I don't assume it's because they're married. | |||
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"The same goes for younger people moving out of the family home later and later. I had to move home after uni to save up for a deposit to buy somewhere, that was a few years back now, it's even harder these days." My two youngest, 22 and 26 are still at home with no signs of leaving yet. My youngest is doing her masters her sister is an early years practitioner. I was married at 20, pregnant by 22. | |||
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"The same goes for younger people moving out of the family home later and later. I had to move home after uni to save up for a deposit to buy somewhere, that was a few years back now, it's even harder these days. My two youngest, 22 and 26 are still at home with no signs of leaving yet. My youngest is doing her masters her sister is an early years practitioner. I was married at 20, pregnant by 22." Put their dig money up! | |||
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"Most men who say they can't accommodate could have something to hide like they have partner who does not know they are on a swingers site ![]() Most? ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Most men who say they can't accommodate could have something to hide like they have partner who does not know they are on a swingers site ![]() so could most woman and couples, its not only men who lie on here | |||
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"Most men who say they can't accommodate could have something to hide like they have partner who does not know they are on a swingers site ![]() Im a woman who says I cant accommodate. Does that mean I have something to hide like a partner? ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Most men who say they can't accommodate could have something to hide like they have partner who does not know they are on a swingers site ![]() My experience is that there are far more couples who say they can't accommodate than single men. Also a lot of them are quite demanding about it. | |||
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"Live with their Mum. Now we're sure that in some cases this may be true for many reasons. But of late when we ask why the male can't accommodate that reply is increasingly common is the latest ploy from married/involved men ?" I got divorced and now havr a flat of my own again but my daughter currently lives here. As a single guy, its often assumed that I am cheating, but no one questions the single female or couple who say that they can't accommodate due to family at home. | |||
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"All these are reasons why it irritates me when people post on here jumping to conclusions that if someone cant accommodate they must be married and cheating.I agree with you jez i can accom but do not always want to i also have a daughter at home so most eves are out of the question not cheating though " | |||
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"The same goes for younger people moving out of the family home later and later. I had to move home after uni to save up for a deposit to buy somewhere, that was a few years back now, it's even harder these days. My two youngest, 22 and 26 are still at home with no signs of leaving yet. My youngest is doing her masters her sister is an early years practitioner. I was married at 20, pregnant by 22." My mum and dad got together at 18, married by 20 and 3 kids by 26 lol | |||
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"Live with their Mum. Now we're sure that in some cases this may be true for many reasons. But of late when we ask why the male can't accommodate that reply is increasingly common. Is this the latest ploy from married/involved men ?" No its the times we live in people can't afford places | |||
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"Or a sign that many people are struggling financially? This." ![]() ![]() | |||
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"The same goes for younger people moving out of the family home later and later. I had to move home after uni to save up for a deposit to buy somewhere, that was a few years back now, it's even harder these days. My two youngest, 22 and 26 are still at home with no signs of leaving yet. My youngest is doing her masters her sister is an early years practitioner. I was married at 20, pregnant by 22. Put their dig money up!" It's not the money, I want them out! I'm thinking of retiring and my kids are still at home. Bet the minute I start going gaga they leg it! ![]() | |||
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"The same goes for younger people moving out of the family home later and later. I had to move home after uni to save up for a deposit to buy somewhere, that was a few years back now, it's even harder these days. My two youngest, 22 and 26 are still at home with no signs of leaving yet. My youngest is doing her masters her sister is an early years practitioner. I was married at 20, pregnant by 22. Put their dig money up! It's not the money, I want them out! I'm thinking of retiring and my kids are still at home. Bet the minute I start going gaga they leg it! ![]() could be a good way to get them to move out then. Might be worth a try lol | |||
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"Live with their Mum. Now we're sure that in some cases this may be true for many reasons. But of late when we ask why the male can't accommodate that reply is increasingly common. Is this the latest ploy from married/involved men ?" I'm currently living with my Mum and Dad. I moved back home to look after my Dad when his cancer came back. I'm single but can't accom. I've got a demanding career and parental care commitments which don't allow time for a full on relationship at the mo. That's why I'm on here and not a dating site. Sadly I think there's a lot of married/involved men and women on here who claim to be single but aren't. Don't let the married/involved men and women spoil it for us genuine singles. Judge each profile on it's own merits and block those who turn out to be married/attached or fake etc. Jamie ![]() | |||
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"My ex's dad is in his 50's and lives with his mum after his dad died a few years ago he went to help her out as she was struggling on her own. I am more wary of guys that can't accom but fully understand that there are many reasons why that could be so!! " I don't meet men that don't accommodate after saying to a playmate we'd have to meet at his next time as my daughter was coming home from uni and his response being he didn't have people he met of the Internet into his home: it wasn't a knocking shop! We were in my bed at the time and had been meeting for a year. After chucking him out of my house I changed in who I let into my home. I don't care why they can't accommodate, I don't ask, I just don't meet them! | |||
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"I know people are saying too many people jump to conclusions but its reassuring to see how many people are considering other reasons a person may be unable to accommodate." I agree ![]() | |||
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