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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Meet just purely to play and not have a social first to see how things go? I really wanna play tonight and dont want to mess about for hours first!! Mrs B

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No one then i guess!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres plenty out there if you look

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I have been known to have the odd meet where we jumped into bed after a short initial chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a female who will offer it on a plate to anyone who wants it... think you;; end up with plenty of offers from desperate men

enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a female who will offer it on a plate to anyone who wants it... think you;; end up with plenty of offers from desperate men

enjoy "

...and the offering it isn't desperate?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Theres plenty out there if you look "
but never when we r free it frustrates us! We put a meet up a week ago n get either offers from ppl that we are not sure of or people that want a social! We hardly get any nights together out and to meet a couple for them to turn around and say the nights over bye bye and we dont get a play would really piss me off!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a Swingers "meet for sex" site is it not??

If it's just socials someone wants join "find a friend! lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"a female who will offer it on a plate to anyone who wants it... think you;; end up with plenty of offers from desperate men

enjoy "

Scuse me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No one then i guess!"

8 minutes after the initial post?

Jeez - i hope you give people a little more time to make their minds up whether to meet or not!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is a Swingers "meet for sex" site is it not??

If it's just socials someone wants join "find a friend! lol "

Exactly! Thanku!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have done as a couple, but do prefer to plan meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meet just purely to play and not have a social first to see how things go? I really wanna play tonight and dont want to mess about for hours first!! Mrs B "

Yes. I nearly always meet just to play. I don't have time for socials. I probably wouldn't meet someone if we had only just started chatting to though as I like to have an idea about the person I'm meeting. Plenty do meet that way though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No one then i guess!

8 minutes after the initial post?

Jeez - i hope you give people a little more time to make their minds up whether to meet or not! "

Just refreshing the post thats all!!

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By *himanMan
over a year ago

chichester

Yeab have played on 1st meet wish i was nearer xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find spontaneous and unexpected sex at a meet the best although we do make the conscience decision before ripping anyone's cloathes off weather we find them attractive and that we want to have sex with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Meet just purely to play and not have a social first to see how things go? I really wanna play tonight and dont want to mess about for hours first!! Mrs B

Yes. I nearly always meet just to play. I don't have time for socials. I probably wouldn't meet someone if we had only just started chatting to though as I like to have an idea about the person I'm meeting. Plenty do meet that way though. "
hmm i spose

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We find spontaneous and unexpected sex at a meet the best although we do make the conscience decision before ripping anyone's cloathes off weather we find them attractive and that we want to have sex with them "

Yeh def u have to be sure to a certain extent x

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I never do a social meet first, I use the site/chatting to work out if I want to play with someone and I have very occasionally done a 'meet today' and spent some time talking to someone before deciding if we will indeed meet. Having a meet today on doesn't mean you just have to take the first offer that comes along

Of course if the person turned up and was not as expected, not like photos etc it'd be bye bye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a female who will offer it on a plate to anyone who wants it... think you;; end up with plenty of offers from desperate men

enjoy "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a female who will offer it on a plate to anyone who wants it... think you;; end up with plenty of offers from desperate men

enjoy "

She can do what she wants on fabs, including random shags. I get fed up of this theme of everyone having to 'socialise' first to justify things. Believe it or not some men,woman, and couples are just on here for nsa sex. And no that doesn't include me but I don't try and force my own agenda.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"a female who will offer it on a plate to anyone who wants it... think you;; end up with plenty of offers from desperate men

enjoy

She can do what she wants on fabs, including random shags. I get fed up of this theme of everyone having to 'socialise' first to justify things. Believe it or not some men,woman, and couples are just on here for nsa sex. And no that doesn't include me but I don't try and force my own agenda."

Exactly! I dont want just anyone but someone we both find attaractive who just wanna get down to it to have a social is a waste of time if the outcome is no sex at the end it!!

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"a female who will offer it on a plate to anyone who wants it... think you;; end up with plenty of offers from desperate men

enjoy

She can do what she wants on fabs, including random shags. I get fed up of this theme of everyone having to 'socialise' first to justify things. Believe it or not some men,woman, and couples are just on here for nsa sex. And no that doesn't include me but I don't try and force my own agenda.

Exactly! I dont want just anyone but someone we both find attaractive who just wanna get down to it to have a social is a waste of time if the outcome is no sex at the end it!!"

Sorry but a social is never a waste of time. Getting to know someone, what makes then tick, what turns then on or off can make an resulting fun so much better.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn


"No one then i guess!

8 minutes after the initial post?

Jeez - i hope you give people a little more time to make their minds up whether to meet or not! "

I was thinking the same thing

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By *wingerdelightCouple
over a year ago

eastliegh

we never play on first meet, we like to have a social then decide after when there is no pressure, we dont always both find the others atractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of my social meets ended up in me leaving her house the next day. Even though we both agreed to no sex but just a chat..

Sometimes, a social meet may take an unexpected turn..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a female who will offer it on a plate to anyone who wants it... think you;; end up with plenty of offers from desperate men

enjoy

She can do what she wants on fabs, including random shags. I get fed up of this theme of everyone having to 'socialise' first to justify things. Believe it or not some men,woman, and couples are just on here for nsa sex. And no that doesn't include me but I don't try and force my own agenda."

Thats cool, i know people have different means when it comes to meeting. i never forced my agenda, just said im sure she wont have problems arranging a meet. Guys out number women quite considerably

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of my social meets ended up in me leaving her house the next day. Even though we both agreed to no sex but just a chat..

Sometimes, a social meet may take an unexpected turn..

"

This

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I meet to play, it might be after quite a few mails, texts etc but generally if I meet it is for sex.

We can chat and socialise when we stop for a breather before round two starts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends where the meet is

On a serious note , I prefer to have a social meet and then go from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends where the meet is

On a serious note , I prefer to have a social meet and then go from there"

Can't shag in a phone box can yer

May get some funny looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a female who will offer it on a plate to anyone who wants it... think you;; end up with plenty of offers from desperate men

enjoy

She can do what she wants on fabs, including random shags. I get fed up of this theme of everyone having to 'socialise' first to justify things. Believe it or not some men,woman, and couples are just on here for nsa sex. And no that doesn't include me but I don't try and force my own agenda.

Thats cool, i know people have different means when it comes to meeting. i never forced my agenda, just said im sure she wont have problems arranging a meet. Guys out number women quite considerably "

ok, maybe just a misunderstanding but that wasn't the tone I got from your message, telling somebody to think I would find quite insulting when she has already clearly stated what she wants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Can't shag in a phone box can yer "

Can't you

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By *appyfuckerMan
over a year ago

in a happy place north wales coast

dont know about every1 else but i use fab mainly to meet n play am honest as i look after my disabled daughter and carnt commit to long drawn out meets and eventuly get to taste a nice pussy

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"Meet just purely to play and not have a social first to see how things go? I really wanna play tonight and dont want to mess about for hours first!! Mrs B "

With the way threads ten to go on here regarding how hard it is to meet i'd guess it depends what you are looking for

Single guy - plenty around and relatively easy to find

Couples - a bit trickier finding them free at the same time as you

Single women - fairy dust

You've put a meet up so keep your fingers crossed

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock


"Some of my social meets ended up in me leaving her house the next day. Even though we both agreed to no sex but just a chat..

Sometimes, a social meet may take an unexpected turn..

This "

Ditto

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I do, but then I'm not the sort of girly you can meet for a cuppa in a café

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Can't shag in a phone box can yer

Can't you "

...spill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Can't shag in a phone box can yer

Can't you "

Ohhh you naughty girl lol..x

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I don't always have a social meet, but then I generally take a few weeks getting to know someone first, then I have a pretty good idea if play will happen!

The only way it wont, is if they turn up and do not look like their pics, and yes I had that a few times as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think its unreasonable to have a social meet first..nothing worse then just meeting n not fancying someone...although I understand ur time is precious. ..dont be in such a rush lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Can't shag in a phone box can yer

Can't you

...spill.

"

Oh I couldn't possibly Popeye, but I was young, carefree and frivolous once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Can't shag in a phone box can yer

Can't you

...spill.

"

Ha pops curious too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Can't shag in a phone box can yer

Can't you

...spill.

Oh I couldn't possibly Popeye, but I was young, carefree and frivolous once "

Once?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Can't shag in a phone box can yer

Can't you

...spill.

Oh I couldn't possibly Popeye, but I was young, carefree and frivolous once

Once? "

lol well ok, still am now and again

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"a female who will offer it on a plate to anyone who wants it... think you;; end up with plenty of offers from desperate men

enjoy

She can do what she wants on fabs, including random shags. I get fed up of this theme of everyone having to 'socialise' first to justify things. Believe it or not some men,woman, and couples are just on here for nsa sex. And no that doesn't include me but I don't try and force my own agenda.

Exactly! I dont want just anyone but someone we both find attaractive who just wanna get down to it to have a social is a waste of time if the outcome is no sex at the end it!!

Sorry but a social is never a waste of time. Getting to know someone, what makes then tick, what turns then on or off can make an resulting fun so much better."

I never agree to meet just for sex, i've said it before. For me sexual attraction doesn't just come from looking at someone and thinking phwoar! it comes from talking to someone, seeing their inner naughtiness. Saying that i don't discount meeting in a pub, chatting for an hour over a drink and then going back to theirs and being fucked senseless... Just not my preference to miss a good glass of zinfandel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Can't shag in a phone box can yer

Can't you

...spill.

Oh I couldn't possibly Popeye, but I was young, carefree and frivolous once

Once?

lol well ok, still am now and again "

Your a dark horse mizz legs and a bit of a minx to boot........

I see you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Can't shag in a phone box can yer

Can't you

...spill.

Oh I couldn't possibly Popeye, but I was young, carefree and frivolous once

Once?

lol well ok, still am now and again

Your a dark horse mizz legs and a bit of a minx to boot........

I see you "

Me?

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock


"a female who will offer it on a plate to anyone who wants it... think you;; end up with plenty of offers from desperate men

enjoy

She can do what she wants on fabs, including random shags. I get fed up of this theme of everyone having to 'socialise' first to justify things. Believe it or not some men,woman, and couples are just on here for nsa sex. And no that doesn't include me but I don't try and force my own agenda.

Exactly! I dont want just anyone but someone we both find attaractive who just wanna get down to it to have a social is a waste of time if the outcome is no sex at the end it!!

Sorry but a social is never a waste of time. Getting to know someone, what makes then tick, what turns then on or off can make an resulting fun so much better.

I never agree to meet just for sex, i've said it before. For me sexual attraction doesn't just come from looking at someone and thinking phwoar! it comes from talking to someone, seeing their inner naughtiness. Saying that i don't discount meeting in a pub, chatting for an hour over a drink and then going back to theirs and being fucked senseless... Just not my preference to miss a good glass of zinfandel "

Would a shiraz do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol don't giving me that halo look! and batting those lashes yes you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a female who will offer it on a plate to anyone who wants it... think you;; end up with plenty of offers from desperate men

enjoy

She can do what she wants on fabs, including random shags. I get fed up of this theme of everyone having to 'socialise' first to justify things. Believe it or not some men,woman, and couples are just on here for nsa sex. And no that doesn't include me but I don't try and force my own agenda.

Exactly! I dont want just anyone but someone we both find attaractive who just wanna get down to it to have a social is a waste of time if the outcome is no sex at the end it!!

Sorry but a social is never a waste of time. Getting to know someone, what makes then tick, what turns then on or off can make an resulting fun so much better.

I never agree to meet just for sex, i've said it before. For me sexual attraction doesn't just come from looking at someone and thinking phwoar! it comes from talking to someone, seeing their inner naughtiness. Saying that i don't discount meeting in a pub, chatting for an hour over a drink and then going back to theirs and being fucked senseless... Just not my preference to miss a good glass of zinfandel "

lol I've never seen anyones inner naughtyness in a pub before, but the glass of wine (or beer) would be most welcome.

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By *rencherMan
over a year ago

Derby


"I don't always have a social meet, but then I generally take a few weeks getting to know someone first, then I have a pretty good idea if play will happen!"

Works for me too, correctly worded e-mails then texts can sometimes render a social unnecessary....both of you know what's going to be happening when you get together....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Can't shag in a phone box can yer

Can't you

...spill.

Oh I couldn't possibly Popeye, but I was young, carefree and frivolous once

Once?

lol well ok, still am now and again

Your a dark horse mizz legs and a bit of a minx to boot........

I see you

Me? "

...i can't look at those legs like i used to now lol x

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I don't always have a social meet, but then I generally take a few weeks getting to know someone first, then I have a pretty good idea if play will happen!

Works for me too, correctly worded e-mails then texts can sometimes render a social unnecessary....both of you know what's going to be happening when you get together...."

Exactly!

Unfortunately most of my potentials in evidently shoot themselves in the foot, as a few weeks is to long to keep up the nice guy façade!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

@ Popey and Meet the Fockers Mwah xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just managing to get a coffee meet would be a miracle, never mind the rest of it !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never say never, as you never do know what will happen.

I play will with you xx

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By *ubblyBlonde40FWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"No one then i guess!

8 minutes after the initial post?

Jeez - i hope you give people a little more time to make their minds up whether to meet or not! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meet just purely to play and not have a social first to see how things go? I really wanna play tonight and dont want to mess about for hours first!! Mrs B "

You need to travel down south

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" @ Popey and Meet the Fockers Mwah xx"

Right back at yer mmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive done it. met someone purely to play. we both wanted it enough to just go straight to it.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I have done in the past and may do again but they have never been the memorable meets or the most satisfying so I choose to meet socially first. Some social meets have moved rapidly to something more but I really enjoyed the public, restrained, social meet part first and the rest was good cake under that icing.

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