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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My cat, who lives with Mum, was diagnosed with cancer before Christmas. Mum and my stepdad didn't want to tell me until after Christmas. He's off to the vets later and its likely he's not coming back. I'm sad beyond words right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh no how sad sending big hugs xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww big cwtch Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry to hear that sweetie! Sending you massive hugs, call if you need a chat xxx

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By *issmekate xxxWoman
over a year ago

Non Vanilla Land

Oh no, I am very sorry to hear that, but he will be going to a better place and will no longer be suffering ... people who don't have animals really don't understand the loss of a loved pet ... just think of the lovely life he has had xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sad, big hug heading your way xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will be getting hundreds of hugs and cups of tea brought to you tomorrow my sweet. Xx

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

big hugs ruby xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh ruby am so very sorry to hear your news x he won't be suffering any longer sending you hugs if you want to ring to talk please do so hun xxx

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By *icebloke..but filthyMan
over a year ago

Waltham Cross

Awful news. Bug hug x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks everyone. He is very out of sorts. I'm very sad xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks everyone. He is very out of sorts. I'm very sad xx"

It's very very sad but it's better to let him go before he suffers. I know.

Hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very sad to hear... I had to put my Siamese cat down after 10 great years but he was diagnoised with stomach cancer and sadly i had to put him out of his pain and suffering... I miss him but i'm afraid we do usually out live our pets, but i'm sure you would'nt want your animal to suffer.

I feel for you, wish you the best...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very sad news.. I know how you feel as lost one of mine recently x

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By *W69Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Really feel for you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No words help, but I do promise you that time heals xx

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.

That's so sad. Our cat has been missing for over a week now. Last night we put up missing posters around the local area. Pets truly are family members in our eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hugs from me too xxx

It's the best thing for the cat if he/she is suffering.

Some people can be selfish and put themselves before their pets and they suffer rather than let them go.

my thoughts are wirh you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hugs to you ruby xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My cat, who lives with Mum, was diagnosed with cancer before Christmas. Mum and my stepdad didn't want to tell me until after Christmas. He's off to the vets later and its likely he's not coming back. I'm sad beyond words right now. "

Im so sorry to hear that Ruby.My old dog died on the 10th December so I fully understand how you feel.Sending you lots of love.Anna.x

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

they're not "just pets" they are a friend so my heart goes out to you xxx

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By *himanMan
over a year ago

chichester

..its like loseingva member of ur family x

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Big hugs Ruby I hope your kitty isn't suffering too much xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The vet has said his quality of life is still there for the time being. He's lost 200g in 4 days. Its likely that its going to be in the next few days when his time is ready to go, but the end is coming sadly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel for you. Had to put ours down ten years ago. I hope he doesn't suffer too much and that you don't either. They are members of our family, hug sent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massive hugs from us god bless you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's so sad. Our cat has been missing for over a week now. Last night we put up missing posters around the local area. Pets truly are family members in our eyes."

We did that, he was in the wardrobe! Lost a cat to cancer 2 years ago, after watching relatives suffer through this debilitating disease in some ways I'm jealous of pet animals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My cat, who lives with Mum, was diagnosed with cancer before Christmas. Mum and my stepdad didn't want to tell me until after Christmas. He's off to the vets later and its likely he's not coming back. I'm sad beyond words right now. "

Ahh am sorry sweetie this is crap.. People will ramble on and ull feel better for a minute... But it's shite... Console yourself in the fact the kitty lived a long n happy life!! Get another I have a kitten at the mo that's driving me maddddd!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Ruby, I'm sorry to hear about your cat. Remember the good times and wish him well on his way to a peaceful death.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i lost a family cat to illness. was hard but eventually came to the understanding that we ended his pain and gave him a peaceful and painless end.

remember the good times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ruby, I'm sorry to hear about your cat. Remember the good times and wish him well on his way to a peaceful death.

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snap

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

sorry to hear that ruby ....a few years ago my beloved cat had cancer and I put the death sentence on her and made the mistake of being with her when the vet put her to sleep but I know it was to spare any more suffering

hugs to ruby from ruby

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