FabSwingers.com forum: Anyone else hate Xmas?

By *elaxedsexyfun OP Man
over a year ago

Northants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. But I enjoy the time off. Its all the bollox surrounding it I dont buy in to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"??"

Do you really hate Christmas?...

If so, why?...

Can I ask have you ever liked Christmas?...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you hate it, is it not a choice ? After all its what we choose to make it ? Simply make it into what you want it to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This year I hate it.

It's not a choice. The decision was made for me and I wouldn't wish it on anyone.

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By *elaxedsexyfun OP Man
over a year ago

Northants

Sadly it's not a choice. These days it's pretty well forced on us!

Anyway, I hope you all enjoy yours. Take care and have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes.

sat round my parents having dinner and my younger brother blew his top cuz he is such a sensitive soul.

fucking prima donna.

only for my mother i would have given him a bloody nose on my way out

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I have no feeling for it at all since the kids grew up.. just another day.. nearly over now back to work friday..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love xmas well the xmas dinner part of it the rest id rather wasnt happening to be honnest but this year dont seem like xmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont hate Christmas just think its very over rated and way to expensive what happen to just having good old family time watching Christmas movies being great ful to have each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont hate Christmas just think its very over rated and way to expensive what happen to just having good old family time watching Christmas movies being great ful to have each other "

cuz you would probably start shagging them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont hate it, but its just another day too me..happy enough but not as happy as could be i suppose, but its ok its like a sunday...nothing on tv and a posh lunch

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

mmm flavia on xmas strictly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

with a vengence yes!

Billy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont hate Christmas just think its very over rated and way to expensive what happen to just having good old family time watching Christmas movies being great ful to have each other

cuz you would probably start shagging them lol"

Not with the kids around lol

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By *oupleMKUKCouple
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

We don't hate it, but mostly ignore it. We have spent today together, just the two of us, chilling and relaxing. Didn't buy presents for ANYONE, we never do as we prefer to make a fuss of people on birthdays instead.

That said, we are seeing the kids on Saturday and will have some family time then.

Love it or hate it, it's nearly over. :D

Happy Christmas everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I have a large family and it's normally the only time we are all in one place. But I know everyone sees it diffrently.

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By *ightkitty4uWoman
over a year ago

Epsom

I don't "enjoy" Christmas, I feel like a hypocrite... I don't even believe in Jesus, god the bible and everything else to do with religion, yet here I am celebrating the birthday of someone/something I don't believe in...

Much rather be in the Alps boarding all day.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont hate Christmas just think its very over rated and way to expensive what happen to just having good old family time watching Christmas movies being great ful to have each other

cuz you would probably start shagging them lol

Not with the kids around lol"

well at least we have now found the line you draw lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't "enjoy" Christmas, I feel like a hypocrite... I don't even believe in Jesus, god the bible and everything else to do with religion, yet here I am celebrating the birthday of someone/something I don't believe in...

Much rather be in the Alps boarding all day....."

Jesus wasn't born on this day, he was born in the summer. And the reason why we celebrate this day was because it was celebrated as a pagan holiday and then the christians took over it. Or something like that. I dont follow religion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont hate Christmas just think its very over rated and way to expensive what happen to just having good old family time watching Christmas movies being great ful to have each other

cuz you would probably start shagging them lol

Not with the kids around lol

well at least we have now found the line you draw lol"

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By *pplecrunchWoman
over a year ago

Yeovil

Hate this year.

The choice was made for me. Hardest day of my life and all I was allowed was a 3 min phone call

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its bin amazing bin sat watching my mother get hammed dads all jolly wereing a elf suit and to top it off baby's had pepper pig on since 1300 think it should be like the World Cup once ever 4years xx

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By *ightkitty4uWoman
over a year ago

Epsom

Much rather be in the Alps boarding all day.....

Exactly! they also moved the pagan festival, I think it was 23rd... I gave up on religion when I found out Henry 8th invented CofE so he could get divorced...

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By *rencherMan
over a year ago

Derby

I'm not overly keen on Christmas, its only one day a year though and I try to ignore all the hype surrounding it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dont hate Christmas just think its very over rated and way to expensive what happen to just having good old family time watching Christmas movies being great ful to have each other "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes when I don't get what I wish for xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate it and always have since a child. It;s just all so false

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no feeling for it at all since the kids grew up.. just another day.. nearly over now back to work friday.."

Yes, my view also, just another day off work, ho hum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love it

spending time with family and friends, going to church watching some crap telly with my grandparents before playing cards, board games etc. it is bloody fantastic.

merry Christmas one and all.

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

I used to enjoy Christmas, but:

1) I barely drink these days and I don't like seeing people who are blind d*unk everywhere. I hate the way our cities and towns are turned into dodgy places to be at night. I used to be a pretty big drinker too!

2) I hate the way it starts so early. I remember when I was about 14, my mum tutting because the neighbours put up Christmas decorations on the 1st Dec. Anyone putting decorations up in November should be fined!

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

I used to enjoy Christmas, but:

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm starting to like it again after enduring horrible Christmases while I was with an ex, and I've enjoyed preparing for it these last 10 days or so.

The really long run up and people spouting on and on and on about it from October drives me nuts though. People get carried away and make far too much fuss and even get into debt over it.

I'm not overly religious but most people seem to have forgotten the true meaning of it anyway and seem to think it's all about expensive presents and getting d*unk!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing my nephews face light up this morning and seeing my younger siblings happy and a day with out arguments makes the build up finally worth it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like it either. The only thing I got was a bad case of sprout farts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't hate Christmas - it's the evening when the child's in bed and i'm on my own that I get lonely and don't like it much

Roll on tomorrow!!!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"I don't hate Christmas - it's the evening when the child's in bed and i'm on my own that I get lonely and don't like it much

Roll on tomorrow!!!"

I'm enjoying the peace and quiet now he's in bed after the madness of today since 6am! Nice cuppa tea, film on, feet up.., lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To those that feel lonely, the worst is over, shops, pubs, all open tomorrow, and I hope you all find something better tomorrow.

Nette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you hate it, is it not a choice ? After all its what we choose to make it ? Simply make it into what you want it to be."

Of course its not a choice. Sum ppl hate xmas for all different reasons. If ppl r alone at xmas and hate it cos of that, do u think its alwaz their choice that they r alone? Wot a ridiculous comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you hate it, is it not a choice ? After all its what we choose to make it ? Simply make it into what you want it to be.

Of course its not a choice. Sum ppl hate xmas for all different reasons. If ppl r alone at xmas and hate it cos of that, do u think its alwaz their choice that they r alone? Wot a ridiculous comment"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I have my own place I'll invite some of those who have been alone around for a Xmas buffet and drinks x

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I don't hate it but it brings back very painful memories for me that I do my best to squeeze away from.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Well if anyone is in the Black Country area tomorrow pop in I have enough food to feed an army

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I loved it as a kid but now as a mum to two v young kids it's love hate; love their excitement and wonder but hate all the prep, mess and stress that comes with hosting. I'm knackered and now just want to shove most of the toys that are taking over the house in the charity shop. Realise I sound like Scrooge... Shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't hate Xmas. I just hate the fact people go over the top to the point where they don't go shopping at all in January, leaves us retailers out of pocket then. Apart from that I don't mind it. Can be great or poor. Depending who I am with, etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't stand it, it just gives me anxiety attacks,waste of my time and money

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

The opposite of love isn’t hate, it’s indifference. I’m indifferent to Xmas

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

Apart from the usual Christmas hype, which is just about bearable, this December has been unusually horrible and depressing thanks to the weather and family illnesses and bereavements, so I'm not going to pronounce on this as a typical one. Just a question of getting into the better weather and proper social/cultural activities resuming.

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Hate it the money you have to spend the disruption it causes for my work clearing up the mess for months sometimes. False jollity all the pressure to be nice to people you despise. I'd it wasn't for my mother I would stay away from it entirely.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

No, but I feel sorry for anyone who is struggling, as Christmas can be very difficult.

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I'm not a fan. I opted out of the whole thing decades ago, and I'm much happier for it.

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