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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive sent a few messages to a few hotties. Been polite etc. Its not the no thanks that im bothered about but the..im not a bbw so why you messaging me reply. Why are women so touchy about weight. Any advice welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are strange ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People are strange ...."

When your a stranger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see through the many layers that lay within the wicked soul, the depths of life's construction....

Blah blah blah, Merry Christmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you state a clear preference on your profile and are then confused when you approach people that don't meet it and they aren't interested?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

To be fair, I would probably respond with the same!

Not sure why you are confused to be honest, when you have stated it as a preference?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So you state a clear preference on your profile and are then confused when you approach people that don't meet it and they aren't interested?

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Anyone i message is obviously my type.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To be fair, I would probably respond with the same!

Not sure why you are confused to be honest, when you have stated it as a preference?"

How would you class a bbw to a slim women then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm confused.

Are you messaging women who are BBW but then they reply saying they aren't BBW?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm confused.

Are you messaging women who are BBW but then they reply saying they aren't BBW?"

yes someone that as made sense of the post instead of jumping on me lol

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Maybe lose the only a dog likes a bone part - If you state a preference for curvy ladies and then message a slim girl, shes bound to feel she's not what you really looking for.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"To be fair, I would probably respond with the same!

Not sure why you are confused to be honest, when you have stated it as a preference?

How would you class a bbw to a slim women then?"

Umm I'm slim, a size 6/8 so I am guessing quite a big difference!

I want someone to want to meet me, not just tick boxes or say what they think will give them the best results! If you don't get that, then you never will!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you state a clear preference on your profile and are then confused when you approach people that don't meet it and they aren't interested?

Anyone i message is obviously my type."

So, they clearly don't think that they are a BBW. Yeah can see why that's going bad.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"I'm confused.

Are you messaging women who are BBW but then they reply saying they aren't BBW?

yes someone that as made sense of the post instead of jumping on me lol"

sorry that wasn't clear. I'd guess its like anything - noone likes a label being applied to them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BBW is a subjective term, some women may be just a little overweight and call themselves BBW, where some will be the other end of the scale and obese.

Down to how each woman views her body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

slim women don't like to be called fat maybe, which you are saying you are looking for in your profile.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I'm confused.

Are you messaging women who are BBW but then they reply saying they aren't BBW?

yes someone that as made sense of the post instead of jumping on me lol"

Well its a bit confusing why you would message someone who wasn't BBW if you are looking for BBWs, but whatever gets you going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think unless a woman calls herself a BBW she may well be offended by reading that you are looking for BBW.

As I said before it's subjective, one woman who is 18/20 (for example) may call herself a BBW where another woman of similar size wouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"slim women don't like to be called fat maybe, which you are saying you are looking for in your profile."

But he's clearly said he's messaging women who he believes are BBW.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"BBW is a subjective term, some women may be just a little overweight and call themselves BBW, where some will be the other end of the scale and obese.

Down to how each woman views her body. "

Ty for the reply. I guess the profile will have to be looked at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm confused.

Are you messaging women who are BBW but then they reply saying they aren't BBW?

yes someone that as made sense of the post instead of jumping on me lol

Well its a bit confusing why you would message someone who wasn't BBW if you are looking for BBWs, but whatever gets you going."

From the way I read the post, he IS messaging BBW or women HE perceives to be BBW but these women are replying saying they aren't BBW.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

maybe because what you consider to br bbw differs from what they consider to be bbw ....just for the record ...you seem quite touchy as well !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"BBW is a subjective term, some women may be just a little overweight and call themselves BBW, where some will be the other end of the scale and obese.

Down to how each woman views her body.

Ty for the reply. I guess the profile will have to be looked at"

Most definitely overhaul your profile text especially the part about you being priceless and the dog/bone comment.

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By *sCass09Woman
over a year ago

leicester

Maybe you should just put in your profile "i like a curvy woman, but if I message you it means that I'm interested". That about covers all your bases. Being a curvy gal myself, i wouldn't be offended at all

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"BBW is a subjective term, some women may be just a little overweight and call themselves BBW, where some will be the other end of the scale and obese.

Down to how each woman views her body.

Ty for the reply. I guess the profile will have to be looked at"

No shit Sherlock, I think it is the reason why it is there is the first place!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"maybe because what you consider to br bbw differs from what they consider to be bbw ....just for the record ...you seem quite touchy as well ! "

so a size 20 is not a bbw? Guess ive got it wrong then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe you should just put in your profile "i like a curvy woman, but if I message you it means that I'm interested". That about covers all your bases. Being a curvy gal myself, i wouldn't be offended at all "

Great reply. Many thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"BBW is a subjective term, some women may be just a little overweight and call themselves BBW, where some will be the other end of the scale and obese.

Down to how each woman views her body.

Ty for the reply. I guess the profile will have to be looked at

Most definitely overhaul your profile text especially the part about you being priceless and the dog/bone comment."

Advice taken on board...many thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe because what you consider to br bbw differs from what they consider to be bbw ....just for the record ...you seem quite touchy as well !

so a size 20 is not a bbw? Guess ive got it wrong then. "

YOU can't say that a size 20 is BBW. You may think it is but that woman may not describe herself or even think of her self like that.

I'm a small 8/10 but HATE being called skinny. I'm not skinny, I'm slim/athletic.

As a man it's not up to you to label a woman, it literally is down to how she feels about her size.

You can say you like curvy girls but then you get curvy girls my size, I have curves in the right places and I have been called curvy in the past so you see how each label can be used to describe a wide range of body types.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"

so a size 20 is not a bbw? Guess ive got it wrong then. "

i wouldnt say you have got it wrong at all ..as there is no correct answer to what a bbw is ...but as others have said ..the dog and bone comment seems quite unnecessary ..but good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the world of fab

Nobody is allowed to have more than one preference

Nobody is allowed to change their preference

Nobody is allowed to express a preference.

Unless you are female, in which none of the above applies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

so a size 20 is not a bbw? Guess ive got it wrong then.

i wouldnt say you have got it wrong at all ..as there is no correct answer to what a bbw is ...but as others have said ..the dog and bone comment seems quite unnecessary ..but good luck "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"maybe because what you consider to br bbw differs from what they consider to be bbw ....just for the record ...you seem quite touchy as well !

so a size 20 is not a bbw? Guess ive got it wrong then.

YOU can't say that a size 20 is BBW. You may think it is but that woman may not describe herself or even think of her self like that.

I'm a small 8/10 but HATE being called skinny. I'm not skinny, I'm slim/athletic.

As a man it's not up to you to label a woman, it literally is down to how she feels about her size.

You can say you like curvy girls but then you get curvy girls my size, I have curves in the right places and I have been called curvy in the past so you see how each label can be used to describoe a wide range of body types."

For the record i was using a size 20 as a example. I can see your logic in thinking & think your input will se

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

And I love who you pick and choose who you respond to!

Don't ask a question if you have no interest in the answer!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And I love who you pick and choose who you respond to!

Don't ask a question if you have no interest in the answer!"

think you got the wrong end of the stick from the question from the start. Hence why i did not reply. No hard feelings yeah.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"And I love who you pick and choose who you respond to!

Don't ask a question if you have no interest in the answer!

think you got the wrong end of the stick from the question from the start. Hence why i did not reply. No hard feelings yeah. "

No hard feelings at all! You shouldn't have asked the question then! Simple

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