FabSwingers.com forum: Seriously random women!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Those that want to judge and ridicule, feel free, to care I first have to value your opinion! so over the years slowly making my way through extremely crowded bars I'v noticed women like to cheekily/slyly grab my bum , wink smile and generally touch as I squeeze through, then act all innocent ect. Something I never follow up , ( I took the pussy off the pedestal a long time ago ) anyway tonight was no different, however, being d*unk and horny one girl went a little further and put her hand up my top and started to discreetly rub my body whilst looking the other way. Unusually exited I put my hands on her ass and asked her if she would like to go somewhere a little quieter . To which she replied ' don't be a dick head, don't push ur luck!!) I couldn't believe it cheeky cow! The one time I give her the satisfaction and she pulls this!!! Really tho who do they think they are??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women try to push their luck just like some men do, standard d*unken night out behaviour for some people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as you will not care what i have to say, i shall say nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

except that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and that

and this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some women try to push their luck just like some men do, standard d*unken night out behaviour for some people."

Fair one , I also watch plenty of guys go way to far! however rarely do they give the girl the come on and then try to look down on them

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I think that sort of behaviour is out of order no matter whether it comes from a man or a woman.

Why do you put up with it? Tell them to unhand you until invited.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that sort of behaviour is out of order no matter whether it comes from a man or a woman.

Why do you put up with it? Tell them to unhand you until invited."

Have to agree, unless it was wanted there is no way I'd let someone manhandle me in a club/bar.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I think that sort of behaviour is out of order no matter whether it comes from a man or a woman.

Why do you put up with it? Tell them to unhand you until invited.

Have to agree, unless it was wanted there is no way I'd let someone manhandle me in a club/bar."

It is one of the reasons I have stopped going to nightclubs and busy bars. The last time I went to a nightclub a man came and asked me to dance and then shoved his face into my cleavage and licked my breasts. When did that become acceptable behaviour?

Women now doing this to men makes me despair: let's all copy the bad behaviour. It's like my Dad's favourite saying of "monkey see, monkey do".

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By *uckyinlustMan
over a year ago

manchester

Have you checked your wallet ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that sort of behaviour is out of order no matter whether it comes from a man or a woman.

Why do you put up with it? Tell them to unhand you until invited.

Have to agree, unless it was wanted there is no way I'd let someone manhandle me in a club/bar.

Women now doing this to men makes me despair: let's all copy the bad behaviour. It's like my Dad's favourite saying of "monkey see, monkey do".

Is he still living to tell the tale? Completely unacceptable, the only time someone has grabbed my arse, I grabbed his arm and told him if he touched me again I'd break his arm ha. Needless to say he didn't touch it again.

People always seem to use a packed bar as an excuse to touch you as they are going by.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think that sort of behaviour is out of order no matter whether it comes from a man or a woman.

Why do you put up with it? Tell them to unhand you until invited.

Have to agree, unless it was wanted there is no way I'd let someone manhandle me in a club/bar."

Yes your probably right, but as a sex mad male I do like the attention , in the future I will learn from it and really will promptly stop it ! as its not on!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Seems to be a lot of vitriolic threads about women today. It's not acceptable for either sex to manhandle the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems to be a lot of vitriolic threads about women today. It's not acceptable for either sex to manhandle the other."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some women try to push their luck just like some men do, standard d*unken night out behaviour for some people."

Fell guilty checking your profile now ! Lol but your a sexy lady arnt you! ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some women try to push their luck just like some men do, standard d*unken night out behaviour for some people.

Fell guilty checking your profile now ! Lol but your a sexy lady arnt you! ??"

You feel guilty for what? Im confused?! Lol

And thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quick question OP !

Do you think if you'd left it a little longer before making your suggestion that her response would have been different?

You were obviously enjoying her touch enough not to tell her to stop straight away?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love it when i get my ass felt,

but don't look coz if they want some they will come back for a 2nd feel.

thats why i like to do the innocent feel when passing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Quick question OP !

Do you think if you'd left it a little longer before making your suggestion that her response would have been different?

You were obviously enjoying her touch enough not to tell her to stop straight away?

Oh yes not going to lie, but somehow I feel there would be no difference although il never know!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some women try to push their luck just like some men do, standard d*unken night out behaviour for some people.

Fell guilty checking your profile now ! Lol but your a sexy lady arnt you! ??

You feel guilty for what? Im confused?! Lol

And thank you

Lol only joking its cool to perve on here right ? x

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By *exymixedcouple7Couple
over a year ago

london

I can so identify with you on this, a couple of years ago I had a huge Afro and worked in clubs in London's west-end. Now I always got compliments about my hair but some women go too far and start touch and combing their hand through your hair when they see you like they know you! Use to get so pissed off with it till a girlfriend of mine told me to give them a taste of their own medicine and do the same back. One night in a club a girl started putting he hand in my hair without so much of a "hello" so I put my hands on her breast and started rubbing to which her and her friend went crazy and told the bouncers to kick me out! Needless to say I explain the situation and she was told to apologies to me to leave the club!!

Didn't get my apology and they were escorted out out the club.

Results!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since your in a pub/club environment, I reckon it's the nearby lads who are pinching your bum/touching you, as the nearby women rejected them. This then gets people like you to give them funny looks...

They get fed up as there is a group of good looking girls having a laugh, and too many blokes are pushing past getting thrill rubbing up against them, especially when it near empty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps the lady in question probably wanted a bit of extended flirtatious exchange before accepting such a bold proposition?

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I hate random d*unken groping. I had a work trial as a nightclub photographer once and it was going well (actually sold stuff! ) but after several hours of d*unk arse holes thinking it was ok to grab me as I went past, I told the club I couldn't do it and left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think that sort of behaviour is out of order no matter whether it comes from a man or a woman.

Why do you put up with it? Tell them to unhand you until invited.

Have to agree, unless it was wanted there is no way I'd let someone manhandle me in a club/bar."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Male or female I don't think anyone has the right to grope strangers just because they have had a drink ....unless invited that is

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can so identify with you on this, a couple of years ago I had a huge Afro and worked in clubs in London's west-end. Now I always got compliments about my hair but some women go too far and start touch and combing their hand through your hair when they see you like they know you! Use to get so pissed off with it till a girlfriend of mine told me to give them a taste of their own medicine and do the same back. One night in a club a girl started putting he hand in my hair without so much of a "hello" so I put my hands on her breast and started rubbing to which her and her friend went crazy and told the bouncers to kick me out! Needless to say I explain the situation and she was told to apologies to me to leave the club!!

Didn't get my apology and they were e out out the club.

Results!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quick question OP !

Do you think if you'd left it a little longer before making your suggestion that her response would have been different?

You were obviously enjoying her touch enough not to tell her to stop straight away?

Oh yes not going to lie, but somehow I feel there would be no difference although il never know!

Sorry for the delay coming back - life shit!

So had you continued the touchy feely flirting, had a bit of chat, made your suggestion a little later and THEN got a positive response - this thread would have been a little different.

Not having a dig - but I've yet to meet a guy who got randomly groped in a vanilla nightclub, got lucky, and wasn't happy.

The 'getting touched up by random women' moan only ever rears its head when there's no 'result'.

Right or wrong - that's always been my experience having run bars.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And this is why I very rarely go out any more in nightclubs. I work on the premise of if someone touches me, I can touch them in a way I deem appropriate. The last guy who motorboated me in a nightclub left swiftly after my fist met his nose.

The bouncers asked me why I had hit him and I told them what he'd done. Interestingly, I was allowed to stay in the bar, the guy was asked to leave!

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