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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would love to hear what everyone likes to get in their first messages. With so many people on here and so many messages being exchanged, what tickles your fancy and makes you want to reply back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello, you look nice, how are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like when people beg and grovel and tell me how fantastic I am.......

Although, I don't get very many like that,,,,

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Depends on the person and their personality/humour/wit etc.

It's not a one size fits all kinda deal

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Although I say I don't like one-liners very occasionally I get one that is amusing.

I like a message light on waffle and fake flattery, short and witty.

My favourite of all time, when I started out on another site, said "The computer says that you are 0km from me. I've just looked out of the window and I can't see you". Corny and cheeky but accompanied with a lovely non sexual picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no perfect message, that's what makes it exciting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on the person and their personality/humour/wit etc.

It's not a one size fits all kinda deal "

I guess that's the challenge with a first message, how much about their personality etc can you tell from a few lines?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends what they look like.could send the best message ever but not been very attractive.still not going to get a meet

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Although I say I don't like one-liners very occasionally I get one that is amusing.

I like a message light on waffle and fake flattery, short and witty.

My favourite of all time, when I started out on another site, said "The computer says that you are 0km from me. I've just looked out of the window and I can't see you". Corny and cheeky but accompanied with a lovely non sexual picture.

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My first message that made me grin was a short intro name, etc and then 'I hope I'm not too hairy ' made me chuckle and proved he read my profile. We met a week later x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My favourite of all time, when I started out on another site, said "The computer says that you are 0km from me. I've just looked out of the window and I can't see you". Corny and cheeky but accompanied with a lovely non sexual picture.

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That has to be in the top ten of first messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It depends what they look like.could send the best message ever but not been very attractive.still not going to get a meet "

Should have qualified the question, "what is the perfect first message if you look a bit like Jack Duckworth!"

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I've always wondered this If there was a magic bullet message that guaranteed a reply you use it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've always wondered this If there was a magic bullet message that guaranteed a reply you use it?"

There can not be, as we are all individuals thats what makes us human

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to give you a million pounds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to give you a million pounds."

Many thanks, my bank account number is 00827263789346426362o0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like to give you a million pounds.

Many thanks, my bank account number is 00827263789346426362o0 "

See? Goes down a storm!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Although I say I don't like one-liners very occasionally I get one that is amusing.

I like a message light on waffle and fake flattery, short and witty.

My favourite of all time, when I started out on another site, said "The computer says that you are 0km from me. I've just looked out of the window and I can't see you". Corny and cheeky but accompanied with a lovely non sexual picture.

My first message that made me grin was a short intro name, etc and then 'I hope I'm not too hairy ' made me chuckle and proved he read my profile. We met a week later x "

Define hairy?

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By *roovychildMan
over a year ago

East Molesey


"I've always wondered this If there was a magic bullet message that guaranteed a reply you use it?"

With me the magic bullet is hello!

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"It depends what they look like.could send the best message ever but not been very attractive.still not going to get a meet "

Hold on! You can't say that! Don't you know it's all about the personality? . . . . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just hello here are my pics ! If there is an attraction then I'll message back and the real chat can start ! I hate complex first messages as its a waste of time for the guy unless he is my type

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Although I say I don't like one-liners very occasionally I get one that is amusing.

I like a message light on waffle and fake flattery, short and witty.

My favourite of all time, when I started out on another site, said "The computer says that you are 0km from me. I've just looked out of the window and I can't see you". Corny and cheeky but accompanied with a lovely non sexual picture.

My first message that made me grin was a short intro name, etc and then 'I hope I'm not too hairy ' made me chuckle and proved he read my profile. We met a week later x

Define hairy? "

He had minimal fair chest hair, think he thought I meant fully waxed blokes. Lol.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

One that shows they have read your profile and are realistic about their chances of a meet. Ie, they are what you are looking for or close, not closer to Tanganyika than to me and aren't only free every second Thursday at 2PM in Tesco car park. Humour helps, too

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Although I say I don't like one-liners very occasionally I get one that is amusing.

I like a message light on waffle and fake flattery, short and witty.

My favourite of all time, when I started out on another site, said "The computer says that you are 0km from me. I've just looked out of the window and I can't see you". Corny and cheeky but accompanied with a lovely non sexual picture.

"

I wonder how many guys are going to use this line now,,,

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