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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Found they wernnt as attractive as their pic...but still went ahead??....be honest

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No, if anything they have always been better

Not sure what they say about me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but then I aint fussie lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but they had a great personality

Looks aren't everything you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noooooo..

Thats why we have a social meet first xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Looks arnt everything no...but if were honest they are really arnt they?? Lol

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've had a couple who have been selective with their pics. No big deal, no one looked like the Elephant Man or anything and their personality outweighed the 3rd eye, buck teeth and amazing collection of warts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks arnt everything no...but if were honest they are really arnt they?? Lol"

In my opinion no, personality says far more about a person than there looks !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive liked everyone that ive met better in the flesh,not had a nasty surprise yet and no ones done a runner when meeting us so its all good

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

have met a guy that i was quite overwhelmed with ...he hadnt lied but he was built like a house end and made me look like a dwarf ..what a lovely guy he was and so pleased we met him....if i had realised his size prior then i would have missed out on a fantastic night

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

had a guy put athletic build on profile not here when he turned up he was at least 20 stone got out of breath just walking up the stairs his waist was so big I had trouble getting on top but to be fair he was a lovely guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks arnt everything no...but if were honest they are really arnt they?? Lol

In my opinion no, personality says far more about a person than there looks !!!! "
no looks are secondary, I only look at the pic now and then when chatting, I look at the personality when I'm chatting, a genuine person means more than looks to me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Noooooo..

Thats why we have a social meet first xx

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Found they wernnt as attractive as their pic...but still went ahead??....be honest "

No! I always meet socially first for a coffee during my lunch hour with zero chance of playing...thank fuck as I've met some I wouldn't touch with someone else's!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Noooooo..

Thats why we have a social meet first xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex had a face like a slapped arse but was amazing in bed...And I mean AMAZING.........!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes but they had a great personality

Looks aren't everything you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I've been lucky, all have looked better in the flesh.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Yes but they were never very good meets.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Found they wernnt as attractive as their pic...but still went ahead??....be honest "
No, cannot say I have..although I have taken more than one for the team in my pre swinging days, I am shallow, if they don't look good it ain't happening.

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.

"Looks arnt everything no...but if were honest they are really arnt they?? Lol"

Depends how shallow you are....

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Looks arnt everything no...but if were honest they are really arnt they?? Lol

Depends how shallow you are...."
Whats wrong with being shallow?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its looks that attract u to someone in the first place...isnt it??

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.

"Looks arnt everything no...but if were honest they are really arnt they?? Lol

Depends how shallow you are....Whats wrong with being shallow?"

What's right with it ?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Looks arnt everything no...but if were honest they are really arnt they?? Lol

Depends how shallow you are....Whats wrong with being shallow?

What's right with it ?"
I asked first, its a swinging site ffs, not a scintillating personality site, you have to find someone aesthetically pleasing to fuck them.....well I do!

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.

"Looks arnt everything no...but if were honest they are really arnt they?? Lol

Depends how shallow you are....Whats wrong with being shallow?

What's right with it ?I asked first, its a swinging site ffs, not a scintillating personality site, you have to find someone aesthetically pleasing to fuck them.....well I do!"

Ooh calm down lol.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Looks arnt everything no...but if were honest they are really arnt they?? Lol"

No, they aren't, but they are important. And via this kind of medium, where it's difficult to actually get to know people, then they are very important.

In "real life" I am attracted to one of the physically least attractive people I know. He's exactly on my wavelength and I love the way he thinks. If I encountered him on here I wouldn't look twice.

That would be my loss. However, I can't possibly get to know every man on here well in order to find the few cases where looks don't matter.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Its looks that attract u to someone in the first place...isnt it??"

Not always. I'm attracted to a few people on the forum whose looks are average but whose posts appeal to me.

I don't think they are ugly, or I'd not be interested. It was their posts that actually interested me though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Found they wernnt as attractive as their pic...but still went ahead??....be honest "

I have met someone and they looked little like their pictures but if I fond someone isn't attractive to me I wouldn't fuck just for the sake of it.

I have been to socials though and surprised how many people don't resemble their profile pics though that's far more common.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Yes I have done it. Met someone who didn't look like their pics. No real sexual attraction. But went through with it anyhow. It was rubbish as I couldn't give myself fully.

Now I comfortably say no. Since joining the site my tastes have changed. As has my selection process. Now I have found that most men are much more attractive in person than their pics.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Are people really that good at photography?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its looks that attract u to someone in the first place...isnt it??"

The visual is a strong indicator, but not conclusive. I have been amazed at the eloquence of some profiles, drawn in by ensuing correspondence, titillated and aroused by language. Bodies can appeal, but it's the mind that creates the attraction.

Now - can someone tell me why the ones I am attracted to live in the Sarf? Is that some Law of Nature or summat?

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"Its looks that attract u to someone in the first place...isnt it??

Now - can someone tell me why the ones I am attracted to live in the Sarf? Is that some Law of Nature or summat?

Its the law of sod.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"had a guy put athletic build on profile not here when he turned up he was at least 20 stone got out of breath just walking up the stairs his waist was so big I had trouble getting on top but to be fair he was a lovely guy"

you met a guy without seeing a p[ic first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks arnt everything no...but if were honest they are really arnt they?? Lol

Depends how shallow you are....Whats wrong with being shallow?

What's right with it ?"

its hard getting hard for someone you dont find attractive?

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Two I have met from here have turned out far better than their pics suggested

now incase that reads wrong, what I mean is, their pic in display was not a very good pic, as a pic, not of the subject

would they let me take a better pic for them to use though? would they buggery lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks arnt everything no...but if were honest they are really arnt they?? Lol

Depends how shallow you are....Whats wrong with being shallow?

What's right with it ?

its hard getting hard for someone you dont find attractive?

Too true, women obviously have the physical ability to have sex based on personality alone.

Whereas most guy's need to find visual attraction to get things up and running.

In short, they don't need the horn to have sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a couple who have been selective with their pics. No big deal, no one looked like the Elephant Man or anything and their personality outweighed the 3rd eye, buck teeth and amazing collection of warts.

Excuse me it was one Wart and at least it doubled the size..BIAAATCH

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By *leepyangelCouple
over a year ago

over the hill and far away

Pity pics can't indicate if they are whiffy. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Found they wernnt as attractive as their pic...but still went ahead??....be honest "

Yes! And was terribly disappointed! I will never ever make this mistake again lol you live and learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes totally not one bit like his pic at all I got ill pretty quick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god now I'm wondering if my one offs where a pitty shag :/. I've never met someone and only played because I felt i had too but did meet one guy after a long long time chatting and didn't want to meet again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm shallow.

I just can't bring myself to sleep with someone I'm not physically attracted to regardless of their personality. That's just me. There has to be the package for me I'm afraid and looks do form a huge part of that I'm afraid.

If I don't fancy them then it's just not happening, doesn't matter if their personality is great, it's not enough to make me want to sleep with someone I'm not attracted to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No who would ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't that the joy of skype/facetime or a social meet, so you get a true reflection of who you are meeting?

There has to be attraction!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once had a social with a Lady who was a lot and I mean a lot larger than her photo, social was OK but never met her again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh god now I'm wondering if my one offs where a pitty shag :/. I've never met someone and only played because I felt i had too but did meet one guy after a long long time chatting and didn't want to meet again

I had the same. Spoke to a bloke for ages and we had so much in common, then we met and it absolutely killed it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once had a social with a Lady who was a lot and I mean a lot larger than her photo, social was OK but never met her again "

Erm you like large women though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, I'm REALLY fussy so would just let them down gently if need be. Awkward but I don't want to sleep with someone I'm not attracted to

My last meet was hotter in the flesh though, absolute fox she was

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Once had a social with a Lady who was a lot and I mean a lot larger than her photo, social was OK but never met her again

Erm you like large women though?

Just because someone likes large women doesn't mean they will like all large women. Maybe there's a limit to how large or maybe the fact she was larger than she said put him off etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once had a social with a Lady who was a lot and I mean a lot larger than her photo, social was OK but never met her again

Erm you like large women though?

Just because someone likes large women doesn't mean they will like all large women. Maybe there's a limit to how large or maybe the fact she was larger than she said put him off etc. "

Yes I love BBWs, but dislike being mislead, which puts anyone on the back foot when they meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the smile that turns me on and the hunger for passion from them.

Met a couple who looked great but just wanted to get on with a mmf, no smiling ... That was tough, did not work at all ... Erection failure. Never met them again.

Met a lady who was short, very round and quite plain, but had a huge smile and was soooo hungry to be played with ... It was fun and easy and my erection was near permanent all afternoon and evening. Saw her many times until she moved away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once had a social with a Lady who was a lot and I mean a lot larger than her photo, social was OK but never met her again

Erm you like large women though?

Yes I do, but there is Large and LARGE, she could not fasten the seat belt in my car!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once had a social with a Lady who was a lot and I mean a lot larger than her photo, social was OK but never met her again

Erm you like large women though?

Just because someone likes large women doesn't mean they will like all large women. Maybe there's a limit to how large or maybe the fact she was larger than she said put him off etc. "

I was just intrigued as to his reasoning.

Some pics can be unintentionally misleading (hence why I have so many) I've met a few guys who were slightly bigger built or slimmer than there photos show.

One guy, I knew he was a big rugby player type from his pics and skype but the photos didn't show him to his full potential, he was HUGE like a brick shit house.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, if anything they have always been better

Not sure what they say about me

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once had a social with a Lady who was a lot and I mean a lot larger than her photo, social was OK but never met her again

Erm you like large women though?

Just because someone likes large women doesn't mean they will like all large women. Maybe there's a limit to how large or maybe the fact she was larger than she said put him off etc.

I was just intrigued as to his reasoning.

Some pics can be unintentionally misleading (hence why I have so many) I've met a few guys who were slightly bigger built or slimmer than there photos show.

One guy, I knew he was a big rugby player type from his pics and skype but the photos didn't show him to his full potential, he was HUGE like a brick shit house."

Was that good or off-putting for you?

The one I mentioned was probably at least 6 stone larger than her photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a woman yesterday. A lot of her pics are from a photoshoot and she looked bloody stunning! It was just a social meet and was always going to be, and she had said to me numerous times she's not going to be gleamed up like in her photos. And she was right, she looked younger than her age in her pics, and meeting she looked more her age. But she was far from ugly!

what you don't realise from her pics was just how long her legs are (wow!) and how nice she smelt, and how she smiles and laughs and gives you that look, how she's happy to talk about what she likes and doesn't like.

Looks have a lot to do with who I meet, but there also has to be some personality there too. If she was a complete bitch, I'd not want to meet her again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once had a social with a Lady who was a lot and I mean a lot larger than her photo, social was OK but never met her again

Erm you like large women though?

Just because someone likes large women doesn't mean they will like all large women. Maybe there's a limit to how large or maybe the fact she was larger than she said put him off etc.

I was just intrigued as to his reasoning.

Some pics can be unintentionally misleading (hence why I have so many) I've met a few guys who were slightly bigger built or slimmer than there photos show.

One guy, I knew he was a big rugby player type from his pics and skype but the photos didn't show him to his full potential, he was HUGE like a brick shit house.

Was that good or off-putting for you?

The one I mentioned was probably at least 6 stone larger than her photos"

It was good, very good. Still fancied him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It was good, very good. Still fancied him."

Thats great then, I did not fancy the Lady and she did not want me so it was no loss for either of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes but they had a great personality

Looks aren't everything you know

Good job looks are not everything i would not get far otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope met some that were nothing like the pics and not played and met some that were better.....ive always been told im like mine which is good x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Everyone I've met.said I look loads better than my pics...I take an awful picture...I need a professional photo shoot ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone I've met.said I look loads better than my pics...I take an awful picture...I need a professional photo shoot ha "

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By *affy72Woman
over a year ago

Herefordshire

"No, but then I aint fussie lol."

What a charmer

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