FabSwingers.com forum: Disregarding physical attributes, what makes a person sexy to you?

By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Sense of humour has to be top of my list, after all this swinging malarky is supposed to be fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 7 pints

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"About 7 pints

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Of what? Whisky?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sense of humour for us too.

but has to be the right one.

has to be quite dry and dark as thats where we are lol.

next it has to be interesting conversation.

dont want to talk about celebrities, but the world around us is good

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Sense of humour

Intelligence

Which are a bit ironic coming from me

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Sense of humour

Easy to talk to/banter with.

Being a bit cheeky/sarcastic (like me!)

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Individuality & a sense of style

how they carry themselves

and humour

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Eloquent oral skills

And good manners, things like not talking with their mouths full.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds bad but I find people who have really bad blonde moment really attractive lol! No idea why.. just makes me think like awww lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone at ease with themself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sense of humour

Easy to talk to/banter with.

Being a bit cheeky/sarcastic (like me!) "

This ^^^

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

A nice hat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A nice hat."

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"A nice hat."
What kind of hat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

voice

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

A sense of humour is ESSENTIAL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

availability & proximity

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Definitely a sense of humour and a fun personality so that when you are having a break from the snogging and sex etc you are at ease with their company

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their mind and the ability to get into mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like big, Huge, Enormous, Fully loaded, Bank balances !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like big, Huge, Enormous, Fully loaded, Bank balances !!

Only joking !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sense of humour, down to earth and most importantly Confidence sexiest attributes of a

woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am sapiosexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty is without a doubt my best trait and honest down to earth people do it for me. Boring I know but it works for me.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

Confidence, sense of humour, sarcasm, cheeky and an open mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sense of humour, being able to laugh at yourself.

Hold a conversation

Non judgemental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

confidence (love a man with a back bone, i hate those wet/pathetic 'your a woman so your right' types)

a guy who is opinionated but respectful, wont try to force his _iews on me

love sarcasm in the right doses

HIS VOICE - plays a massive part, accent, tone,

charm without being sleezy or cheesy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence, humour and intelligence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence is the thing ! Someone who knows what they want and are not afraid / ashamed to ask for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sense of humour. An air of confidence but not arrogant, and intelligence. Not asking for much am I lol

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I do love a dry almost sarcastic sense of humour... and someone who I can have an challenging conversation and make me think hmmmmm....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

low expectations and poor eyesight are always characteristics we look for in a possible date...

And a pulse x

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Their desire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"low expectations and poor eyesight are always characteristics we look for in a possible date...

And a pulse x"

That too

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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

Attitude, personality traits, sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good s.o.h, intelligence, a kind heart & must be able to down at least 6 pints of Guinness!!

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By *S_PennyTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

The ability to communicate with words with more than 2 syllables, the ability to not pre-judge people and at least to try and cope with my off beat sarcastic sense of humour.

Other than that someone with a penchant for taking me shopping for Agent Provocateur lingerie and designer clothing and shoes would be nice, a girl can dream.

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By *my-blackTV/TS
over a year ago

Poole

Compatible kinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone with a few manners, nice funny guy, taller than me and if a meet is arranged they turn up or cancel if they can't

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

"Sense of humour

Easy to talk to/banter with.

Being a bit cheeky/sarcastic (like me!) "

This with a random dark sense of humour, a good conversation that doesn't focus purely on celebratory or TV crap, confidence & acceptance of who they are as well as others

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Sense of humour has to be top of my list, after all this swinging malarky is supposed to be fun.

Anyone who'll have me. I'm desperate!!!

(PS Joking!)

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

there mind..sense of humour, and manners all play a big part for us...

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"A nice hat.What kind of hat?

Oh come on Femme you should know by now.

A fez at a jaunty angle!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Sense of humour

Easy to talk to/banter with.

Being a bit cheeky/sarcastic (like me!)

This with a random dark sense of humour, a good conversation that doesn't focus purely on celebratory or TV crap, confidence & acceptance of who they are as well as others

I'm out then. I'm always talking about tv crap!!! I never watch the news. It's depressing haha! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour for sure and although I'm a bit dippy intellect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they can hold a decent conversation.

Recently met a man and we talked about everything from current affairs to places we'd been, things we'd done.

As well as finding someone attractive, I have to be able to find them mentally stimulating.

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe

Sense of humour clean and not up their own arse by bring pompous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A nice hat."

funky a hat is a physical item.. just to be pedantic lol

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By *uckyinlustMan
over a year ago

manchester

Confidence, confidence , confidence

But , without the attitude or arrogance

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"A nice hat.

funky a hat is a physical item.. just to be pedantic lol "

I took 'physical attributes' as a term for what nature has given you in looks. Unfortunately (despite several unsuccessful gene splicing experiments) I have not been able to breed people with Fez's as part of their heads. Much to my chagrin!

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Confidence, confidence , confidence

But , without the attitude or arrogance

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Arrogance isn't always a bad thing, I think if the person who is arrogant has humility it can be an attractive trait.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Sense of humour

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By *homCrownMan
over a year ago

West Fife

Humour, a degree of intellect and a wide range of interests. Being silly sometimes also helps ... (makes me feel I'm not alone!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A nice hat.

funky a hat is a physical item.. just to be pedantic lol

wahhh god damm you being smart and me being a dumb ass lol

now wheres that special kinda pie im supposed to eat?? lol

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By *himanMan
over a year ago

chichester

Sense of humour seeing me naked they would have to have lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its usually their immediate availability or level of desperation that wins the day for me…

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"A nice hat.

funky a hat is a physical item.. just to be pedantic lol

wahhh god damm you being smart and me being a dumb ass lol

now wheres that special kinda pie im supposed to eat?? lol"

Forgeddaboud pie! I have something much more interesting for you to taste my dear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sense of humour has to be top of my list, after all this swinging malarky is supposed to be fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sense of humour

Easy to talk to/banter with.

Being a bit cheeky/sarcastic (like me!) "

You totally stole my answer lol

So I'll just say... This exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone at ease with themself."

So very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone at ease with themself."

the above

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

honesty .. sense of humour .. confidence .. and that little twinkle in his eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A Nice person and a nice face helps. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sense of humour, banter, the ability to be cheeky and take the piss out of each other. Sarcasm works too.

That usually makes up most of my conversations anyway - don't even know what i've been speaking about half the time.

...and just to shut them up, you could just give a snog! and playtime begins. Repeat til satisfied.

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

"Sense of humour

Easy to talk to/banter with.

Being a bit cheeky/sarcastic (like me!)

This with a random dark sense of humour, a good conversation that doesn't focus purely on celebratory or TV crap, confidence & acceptance of who they are as well as others

I'm out then. I'm always talking about tv crap!!! I never watch the news. It's depressing haha! X"

Nowt wrong with watching news and getting a perspective of local and world events. As depressing as they may be they can be an eye opener

Besides TV crap is fine to a point & you're a exception to the general rule

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An optimistic outlook in life, as I do not like pessimistic people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice smell, sense of humour can talk about more than xbox/football/tv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sense of humor and the art of seduction...

I just love being kissed by brush kisses from the neck down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who can go from nice to naughty seamlessly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The same sense of humour as me but mainly how they make me feel when I'm with them

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Someone who can go from nice to naughty seamlessly "
Thats a good one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imagination, inventiveness and a desire to move in different directions to their norm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Decency and someone who looks after themselves. That is all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone who can go from nice to naughty seamlessly "

How did you find out about me then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone who can go from nice to naughty seamlessly "

good one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Confidence, humour and intelligence. "
This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sense of humour and someone intelligent x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a small thing for geeks and nerds x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a small thing for geeks and nerds x"

Someone singing my favourite tune

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a big 1970's bush.. And those profiles that bla bla bla on and on then say insert this word to prove you read my boring self indulgent essay.

Insert 'titwhiskers' to prove you read this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like a big 1970's bush.. And those profiles that bla bla bla on and on then say insert this word to prove you read my boring self indulgent essay.

Insert 'titwhiskers' to prove you read this. "

The big 1970's bush picture profiles actually have pictures on them that were taken in the 70's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As many have said previous...

A good sense of humour

Communication

Up for a laugh and trying different things.

As said already NO to guys with no back bone! Pop to co-op and get a life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm..

Ability to connect

Intellect

Thirst for knowledge and new experiences

Wit

Compassion

Apathy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good personality

Able to have a laugh

Don't take life too seriously

Be able to put up with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a small thing for geeks and nerds x

Someone singing my favourite tune

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Careing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

someone who is layed back and not too serious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way they look at me. How they approach me and that first kiss.

...that first kiss is make it or break it i think.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Someone who can make me laugh

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

jazz hands x x X

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

Just think it something comes from within a confidence in yourself

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

A confidence with humility definitely

And if thy can hold my attention by keeping the conversation on the edge of naughty, they're a winner

;)

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

the taste of their hopefully small ear lobes but all isn't lost if they arent as small as im used to. x x X

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