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can somebody tell me things will be ok..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Having a shit time.... Everything going wrong...

Help....

Its times like this I don't know if its worth getting out of bed....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big hugs, tomorrow is a new day and it will hopefully be easier than the last for you.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

hugs things can only get better

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

aww big hugs xx hoping tomorrow s better for you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you got a support network (a trusted listening ear)?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here is something I think about when it gets to dark

Above the clouds the sun is always shining xxxx

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE


"Having a shit time.... Everything going wrong...

Help....

Its times like this I don't know if its worth getting out of bed...."

how about broaden your horizon.. and meet a few couples.. much better then looking for the man in your life ,,connie xx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Having a shit time.... Everything going wrong...

Help....

Its times like this I don't know if its worth getting out of bed...."

What's the matter?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its nothing life or health related but arghbhbhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess you arse goin through a bit of bad patch atm and I guess everyone does I think u just need to try your best as hard as it is to just hang in there nd keep ya chin up nd you will come out the other side a stronger person.....hope your ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having a shit time.... Everything going wrong...

Help....

Its times like this I don't know if its worth getting out of bed...."

i felt like that about a month back, just things happend and was like a final blow. very down and depressed, even now not 100% but just getting on with stuff. Only i can pull myself out of it and getting there as im sure u will too.

is easy to put on a brave face and people think your ok..but things will be fine im sure...keep smiling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just remember there's always someone worse off then you. Big hugs and hope things get better soon xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I guess you arse goin through a bit of bad patch atm and I guess everyone does I think u just need to try your best as hard as it is to just hang in there nd keep ya chin up nd you will come out the other side a stronger person.....hope your ok "

My arse is fine

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

If you won the lottery you would not be able to maintain being happy, really happy until you die. Really good things last a maximum of two weeks, possibly less. Really bad times dont last longer than two weeks, possibly less. Wait and see, max two weeks and you will feel better and more promise. Honest you will be able to tell me ivm right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess you arse goin through a bit of bad patch atm and I guess everyone does I think u just need to try your best as hard as it is to just hang in there nd keep ya chin up nd you will come out the other side a stronger person.....hope your ok

My arse is fine "
made u smile tho hahaha....chin up things have to get worse to get better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

theres light at the end of the tunnel ,look forward and tomorrow will be better for you.

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By *iggamanMan
over a year ago

London


"Having a shit time.... Everything going wrong...

Help....

Its times like this I don't know if its worth getting out of bed...."

don't worry hun it will all be ok in the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you won the lottery you would not be able to maintain being happy, really happy until you die. Really good things last a maximum of two weeks, possibly less. Really bad times dont last longer than two weeks, possibly less. Wait and see, max two weeks and you will feel better and more promise. Honest you will be able to tell me ivm right"

Well that's the biggest pile of shit I've ever read on here. Seven MONTHS and things aren't any better. Two weeks? Clearly nothing bad has ever happened in your life.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Having a shit time.... Everything going wrong...

Help....

Its times like this I don't know if its worth getting out of bed...."

I watched both my parents die. I nursed my mum for the last 8 years of her life, had to give up a well-paying management position and went through a divorce at the same time.

It does get better. I am happy and content now and enjoying my life.

One thing always keeps me going through bad times - I know that they do not last. It might take a while - 8 years for me last time - but hang on in there.

Being mistress of your own destiny can help. There may be things out of your power to control but even the smallest detail that you can control will give you confidence in yourself. Take charge when and where you can. And never say 'can't'.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Big hugs, tomorrow is a new day and it will hopefully be easier than the last for you. "

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"If you won the lottery you would not be able to maintain being happy, really happy until you die. Really good things last a maximum of two weeks, possibly less. Really bad times dont last longer than two weeks, possibly less. Wait and see, max two weeks and you will feel better and more promise. Honest you will be able to tell me ivm right

Well that's the biggest pile of shit I've ever read on here. Seven MONTHS and things aren't any better. Two weeks? Clearly nothing bad has ever happened in your life. "

to be fair to the poster of the above, that is their perspective and their outlook perhaps..

just cause it differs from your own does'nt necessarilly make it a 'pile of shit'..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chin up, I'm having a bit of hard time at minute but made some decisions in my life that will effect this shortly, one handing my notice in at work without anything inline, and two my mum being in hospital... But after making the decision about work I am feeling more positive and after seeing some of the patients in hospital and speaking to them, bringing a smile to their face I have decided life isn't too bad after all

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By *oasterCockbumMan
over a year ago

Highway 61

Hey ... am sure everybody wishes they could say it'll be ok ... an the likelihood is that it will be .... aw ye can do is keep gettn up and doin whatever it is you do to dust yourself down an crack on .... you need to do things to find good things ..

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By *rsSuckWoman
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

Hang in there! Xmas is always a bad time to feel down. Hang in there! Big hug!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hang in there I've just got through a cancer scare big hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its nothing life or health related but arghbhbhh"

In that case. - no - nothing in life is guaranteed.

Shit happens .

Life goes on .

Sorry to be the bearer of bad tidings.

*never been one for 'there there - it'll all be fine'. Often it just simply isn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

awww big hugs from me too.

I find it helps to have either a really good cry or go to the gym and beat the crap out of a punch bag....

onwards & upwards xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to find solace in the old adage that 'All things must pass'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it helps and makes u laugh ... my day didnt go according to plan either ... am now sitting here sporting a lovely red eye in dark glasses, so looking a right prat ... after being released from A&E after 4 hours ............. have to wear said glasses for the next five days whilst applying antibiotic eye cream four times a day as well ... tomorrow is my leaving do at work and wednesday a Job Interview ... yeah right I sure am gonna get the job !!!!! has that helped?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It will be alright at the end, if its not alright it's not the end.

Take stock of the positives, they will help you climb over the negatives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having a shit time.... Everything going wrong...

Help....

Its times like this I don't know if its worth getting out of bed...."

Know exactly how you feel. I will be feeling a lot worse or happy this time tomorrow , but over the last few days. I didn't want to get out of bed either

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

June Terry got there before me with "it will be alright in the end and if it isn't alright then it's not the end" - I am trying to live that saying as much as possible.

My lovely Buddhist nun friend always tells me that all things are temporary. It may go on for some time but it is still temporary.

Bad things happen. Sometimes our minds aren't well, even when the rest of us is. Take time and get better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you won the lottery you would not be able to maintain being happy, really happy until you die. Really good things last a maximum of two weeks, possibly less. Really bad times dont last longer than two weeks, possibly less. Wait and see, max two weeks and you will feel better and more promise. Honest you will be able to tell me ivm right

Well that's the biggest pile of shit I've ever read on here. Seven MONTHS and things aren't any better. Two weeks? Clearly nothing bad has ever happened in your life.

to be fair to the poster of the above, that is their perspective and their outlook perhaps..

just cause it differs from your own does'nt necessarilly make it a 'pile of shit'.."

You can't put a time scale on these things. We all heal differently and to say you can get over anything in 2 weeks suggests the poster has had nothing worse than a broken nail or a bad haircut to deal with in their life. My opinion is that's a ridiculous thing to "promise" anyone especially when you don't know what is causing the OP to feel that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big hugs for you. Hope things look up soon. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your health is good you can work on the rest. Dark time of year lack of sunshine makes me grumpy (sad syndrome), think of the good times, chin up, pm if you want to talk x

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