FabSwingers.com forum: Are we the only couple on fab who isnt looking too full swap?!!

By *ittle-Miss-Naughty OP Couple
over a year ago

Worksop

It seems no matter how many couples or girls who we chat too, they just can seem to understand that i dont want to play with another guy and ash doesnt want to play with another girl! Some couples seem shocked when we say this even tho i have put it clearly on my profile and it is clearly put on our couples one! People go on about them having their boundaries respected and only doing what both parties feel comfortable with yet they still expect to change our mind n us swap!! Why?!

Is it really that hard to read a profile propperly and only message if we are or i am what your looking for?!

-rant over

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

If you only meet with your boyfriend....you should have a couple's profile!! and how can you only want to meet girls if you bf is with you? Or am I missing something? It could be a case of 'lost in translation'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some people see things, rules, preferences on a profile and think they will be able to change the persons mind about it. It happens to me often.

I have come across a couple that wants to meet strictly to be with the female, but they said would both be present, so though it may be weird to some people, there are some people out there that will understand and respect what your saying.

It's a sex site everyone's just hoping to get some at some point and will often go overboard asking lol but not everyone it like this!! Sadly some ruin it for others.

No need to get upset with it. Also keep in mind that not everyone reads a profile before they message people! It's a terrible habit I agree but true!

Happy fabbing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you only meet with your boyfriend....you should have a couple's profile!! and how can you only want to meet girls if you bf is with you? Or am I missing something? It could be a case of 'lost in translation'

Probably for him to watch or something, though both the males sitting their awkwardly watching while the ladies have all the fun is a bit different. I've been asked about this myself and felt bad leaving hubby totally out so i respectfully declined. Different strokes for different folks I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there was a post on here from a couple not long ago who only want to be in the same room as others, with very little/no interaction.

maybe do a search and find them, as you would be suited to each other.

and no, you arent the only couple only looking for soft play fun, however, you are looking for the softest end of it, which will understandably be very limiting to yourselves and the chances of finding people that match your specification.

if your boundaries are set in stone, then you are just going to have to suck it up and wait for the right people to come along.

good luck

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

Why aren't you using couples profile?!?!

Being a single female is not going to attract the attention you're looking for.

You should have a couple profile then top line, write, we do not want to swap, just fuck in same room as another couple.

I don't think you'll find a lot who will go with you as swingers generally want to swing. But anyway, that's how I'd do it.

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why aren't you using couples profile?!?!

Being a single female is not going to attract the attention you're looking for.

You should have a couple profile then top line, write, we do not want to swap, just fuck in same room as another couple.

I don't think you'll find a lot who will go with you as swingers generally want to swing. But anyway, that's how I'd do it.

Xxx"

she has a couples one too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why aren't you using couples profile?!?!

Being a single female is not going to attract the attention you're looking for.

You should have a couple profile then top line, write, we do not want to swap, just fuck in same room as another couple.....

I don't think she IS looking to fuck in the same room as another couple - unless I'm misunderstanding her profile. It reads to me that she is looking to play with a female, while her boyfriend is present but not involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are both looking for soft swing and not full swap, there are loads of couples on here who are happy to oblige.

just a shame that some others try to push the boundaries no later what.

how they want to play is up to them and the people they want to play with

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

We are a complwtely non swap couple. Its not easy but we have met a few couples who we have met and had fun with. Ultimately we usually, not always, get the feeling that we are the first step for them to go further or that they are aiming their sightes lower. We have lots of fun though, just not as often as we would perhaps like. Good luck. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are a complwtely non swap couple. Its not easy but we have met a few couples who we have met and had fun with. Ultimately we usually, not always, get the feeling that we are the first step for them to go further or that they are aiming their sightes lower. We have lots of fun though, just not as often as we would perhaps like. Good luck. Xxx"

this is who i was thinking of lol.

thanks for posting _eerob.

hoped i wasnt going mental lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Non swap voyeuristic couple here

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