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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I feel awful! I'm two weeks into radiotherapy and pretty sore, now on top of that, I think I've caught a chill. Temperature is sky high but still feel so cold, mega nausea, aching all over. I'm home alone and no one close local enough to come look after me, so I'm feeling pretty sorry for myself and lonely cried for the first time since being diagnosed (about being I'll I mean) and figure I need comforting...what comforts you when you're feeling shitty? I need some ideas!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(((((((((HUGS)))))))))))

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'm sorry about your diagnosis, having to go through the treatment and after affects alone.

When I get doldrums and need comforting I find an old favourite film, preferably a weepy and/or musical and get lost in that for a while. Chocolate and a blanket to complete the fix.

Get better soon.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Hot bath and a good book. I hope things pick up for you, lass. If your friends knew how you were feeling, I'm sure they'd all rally round. Hopefully tomorrow will start off better and then improve by the hour.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks lovelies! I might go for a weepy film! Blanket's already draped over my sorry self!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabfestive, you really need to ring NHS direct for some advice. Not kidding here, someone undergoing treatment such as yours should refer themselves at the first sign of increased temp, cold symptoms etc. xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fabfestive, you really need to ring NHS direct for some advice. Not kidding here, someone undergoing treatment such as yours should refer themselves at the first sign of increased temp, cold symptoms etc. xxx"

I called the hospital as soon as I started feeling poorly, had to pop up to be checked over, but it's just side effects and a chill, probably be back to normal (or what passes atm) tomorrow...I hope!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I think sometimes being brave isn't all it's cracked up to be! You've said you've cried for the first time since being diagnosed maybe you just need to let it all out! Chick flick, hot choc and some biccies. Wish I was closer chick you shouldn't be doing this alone xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think sometimes being brave isn't all it's cracked up to be! You've said you've cried for the first time since being diagnosed maybe you just need to let it all out! Chick flick, hot choc and some biccies. Wish I was closer chick you shouldn't be doing this alone xxx "

You might just be right! Weepy film it is!

Thanks honey! That means a lot xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fabfestive, you really need to ring NHS direct for some advice. Not kidding here, someone undergoing treatment such as yours should refer themselves at the first sign of increased temp, cold symptoms etc. xxx"

I agree roll on next weekend when I will be close by x

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By *o1mrtlcMan
over a year ago

cannock

have a nice hot bath and put sum tunes on hope you feel better soon

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fabfestive, you really need to ring NHS direct for some advice. Not kidding here, someone undergoing treatment such as yours should refer themselves at the first sign of increased temp, cold symptoms etc. xxx

I agree roll on next weekend when I will be close by x "

Actually cannot wait! xx

Hottie, why don't you move here too? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with most of whats already been said except the weepy film,id want something to cheer me up not make me cry

I hope you feel better soon and that all your treatment is successful xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree with most of whats already been said except the weepy film,id want something to cheer me up not make me cry

I hope you feel better soon and that all your treatment is successful xx "

I thought the same, but I think the lady with the amazing arse (hottie) is right, I think I need to let it all out...maybe a comedy after?

Thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its what friends are for, dump yourself on someone, family of friend, people love helping and we all need someone at times like these.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its what friends are for, dump yourself on someone, family of friend, people love helping and we all need someone at times like these."

mind you, I have my 3 dogs and they are helping me through something similar, I wouldn't want to dump on friends or family, they have their own problems, so I will do what I always do, work and help others 12 hours a day, with abba for light relief.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its what friends are for, dump yourself on someone, family of friend, people love helping and we all need someone at times like these."

I live in a town where I only know a few people, my flatmate will be back in the morning to look after me though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think sometimes being brave isn't all it's cracked up to be! You've said you've cried for the first time since being diagnosed maybe you just need to let it all out! Chick flick, hot choc and some biccies. Wish I was closer chick you shouldn't be doing this alone xxx "

this and I wish you all the best... I really do xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its what friends are for, dump yourself on someone, family of friend, people love helping and we all need someone at times like these.

mind you, I have my 3 dogs and they are helping me through something similar, I wouldn't want to dump on friends or family, they have their own problems, so I will do what I always do, work and help others 12 hours a day, with abba for light relief."

Abba x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think sometimes being brave isn't all it's cracked up to be! You've said you've cried for the first time since being diagnosed maybe you just need to let it all out! Chick flick, hot choc and some biccies. Wish I was closer chick you shouldn't be doing this alone xxx

this and I wish you all the best... I really do xx"

Thankyou!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure what you're ill with hun but it sounds unpleasant so sending you virtual hugs xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs xxxx

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