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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

whats a guy have to do for a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How long do you have?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whats a guy have to do for a meet? "

Write an enticing profile.

Show some decent pictures.

Explain how you would enrich someones life for an hour or more.

Any circus skills would be useful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How long do you have?"

long as possible

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By *ussyGalore and Mr OCouple
over a year ago

A House

Respect goes along way. Some seem to think cos it's a swinging/sex site that manners are not needed ... Wrong!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of star jumps!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask, be attractive to that person and have some decent chat.

No harder than in a bar/club; if you're successful there, you'll be successful here. If you struggle in real life, you'll struggle here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thats true and i am a truly respectfull person but im still looking for someone to show me the ropes!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

haha well i do enough of that in the gym so what would be your tip for me to get to know you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and good word of mouth, ladies talk........ Many i

Of my meets came through other meets recommending me!

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By *ussyGalore and Mr OCouple
over a year ago

A House

Add abit more detail on your profile, there's 10 a penny like you on here. Some nice body shots but no cock pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh and good word of mouth, ladies talk........ Many i

Of my meets came through other meets recommending me! "

im still trying to make my first meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pics...maybe a bit more on ur profile

why would u think u'd get much interest without pics is beyond me, they dont even have to be face pics ffs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Add abit more detail on your profile, there's 10 a penny like you on here. Some nice body shots but no cock pics "

no thats true but how would you like someone to approch you?

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By *ussyGalore and Mr OCouple
over a year ago

A House


"pics...maybe a bit more on ur profile

why would u think u'd get much interest without pics is beyond me, they dont even have to be face pics ffs"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"pics...maybe a bit more on ur profile

why would u think u'd get much interest without pics is beyond me, they dont even have to be face pics ffs"

got pics but i dont know...

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By *ussyGalore and Mr OCouple
over a year ago

A House


"Add abit more detail on your profile, there's 10 a penny like you on here. Some nice body shots but no cock pics

no thats true but how would you like someone to approch you?"

Well before you message someone read their profile, that usually gives you an idea of what to say, say something unique other than 'Hi' and be prepared for knock backs but don't let it deter you

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

Have a look through the blokes that are doing well and see if you can pick up tips from their profiles. It's mainly about effort and your profile needs some.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have a look through the blokes that are doing well and see if you can pick up tips from their profiles. It's mainly about effort and your profile needs some. "

nice one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Add abit more detail on your profile, there's 10 a penny like you on here. Some nice body shots but no cock pics

no thats true but how would you like someone to approch you?"

ignore the cock pics as a no-no..u'll hear that a lot from the forums...if u want to increase ur meets as a single guy, have something that doesnt waste the peoples time that are wanting a meet.Too many think having something to the imagination is great, it isnt, when people arent looking for that.

get to a club/social also..theres plenty of info available, u might get some nice chats but dont overdo what a chat is, u'll hopefully get verified as a nice outgoing lad and then maybe get some more luck on fab.

respect peoples choices, U might see a lot of "no asians", sorry thats just a current climate, might change,might not, so its best not to have that as a moan.hope that helps.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Add abit more detail on your profile, there's 10 a penny like you on here. Some nice body shots but no cock pics

no thats true but how would you like someone to approch you?

Well before you message someone read their profile, that usually gives you an idea of what to say, say something unique other than 'Hi' and be prepared for knock backs but don't let it deter you "

thank you hopefully i will have my first meet soon fingers crosedx

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By *ussyGalore and Mr OCouple
over a year ago

A House

If you can turn on someones mind then you're half way there already. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could practise on me, I have most things a woman has, shoes, make up and

attitude

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you can turn on someones mind then you're half way there already. Good luck "

thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"pics...maybe a bit more on ur profile

why would u think u'd get much interest without pics is beyond me, they dont even have to be face pics ffs

got pics but i dont know..."

sooo ur not athletic, dont have great abs, arent 6ft + ?????- I'm sure u can find or make some pics that dont invade ur privacy...and come on...ur 30, man up

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By *ussyGalore and Mr OCouple
over a year ago

A House


"Add abit more detail on your profile, there's 10 a penny like you on here. Some nice body shots but no cock pics

no thats true but how would you like someone to approch you?

ignore the cock pics as a no-no..u'll hear that a lot from the forums...if u want to increase ur meets as a single guy, have something that doesnt waste the peoples time that are wanting a meet.Too many think having something to the imagination is great, it isnt, when people arent looking for that.

get to a club/social also..theres plenty of info available, u might get some nice chats but dont overdo what a chat is, u'll hopefully get verified as a nice outgoing lad and then maybe get some more luck on fab.

respect peoples choices, U might see a lot of "no asians", sorry thats just a current climate, might change,might not, so its best not to have that as a moan.hope that helps."

Take it from a woman, cock pics are a no no, after you've chatted for abit yes but not when you first introduce yourself

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By *ussyGalore and Mr OCouple
over a year ago

A House


"You could practise on me, I have most things a woman has, shoes, make up and

attitude "

Gotta have attitude sister

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"pics...maybe a bit more on ur profile

why would u think u'd get much interest without pics is beyond me, they dont even have to be face pics ffs

got pics but i dont know..."

Honestly, if there's no pictures why on earth would you even read the profile. Yes I could be missing out on some nice people with lovely personalities but without pictures its a case of move on to the next person who actually has some. Harsh but true.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Add abit more detail on your profile, there's 10 a penny like you on here. Some nice body shots but no cock pics

no thats true but how would you like someone to approch you?

ignore the cock pics as a no-no..u'll hear that a lot from the forums...if u want to increase ur meets as a single guy, have something that doesnt waste the peoples time that are wanting a meet.Too many think having something to the imagination is great, it isnt, when people arent looking for that.

get to a club/social also..theres plenty of info available, u might get some nice chats but dont overdo what a chat is, u'll hopefully get verified as a nice outgoing lad and then maybe get some more luck on fab.

respect peoples choices, U might see a lot of "no asians", sorry thats just a current climate, might change,might not, so its best not to have that as a moan.hope that helps.

Take it from a woman, cock pics are a no no, after you've chatted for abit yes but not when you first introduce yourself "

hey thank you and i respect peoples choices in who they want to see and im not a pushey guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Add abit more detail on your profile, there's 10 a penny like you on here. Some nice body shots but no cock pics

no thats true but how would you like someone to approch you?

ignore the cock pics as a no-no..u'll hear that a lot from the forums...if u want to increase ur meets as a single guy, have something that doesnt waste the peoples time that are wanting a meet.Too many think having something to the imagination is great, it isnt, when people arent looking for that.

get to a club/social also..theres plenty of info available, u might get some nice chats but dont overdo what a chat is, u'll hopefully get verified as a nice outgoing lad and then maybe get some more luck on fab.

respect peoples choices, U might see a lot of "no asians", sorry thats just a current climate, might change,might not, so its best not to have that as a moan.hope that helps.

Take it from a woman, cock pics are a no no, after you've chatted for abit yes but not when you first introduce yourself "

as ONE woman lol....

and I mean ON the profile...

sorry but I listen and have done for many years what forum thinkers deem appropriate for what single men should have on their profile( unbuttoned shirt,etc etc etc)-its all pretty shit to be honest, single women have fanny shots,couples have both..one or two pics of the OPs cock on his profile wont do him any harm(if its liked),forum members...being our tiny percent might not like it, but lots(the supremely bigger percentage) who just want cock will...simple.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"pics...maybe a bit more on ur profile

why would u think u'd get much interest without pics is beyond me, they dont even have to be face pics ffs

got pics but i dont know...

Honestly, if there's no pictures why on earth would you even read the profile. Yes I could be missing out on some nice people with lovely personalities but without pictures its a case of move on to the next person who actually has some. Harsh but true. "

bang bang she shot me down but true so thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whats a guy have to do for a meet? "

You've only been here 3 weeks, have patience young man. Be yourself, let your personality shine in your profile (add a picture if you dare!) Grab the minds and imagination of those who visit your profile, and those you message.

Meets will happen

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"whats a guy have to do for a meet?

You've only been here 3 weeks, have patience young man. Be yourself, let your personality shine in your profile (add a picture if you dare!) Grab the minds and imagination of those who visit your profile, and those you message.

Meets will happen "

how long did it take you for your first meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They'd like to see some of you...your on 3 weeks and don't have any pix unless you have them private them let them know.

You profile text is either too short or to like others I've seen, because I already forget what it said.

Honesty is huge! Make sure you are how your advertising you are, no half truths because some way some how it will come out them your chances are gone!

Other than the best of luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How long did it take you for your first meet"

Well, us girls have far more attention as there are many, many more guys here .My first meet was reasonably soon after joining. Well, it was after wading through 200+ messages.

Stay positive

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How long did it take you for your first meet

Well, us girls have far more attention as there are many, many more guys here .My first meet was reasonably soon after joining. Well, it was after wading through 200+ messages.

Stay positive "

thanks hun!x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sheeshh, not many bright stars on here !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sheeshh, not many bright stars on here !! "

well your shining the brightest today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well get a dexy lady to put your name in a hay aling witj the other 1000 men on here abd hope for the nest

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Women generally read the profile before they reply, some even before they open your message and if the profile doesn't get their interest they will delete the message.

So take some body pics and put a little effort in to the text: what you're looking for, what you don't want/won't do, if you can't accom a line saying briefly why, if you're happy to meet in a public place for safety.

Good luck.

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