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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

To everyone concerned who attended our party last night thanx you for making Tim's birthday a good one but we were VERY disappointed about an incident that has come to light this morning.

If the person concerned would like to return it in an envelope anonymously then nothing more will be said and if anyone knows anything we would like be told

The person or people responsible know what they have done and this may well jeopodise any future parties being held

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasn't at your party at another one (which was great) But, I think for people to accept invitations to someone's home & then abuse their hospitality is beyond beleif. I hope you have whatever went missing is returned as soon as possible. Unfortunatly on this site as well as in life there will always be the ones who spoil it for everyone else.Thankfully they are in the monority.

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By *orkshiremonkey1Man
over a year ago

Worksop

"To everyone concerned who attended our party last night thanx you for making Tim's birthday a good one but we were VERY disappointed about an incident that has come to light this morning.

If the person concerned would like to return it in an envelope anonymously then nothing more will be said and if anyone knows anything we would like be told

The person or people responsible know what they have done and this may well jeopodise any future parties being held"

I read this with dismay and I would hope that the incident is cleared up asap.

I have not had the pleasure of meeting the OP'ers but can't believe that people invited to someones home for such an event could have the brass neck to even think about "taking" anything except the memory of a decent night had by all as I'm sure it was.

I hope that you get the issue sorted.

Best wishes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is awful and does spoil things for the majority of nice folk on here.

And i hope who ever did what they did, makes good and returns whatever went missing.

I myself used to hold parties and thank god nothing like this happened.

To abuse someones hospitality like this makes me spit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that such a nice couple have had their hospitality abused in such a cowardly and despicable manner. I've met Tim & Sue several times and found them to very pleasant and upfront. It must gall them to think that somone they trusted could betray them so easily.

I wouldn't hold your breath about the item missing being returned as the post mark would expose the perpetrator's location and possibly identify themselves. I hope this person reads this feels very ashamed of him/her/them/selves, but I suspect they won't or they wouldn't have done it in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scum.......

Simple as!

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

"Scum.......

Simple as!"

Agree with above ....shame on you ...!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

carnt stand low life theifs who steal of hard working people who open there homes and hospitality there is no need tim n sue are kind and loving cple hope the person who done this has some guilt and returns the things that was took xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tim sue soz 2 hear u had an incident in ya house..u invite ppl into ur house an think u can trust ppl eh...its not very nice makes u think twice next time?? they nothing but shit tc xxx

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By *ombshellWoman
over a year ago

islington

how low will some people go, but thats a risk you take when you let people you dont know into your home, but even so they are a 'friend of a friend' which is just as bad... have known and met timnsue loads of times and think its the pits that this has happened it also throws doubt on everyone who attended ...xxxx loves ya both

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

the incident we mentioned was that whoever it was went into tims bedside drawers and removed over £180 in cash and no we don't see this being returned but i hope they realise that was our ticket money to go and see tims sister in ireland this week who has just told us she has cancer So yeh Shame on you whoever you are but i hope you realise that this will no be the last party probably..............others please be careful if having people in your home we did and got a kick in the teeth for trusting people to treat our house like their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DIRTY ROTTEN BARSTEWARDS THAT IS SO BAD U KNOW WAT..WAT GO'S AROUND COMES AROUND..HOPE THEY FEEL BAD AN GET WAT THEY DESERVE xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the incident we mentioned was that whoever it was went into tims bedside drawers and removed over £180 in cash and no we don't see this being returned but i hope they realise that was our ticket money to go and see tims sister in ireland this week who has just told us she has cancer So yeh Shame on you whoever you are but i hope you realise that this will no be the last party probably..............others please be careful if having people in your home we did and got a kick in the teeth for trusting people to treat our house like their own"

The fact someone went through your stuff is sickening enough.... Let alone took something.

takes a special breed that, to accept someones hospitality then take from them..

I hope they read this thread and whatever they use the money for I hope it brings nothing but bad luck and shame on them..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm stunned by that, really am, what a dispicable and disgusting abuse of trust. I doubt the low life who did it will blink an eye at the comments on here, probably would not be able to read much anyway, but still, I think you know you have evreyone sympathy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lowlife,scanking twats! We hope against hope you get it back. Although we know if these scum are that low that they'd even consider stealing from their hosts you've got very little chance. Shit like that don't have a conscience.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's even more galling is to think that this person/people might then have gone on to fuck others at the party knowing they'd just stolen a wad of cash. How unbelievably sickening.

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By *teve_SoleilCouple
over a year ago

Malaysia

Bashing on the person isn't gonna change anything...The only thing that we can do is give support and hopes you guys will get to catch the thief...and for those who have info on the person to step up...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tim and Sue are two of the greatest people you could ever meet ............if their 'friends' ever find out who this was i would hang your 'swinging boots' up for ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant believe this has happened to Tim and Sue, anyone who knows them will know they are the salt of the earth.

Whatever happened to looking after your own ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

both jan and i add our sympathies to the ever growing list ...please gods let me find out who it was ...the only swinging they are likely to be doing is from a tree...........by their genitals

jin and jan

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

AM shocked and saddened by what i have just read.

How sick to even go snooping through your things in the first place.

Like the idea of swinging em by the genitals in a tree - if they ever get caught.

Can we all join the queue to beat them with a big stick too.

B*stards.

Hope you guys are ok as can be, and still manage your visit.

Debz xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is horrible to read what has happened to you guys and I know exactley how it feels. I had a meet many moons ago who stole something from me and I know how sick to your stomache you both must be feeling now.

It doesnt help but just remember what goes around comes around

Kisses Becs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry needed this one for a full set

peanut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Becs Hun.... x

I hope it wasn't your dignity.....

No, no... can't be lol... Lost that ages back in the posse thread.. Mwah xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a lesson to everyone not to judge everyone by your own morals...just because it wouldnt cross your mind doesnt mean someone wont take advantage of you.....i was taken for a fool myself not so long ago....its sickening....and wouldnt imagine you have a prayer to receive your money back...that would take a conscience....obviously something sadly lacking in that person.

im sorry this happened to you a harsh lesson to learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We once had something taken during a small party... It was only a blouse but in all honesty could have been the crown jewels.. Its just sickening!

Never had a party since... Shame!

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

Just a thought but i would be prepared to chip in to replace whatever it is monetary wise, just to show contempt for the bastards ....of course if its sentimental ...nothing can replace it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was money PD... Its in a few threads now..

180 smackers.. gone from the bedside table.. Money was for a visit to a sick relative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was money PD... Its in a few threads now..

180 smackers.. gone from the bedside table.. Money was for a visit to a sick relative "
Well if we could get together say 10 or so of us, I would be prepared to chip in £20. Who else would be up for that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was money PD... Its in a few threads now..

180 smackers.. gone from the bedside table.. Money was for a visit to a sick relative Well if we could get together say 10 or so of us, I would be prepared to chip in £20. Who else would be up for that?"

Yup, I would go for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit...wrong person ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing we live close, I will pop round and get £10 from Jeza and add £10 myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe even better if the site owners could kinda collect through the text system.. and send directtly??

Easier to manage maybe...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe even better if the site owners could kinda collect through the text system.. and send directtly??

Easier to manage maybe... "
Good idea - do they look at these threads or would we need to contact site support do you know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed, well when they read this, Big Brother style, maybe they can look into the best way to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Known Tim & Sue to chat to for a while (this and another site) so I am more than happy to bung £20 into the replacement fund. If anyone has any ideas how we get the cash there let me know.

Us Cardiacs have to stick together Tim!

Bastard of a thing to have happen and makes me wonder if my parties are such a good idea now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just had a "D'UH" moment there. All Tim has to do is set up a bank account for this and we transfer straight into it without troubling the Site. If you have online banking its immediate but via your own bank takes maybe 24 hours.

The account details can be circulated privately to those who have expressed a willingness to contribute ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have posted a message to admin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the site owners start collecting money through this website, for whatever reason, the govt will deem it as 'earnings' and then be subject to tax once capital raised rises above a certain point, and as this site has begun charging for some premium services now they have to be careful what other monies they allow to pass through their hands.

Similarly, if they did allow monet to be collected for a specific reason they would have to notify the govt who received any money riased and then THAT person would be liable for the tatx upon it as they govt will not see it as recompense against a victim of crime.

You're in a tax minefiled by suggesting money could be collected through here. The easiest way is to have a whip round at the next social and give it to Tim & Sue personally, that way the govt don't have to know diddly-squat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

GRRRR... BLOODY EDIT FEATURE.... PUURLEASE!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually thinking about it....You're in a tax minefiled by suggesting money could be collected through here. The easiest way is to have a whip round at the next social and give it to Tim & Sue personally, that way the govt don't have to know diddly-squat.

Just a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have not been on the forums for a few weeks , but was just talking to diamond on the phone telling her what a great night we had at the party and she told me about this. I am so sorry that some bastard has done this .. you have a lovely home and you opened it up for us to have a great night thank you for that. but once again as part of the desent human race I am disgusted that someone has done this to you... xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am totally shocked that this has happened to 2 such lovely people. Tim and Sue have always been there for me through good times and bad and I would happily chip in towards their trip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Actually thinking about it....You're in a tax minefiled by suggesting money could be collected through here. The easiest way is to have a whip round at the next social and give it to Tim & Sue personally, that way the govt don't have to know diddly-squat.

Just a thought"

Oi!... plageurism hurts!! what's your game then huh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

iv never met timnsue but would love to one day ,, i hope this incedent is resolve asap and the scum brought to book,

i,m all for giving a donation let me know how ,

in total shock , disgusted and hofrrified

chappie

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

many many thanx to all who have shown concern and support for us but please don't arrange for people to donate money to help us we are proud people who have hearts of gold as many of you well know and would help anyone in need in what ever way we could but just people being there for us is enough but thanx for the thought

tim n sue xxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"many many thanx to all who have shown concern and support for us but please don't arrange for people to donate money to help us we are proud people who have hearts of gold as many of you well know and would help anyone in need in what ever way we could but just people being there for us is enough but thanx for the thought

tim n sue xxxxxxxxxxxx"

you know its funny you should post that because i was only saying to the other half last night that if the person who stole the money was that hard up for cash knowing Tim and Sue they'd have given them the bloody money if they felt they needed it more, and having known them for about 8 years now i really do feel i know then well enough to say that!

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