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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is an interesting thing!! It's easy as you both know what the other likes. But do the emotions get in the way? And then there is question as to why you split up in the first place!! It's nice to still get on so well though!!

Has anyone else experienced this? Has it been a positive or negative experience?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Positive at the time.. A whole heap if negative after!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely no chance ever !!!!...he's an ex for a reason! !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been a long hard slog but yes been good when we both have enjoyed the fact we know each other but the wounds sometimes surface by comments made that mar the good times in time we earch for something more as the previous damage come to the fore and you wonder what it was that you saw all that time ago that made it so special... Theres a time and a place for everything not sure it's with revisiting old relationships...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did it with someone I really loved just to hold on but just caused me more pain x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely no chance ever !!!!...he's an ex for a reason! !!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

had something similar with the ex wife.

we split up, she moved out.

after a few weeks she would pop over for the night.

it was her suggestion if i would mind having sex with her..

best sex after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have been stupid (desperate) enough to have done this with two ex's - & in my humble opinion; sex + X = negative!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried with my ex a few times but she wasnt having any of it lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I tried with my ex a few times but she wasnt having any of it lol. "
lol

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I did this when younger - it was damaging and I took a lesson from that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tried with my ex a few times but she wasnt having any of it lol. "

Lucky you!! LOLZ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done it twice and it never ends well

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well so far it's fab!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well so far it's fab!!!"

You obviously decided to break up with him then. If he broke up with you, I bet you wouldnt go there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seemed a good idea at the time, but fucks your head up after, then made worse when the bugger offers to pay for a 'continuing service'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well so far it's fab!!!

You obviously decided to break up with him then. If he broke up with you, I bet you wouldnt go there "

I did break up with him, but he introduced me to this site. I wonder if perhaps I made a mistake! He might take me back if I can organise an FFM!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well so far it's fab!!!

You obviously decided to break up with him then. If he broke up with you, I bet you wouldnt go there

I did break up with him, but he introduced me to this site. I wonder if perhaps I made a mistake! He might take me back if I can organise an FFM!!!! "

Ah but you given him the golden ticket. He can now sleep with you and any other person he chooses so he may enjoy his single life too much to get back with you now. Dont you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As xxxbw said.. Ex for a reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did this when younger - it was damaging and I took a lesson from that."

I needed two lessons; there's the difference, I fear!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did it with someone I really loved just to hold on but just caused me more pain x"

I can associate with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did it with someone I really loved just to hold on but just caused me more pain x

I can associate with that "

Fuck, that's dark!!

........anyway, the hammers are doing shit; what do you th.................!!!

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

It really wasn't very good then I can't see it being any better now.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I thought that is what exes were for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done this and it's a bit weird, for some reason the sex was 10x more dirty than it was when we were together though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres a very good reason they are exs and no way would I go there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex was a horrible person, treated me like shit, and fucked around, she was always like every bloke she went with was better than me, in fact it was like she was trying to force me into a cuckold relationship, at that time I was going through some bad times and didn't think I could make it on my own, she eventually said I had to go, so I left with nothing but my clothes, I clawed my way back got better got HAPPY and started my way on the path of my sexual adventure, she turned up at my place one night, telling me how free she is now, and all about how she has a couple of guy she is seeing, cut a long story short, we didn't have sex, I fucked her, I have her the kind of fucking she loved, hard and nasty, as she was leaving she said where did you learn that lol I had the grace to lie to her and say"you" but it cleared her out of my head so I could move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My ex was a horrible person, treated me like shit, and fucked around, she was always like every bloke she went with was better than me, in fact it was like she was trying to force me into a cuckold relationship, at that time I was going through some bad times and didn't think I could make it on my own, she eventually said I had to go, so I left with nothing but my clothes, I clawed my way back got better got HAPPY and started my way on the path of my sexual adventure, she turned up at my place one night, telling me how free she is now, and all about how she has a couple of guy she is seeing, cut a long story short, we didn't have sex, I fucked her, I have her the kind of fucking she loved, hard and nasty, as she was leaving she said where did you learn that lol I had the grace to lie to her and say"you" but it cleared her out of my head so I could move on "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" sex + X = negative!! "

Billy

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By *abrobbieMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *ssexguy69Man
over a year ago

thurrock Essex

iv had sex with a x ,and that all it was , but thats it i would never go bk with her and she know that

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

No no no just don't do it, ex`s are that for a reason, I would never ever look at my ex husband in that light again, its better to just walk away and leave it alone.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

there is one ex i would never ever see again

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

no no no no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex and I had the best sex ever after we split up. It was better than the sex we had when we were together. It does have to stop tho. Someone always gets hurt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's fun but one of you usually starts wanting more than the other.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is true, it's usually the man, they're so needy

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Is an interesting thing!! It's easy as you both know what the other likes. But do the emotions get in the way? And then there is question as to why you split up in the first place!! It's nice to still get on so well though!!

Has anyone else experienced this? Has it been a positive or negative experience?!"

For me once you're an ex I don't feel any sexual attraction so revisiting isn't an option. I remain friends, but to their chagrin there's no "for old times sake!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well, we've got back together tonight! It finished before we were ready and we both still love each other so have agreed that splitting up is not the right thing to do! Plus the sex and flirting has been fantastic!!!!!

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By *ark n gemCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Seems a bit pointless to post this then :/

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By *U1966Man
over a year ago

Devon

Rather stick a 12 bore shotgun in her gob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, we've got back together tonight! It finished before we were ready and we both still love each other so have agreed that splitting up is not the right thing to do! Plus the sex and flirting has been fantastic!!!!! "

you going to remain on fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did it with someone I really loved just to hold on but just caused me more pain x"

xxxxxxx's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It feels positive as you know what each other likes and no each other's limits but from my experience it can leave an expectation that something more will develop ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well, we've got back together tonight! It finished before we were ready and we both still love each other so have agreed that splitting up is not the right thing to do! Plus the sex and flirting has been fantastic!!!!!

you going to remain on fab?"

Yes I am, he introduced me to this site anyway!! I've grown rather fond of the site (not sure fond is the right word though!!!)

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