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"Variations on a theme from your other topic?!! " Nowt wrong with that, I have and I'm sure everyone has many questions on one topic. It's better than moaning thread. | |||
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"Variations on a theme from your other topic?!! Nowt wrong with that, I have and I'm sure everyone has many questions on one topic. It's better than moaning thread. " Oh I agree...but one under the other?!! | |||
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"Variations on a theme from your other topic?!! Nowt wrong with that, I have and I'm sure everyone has many questions on one topic. It's better than moaning thread. Oh I agree...but one under the other?!!" oh don't start me off, one under the other, I'm a little horny today and Ms Rooney ain't here. | |||
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"Is there a fine line between, having a friend with benefits and being in a full relationship. How do you draw the line. For me the freind with benefits is the odd text during the day, and setting the date to meet. What would you be like if your freind with benfit / f/buddy was texting you lots, and phoning, and saying they were missing you? And not wanting to meet others, and if you say your meeting others you get looks that could kill. Would you cool it or just carry on, I know what I would do in my mind, but just asking peeps opinions. " I agree with you Friends with benefits are great untill they start contacting you all the time, if you have explained that you want nothing more and they continue then it's time to move on in my opinion. | |||
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"Variations on a theme from your other topic?!! Nowt wrong with that, I have and I'm sure everyone has many questions on one topic. It's better than moaning thread. Oh I agree...but one under the other?!! oh don't start me off, one under the other, I'm a little horny today and Ms Rooney ain't here. " Wayne you have a one tracked mind... Go and find something useful to do and stop perving...lol | |||
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"Variations on a theme from your other topic?!! Nowt wrong with that, I have and I'm sure everyone has many questions on one topic. It's better than moaning thread. Oh I agree...but one under the other?!! oh don't start me off, one under the other, I'm a little horny today and Ms Rooney ain't here. Wayne you have a one tracked mind... Go and find something useful to do and stop perving...lol" lol, only today, I have things I need to do shortly, so on here now for a little while. In the forums too, not perving at profiles, lol. | |||
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"Is there a fine line between, having a friend with benefits and being in a full relationship. How do you draw the line. For me the freind with benefits is the odd text during the day, and setting the date to meet. What would you be like if your freind with benfit / f/buddy was texting you lots, and phoning, and saying they were missing you? And not wanting to meet others, and if you say your meeting others you get looks that could kill. Would you cool it or just carry on, I know what I would do in my mind, but just asking peeps opinions. I agree with you Friends with benefits are great untill they start contacting you all the time, if you have explained that you want nothing more and they continue then it's time to move on in my opinion. " I always set boundaries - if they cross it just ignore and move on immediately. One of my previous playmates would make snide remarks when I had other meets, and knowing I never turn my phone of would text continually when he knew I was playing . What I've found is some people say they are looking for a nsa, but in reality they're looking for a relationship with someone who practices more than the missionary position and broad minded! I make it clear now from the off that they are one of a hansful of playmates. Thankfully those I play with now understand that we are all just satisfying a natural need and it won't end at the altar | |||
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"Variations on a theme from your other topic?!! " I know but just something that when you get other peoples opinions, can help you make a good decision, and not an angry rushed one when you get pissed off. I would do what most of you have said, say stop texting, cool it and see how it goes, if they dont then it would be sorry bye, you cant accept that I am playing with others. Cheers for the info. | |||
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"I sometimes think some of these namby-pamby terms people use don’t help. Fuck buddy… the sex comes first in the term… fuck first, buddy second… fuck buddy. If you don’t like the word ‘fuck’, try playmate. Play (sex - first) mate (friend/buddie - second). The term ‘friend with benefits’ to me generally implies if you have sex it’s a bonus… the friendship preceding the sex in order of priority… way too namby-pamby for my liking. Ok it’s all a bit NLP, but it does give some people the wrong idea about your level of connection. " Friend with benefits = Unemployed friend doesn't it?. | |||
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"...They are no longer friends with benefits, but friends with expectations... It will only get worse... " i know what your saying.we have been married over 25 years.im beginning to get the feeling,shes getting to close,and expecting more than i am willing to give.i dont know what to do. | |||
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"...They are no longer friends with benefits, but friends with expectations... It will only get worse... i know what your saying.we have been married over 25 years.im beginning to get the feeling,shes getting to close,and expecting more than i am willing to give.i dont know what to do. " bloody terrible that!!! xx | |||
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"...They are no longer friends with benefits, but friends with expectations... It will only get worse... i know what your saying.we have been married over 25 years.im beginning to get the feeling,shes getting to close,and expecting more than i am willing to give.i dont know what to do. " Play it cool and see how it goes, another 25 years and the queen is inclined to congratulate you on your coolness... | |||
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