FabSwingers.com forum: I find it very worrying ....

By *umpkin OP Man
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

.. that at least 33% of the people who`ve "looked at me" are single straight males!

C`mon guys! You`re letting the side down! I`m a single straight MALE!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens alot... might just be comparing themselves to you... some might be forum lurkers wanting to know who you are. Others are just straight up confused!

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By *ertcamembertMan
over a year ago

Reading area

".. that at least 33% of the people who`ve "looked at me" are single straight males!

C`mon guys! You`re letting the side down! I`m a single straight MALE!

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Dont worry about it, its when you get messaged by bi guys, tv,s and cd,s, when you have clearly stated on your profile that you are only looking to meet women and couples that it starts to hack you off a bit. This seems to happen to me on a fairly regular basis since I have been on fabs, so I can also understand how pissed off single women and couples get when they too get messaged by single males when they have clearly stated that they do not wish to meet them.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

".. that at least 33% of the people who`ve "looked at me" are single straight males!

C`mon guys! You`re letting the side down! I`m a single straight MALE!

Dont worry about it, its when you get messaged by bi guys, tv,s and cd,s, when you have clearly stated on your profile that you are only looking to meet women and couples that it starts to hack you off a bit. This seems to happen to me on a fairly regular basis since I have been on fabs, so I can also understand how pissed off single women and couples get when they too get messaged by single males when they have clearly stated that they do not wish to meet them. "

Then block single men from being able to contact you.

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By *riapus4uMan
over a year ago

Charlestown, Cornwall

As 'the tiggler' (above) says, block single guys if they are causing you a problem. It's a pity we can't block tv's, but I hope the sit owners will give us that facility soon.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Right, I've just had alook to see what stands out from your profile. My guesses:

1) Clearly some bi-guys, tv's/ts/cd's think they can convert you.

2) Other guys look at your profile to see what ideas they can incorporate.

3) Some guys want to see who's on your friends list to see who they can contact.

4) (Some guys want to know who you've met (personal experience) as they think "well if she's met him, then she's up for it" in hope they can contact her as well - as a result I tend to hide nost play meets and only display social meets.

5) Some are simply scouring profile after profile to perve pics as they "hope" most guys will show off play pics.

Just possible scenarios.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

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"Right, I've just had alook to see what stands out from your profile. My guesses:

1) Clearly some bi-guys, tv's/ts/cd's think they can convert you.

2) Other guys look at your profile to see what ideas they can incorporate.

3) Some guys want to see who's on your friends list to see who they can contact.

5) Some are simply scouring profile after profile to perve pics as they "hope" most guys will show off play pics.

Just possible scenarios."

6) Some might just look because they can

7) They might see you post something like the OP has here and out of curiousity have a look at the profile. I just did

lol

Just because someone looks at your profile it doesn't mean they want to meet you!

Also how would they know you were straight unless they actually have a look at your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right, I've just had alook to see what stands out from your profile. My guesses:

1) Clearly some bi-guys, tv's/ts/cd's think they can convert you.

2) Other guys look at your profile to see what ideas they can incorporate.

3) Some guys want to see who's on your friends list to see who they can contact.

5) Some are simply scouring profile after profile to perve pics as they "hope" most guys will show off play pics.

Just possible scenarios.

6) Some might just look because they can

7) They might see you post something like the OP has here and out of curiousity have a look at the profile. I just did

lol

Just because someone looks at your profile it doesn't mean they want to meet you!

Also how would they know you were straight unless they actually have a look at your profile?

I often just take a peek at peeps profile...nosey I guess...no intention of mailing them...just curiosity...especially if they post on here...and maybe occasionally for a pic perv...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".. that at least 33% of the people who`ve "looked at me" are single straight males!

C`mon guys! You`re letting the side down! I`m a single straight MALE!

Well you do have a very sexy silhouette, so it's not THAT surprising.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right, I've just had alook to see what stands out from your profile. My guesses:

1) Clearly some bi-guys, tv's/ts/cd's think they can convert you.

2) Other guys look at your profile to see what ideas they can incorporate.

3) Some guys want to see who's on your friends list to see who they can contact.

5) Some are simply scouring profile after profile to perve pics as they "hope" most guys will show off play pics.

Just possible scenarios."

6)Some just want to sell you sarnies from their new cafe

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Can you tell a persons sexuality before clicking in to the profile? Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you tell a persons sexuality before clicking in to the profile? Z"

Dont think so...unless they are a man...username "raging Queen" or "Brokeback Boy"...and a profile header saying..."Well Hello Big Boy"...Not offence..I love "the Gays"..mwah..xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cant see the problem about who looks at you or mails you, i get messages all the time from couples looking for single females, even tho my profile states i only meet single guys, messages from single guys out side the age range im looking for etc, just read it, delete it and move on, theres always going to be people you dont want looking at your profile but does it really matter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you tell a persons sexuality before clicking in to the profile? Z

Dont think so...unless they are a man...username "raging Queen" or "Brokeback Boy"...and a profile header saying..."Well Hello Big Boy"...Not offence..I love "the Gays"..mwah..xxx

LOL...well that has given me the chuckle of the day!

I don't search profiles, but if someone has posted something funny, stupid, interesting etc on the forums I'll look at their profile - that includes women and I'm 100% straight!!

What I find sad it's the 20 somethings that look at mine!!!

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

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"Can you tell a persons sexuality before clicking in to the profile? Z

Dont think so...unless they are a man...username "raging Queen" or "Brokeback Boy"...and a profile header saying..."Well Hello Big Boy"...Not offence..I love "the Gays"..mwah..xxx

LOL...well that has given me the chuckle of the day!

I don't search profiles, but if someone has posted something funny, stupid, interesting etc on the forums I'll look at their profile - that includes women and I'm 100% straight!!

What I find sad it's the 20 somethings that look at mine!!!

Again, though, they dont know your age until they look at the profile as it doesn't show up when you post in the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".. that at least 33% of the people who`ve "looked at me" are single straight males!

C`mon guys! You`re letting the side down! I`m a single straight MALE!

I'm sure you have looked at peoples profiles that don't want single men, no?

Only worry if you get messages off them. Looking and passing is fine.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

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I don't get this, if all they are doing is looking at your profile and not contacting you how is that a threat to your bottom?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get this, if all they are doing is looking at your profile and not contacting you how is that a threat to your bottom?"

I think the issue is, he wants to see those he is interested in looking at his profile, but 'looked at me' is awash with those he has no interest in.

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To the OP, if you want a definite meet, then change your sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol i always do that , look at the profile of the op , dont know why just do , curiosity me thinks lol srry mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol i always do that , look at the profile of the op , dont know why just do , curiosity me thinks lol srry mate

I imagine a lot of people whether interested or not, if you post in the forums, then people will look, just to get a better idea on who's posting.

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By *he BananamanMan
over a year ago

WORCESTERSHIRE

i think people will look at other profiles just to see friends lists,but it gets you when people messsage you without checking to see your preferences!,that does waste time and is so inconsiderate!.

check first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a look in the Events page from time to time.

There is usually an advert for a gangbang or a couple looking for a meet, however when you go to investigate it is usually a single guy's profile.

So if your a single guy on here and you advertise your f/buddy in the events page for a gangbang expect to be inundated with single guys checking out your profile.

But as already stated elsewhere BLOCK them if it freaks you out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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I imagine a lot of people whether interested or not, if you post in the forums, then people will look, just to get a better idea on who's posting."

Indeed, I do. Sometimes it's nice sometimes it's not lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"lol i always do that , look at the profile of the op , dont know why just do , curiosity me thinks lol srry mate

I imagine a lot of people whether interested or not, if you post in the forums, then people will look, just to get a better idea on who's posting."

Due to popular demand..lol..or more likely who to pm and rant at...I'have come out of the closet...

..its only fair if I'm noseying and perving on you lot..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

keep on perving M we all do it nothing wrong with that its just fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"keep on perving M we all do it nothing wrong with that its just fun.

..I'm out..!! I'm Loud...I'm a Perve and I'm proud..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol you and me both

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By *riapus4uMan
over a year ago

Charlestown, Cornwall

"keep on perving M we all do it nothing wrong with that its just fun.

..I'm out..!! I'm Loud...I'm a Perve and I'm proud..

Aah, but what about those perves who turn off their 'opt out of appearing on others looked@me pages'??

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By *riapus4uMan
over a year ago

Charlestown, Cornwall

"I don't get this, if all they are doing is looking at your profile and not contacting you how is that a threat to your bottom?"

Single bi/gay guys & tv's have been a problem when posting messages to me, thats why I have ticked that box, although you still can't tick a box for tv's not to contact.

I genraly don't mind anybody looking at my profile as long as I don't get any inapropriate messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s so worrying, they’ve probably been checking the verifications of the people you’ve met and ended up on you’re profile, easily done, now you’ll probably have more looking as people tend to look at the profiles of people who start threads in forums, doesn’t mean they want you unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"keep on perving M we all do it nothing wrong with that its just fun.

..I'm out..!! I'm Loud...I'm a Perve and I'm proud..

Aah, but what about those perves who turn off their 'opt out of appearing on others looked@me pages'??

I ticked that box ages ago so when Im having a little perve no one knows unless I want them to, for instance if I message them.

I love the looked at me part cos I can see who and (more importantly) when people are looking. Hubby can always tell when I have been in the chatroom, or when I have been up all night cos the last (or first depending how you look at it, the one at the bottom of the page) isnt days ago

then I cant say "no hun I was asleep"

Shona

x x x

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

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"I don't get this, if all they are doing is looking at your profile and not contacting you how is that a threat to your bottom?

Single bi/gay guys & tv's have been a problem when posting messages to me, thats why I have ticked that box, although you still can't tick a box for tv's not to contact.

I genraly don't mind anybody looking at my profile as long as I don't get any inapropriate messages.

Are you frightened they might turn you then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".. that at least 33% of the people who`ve "looked at me" are single straight males!

C`mon guys! You`re letting the side down! I`m a single straight MALE!

if they are not pestering you i woudnt worry. Many people look out of interest thats all.

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By *umpkin OP Man
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

I`m not "worried" worried! Just finding it all a bit amusing more than anything!

Never thought about the other reasons for looking .. friends, verifications etc.

No real problem!

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By *umpkin OP Man
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

And I`m now beggining to wish I never started this thread

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

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"And I`m now beggining to wish I never started this thread

Admit it....even more guys have browsed your profile now?....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And I`m now beggining to wish I never started this thread

Admit it....even more guys have browsed your profile now?....

No, they've stopped, but now he can see they were the only ones looking.

Have to admit, I looked regular, but only for the pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some straight guys just give out "them vibes" lmao

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By *umpkin OP Man
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

"And I`m now beggining to wish I never started this thread

Admit it....even more guys have browsed your profile now?....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems like a VERY nice boy!

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By *riapus4uMan
over a year ago

Charlestown, Cornwall

"I don't get this, if all they are doing is looking at your profile and not contacting you how is that a threat to your bottom?

Single bi/gay guys & tv's have been a problem when posting messages to me, thats why I have ticked that box, although you still can't tick a box for tv's not to contact.

I genraly don't mind anybody looking at my profile as long as I don't get any inapropriate messages.

Are you frightened they might turn you then?"

No chance, just don't want the "can I suck your cock" messages!!.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get this, if all they are doing is looking at your profile and not contacting you how is that a threat to your bottom?

Single bi/gay guys & tv's have been a problem when posting messages to me, thats why I have ticked that box, although you still can't tick a box for tv's not to contact.

I genraly don't mind anybody looking at my profile as long as I don't get any inapropriate messages.

Are you frightened they might turn you then?

No chance, just don't want the "can I suck your cock" messages!!.

oh Bugger, will tell Ms Rooney to not send you that message she's typing now.

she will be disappointed.

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By *riapus4uMan
over a year ago

Charlestown, Cornwall

"I don't get this, if all they are doing is looking at your profile and not contacting you how is that a threat to your bottom?

Single bi/gay guys & tv's have been a problem when posting messages to me, thats why I have ticked that box, although you still can't tick a box for tv's not to contact.

I genraly don't mind anybody looking at my profile as long as I don't get any inapropriate messages.

Are you frightened they might turn you then?

No chance, just don't want the "can I suck your cock" messages!!.

oh Bugger, will tell Ms Rooney to not send you that message she's typing now.

she will be disappointed.

Oh, I forgot to say all messages from women saying "can I suck your cock" will be gratefully accepted!!.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".. that at least 33% of the people who`ve "looked at me" are single straight males!

C`mon guys! You`re letting the side down! I`m a single straight MALE!

It's easier than looking at other men's cocks while having a piss to see if all is as it should be. Less risk of getting your head kicked in too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

".. that at least 33% of the people who`ve "looked at me" are single straight males!

C`mon guys! You`re letting the side down! I`m a single straight MALE!

Why complain it’s the 66% of females and couples you should be perusing. That’s unless you are scared that you may be tempted by some of the guys looking at you.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

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".. that at least 33% of the people who`ve "looked at me" are single straight males!

C`mon guys! You`re letting the side down! I`m a single straight MALE!

Why complain it’s the 66% of females and couples you should be perusing. That’s unless you are scared that you may be tempted by some of the guys looking at you."

It must be that missing 1% that looks that is the most worrying, I would have thought

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