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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi any women got any tips how a newbie should start to get meeting people ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sort ur pic out for a start

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do you mean mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your profile is basic, very lazy(you cant sell one three or four words)...theres nothing about you

If U were a woman/cpl...would u choose U over someone else with more going on in their profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you mean mate"

its a rubbish pic, not being nasty...its blurry, nothing can really be made out

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Put up decent photos and write a good profile. Message people who interest you with a short, interesting, polite message. Send a face pic with the first message. Don't send photos of your cock unless asked. Be patient.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Have a face picture to send with messages. Send sensible messages and not just three words or one liners and personalise that message to the profile.

Be patient.

Get yourself to socials and clubs.

Be patient.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But if i cant put a face picture up for work related reSon what shod i do

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"But if i cant put a face picture up for work related reSon what shod i do"

You don't have to make it public. Keep it private and attachit to messages you send.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good advice

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"But if i cant put a face picture up for work related reSon what shod i do"

You don't have to put a picture in public. You have it in private and send it with messages. If you can't do that then you will struggle as some won't respond without a face picture.

Do sort out your profile. Now that I have looked at it I can see it says absolutely nothing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Okay ill try update it now

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Private face pic, pay attention to your spelling, there are only half a dozen words & a few of them are wrong. I can't imagine from your profile or forum posts that you put a lot of effort into messages. You need to tailor messages to the people you send them too. Also join in more on forums but please sort out ya spelin buddeh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anything else ?

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

As others have said, change the profile pic. There might be a cock or possibly pussy in it, but feck knows.

Take a body pic or something, don't need to show your face. Look at my pics if you like, not many with a clear view of my face.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Anything else ?"

I won't change anything other than your spelling:

Looking to chat then meet if you are interested then drop me a message i have face picture in private too

Inbox if there's anything you want to know

If you were to add some punctuation it would improve further. It says nothing about you or what you are looking for other than chat and a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anything else ?

I won't change anything other than your spelling:

Looking to chat then meet if you are interested then drop me a message i have face picture in private too

Inbox if there's anything you want to know

If you were to add some punctuation it would improve further. It says nothing about you or what you are looking for other than chat and a meet. "

Better

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Anything else ?

I won't change anything other than your spelling:

Looking to chat then meet if you are interested then drop me a message i have face picture in private too

Inbox if there's anything you want to know

If you were to add some punctuation it would improve further. It says nothing about you or what you are looking for other than chat and a meet.

Better "

I give up. Good night.

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm going to be extra nice & give you one last comment, then you're on your own. You corrected most of the spelling, not all. It still says nothing at all about you. Chat & meet...I think you'll find 98% of people on here want the same so there's nothing, literally nothing on your profile to make people skip past other profiles & look at yours. Put some likes or dislikes on, put some personality into it, anything at all!!

Remember, for every woman there are about 1000 guys, if you were a woman with so many choices, would you read your profile & get excited by it? I can't & won't write your profile for you, but you'll need to improve it a lot if you're wanting women to look at it.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Women are not going to contact you to find out about you. If your profile doesn't grab their attention and tell them enough, they'll move on.

"Hi, I'm here, come and get me" is not going to work as an approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll also say I'm glad uve taken the critique positively, but ur changes are too small, and like I say, get to work on decent pics that at least show ur body(in focus and easy to work out)

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