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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry i found typos and spelling mistakes in last thread so new one here.

So i need to get some views.

Is honesty the best policy as i have

said i am married wife is happy for me to play alone as she does yet i still get accused of being the cheating two timing low life with a fake profile.

So my Question is this

Do i say i am married and be truthful to future meets and let the fun commence

or

Do i remove my status of married act single and hope no one finds out.

Ladies couples and advice would be appreciated

And yes my wife does know i am on here she suggested i get some feedback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

copy and pasted my original reply

case of cant do right for doing wrong - whatever will please some will piss others right off -

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

Do what you think is right!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know my wife said the same but then if i go single and get caught out you got the hassle of naming and shaming and i dont want that i am genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You only live once have as much fun as you can you might regret what you didnt get to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i had to lie to attract someone i wouldn't want to meet them anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

oh i wont regret it.I have lots of fun when we play as a couple but wife really wants me to have fun as a single

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

just do what you want, you will never, ever please all of the people all of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If i had to lie to attract someone i wouldn't want to meet them anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If i had to lie to attract someone i wouldn't want to meet them anyway

"

That's why i am asking here i don't want to lie to people i am truthful person i just wanted peoples views on it as i am getting nowhere as a single. Couples a profile no problem obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If i had to lie to attract someone i wouldn't want to meet them anyway

"

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just do what you want, you will never, ever please all of the people all of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

use the couples profile and say both meet alone - shouldnt be a problem for you as you seem very open with each other

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I'd just be honest!

I meet the male half of a couple, but their profile is joint so I didn't think for one minute he didn't have permission!

Is your wife on here? If so, point potential meets in her direction? Just a suggestion x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"use the couples profile and say both meet alone - shouldnt be a problem for you as you seem very open with each other "

We have tried that and we got abuse from people saying they dont want to me male half only female half and why are we posting as a couple when we want to play single. tried to explain but got nowhere, x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd just be honest!

I meet the male half of a couple, but their profile is joint so I didn't think for one minute he didn't have permission!

Is your wife on here? If so, point potential meets in her direction? Just a suggestion x"

Yes my wife is on here here profile name is on my profile aswell as our couples profile.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"use the couples profile and say both meet alone - shouldnt be a problem for you as you seem very open with each other

We have tried that and we got abuse from people saying they dont want to me male half only female half and why are we posting as a couple when we want to play single. tried to explain but got nowhere, x"

just have to go with what bothers you the least - or take no notice of anybody that doesnt like what you do - you wont be meeting them anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If i had to lie to attract someone i wouldn't want to meet them anyway

That's why i am asking here i don't want to lie to people i am truthful person i just wanted peoples views on it as i am getting nowhere as a single. Couples a profile no problem obviously "

Put the name of your couple profile on your single profile so everyone can see that everything is hunkydory.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"If i had to lie to attract someone i wouldn't want to meet them anyway

That's why i am asking here i don't want to lie to people i am truthful person i just wanted peoples views on it as i am getting nowhere as a single. Couples a profile no problem obviously "

Not entirely sure what you're asking then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"use the couples profile and say both meet alone - shouldnt be a problem for you as you seem very open with each other

We have tried that and we got abuse from people saying they dont want to me male half only female half and why are we posting as a couple when we want to play single. tried to explain but got nowhere, x

just have to go with what bothers you the least - or take no notice of anybody that doesnt like what you do - you wont be meeting them anyway "

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I'd just be honest!

I meet the male half of a couple, but their profile is joint so I didn't think for one minute he didn't have permission!

Is your wife on here? If so, point potential meets in her direction? Just a suggestion x

Yes my wife is on here here profile name is on my profile aswell as our couples profile.x "

I really can't see the problem then! If people don't believe you, then just move on as not worth it! x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If i had to lie to attract someone i wouldn't want to meet them anyway

That's why i am asking here i don't want to lie to people i am truthful person i just wanted peoples views on it as i am getting nowhere as a single. Couples a profile no problem obviously

Put the name of your couple profile on your single profile so everyone can see that everything is hunkydory. "

Take a look at my profile i have put both names up and wife has said she will verify either through phone or social meet i can meet alone. x

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Have the name of your couples profile or your wife's single profile on your profile so that potential meets can contact her if they don't believe you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd just be honest!

I meet the male half of a couple, but their profile is joint so I didn't think for one minute he didn't have permission!

Is your wife on here? If so, point potential meets in her direction? Just a suggestion x

Yes my wife is on here here profile name is on my profile aswell as our couples profile.x

I really can't see the problem then! If people don't believe you, then just move on as not worth it! x"

Thankyou i appreciate your help and views x x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have the name of your couples profile or your wife's single profile on your profile so that potential meets can contact her if they don't believe you. "

As previously stated we already have done that. lol still get accused so as one member has said to just move on if they dont believe you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If i had to lie to attract someone i wouldn't want to meet them anyway

That's why i am asking here i don't want to lie to people i am truthful person i just wanted peoples views on it as i am getting nowhere as a single. Couples a profile no problem obviously

Put the name of your couple profile on your single profile so everyone can see that everything is hunkydory.

Take a look at my profile i have put both names up and wife has said she will verify either through phone or social meet i can meet alone. x "

Well I'd say you've done enough then. Not much more you can do.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I'd just be honest!

I meet the male half of a couple, but their profile is joint so I didn't think for one minute he didn't have permission!

Is your wife on here? If so, point potential meets in her direction? Just a suggestion x

Yes my wife is on here here profile name is on my profile aswell as our couples profile.x

I really can't see the problem then! If people don't believe you, then just move on as not worth it! x

Thankyou i appreciate your help and views x x"

The guy I meet has had abuse as well, mainly due to the fact he shouldn't be allowed to play with singles as he is married! Therefore taking us single girls away from all the single guys LOL Sometimes, you just can't do right from doing wrong

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Have the name of your couples profile or your wife's single profile on your profile so that potential meets can contact her if they don't believe you.

As previously stated we already have done that. lol still get accused so as one member has said to just move on if they dont believe you x"

Ah yeah. Well then there's not much more you can do. If they don't feel like checking is good enough it's up to then I suppose but at least you've been honest x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd just be honest!

I meet the male half of a couple, but their profile is joint so I didn't think for one minute he didn't have permission!

Is your wife on here? If so, point potential meets in her direction? Just a suggestion x

Yes my wife is on here here profile name is on my profile aswell as our couples profile.x

I really can't see the problem then! If people don't believe you, then just move on as not worth it! x

Thankyou i appreciate your help and views x x

The guy I meet has had abuse as well, mainly due to the fact he shouldn't be allowed to play with singles as he is married! Therefore taking us single girls away from all the single guys LOL Sometimes, you just can't do right from doing wrong "

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

if there is that much honesty then say they can talk to your wife to prove what you are saying is true.....

simple as that.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"if there is that much honesty then say they can talk to your wife to prove what you are saying is true.....

simple as that......."

I say this in my profile as she is happy to but as foxy minx has said if I have done all the bother they ain't worth bothering with

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

This is just another single man can't get a shag thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is just another single man can't get a shag thread."

Lol now I found a couple thats exactly what I am on about. Not even looked just assumed

Before you make assumptions read the thread and other posts before hand. I asked for some advice. Actually I do gets shags on our couple profile is more than inundated with requests from couples to meet. Some of us however do have a thing called fantasies and one of my wifes is for meet to meet a couple or single fem and tell her about it. So actually not another single cant get a shag thread.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"if there is that much honesty then say they can talk to your wife to prove what you are saying is true.....

simple as that.......

I say this in my profile as she is happy to but as foxy minx has said if I have done all the bother they ain't worth bothering with "

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven


"This is just another single man can't get a shag thread.

Lol now I found a couple thats exactly what I am on about. Not even looked just assumed

Before you make assumptions read the thread and other posts before hand. I asked for some advice. Actually I do gets shags on our couple profile is more than inundated with requests from couples to meet. Some of us however do have a thing called fantasies and one of my wifes is for meet to meet a couple or single fem and tell her about it. So actually not another single cant get a shag thread.

"

It is though, maybe its just me but don't get these threads.

Just do what you got to do.

If they want you they'll have you.

if they don't they won't.

Have you asked any of the couples to meet you as a singleton???

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