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Blown out again last night.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Blown out again last night.

Supposed to have a couple coming over to mine. Checked a couple of times in the couple of days running up to it, and all fine.

Then, when they were late, I messaged on here, and they said they'd be calling me in half an hour.

Three hours later, I gave up and knocked one off the top.

I know it's not a new story on here (third time a couple's let me down at the last minute in the past couple of months)

But, the bit I don't understand is why they kept the bullshit going right up to the last minute?

Do some people get some kind of sadistic pleasure from giving people the runaround?

If they weren't interested, or got cold feet is one thing, but to say they'll call in half an hour and then sack me off just seems mean to me. Like they're playing some kind of game.

Am I being over sensitive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to us single ladies too...guess some people are just numpties!

Block n move on

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Blown out again last night.

Supposed to have a couple coming over to mine. Checked a couple of times in the couple of days running up to it, and all fine.

Then, when they were late, I messaged on here, and they said they'd be calling me in half an hour.

Three hours later, I gave up and knocked one off the top.

I know it's not a new story on here (third time a couple's let me down at the last minute in the past couple of months)

But, the bit I don't understand is why they kept the bullshit going right up to the last minute?

Do some people get some kind of sadistic pleasure from giving people the runaround?

If they weren't interested, or got cold feet is one thing, but to say they'll call in half an hour and then sack me off just seems mean to me. Like they're playing some kind of game.

Am I being over sensitive?"

No you are not. And the site administrators do not like this kind of behaviour as it can give their site a bad reputation. You need to report this couple for not showing up. if they persist in messing people about then they can be kicked off the site but admin won't know if they are if no one ever reports them and so they will keep doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blown out again last night.

Supposed to have a couple coming over to mine. Checked a couple of times in the couple of days running up to it, and all fine.

Then, when they were late, I messaged on here, and they said they'd be calling me in half an hour.

Three hours later, I gave up and knocked one off the top.

I know it's not a new story on here (third time a couple's let me down at the last minute in the past couple of months)

But, the bit I don't understand is why they kept the bullshit going right up to the last minute?

Do some people get some kind of sadistic pleasure from giving people the runaround?

If they weren't interested, or got cold feet is one thing, but to say they'll call in half an hour and then sack me off just seems mean to me. Like they're playing some kind of game.

Am I being over sensitive?

No you are not. And the site administrators do not like this kind of behaviour as it can give their site a bad reputation. You need to report this couple for not showing up. if they persist in messing people about then they can be kicked off the site but admin won't know if they are if no one ever reports them and so they will keep doing it."
yes they maybe doing this to lots here and not good for the site or the people thay let down. x so mail fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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No you are not. And the site administrators do not like this kind of behaviour as it can give their site a bad reputation. You need to report this couple for not showing up. if they persist in messing people about then they can be kicked off the site but admin won't know if they are if no one ever reports them and so they will keep doing it. yes they maybe doing this to lots here and not good for the site or the people thay let down. x so mail fab."

Didn't know I could actually do that. How do I go about it?

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Report them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

No you are not. And the site administrators do not like this kind of behaviour as it can give their site a bad reputation. You need to report this couple for not showing up. if they persist in messing people about then they can be kicked off the site but admin won't know if they are if no one ever reports them and so they will keep doing it. yes they maybe doing this to lots here and not good for the site or the people thay let down. x so mail fab.

Didn't know I could actually do that. How do I go about it?"
Bottom of this page are links or you could pull up one of there old post to you and send to fab and say how it was and your making sure they know. Some people get off on doing this to others its like a power trip .

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"

No you are not. And the site administrators do not like this kind of behaviour as it can give their site a bad reputation. You need to report this couple for not showing up. if they persist in messing people about then they can be kicked off the site but admin won't know if they are if no one ever reports them and so they will keep doing it. yes they maybe doing this to lots here and not good for the site or the people thay let down. x so mail fab.

Didn't know I could actually do that. How do I go about it?"

If you still have a message of theirs there should be a link to click on to report user.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Bottom of this page are links or you could pull up one of there old post to you and send to fab and say how it was and your making sure they know. Some people get off on doing this to others its like a power trip ."

Thanks. I've found a "report profile" link on their page, and done it that way. Not sent the messages, but still got them all.

Thanks for the help

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Single Males are usually in line for a kicking on here for poor messaging, no showing up, being dickheads etc... Couples are not exempt from being arseholes so if they have messed you around and are showing a pattern of it then get a report in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

If you still have a message of theirs there should be a link to click on to report user. "

I've done this now too. To support what I'd said in my original message to fab.

Sent them the message where they said they'd be calling mw in half an hour.

Thanks for the help. x

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

It is totally out of order, sadly there seem to be a lot of people messing folk about one way or another - I hope you get a good meet soon.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" I hope you get a good meet soon."

Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just noticed they've blocked me now, so they're obviously dicks.

Feeling a bit naive now, because the profile is a single male profile, even though it has two people's names on it.

Thought that, because they were verified and they send me pics of the female of the couple, that they'd be ok. Thinking now that the pics could have been from anyone.

Noticed last night too, that their verifications were both very old.

Is it possible they verified themselves from fake accounts?

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I'd put it behind you Johnny and look forward to your next meet with a proper cpl in here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd put it behind you Johnny and look forward to your next meet with a proper cpl in here"

Yeah, good advice, ta.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd put it behind you Johnny and look forward to your next meet with a proper cpl in here

Yeah, good advice, ta."

Move forward and hope u get a meet soon x

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By *obbyCock36Man
over a year ago

Bournemouth


"I'd put it behind you Johnny and look forward to your next meet with a proper cpl in here"

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.


"Just noticed they've blocked me now, so they're obviously dicks."

Maybe you can no longer see their profile because you've reported it ?

We were messed around badly once. We arranged a meet at a local pub. Bloke said he was on his way so we set off. We got to the pub at the agreed time and messaged him to say we were there. We got a string of abusive texts calling us gullable amongst other unpleasant things. We reported him and his profile became blocked too.

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