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How many of us are really unloved?

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By *ig and daft OP   Man
over a year ago

Love with life

What is the reason why we have turned to a swingers site. In my case it's quite pathetic really after many years in an unloving relationship I have found that I can meet like minded people that want to have a little fun and cuddle up without all that guilty nonsense you have to put up with from someone you may meet on a night out.

So why are you here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am here to shag as much as possible lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for fun...and when I'm not single, it might be to keep contact with friends...some are REAL friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like that its sex and only sex n if u get a gud laff a nite out n mates then its a plus hopefully ur also not lied to as it is sex lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know really, I like it here though

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I've eaten too many bacon butties and doughnuts and now can't get back out of the door.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I have love in my life but not the sort that leads to sex.

I have made friends here and I have had some fun. Hopefully making more friends will lead to even more fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For sexual adventure

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Same as Lickety in some respects. I'm happily married in all but sex. No sex at home. After a long time without sex, this site saved my sanity. Now I'm perfectly normal. Wibble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hmm when I first came on fab as a couple profile it was to have fun with my bf ( nw is my ex)

we were going to meet only together but then he never wanted to so I meet alone and so did he, I did spend a lot of nights alone but I didn't always make sure I was with someone but it did happen that way sometimes then I met my new bf, fwb at the time and got feelings for him which were returned and now I am here to try and find a woman but I am not and never will be in a unloving relationship :P

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I haven't turned to a swingers site. I participate in what could be described as swinging activities so I'm here to find like minded people as well as the friendships I've gained

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

Because they said he changes when the sun goes down....around here.!!!. X x X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the more upfront nature of here

As i don't go clubbing etc where else would one meet without the ....

okay i know you get the .... to but it's more interestin

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

Because they said he changes when the sun goes down...around here.!!!! X x X . .

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By *unkydesignCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We are both madly in love together and are usually clinging together like a couple of limpets. We just enjoy sharing a bit of that passion with a sexy lady as it turns us on immensely... That's it really. No sadness, no need, no guilt. Just a horny couple in love who enjoy sharing the experience. ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love sex and the social side but I'm not very successful at relationships and I struggle with being faithful & trusting people, so this place suits me and I've actually made some real friends.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

my hubby loves me .. my lover loves me but its still not enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fun and friendships

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I didn't realise sex could be good until I divorced. Sexually the things that happened in my marriage weren't good and I haven't told anyone about some of it.

So I found this lifestyle and realised it was good. You could be honest with what you like and how you like it. I can be intimate woth ladies which feels so good.

As for relationships. I don't trust easily and don't give my heart away easily. I am not good girlfriend material as only am child free once a month and also I scare men away. Am not a yes dear person.

Swinging works for me. Yes it means I don't get the love from a man I want but at least I don't live with lies. Fab works for me x

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

its like being a mistress ...you get the fun without the washing and cooking

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Started as a couple to explore our boundaries ... Loved it... Split up and came back as a single because I had a lot of good friends on here

Now I know I don't ever want another relationship so it suits me perfectly , and I love the social side of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

came on here with my then boyf, Now on my own as relationships always go bad on me and turn me into a wet wreck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am here to shag as much as possible lol."
like it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont consider it a case of being "unloved".

I started swinging quite a few years ago and found it a cleaner, safer option for the single lady to still have a good sexlife.

I only went to chams then and felt safer there than the "d*unken fumbles" my mates seemed to enjoy after a night out.

We all have "needs" and mine were met nicely.........met a lot of nice people in the process too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To explore in more ways than one.... Make new friends... And have a "fucking" good time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont consider it a case of being "unloved".

I started swinging quite a few years ago and found it a cleaner, safer option for the single lady to still have a good sexlife.

I only went to chams then and felt safer there than the "d*unken fumbles" my mates seemed to enjoy after a night out.

We all have "needs" and mine were met nicely.........met a lot of nice people in the process too "
I agree and forgot to put that... I don't feel unloved at all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is the reason why I joined the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont consider it a case of being "unloved".

I started swinging quite a few years ago and found it a cleaner, safer option for the single lady to still have a good sexlife.

I only went to chams then and felt safer there than the "d*unken fumbles" my mates seemed to enjoy after a night out.

We all have "needs" and mine were met nicely.........met a lot of nice people in the process too "

This ^^^^ apart from the chams bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm unloved

Love freaks me out a bit x

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By *rencherMan
over a year ago

Derby

Why am I here?

To have uncomplicated fun with like minded people

Currently this lifestyle suits me, if that should change for any reason then so be it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use it as a dating site, and it's advantage is that less men lie here

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By *ansa87Couple
over a year ago

louthish

This is a great question.

If I'm honest I'm here because after 6 year relationship he dumped me on my birthday for a girl he was sleeping with , I pondered to myself what would ideally suit me now.

There was so many things I've never done. Since I raised my child alone I became a workaholic mumaholic with no fun or excitement in my life.

So glass of wine in hand I googled and came across this site .

It was them reading verifications I realised that I too could have the passionate embraces I've read so many times about.

And now here I am a month on loving my time alone and my time with the people I chat too and finally getting the sexual passion I've always wanted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm hoping to meet like minded friends.

Nette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here to find the friends and lovers I simply haven't met yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many say the love me off fab (but, i can't really fuck them - it's a bit awkward that).

..I love to kiss, i love to tease, so i'm here aiming to please.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Not unloved. It just works. A way of life that gives me flexibitivy, so I can explore and play, experiment as I want, change course, and I stay happy and no-one is impacted.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I've got all the love I need off my son, just here to make friends, have regular play mates and so far succeeded, although wasn't expecting anything at all from the site. Its the best thing I did joining this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im loved and happy in all ways except sexually... i guess im here to discover me...and the pleasures I feel I've missed out on throughout my life by being a 'good boy'.

I enjoy the forums, discussions and social side...and sometimes focus more on that than the sex!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Im loved and happy in all ways except sexually... i guess im here to discover me...and the pleasures I feel I've missed out on throughout my life by being a 'good boy'.

I enjoy the forums, discussions and social side...and sometimes focus more on that than the sex!"

Same.

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

Im not unloved & was a swinger before my ex husband & my ex. My ex didn't love me but that's not why Im here

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I wouldn't say I was unloved.

I like the variety in here and the fact I can be myself, either as a forumite, exchanging messages or the occasional meet, social or fun.

I work long and unsociable shifts so being in Fab gives me a great way to unwind

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By *ingerbicky69Woman
over a year ago

EXETER

Im loved if anything maybe a bit to much. Im on here to meet and form friendships with people that dont judge me for my kinks.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i was here for the sex but in not even getting any of that lately so mow sure anymore

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I'm not sure I'm capable of love, (romantic love, not love for family and pets etc.)

I'm fairly certain I couldn't be happy in a monogamous relationship.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I joined here 5 years ago because i did not want love....id split up from my ex hubby and a relationship was the last thing on my mind....however time has evolved and Im looking for more...so not using fab for its true purpose but to socialise and keep up with the forums...however i don't feel unloved as Im sure there are a few that care about me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im loved and happy in all ways except sexually... i guess im here to discover me...and the pleasures I feel I've missed out on throughout my life by being a 'good boy'.

I enjoy the forums, discussions and social side...and sometimes focus more on that than the sex!"

Ditto except I'm a Girl

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By *ig and daft OP   Man
over a year ago

Love with life

Thanks for your honesty guys and gals it's enlightening to hear what you all have to say. I'm somewhat surprised at how honest you have all been. Thank you.

My next question

Is about resentment. Xxxx

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