FabSwingers.com forum: Anyone you'd like to fancy?

By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Is there anyone on the forum you'd like to fancy, because you like their persona and their posts, and you think you'd really enjoy a meet with them if you found them physically attractive, which you don't?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tricky one! Curious to see the replies!!

But I've had social meets with people I don't want to get jiggy with and had great fun - it's not always a requirement to want to see them naked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, a few. There's a couple of people that I'm looking forward to meeting at Xtasia.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One or two yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fancy miss cheeky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there anyone on the forum you'd like to fancy, because you like their persona and their posts, and you think you'd really enjoy a meet with them if you found them physically attractive, which you don't?"

So the question is who you think you SHOULD fancy, but you don't?

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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I fancy miss cheeky.

That's not the question

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I fancy miss cheeky.

That's not the question

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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

So the question is who you think you SHOULD fancy, but you don't?"

Not quite. Is there anyone you'd like to fancy. Although you find their personality and posts appealing, you don't find them physically attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im confoosed

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Opposite for me. I though I fancied someone on here but after meeting them at a social realised I didn't.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Isn't that like saying I would love to meet ......... But they are a proper minger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im not quite sure what the question is (im just slow lol)

But yeah there are people who i think id like in reality as friends but would want to sleep with them.

mainly because they are female and im straight lol

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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Isn't that like saying I would love to meet ......... But they are a proper minger

Yes, you think you'd have a great meet but you don't find them physically attractive.

Or rather, you find them physically unattractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are few I didn't fancy originally, but started to fancy them the more I got to know them.

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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

OK...

You like their posts and their personality.

You think you'd have a great meet.

But you find them unattractive.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

think this thread could upset a few lol

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

To be fair id not name or shame anyone as i would hate to knock anyone's confidence because just because i don't fancy them someone might...

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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"think this thread could upset a few lol"

I'm not asking for names.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Takes away the thrill if you say on here

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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"To be fair id not name or shame anyone as i would hate to knock anyone's confidence because just because i don't fancy them someone might..."

I'm not asking who, just if there is anyone you feel that way about.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Ruby, Evie, Blackspice, Mr Mahogany, Fabio, Crystal Wheels, Miss Hottie, Ryan, Obi...I'm feeling the love people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one on here but one guy I dated was great... Really liked everything about him.. But there was no spark.. No chemistry..

We are good mates now but he'd love more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if the distance disappears yes

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"think this thread could upset a few lol

I'm not asking for names."

oh sorry then yes a few

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By *himanMan
over a year ago

chichester

Yes quite a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes absolutely

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

Anyone i would like to fancy but dont??? . What the fuck ????. X x X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i havent wanted to hook up with anyone just because of their posts/posting style

maybe its different for us guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ruby, Evie, Blackspice, Mr Mahogany, Fabio, Crystal Wheels, Miss Hottie, Ryan, Obi...I'm feeling the love people!

so u think they are all unattractive? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.... lots....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So the question is who you think you SHOULD fancy, but you don't?

Not quite. Is there anyone you'd like to fancy. Although you find their personality and posts appealing, you don't find them physically attractive."

Ah I see.

Its a difficult question to answer, because the things that make people sexually attractive aren't always obvious. I'm not gonna be one of these people who say 'personality everytime' because not everyone who's personality I like I'm sexually attracted to, but having said that, a meet I had with a girl YEARS ago I still think back to, she really wasn't much to look at, but there was just something about her strong personality and feistiness that was incredibly erotic, my cock was tingling throughout our meet, her kisses and oral technique were both 5 stars and I was just amazed by the whole experience.

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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I've obviously not been clear with the question.

Sod it! I know what I mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm there a couple I wouldnt like to fancy but I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes just looked again. My mind and brain going quicker that my words.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"Ruby, Evie, Blackspice, Mr Mahogany, Fabio, Crystal Wheels, Miss Hottie, Ryan, Obi...I'm feeling the love people!

so u think they are all unattractive? lol"

which ruby? I am not alone on here lol

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"I've obviously not been clear with the question.

Sod it! I know what I mean

I know what you mean. And yes there are people on here that I get on really well with etc and all would be great but I'm just not attracted to them that way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find this subject ironic as there are many I would have been initiallly attracted to in the past that I now find I don't fancy and vice versa. I am now have a very different perspective on who I get turned on by.

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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I've obviously not been clear with the question.

Sod it! I know what I mean

I know what you mean. And yes there are people on here that I get on really well with etc and all would be great but I'm just not attracted to them that way x "

Thank gawd for that.

I'm clearly having a dodgy communication skills day.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

was one bloke whose posts were thought provoking but did nowt for me but hes left now anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but their are a few people I fancied till I read their posts

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"I've obviously not been clear with the question.

Sod it! I know what I mean

I know what you mean. And yes there are people on here that I get on really well with etc and all would be great but I'm just not attracted to them that way x

Thank gawd for that.

I'm clearly having a dodgy communication skills day."

Ha!! I've known blokes like that in real life though, we get on so well and they are lovely, kind, funny blah blah soukd make great boyfriend material but I just didn't fancy them at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"think this thread could upset a few lol

I'm not asking for names."

Damn! And I was gonna say Ryan!

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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I've obviously not been clear with the question.

Sod it! I know what I mean

I know what you mean. And yes there are people on here that I get on really well with etc and all would be great but I'm just not attracted to them that way x

Thank gawd for that.

I'm clearly having a dodgy communication skills day.

Ha!! I've known blokes like that in real life though, we get on so well and they are lovely, kind, funny blah blah soukd make great boyfriend material but I just didn't fancy them at all

Yeah, I can identify with that too. One has now married someone else and I've lost him as a friend totally as she's not happy with him having single female friends, even though I could have got together with him before he even met her.

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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Oh, my answer since I haven't given it is yes, there are a few.

Sometimes I read a person's posts and they are clearly really intelligent, which is a huuuuge turn on for me, but I look at the profile and either they aren't into something about me, or I don't find them physically appealing.

It can be very disappointing sometimes.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Ruby, Evie, Blackspice, Mr Mahogany, Fabio, Crystal Wheels, Miss Hottie, Ryan, Obi...I'm feeling the love people!

Are you calling me a minger _iss_tress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"think this thread could upset a few lol"

Only if people make little snipey comments - but then its the forums and that happens on a daily basis!

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By *erseyjimmyciMan
over a year ago

Jersey

"I fancy miss cheeky.

That's not the question

Agree with miss cheeky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No but their are a few people I fancied till I read their posts

Ahhh fuck

I can't answer this question, those I fancy are a combination of their posts and how they look.

I don't want to name anyone as I don't want them to think I'm calling them ugly

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Pops in to see how many time she has come up. Is shocked and upset beyond words that my notoriety hasn't got me named yet, so pops back out to infest another thread

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"think this thread could upset a few lol

I'm not asking for names.

Damn! And I was gonna say Ryan!

Was that before or after you wrung ya apple catchers out?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"think this thread could upset a few lol

I'm not asking for names.

Damn! And I was gonna say Ryan!

Was that before or after you wrung ya apple catchers out?

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remember what I said to you the other day

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

I've got an opposite situ - there's someone i fancy but most the time we just argue in the forums

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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"No but their are a few people I fancied till I read their posts

Ahhh fuck

I can't answer this question, those I fancy are a combination of their posts and how they look.

I don't want to name anyone as I don't want them to think I'm calling them ugly

Again, I'm not asking for names. Just yes or no and relevant comments.

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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I've got an opposite situ - there's someone i fancy but most the time we just argue in the forums

That could make for some intense shagging though.

You don't necessarily have to have the same views to get along, as long as you can each accept the other sees things differently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Conversely, how many people on here don't you like, yet find strangely attractive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Conversely, how many people on here don't you like, yet find strangely attractive?

...tch, beaten to it!

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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Conversely, how many people on here don't you like, yet find strangely attractive?"

Nobody. If I don't like their persona and/or posts, I don't find them attractive.

Some that I don't much like I can see are good looking or have a nice body but I don't find them attractive personally.

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

"I've got an opposite situ - there's someone i fancy but most the time we just argue in the forums

That could make for some intense shagging though.

You don't necessarily have to have the same views to get along, as long as you can each accept the other sees things differently."

We're giving each other the silent treatment rather than kill each other with posts

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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I've got an opposite situ - there's someone i fancy but most the time we just argue in the forums

That could make for some intense shagging though.

You don't necessarily have to have the same views to get along, as long as you can each accept the other sees things differently.

We're giving each other the silent treatment rather than kill each other with posts

You've agreed to do that, or it's just happened?

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By *uckyinlustMan
over a year ago

manchester

"I fancy miss cheeky.

Hands off ............

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over a year ago

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe

We've met 2 cpls in the past didn't have fun with them but had a seriously good night of laughter with

Infact met em twice lol x

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By *uckyinlustMan
over a year ago

manchester

Hehehehe hehehehe .......

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"think this thread could upset a few lol

I'm not asking for names.

Damn! And I was gonna say Ryan!

Was that before or after you wrung ya apple catchers out?

remember what I said to you the other day

Did you tell me off? I remember some impolite names lol

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

"I've got an opposite situ - there's someone i fancy but most the time we just argue in the forums

That could make for some intense shagging though.

You don't necessarily have to have the same views to get along, as long as you can each accept the other sees things differently.

We're giving each other the silent treatment rather than kill each other with posts

You've agreed to do that, or it's just happened?"

Unspoken truce

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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I've got an opposite situ - there's someone i fancy but most the time we just argue in the forums

That could make for some intense shagging though.

You don't necessarily have to have the same views to get along, as long as you can each accept the other sees things differently.

We're giving each other the silent treatment rather than kill each other with posts

You've agreed to do that, or it's just happened?

Unspoken truce

Message them. Say you know and accept you have differences of opinion but you find them attractive. They may not be interested but what do you have to lose?

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

"Pops in to see how many time she has come up. Is shocked and upset beyond words that my notoriety hasn't got me named yet, so pops back out to infest another thread

Yep TinaTitz cause she's just friggin lurffffffly

Get your boobs back in here chick

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

"I've got an opposite situ - there's someone i fancy but most the time we just argue in the forums

That could make for some intense shagging though.

You don't necessarily have to have the same views to get along, as long as you can each accept the other sees things differently.

We're giving each other the silent treatment rather than kill each other with posts

You've agreed to do that, or it's just happened?

Unspoken truce

Message them. Say you know and accept you have differences of opinion but you find them attractive. They may not be interested but what do you have to lose?"

Cause we can't pm

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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I've got an opposite situ - there's someone i fancy but most the time we just argue in the forums

That could make for some intense shagging though.

You don't necessarily have to have the same views to get along, as long as you can each accept the other sees things differently.

We're giving each other the silent treatment rather than kill each other with posts

You've agreed to do that, or it's just happened?

Unspoken truce

Message them. Say you know and accept you have differences of opinion but you find them attractive. They may not be interested but what do you have to lose?

Cause we can't pm

Ah, that makes it tricky

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

There are a number of people on here I'm sure I could get on with as a mate but wouldn't want it to go any further. Similarly there are plenty I fancy the pants off but am pretty sure I haven't got a chance with. And thirdly there are people I have found physically very attractive but their posts have really put me off.

Think that's all bases covered!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Yep TinaTitz cause she's just friggin lurffffffly

Get your boobs back in here chick

Returns to plague this thread

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

Yep TinaTitz cause she's just friggin lurffffffly

Get your boobs back in here chick

Returns to plague this thread

Boobies

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Opposite for me. I though I fancied someone on here but after meeting them at a social realised I didn't."

This ...liked the look of people and quite fancied them but in person thought they were pricks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Opposite for me. I though I fancied someone on here but after meeting them at a social realised I didn't."

this

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'd like to meet quite a few people who post on the forum. There'd be a few others that I don't want to meet. There are fewer I'd like to have sex with. I think I might have misinterpreted the question

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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Yeah, I think you might but don't worry because so did a lot of other people, so the question isn't clear enough.

Put it like this...

You're on the forum and you notice someone you've not noticed before. Some of their posts really interest you, for whatever reason, maybe you like their sense of humour, or their sharp wit or their excellent grasp of textspeak. You like how they come across and it occurs to you that you might get on well if you met.

You look at their profile and their photos and are disappointed to discover that you find them physically unattractive. A social meet might be on the cards at some point but you won't be trading witty banter or textspeak in bed.

You wish you found them attractive because you're sure with the "connection" you feel, the sex would be great.

The question is has that happened to you and are there people you feel that way about? (I'm not asking for names!)

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

There are forum people I find physically attractive but they say things in posts that put me off.

There are forum people I don't find physically attractive but love their posts.

There are forum people I didn't fancy until I met them.

I haven't really had a play meet with any forum people. I simply don't know how to convert the banter into the request as I wouldn't like to spoil what I enjoy on the forum.

* please note: physically attractive is based only on the photos I have seen. In person that attraction could go either way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are forum people I find physically attractive but they say things in posts that put me off.

There are forum people I don't find physically attractive but love their posts.

There are forum people I didn't fancy until I met them.

I haven't really had a play meet with any forum people. I simply don't know how to convert the banter into the request as I wouldn't like to spoil what I enjoy on the forum.

* please note: physically attractive is based only on the photos I have seen. In person that attraction could go either way.

How true is that!!??

...i can never convert anything either. Just can't do it - just hope with my fingers and legs crossed that they know i'm attracted to them. But, i won't say it lol.

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