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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This afternoon my elderly dog was put to sleep leaving my two younger dogs very bewildered and myself devastated.Its just the hardest part of owning a pet.Ive also just found out that a woman not too far from me has been charged with allowing her german shepherd and lurcher dogs to starve to death.Frankly I'd love to see her put down!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This afternoon my elderly dog was put to sleep leaving my two younger dogs very bewildered and myself devastated.Its just the hardest part of owning a pet.Ive also just found out that a woman not too far from me has been charged with allowing her german shepherd and lurcher dogs to starve to death.Frankly I'd love to see her put down!!"

Thats so sad, and I do agree with you she should

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

very sad indeed...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

He was 18 years old so its a big gap in our lives.The vet came to my house to help him get to sleep which was so much nicer than going to the surgery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so sorry to read this. I've had to do it once and I'll never get another dog again while I'm single. I just couldn't cope with it again. Broke my heart. Big cwtch and take care x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm so sorry to read this. I've had to do it once and I'll never get another dog again while I'm single. I just couldn't cope with it again. Broke my heart. Big cwtch and take care x"

Thankyou.The two younger ones haven't eaten this evening and seem to be very much aware he is no longer here.x

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

sad for you & both your other dogs hunni just consentrate on your great memories with your dog all the things that make you smile and make a fuss of your other two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so sorry to hear of your loss of a true friend sleep well pup xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sad for you & both your other dogs hunni just consentrate on your great memories with your dog all the things that make you smile and make a fuss of your other two "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I don't have pets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we lost one of our dogs this yr he was only 8 yrs old its heartbreaking

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

that's why I wont get any more animals its hard when they have to go hope you are ok soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's ever so sad when pets die, but the joy they bring to us throughout their lives outweighs the sadness of their deaths. Your boy was 18 and must have been a very happy chap with you as a friend - he travelled the journey and reached the end safe and sound, you can't ask any more than that.

When you feel you're up to it, maybe adopt an older dog? There are many that need a family like yours.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

It is a very hard thing to do and very sad for you

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

You have my thoughts and condolences.

I'm a hideous mess when I lose a cat but as much as it hurts at the time is still think the joy of their live hugely outweighs the pain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So sorry, we feel for you it's just the worst thing, but memories help you get through it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big hug to you and your family. They leave such a big whole in our lives. Treasure the memories and happy times xx

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Big hug to you and your family. They leave such a big whole in our lives. Treasure the memories and happy times xx"

Thankyou.He was such a big dope!If he had been human,he would have been a 1970's hippy with a very dodgy joint hanging out of his mouth!xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

How sad, sorry to here that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry for you loss, sending you my love xx

Heart breaking isn't it, but that is damn good age xx

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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

"Big hug to you and your family. They leave such a big whole in our lives. Treasure the memories and happy times xx

Thankyou.He was such a big dope!If he had been human,he would have been a 1970's hippy with a very dodgy joint hanging out of his mouth!xx"

Sounds like a was a grand little chappie bless him and bless u, so so sorry!!!

I have 3 cats and it breaks my heart to think of being without them xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Big hug to you and your family. They leave such a big whole in our lives. Treasure the memories and happy times xx

Thankyou.He was such a big dope!If he had been human,he would have been a 1970's hippy with a very dodgy joint hanging out of his mouth!xx

Sounds like a was a grand little chappie bless him and bless u, so so sorry!!!

I have 3 cats and it breaks my heart to think of being without them xxxxx"

We are a nation of animal lovers and thank god we are!!xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im sorry for your loss and just before christmas too. Our little dog was 16 when she died i got another soon after because i couldnt stop crying, couldnt sleep and was in a terible state.

i dont know how people can mistreat their pets.

The vet said when my son and hubby took our dog to be put down, they are part of the family and its true they are.

I felt like i had lost a child.

I make a fuss of my little dog because i know how much i miss them when they have gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He was 18 years old so its a big gap in our lives.The vet came to my house to help him get to sleep which was so much nicer than going to the surgery."

That's so sad, I'm sorry to hear that. Its great he lived that long but in a way it must make it harder.

When I was growing up we had this amazing lab cross red setter who was the daftest, friendliest dog ever. My brother got him just before I was born and he died just before my 18th birthday! When they are part of your family for so long its a huge loss.

Just think about the wonderful life you gave him - I'm sure he was one of the lucky ones!

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

sympathise massively with your loss ..only had one dog in my life and when i lost her i couldnt function or stop crying for so long. some people were very cruel ..telling me i need to 'get over it ...it was a dog'

ive never had another dog since but i do mind other peoples dogs for them and walk them while they are at work ..got one bunking me off the sofa right now ..the little bugger !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When one of my cats was run over, someone lay her body on the grass and another of my cats kept running up to her and nudging her, couldn't seem to understand why she wouldn't get up

I am sorry for your loss too, its very heart breaking and a sad time

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

Sorry for your loss, pets are part of the family. Our dog was also 18 when we had to have him put down. Sadly our other one who was younger and healthy collapsed in front of my young niece and nephew. He had a heart attack. You have given your dog the greatest gift as he is now free from pain. As for that woman words cant describe her. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am very sorry to hear this and I know what you're going through as I've recently gone through the same.

My 13 year old spaniel died in October, she had cancer. I am still upset over it and I really miss her. The house is so empty.

Take care and I hope things feel easier in time. At least you gave him a comfortable life with lots of love x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry for your loss, pets are part of the family. Our dog was also 18 when we had to have him put down. Sadly our other one who was younger and healthy collapsed in front of my young niece and nephew. He had a heart attack. You have given your dog the greatest gift as he is now free from pain. As for that woman words cant describe her. X"

She is scum and that's me being kind!My local shop have said they will turn her away if she goes in again!May I ask what kind of dog your 18 year old was?Liam was a lab/border collie cross.Im very sorry to hear what happened to your younger dog.x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im so heartened by everyones kind words on my post.Thankfully the dreadful woman I mentioned is in the minority.xx

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Its horrible to have a pet put down, I had my last dog put to sleep at home and I cuddled him as the vet gave him the jab...you have my heartfelt sympathies xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so sorry to hear about your loss, sending you big hugs at this very sad time xx

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

Perry was also a border collie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry for your loss.

a family pet is always difficult to let go. my thoughts are with you and your family.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Perry was also a border collie."

Very hardy dogs!Liam only really calmed down when he was 15!

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

Sorry our other dog was a big alsation he was 10 . I had another dog she was a funny looking thing as she looked like a labby but was white and had the markings of a jack Russell. She was 18 as well when we had to have her put down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so sorry we have two dogs one is five, the same age as my lad, they've grown up together, now she'll hopefully reach 15 plus...

The thought has crossed my mind so many times... I'm dreading it.. But more so for my lad.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

When one was my beloved cats was run over and killed earlier this year, I posted in the lounge and a lovely forumite replied with this poem, I've got tears running down my cheeks after reading it again while copying it for you...I hope it helps

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When one was my beloved cats was run over and killed earlier this year, I posted in the lounge and a lovely forumite replied with this poem, I've got tears running down my cheeks after reading it again while copying it for you...I hope it helps

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together...."

That is a lovely prose.Thankyou so much.xx

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

You have my sympathies. It's awful losing a friend and even worse when you have to make the decision. But, you wouldn't want him to live in pain and misery so you did the loving, kind thing. The hard thing.

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