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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've always been pretty dominant but have always want to try being completely submissive.

Like saying fuck it... do what you want and I'll comply.

But I worry that this would lead to something extreme that would be no fun at all.

I think about not just what they would want to do but who it would be.

It's a frustrating cycle. Perhaps it simply means I'm not at that point I could just let go.

Anyone else taken that plunge and how did it go? Whats the most important things to keep in mind?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you have switch tendencies.

Limits and boundaries are important, as is communication with those you are wanting to play with

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I agree... Communication and safe word, and play with only people who you trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You won't know until you try x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Choose someone you trust. Switch is fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Choose someone you trust. Switch is fun. "

Very much so

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By *istermuffmanMan
over a year ago

Oldbury

I took that plunge after having submissive feelings. I was feeling a need to serve a dominant female.

But when it came to 'letting go' as you describe it. I ended up role playing, I couldn't totally submit but I did play the part. However, it was a good experience and would suggest you give it a try if only to know your own mind.

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By *nttake2Couple
over a year ago

South

switching is evil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"switching is evil "

And devine too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"switching is evil

And devine too "

Most of the good things are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex tried to make me sub & I do have the tendencies. But I could not abide being humiliated in a cuckold way by someone other than a partner. But my ex wanted to severely limit how often I got a shag. I don't understand why that always seems to go hand in hand-bloke is sub, so he doesn't get sex. I wouldn't be swinging if I didn't have a high sex drive, so I don't understand. So I'll have to be Dom then.

But for all subs, it is ultimately not being responsible for anything that happens.

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By *nttake2Couple
over a year ago

South

"But for all subs it is ultimately about not being in control of anything that happens"

Not entirely true.

By actively giving over control to the Dom, the sub is ultimately controlling the whole scenario. It's a total paradox, I know.

Each to their own though. We are a Dom/sub couple with very clearly defined identities. Neither one of us would possibly be able, let alone willing to switch. And we are totally happy with that.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Experiencing both is often really useful, as it can be a great place to learn from, as well as get inspiration for things that you can do when switched over. As with any sex, it is always right to have all boundaries and interests out in the open up front and it must all be consensual.

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