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Ever wish you'd lied about your age?

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By *estlands4 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth

Picture it - someone new appears in your local list. You click on them, great photos, their wants match yours looking good but oh no you're a couple of years too old

Not loads and as I'm reasonably fit I could get away with being a few years younger but oh no I told the truth all those years ago when I signed up - so this new person appears to be a dead cert and great match would you be tempted to change your age just so you could contact them even if it meant creating a new profile?

If so are there any profiles on here where you've been tempted or worse still done exactly that? lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are not a perfect match , you are out of their age range.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

But your not a great match cause your out their age range

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"You are not a perfect match , you are out of their age range. "
snap

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

My only regret is not being able to compliment them on their pics. The regret lasts for about 15 seconds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are not a perfect match , you are out of their age range. snap

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By *estlands4 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth

Ah buts that's what I'm saying just a year or 2 as you get older a couple of years surely wouldn't matter - and depending on how far things went they might never know - let's be honest here how much information on here is 100% accurate anyway - fake profiles, singles pretending to be couples - real names etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always rejected for being too young

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

I have thought about this Westlands but in the end the way I see it is they are the ones missing out. And there's no such thing as the perfect match, perfection is overrated it's the imperfections that make someone's character.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

They might appear to be a "dead cert" on paper but thats no guarantee they will be in real life. If you lie about your age you will forget and let it slip people have done with us including a guy telling us all about his first holiday to Ibiza with his mates, only the year he said would have made him 11

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, you don't meet their requirements so forget it and move on.

To create another profile is devious.

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By *estlands4 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth

I'm full of character then mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They might appear to be a "dead cert" on paper but thats no guarantee they will be in real life. If you lie about your age you will forget and let it slip people have done with us including a guy telling us all about his first holiday to Ibiza with his mates, only the year he said would have made him 11 "

School trip?

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock


"I'm full of character then mate "

Yep me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lying about height or age is never a good thing as you will be found out and then rejected for lying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I respect that they don't want an old git (or juvenile) like me and move on. If they have a remarkable physical feature or a particular way with words in their profile, then I might compliment them, mentioning that I'm aware I am outside their preferences.

The ones worth their salt reply, confirming their stipulated preferences, and thank me all the same. I appreciate that women have a full-time job replying to their messages.

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By *estlands4 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth

Exactly L - it's not something I would do - but here's something suppose they've been on here for say 3 years but you're just 1 year out of their age range - it doesn't change year on year does it so strictly speaking despite the filters saying otherwise you could actually be in their range - just a thought

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Lying about height or age is never a good thing as you will be found out and then rejected for lying"

And escroted from rides at Alton Towers, just as the ghost train starts up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lying about height or age is never a good thing as you will be found out and then rejected for lying

And escroted from rides at Alton Towers, just as the ghost train starts up "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmm quite a few telling porkies about their age on here already, it seems.

Seen a few females where they have been 40 for 4 or 5 years now...now my maths is shocking....but how does that work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah buts that's what I'm saying just a year or 2 as you get older a couple of years surely wouldn't matter - and depending on how far things went they might never know - let's be honest here how much information on here is 100% accurate anyway - fake profiles, singles pretending to be couples - real names etc etc "

The year or two obviously matters to them , and lying about yourself is not the best way to organise a meet.

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By *estlands4 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth

Ah but comt you can't do that if they block anyone outside their age range which many do....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once had to produce I.D to prove that I really was 28 on a meet once

I say 'had' I did it on my own accord

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

I'd rather be honest about my age and know that I'm wearing pretty well than say I was younger and maybe looking like the miles were showing. Billy Connolly always said if you want to lie about your age add 10 years on that way you look fucking tip top!

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By *estlands4 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth

Polks - see my previous post about the year or two...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah but comt you can't do that if they block anyone outside their age range which many do...."

I'm blocked on so many fronts, male, single, age. I hold a party for every profile I can view.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I never lie

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

Not on here, and wouldn't do so either.

Just wish I was younger for about 2 seconds then forgotten

about and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mmm quite a few telling porkies about their age on here already, it seems.

Seen a few females where they have been 40 for 4 or 5 years now...now my maths is shocking....but how does that work?

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You can only change your age once on here so that would be untrue. Unless that have created new accounts.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"They might appear to be a "dead cert" on paper but thats no guarantee they will be in real life. If you lie about your age you will forget and let it slip people have done with us including a guy telling us all about his first holiday to Ibiza with his mates, only the year he said would have made him 11

School trip?"

Only if his school allowed all night sex, bars and parties.....so come to think of it yes, it probably was a school trip

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By *estlands4 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth

QueenofT you've been on over a year should your 50 now be 51?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Polks - see my previous post about the year or two... "

Maybe it's the age gap that's their preference and not a particular age.

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

This is the reason I won't block anyone dependent on age. We have a rough age set but it's not set in stone. People don't change overnight when they have a birthday and become too old for your stated preferences.

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock


"This is the reason I won't block anyone dependent on age. We have a rough age set but it's not set in stone. People don't change overnight when they have a birthday and become too old for your stated preferences."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mmm quite a few telling porkies about their age on here already, it seems.

Seen a few females where they have been 40 for 4 or 5 years now...now my maths is shocking....but how does that work?

You can only change your age once on here so that would be untrue. Unless that have created new accounts. "

Yes, def new accounts with the same piccies - Note to self must make a new profile every year from now on

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By *estlands4 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth


"This is the reason I won't block anyone dependent on age. We have a rough age set but it's not set in stone. People don't change overnight when they have a birthday and become too old for your stated preferences."

Exactly Rosie that's my point - and wow that's some figure you have there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lie

Shag 'em

If they're good in the sack, keep the lie going.

If they aint, change your age back.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

So what happens when you change your age to get though their filters, message them, get knocked back, then see another profile where you would have been perfect....if you hadn't changed your age?

If a profile filters you out, move on. You never know, if they are local you may meet them as a social and then can charm them in person.

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

No I am me, they either accept me for me or miss out on me

This explains why admin got strict on the date of birth thing though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wish i changed my age. as a lot of people say im too young

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I think a few do lie about it., I don't but I have met some who do...

It makes me feel a little unsure about the person as I have a great relationship with honesty

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By *estlands4 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth

Exactly folks - the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence or is it?

If everyone told the truth life would be simple - I wouldn't have to worry about whether that lady is actually a lady and not a bloke or why the female half of the couple was always asleep in bed (actually the amount my mrs sleeps that could be true!)

There are lots of players and fakes and I guess if we were all who our profiles say we are and paid attention to what others were looking for we wouldn't need to block anyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"QueenofT you've been on over a year should your 50 now be 51? "

Cheeky ! your age changes automically when its your Birthday

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By *estlands4 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth

Not your age queen but the age of those you are looking for - you're still down as 48

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not your age queen but the age of those you are looking for - you're still down as 48 "

Oh your right I need to change it to 45

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm turning 40 soon and I have the odd younger "seeking older" and when I read the message I'm thinking "have I entered that category" who's older I'm still 25 in my head ha ha

Oh how cruel life is lol

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

If someone lies to me about a trivial thing like age, I'd be wondering what else are they lying about?

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By *estlands4 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth

I'd just like to point out - if any of you have read my profile you will no doubt realise - I haven't lied about my circumstances

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By *estlands4 OP   Man
over a year ago

Sidmouth

I'd just like to point out - if any of you have read my profile you will no doubt realise - I haven't lied about my circumstances

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

There are two lies on my profile: Amy Gdala is not my real name and I didn't put the correct date of birth. That means that on the site I age a little earlier than my actual birthday.

I am amazed at how many men in their forties managed to be born so many years before me and yet still manage to be in their forties.

I have moved my age limit up as I have aged as that seems fair but then I find that I am catching those that claim to be in their fifties but who are actually in their sixties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish we had .lots of age restrictions on here but i dint look my age at all .more in my thirtys ,poppyxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mmm quite a few telling porkies about their age on here already, it seems.

Seen a few females where they have been 40 for 4 or 5 years now...now my maths is shocking....but how does that work?

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Yes I was meeting a nice lady many years back on here and still i can see the fountain of eternal youth blesses her.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

It would be a waste of time as there will always be plenty of single men and ladies as hot as him/her matching my criteria within my age range that I can contact xx

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