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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Am I alone in thinking that sometimes there can just be too much information written down when it comes to posting your general stuff at the end of a profile?

I find that too many likes, dislikes, must and must not type stuff becomes boring. I believe in putting what you want but seemingly endless paragraphs are just too much to read. Maybe its just me or perhaps its a general feeling?

D.

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

Feel the same. (too brief an answer?)

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Likewise

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha _eerob, love the irony!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree.

Btw can u can mine and give me some pointers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the excessively long profiles. Being a typical man I don't read them, my instinct tells me that they are not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel the same about photos

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

If people want something very specific, why not be clear about it?

Yeah, some profiles are long but generally those people know what they want, or sometimes what they don't want.

They're more helpful than "will fill in later" or "looking for fun".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I alone in thinking that sometimes there can just be too much information written down when it comes to posting your general stuff at the end of a profile?

I find that too many likes, dislikes, must and must not type stuff becomes boring. I believe in putting what you want but seemingly endless paragraphs are just too much to read. Maybe its just me or perhaps its a general feeling?

D. "

Hence why I rewrote mine recently. It used to be quite long. Now its just a bit of waffle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

also the ones that read like a takeaway menu of what they do. Almost like telling you what's in your Christmas presents before you open them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Voluptuous, i agree totally with what you say, but i think there is a clear line between putting your preferences across and putting useless information in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh mine is HUGE !!!!!

Profile is long too

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Voluptuous, i agree totally with what you say, but i think there is a clear line between putting your preferences across and putting useless information in "

I agree there's a line. I'm not sure it's always clear, but yes, there's a line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Voluptuous, i agree totally with what you say, but i think there is a clear line between putting your preferences across and putting useless information in "

My profile used to be short and informative and I was happy with it. But after numerous messages and a horde of cock pics and hassle from fabbers demanding meets I changed mine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha Bexx.

There is nothing nicer than a surprise, why tell all? As with a previous comment too about too many pics. A few are ok but after a while its like- pic no.506, oh look she is sucking cock...... Again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are tick boxes for preferences, and filters to stop unwanteds messaging you. What more do you need?

Just enough blurb to show you are a real person

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Georgiana, i can see what you mean entirely. I understand about the pic trawlers and skip readers who are here, its a good way to filter them out, but there are guys here who are genuine nice guys, are you not bothered that you may be putting some of these off?

D xx

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley


"Voluptuous, i agree totally with what you say, but i think there is a clear line between putting your preferences across and putting useless information in

My profile used to be short and informative and I was happy with it. But after numerous messages and a horde of cock pics and hassle from fabbers demanding meets I changed mine"
+ us

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon


"I feel the same about photos"

Me too, especially when they are also the avatar for the profile so it's right in your face when reading messages.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I have a lengthy profile and it stays that way. It is hardly War and Peace, and, in fact, is probably about the same length as a tabloid news article which most people have little trouble reading.

It works as a filter. Those who are unable or cannot be bothered to read it are not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha Bexx.

There is nothing nicer than a surprise, why tell all? As with a previous comment too about too many pics. A few are ok but after a while its like- pic no.506, oh look she is sucking cock...... Again"

a naughty pic, sexy but not in your face pic, and a couple in private.

Saying that I do need some more tho, but as I add more I hide/delete others

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Terrynjune, just looked at yours (profile) I think its good, i would read it thoroughly if i were looking. Some are a bit news of the world ish!

D

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By *ach3Man
over a year ago

Watford

I agree that some profiles can be too long, and others far too short - however I hate saying no not interested when someone has plucked up the courage to either wink or contact me so at least they have some idea of whether I will be interested or not and whilst men may not always read a profile - women normally do.

Also agree with comment on photos, whilst the more intimate shots may be fun, artistic, & give some idea of what people are into - clear body shots always appreciated

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

People need to realise that they can put what they like on their profile as long as its legal.

Some like stories, some like preferences, some just the basics.

Too many people judge this and that and its getting boring.

And please look at yourselves before judging others.

If you don't like something MOVE ON...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a lengthy profile and it stays that way. It is hardly War and Peace, and, in fact, is probably about the same length as a tabloid news article which most people have little trouble reading.

It works as a filter. Those who are unable or cannot be bothered to read it are not for me."

This

Mine is colossal, but is an effective filter...if a guy can't spend 5 minutes reading it or feels the need to tell me he got bored half way through, he doesn't stand a snowflake's chance in hell of getting into my bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you don't like something MOVE ON..."

Evidence that people can't resist though.

I think it would be far more boring without the judging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is long and has all info, probably why my fab life is quiet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a profile on here that has cut and pasted the Sidney uni blurb and then says will fill in the rest later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours used to be very short. But we think it's more informative now it's a bit longer. We prefer profiles that give out people's likes and dislikes and preferences. That way it saves us messaging and being messaged.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think sometimes it is neither the length, nor the content that is off putting, but how it comes across. A profile with a lot of stuff in BLOCK CAPITALS doesn't come across well in my mind.

But, obviously those that rip off the format of popular game shows get a big thumbs up from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooooo you won't like ours then xx

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

You cannot please everyone, some like lots of info, some only look at profiles, I just do what pleases me, if others don't like it, I am not about to lose sleep over it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont like long profiles, i think they come across as being a bit too serious and pretentious, not my type at all.

rather boring. I dont mind lots of pictures though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love the excessively long profiles. Being a typical man I don't read them, my instinct tells me that they are not for me"

Mine's perfect for me. It says everything I want to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon as long as I'm happy with the response I get to my profile I've no reason to worry about how other people fare with theirs….

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Am I alone in thinking that sometimes there can just be too much information written down when it comes to posting your general stuff at the end of a profile?

I find that too many likes, dislikes, must and must not type stuff becomes boring. I believe in putting what you want but seemingly endless paragraphs are just too much to read. Maybe its just me or perhaps its a general feeling?

D. "

maybe you should use it as part of your Selection/Sifting process...

I know..... radical idea eh????

maybe its god's way of saying they are not for you.... and if you find it "boring" you are probably not for them.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I alone in thinking that sometimes there can just be too much information written down when it comes to posting your general stuff at the end of a profile?

I find that too many likes, dislikes, must and must not type stuff becomes boring. I believe in putting what you want but seemingly endless paragraphs are just too much to read. Maybe its just me or perhaps its a general feeling?

D. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't think our profile is to long winded, but we are looking for something very specific. Most of the p.m.'s we get, the person hasn't read it anyway. So we send them a "Sorry, no thanks." Or delete the friends request.

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