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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was browsing through profiles today, n saw a number or them really being quite obnoxious towards people. eg:- If you are ugly or fat don't contact us cause we don't take one for the team.

In my humble opinion, we are all different, whether appealing to someone or not to another but to be so disrespectful and asking or dictating somebody who may perhaps contact the above and to be told no thanks you are ugly or fat to me is pretty obnoxious.

We indeed are all different of all varying sizes etc but for me swinging is more of meeting lots of people who I can have fun with, why are looks so defined that people become nasty about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would think most people have this thought in their heads but would never actually say it out loud.

I think you're right, if someone had that on their profile I'd think they were a bit odd, incredibly rude and I'd avoid them.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I find it useful if people put things like this on their profile: I know who to avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it useful if people put things like this on their profile: I know who to avoid.

"

Although had to giggle at one where she had said she wouldn't meet men who played with BBW's...she mustn't have noticed my veri on about 3 of the profiles she has played with after me! (Yes I'm sometimes easily amused )

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Oh my! Avoid them every time... On the bright side least they showing their true colours from the start... Not for us... At all!

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"I was browsing through profiles today, n saw a number or them really being quite obnoxious towards people. eg:- If you are ugly or fat don't contact us cause we don't take one for the team.

In my humble opinion, we are all different, whether appealing to someone or not to another but to be so disrespectful and asking or dictating somebody who may perhaps contact the above and to be told no thanks you are ugly or fat to me is pretty obnoxious.

We indeed are all different of all varying sizes etc but for me swinging is more of meeting lots of people who I can have fun with, why are looks so defined that people become nasty about it. "

So they only want slim good looking people. So what?

Why don't you mention the women who only want men who are VWE? Or profiles who only want people over a certain height? Or ones that only want playmates of a particular skin colour? Or ones that don't want someone of a particular skin colour?

Out of all the stipulations people put on their profiles why does someone not wanting to play with fat ugly people offend you the most?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Preferences themselves aren't offensive it's the way some stipulate them that is offensive x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Preferences themselves aren't offensive it's the way some stipulate them that is offensive x"

Exactly what I was going to type

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I was browsing through profiles today, n saw a number or them really being quite obnoxious towards people. eg:- If you are ugly or fat don't contact us cause we don't take one for the team.

In my humble opinion, we are all different, whether appealing to someone or not to another but to be so disrespectful and asking or dictating somebody who may perhaps contact the above and to be told no thanks you are ugly or fat to me is pretty obnoxious.

We indeed are all different of all varying sizes etc but for me swinging is more of meeting lots of people who I can have fun with, why are looks so defined that people become nasty about it.

So they only want slim good looking people. So what?

Why don't you mention the women who only want men who are VWE? Or profiles who only want people over a certain height? Or ones that only want playmates of a particular skin colour? Or ones that don't want someone of a particular skin colour?

Out of all the stipulations people put on their profiles why does someone not wanting to play with fat ugly people offend you the most? "

I don't mind men that have small willies.....I do look for men that have an arse like yours though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Preferences themselves aren't offensive it's the way some stipulate them that is offensive x"

I dont play with speccy women

unless they let me wank over their specs(while wearing them)(on their faces)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once read a couples profile and it was obvious the guy wrote it and he came across really obnoxious - but I still went on the meet (another site) - Boy he was even worse it reality and she was lovely

But still a lesson learnt for me - stay away from profiles that give you the wrong vibe !

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Nothing at all wrong with preferences, best to set out their boundaries at the start. I think people would be better of saying what they do want as opposed to moaning about what they don't want, but hey it's their profile and their rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Preferences themselves aren't offensive it's the way some stipulate them that is offensive x"

That's what I meant to say.

I didn't mean I have anything against ugly fat people. I am one.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"Preferences themselves aren't offensive it's the way some stipulate them that is offensive x"

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

i wouldn't want to meet them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For me I don't care, I really don't. I am more into having a laugh and meeting fun people. So what if they have a bigger body than others. I don't care, does that make them less of a person. Nope. I once emailed a girl and she replied back to me with her photo and yep I was guilty of looks are so important, but she said to me I am a nice person. I actually went to meet with her and I have to say she was a wonderfully gorgeous person. I was the one who was blessed to meet her. I learn't a very valid lesson from that. It is about the person. The personality. not the looks. I know there has to be an attraction but there are some wonderful people out there, who for me I really pray I get to meet.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"I was browsing through profiles today, n saw a number or them really being quite obnoxious towards people. eg:- If you are ugly or fat don't contact us cause we don't take one for the team.

In my humble opinion, we are all different, whether appealing to someone or not to another but to be so disrespectful and asking or dictating somebody who may perhaps contact the above and to be told no thanks you are ugly or fat to me is pretty obnoxious.

We indeed are all different of all varying sizes etc but for me swinging is more of meeting lots of people who I can have fun with, why are looks so defined that people become nasty about it.

So they only want slim good looking people. So what?

Why don't you mention the women who only want men who are VWE? Or profiles who only want people over a certain height? Or ones that only want playmates of a particular skin colour? Or ones that don't want someone of a particular skin colour?

Out of all the stipulations people put on their profiles why does someone not wanting to play with fat ugly people offend you the most?

I don't mind men that have small willies.....I do look for men that have an arse like yours though "

Ah, but I fall spectacularly short of one of your preferences though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was browsing through profiles today, n saw a number or them really being quite obnoxious towards people. eg:- If you are ugly or fat don't contact us cause we don't take one for the team.

In my humble opinion, we are all different, whether appealing to someone or not to another but to be so disrespectful and asking or dictating somebody who may perhaps contact the above and to be told no thanks you are ugly or fat to me is pretty obnoxious.

We indeed are all different of all varying sizes etc but for me swinging is more of meeting lots of people who I can have fun with, why are looks so defined that people become nasty about it. "
ahmen

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I was browsing through profiles today, n saw a number or them really being quite obnoxious towards people. eg:- If you are ugly or fat don't contact us cause we don't take one for the team.

In my humble opinion, we are all different, whether appealing to someone or not to another but to be so disrespectful and asking or dictating somebody who may perhaps contact the above and to be told no thanks you are ugly or fat to me is pretty obnoxious.

We indeed are all different of all varying sizes etc but for me swinging is more of meeting lots of people who I can have fun with, why are looks so defined that people become nasty about it.

So they only want slim good looking people. So what?

Why don't you mention the women who only want men who are VWE? Or profiles who only want people over a certain height? Or ones that only want playmates of a particular skin colour? Or ones that don't want someone of a particular skin colour?

Out of all the stipulations people put on their profiles why does someone not wanting to play with fat ugly people offend you the most?

I don't mind men that have small willies.....I do look for men that have an arse like yours though

Ah, but I fall spectacularly short of one of your preferences though"

I'd make exceptions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it helps in my selection process to know what people think and say on their profiles.

I have met some Quasimodo look a likes from here, and they have turned out to be interesting, great in bed, and remember guys beauty is only a light switch away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Preferences themselves aren't offensive it's the way some stipulate them that is offensive x

I dont play with speccy women

unless they let me wank over their specs(while wearing them)(on their faces)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Preferences themselves aren't offensive it's the way some stipulate them that is offensive x"

there are polite ways of saying things without being rude and name calling. There was a man on my local updates last time I was here who frequently put up meets asking for 'good looking women only and no pigs'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Preferences themselves aren't offensive it's the way some stipulate them that is offensive x

That's what I meant to say.

I didn't mean I have anything against ugly fat people. I am one. "

Your also a fibber because your neither fat or ugly

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"For me I don't care, I really don't. I am more into having a laugh and meeting fun people. So what if they have a bigger body than others. I don't care, does that make them less of a person. Nope. I once emailed a girl and she replied back to me with her photo and yep I was guilty of looks are so important, but she said to me I am a nice person. I actually went to meet with her and I have to say she was a wonderfully gorgeous person. I was the one who was blessed to meet her. I learn't a very valid lesson from that. It is about the person. The personality. not the looks. I know there has to be an attraction but there are some wonderful people out there, who for me I really pray I get to meet. "

And I'm sure your inbox will now be filled with messages from women who consider themselves overweight and not so attractive. An excellent ploy. Well done, sir.

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By *uicybum62Woman
over a year ago

leeds

they may be mingers on here but they may be lovly people to chat to my mam allways says there his somebody out there for everybody its just finding them

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"I was browsing through profiles today, n saw a number or them really being quite obnoxious towards people. eg:- If you are ugly or fat don't contact us cause we don't take one for the team.

In my humble opinion, we are all different, whether appealing to someone or not to another but to be so disrespectful and asking or dictating somebody who may perhaps contact the above and to be told no thanks you are ugly or fat to me is pretty obnoxious.

We indeed are all different of all varying sizes etc but for me swinging is more of meeting lots of people who I can have fun with, why are looks so defined that people become nasty about it.

So they only want slim good looking people. So what?

Why don't you mention the women who only want men who are VWE? Or profiles who only want people over a certain height? Or ones that only want playmates of a particular skin colour? Or ones that don't want someone of a particular skin colour?

Out of all the stipulations people put on their profiles why does someone not wanting to play with fat ugly people offend you the most?

I don't mind men that have small willies.....I do look for men that have an arse like yours though

Ah, but I fall spectacularly short of one of your preferences though

I'd make exceptions "

Well you're certainly making me lol and

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Naw not for me. I am lucky enough to have had a few meets. I really meant what I said, I really do. I know some may think this is a ploy to get Oh Look At Me.... Nope this isn't one of them. it really pisses me off that some are so up themselves....

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I was browsing through profiles today, n saw a number or them really being quite obnoxious towards people. eg:- If you are ugly or fat don't contact us cause we don't take one for the team.

In my humble opinion, we are all different, whether appealing to someone or not to another but to be so disrespectful and asking or dictating somebody who may perhaps contact the above and to be told no thanks you are ugly or fat to me is pretty obnoxious.

We indeed are all different of all varying sizes etc but for me swinging is more of meeting lots of people who I can have fun with, why are looks so defined that people become nasty about it.

So they only want slim good looking people. So what?

Why don't you mention the women who only want men who are VWE? Or profiles who only want people over a certain height? Or ones that only want playmates of a particular skin colour? Or ones that don't want someone of a particular skin colour?

Out of all the stipulations people put on their profiles why does someone not wanting to play with fat ugly people offend you the most?

I don't mind men that have small willies.....I do look for men that have an arse like yours though

Ah, but I fall spectacularly short of one of your preferences though

I'd make exceptions

Well you're certainly making me lol and "

Misscheekychops at your service

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right Miss cheeky Chops, you gotta marry me rightnow and have my babies, well not my babies cause I am a jaffa but you get my meaning. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it useful if people put things like this on their profile: I know who to avoid.

"

Easy peezy, thread killer!

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

sometimes reading these forums, is like being at school again.

I really can't fathom that this is an adult site sometimes.

People should just let them be, it's their bodies ffs.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"For me I don't care, I really don't. I am more into having a laugh and meeting fun people. So what if they have a bigger body than others. I don't care, does that make them less of a person. Nope. I once emailed a girl and she replied back to me with her photo and yep I was guilty of looks are so important, but she said to me I am a nice person. I actually went to meet with her and I have to say she was a wonderfully gorgeous person. I was the one who was blessed to meet her. I learn't a very valid lesson from that. It is about the person. The personality. not the looks. I know there has to be an attraction but there are some wonderful people out there, who for me I really pray I get to meet. "
There are many people on this site who are far from perfect yet claim to want the people they are meeting to be just that lol

Im a big girl and I know im not everyones cup of tea but iaint here to be abused by people just because they dont like larger women and id defo avoid anyone with this type of comment on their profiles.

I too have preferances but would never be rude to someone just because they didn't fit my preferances .

Andy I pray to get to meet some wonderful people ive been chatting to on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now I agree so much totally, can I have a shag hehehehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm hairy. So many say shaved guys only but made an exception for one specific meet.....

Some like some not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree. We have our own particular tastes and we do say what we would prefer. Hopefully we done it in a nice way. We would never be nasty. Lots of people on here may have body issues. So if they read a profile that is quite mean I would imagine that makes them feel like shit. Like my mum used to say " if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nawty Miss Dynamite - fecking love your hair!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree. We have our own particular tastes and we do say what we would prefer. Hopefully we done it in a nice way. We would never be nasty. Lots of people on here may have body issues. So if they read a profile that is quite mean I would imagine that makes them feel like shit. Like my mum used to say " if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything" "

my mum used to say the same.

they thought i was mute until i was 17 lol

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Now I agree so much totally, can I have a shag hehehehe "
since you asked so nicly

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"Nawty Miss Dynamite - fecking love your hair!!!"
Thank you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am shocked at the OP... rejecting people just because they have an ugly mind

As others have said, they are kindly giving you a heads up on who to avoid.

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By *weetdebWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I once came across a "ladies" profile where her demands were ,no Asians ,no blacks,etc etc etc,,,then she stated that she liked army guys and also went on to name the camps where she wouldn't meet from....as an afterthought she then said "and oh yeah,no gingers"....her pics sort of made me wonder how she could afford to be so fussy....but hey ho some of those guys on her feedback were bloody HOT....makes me wonder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once came across a "ladies" profile where her demands were ,no Asians ,no blacks,etc etc etc,,,then she stated that she liked army guys and also went on to name the camps where she wouldn't meet from....as an afterthought she then said "and oh yeah,no gingers"....her pics sort of made me wonder how she could afford to be so fussy....but hey ho some of those guys on her feedback were bloody HOT....makes me wonder"

didn't your mum ever tell you,

Treat em mean keep them keen !

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

So many lovely people in this world, so little time. And some real twats who can make our lives easier by getting themselves to stand out so clearly. I walk around the dog shit, and avoid profile owners who are just too up themselves. There are ways of saying things that dont offend, upset or otherwise trouble others. It is usually better to say nothing - less is more, in other words. Anyway, have a lovely night all you decent souls on fab.

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By * times sexyCouple
over a year ago

Staffs

if people are rude just avoid them ,, simples !!! better still block them that makes them even more uptight lol

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"I once came across a "ladies" profile where her demands were ,no Asians ,no blacks,etc etc etc,,,then she stated that she liked army guys and also went on to name the camps where she wouldn't meet from....as an afterthought she then said "and oh yeah,no gingers"....her pics sort of made me wonder how she could afford to be so fussy....but hey ho some of those guys on her feedback were bloody HOT....makes me wonder"

That's easy. The word spread round the camps she was interested in. Forces guys are worse than non forces for shagging anything with a pulse.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"I agree. We have our own particular tastes and we do say what we would prefer. Hopefully we done it in a nice way. We would never be nasty. Lots of people on here may have body issues. So if they read a profile that is quite mean I would imagine that makes them feel like shit. Like my mum used to say " if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything"

my mum used to say the same.

they thought i was mute until i was 17 lol"

That made me chortle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree. We have our own particular tastes and we do say what we would prefer. Hopefully we done it in a nice way. We would never be nasty. Lots of people on here may have body issues. So if they read a profile that is quite mean I would imagine that makes them feel like shit. Like my mum used to say " if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything"

my mum used to say the same.

they thought i was mute until i was 17 lol"

Ha ha. That's ace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was browsing through profiles today, n saw a number or them really being quite obnoxious towards people. eg:- If you are ugly or fat don't contact us cause we don't take one for the team.

In my humble opinion, we are all different, whether appealing to someone or not to another but to be so disrespectful and asking or dictating somebody who may perhaps contact the above and to be told no thanks you are ugly or fat to me is pretty obnoxious.

We indeed are all different of all varying sizes etc but for me swinging is more of meeting lots of people who I can have fun with, why are looks so defined that people become nasty about it.

So they only want slim good looking people. So what?

Why don't you mention the women who only want men who are VWE? Or profiles who only want people over a certain height? Or ones that only want playmates of a particular skin colour? Or ones that don't want someone of a particular skin colour?

Out of all the stipulations people put on their profiles why does someone not wanting to play with fat ugly people offend you the most? "

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I was browsing through profiles today, n saw a number or them really being quite obnoxious towards people. eg:- If you are ugly or fat don't contact us cause we don't take one for the team.

In my humble opinion, we are all different, whether appealing to someone or not to another but to be so disrespectful and asking or dictating somebody who may perhaps contact the above and to be told no thanks you are ugly or fat to me is pretty obnoxious.

We indeed are all different of all varying sizes etc but for me swinging is more of meeting lots of people who I can have fun with, why are looks so defined that people become nasty about it. "

so... again.... use it as part of your selection process....

I would rather find out what people are like by reading now, than finding out later.......

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Best one I saw pretty much eliminated 90% of the human race with the differing peeps she wanted nothing to do with. The 'No Welsh' bit took the biscuit. I thought they don't have to start singing when they come round. Then I wondered if she had had a very bad experience watching Tom Jones as a kid, but then that is unusual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see the harm in stating what you do and don't like.

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

Luckily the picky profiles are clearly super models and not 1 is a plus size lass or couple after gym fit good looking professional couples.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"I don't see the harm in stating what you do and don't like."

No, I'd agree, but it is when it gets excessive or mindboggling that I do a

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some people who are up themselves you can tell just by reading their profiles, they dont have to say, no fat or ugly people, you just know they are thinking it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can tell a lot from a profile and I am sure a lot of others can too no matter now nice the pics are. Some you just would not wish to meet for fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does it matter though? Just move onto the next person.

Plenty of people state BBC or BBW, maybe people can be a little kinder in the way they word it but it is what it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it useful if people put things like this on their profile: I know who to avoid.

Although had to giggle at one where she had said she wouldn't meet men who played with BBW's...she mustn't have noticed my veri on about 3 of the profiles she has played with after me! (Yes I'm sometimes easily amused )"

Yes i've noticed this before, and laughed over it

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

If it is written with confidence, I applaud them

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