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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met? "

but I like u too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met? "

Yes, ladies fall in love with me all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can fall in love with the idea of someone I suppose

But whether or not they live up to that expectation is another matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its possible to fall in love with the impression someone has given you of themselves, whether that is a true representation of reality is open to question.

If they have been 100% truthful and honest, I'd say "yes" to your question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I think it is but you fall in love with the person they are online you can't really 100% fall in love without meeting them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I fell for the impression of someone and after 6 months it was all lies. But hey ho silver linings and all lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I think it is but you fall in love with the person they are online you can't really 100% fall in love without meeting them "

yes there can be a massive difference between the online person and the real person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I fell for the impression of someone and after 6 months it was all lies. But hey ho silver linings and all lol"

That's a shame, and I'm sorry you had to go through it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lust but not love

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I fell for the impression of someone and after 6 months it was all lies. But hey ho silver linings and all lol

That's a shame, and I'm sorry you had to go through it

In a way I'm glad I did go through it. It's made me stronger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met? "

The word isn't love, its lust,

you see someones eyes, smile, and feel as if you have known them all your life

your gut feeling steps in and tells you, you have found your soulmate,

which is what your head wants to hear,

Very quickly you chat, email, text, and maybe go on to talk, everything sounds perfect, the love of your life....

It is exciting, safe, and then you plan to meet,

Then it starts. I am working, the hamster has a cold, my car is broken, my nan just died, the kids are here,

You have been duped, many wanks later, you start making excuses and compromise for the person you " love ", because you love them.

The internet is brilliant for safe sex and cheap no effort sex.

Remember until you meet nothing is real.

There are many types of love,

The love you speak of is about time, and effort, not about imagination.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

"Lust but not love "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and I've known it happen to a few people. Its worked out for some and been heartbreaking for others x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love involves smell, sound and chemistry.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Remember until you meet nothing is real.

Totally agree and found it out the hard way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met?

Yes, ladies fall in love with me all the time

We do

oh should that be I will x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it possible to fall in love with someone you have never met?

Yes, ladies fall in love with me all the time

We do

oh should that be I will x

Please stand in line with all the other Ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lust but not love "

This ^

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By *rown eyes 8Woman
over a year ago

South Eastern Spain and Scotland

Remember until you meet nothing is real.

Totally agree and found it out the hard way "

Even when you have met a certain someone,and he has the charm to make you "fall in love" then find out a year down the line,they have always been married and fabricated themselves a make believe world.

He spent more time with me,than with his wife........work that out,because I can't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, we were chatting on the phone for a month before we met, face to face, but even then i knew V was the woman i wanted to spend the rest of my life with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember until you meet nothing is real.

Totally agree and found it out the hard way

He spent more time with me,than with his wife........work that out,because I can't!

No one can make you fall in love, it has to be something you are looking for, the guy picks that up, and tells you what you want to hear, to get what he wants.

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By *rown eyes 8Woman
over a year ago

South Eastern Spain and Scotland

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By *rown eyes 8Woman
over a year ago

South Eastern Spain and Scotland

Remember until you meet nothing is real.

Totally agree and found it out the hard way

He spent more time with me,than with his wife........work that out,because I can't!

No one can make you fall in love, it has to be something you are looking for, the guy picks that up, and tells you what you want to hear, to get what he wants."

Totally correct.......no one can make anyone do anything.

Funny though,and lesson learned!

Does this give the OP the right to Lie and Cheat.........I think NOT!!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

You can definitely develop a crush #wearing the tshirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can definitely develop a crush #wearing the tshirt

I have a number of crushes. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can definitely develop a crush #wearing the tshirt

I have a number of crushes. X

any grapes?

oooooooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think given the right circumstances almost anything is possible ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think that's more like Infatuation than love !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been watching catfish on MTV and some of the stories are amazing one guy was talking to a woman for 6 years

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By *adgodCouple
over a year ago

Greensburg

True love only happens once you truly know someone. Before that, it is something else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember until you meet nothing is real.

Totally agree and found it out the hard way

He spent more time with me,than with his wife........work that out,because I can't!

No one can make you fall in love, it has to be something you are looking for, the guy picks that up, and tells you what you want to hear, to get what he wants.

Totally correct.......no one can make anyone do anything.

Funny though,and lesson learned!

Does this give the OP the right to Lie and Cheat.........I think NOT!!"

everyone has the right to do what they want to do, within the law. We all have different morals and standards.

The secret is to separate the wheat from the chaff, and only believe what you know is true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think given the right circumstances almost anything is possible ....

How very sweet, I feel a song coming on...luckily I cant sing well, so will leave the sound of music for now x

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By *ansa87Couple
over a year ago

louthish

You build them up to be perfect. Everything they say is either pant wetting funny or so deep and meaningful.

Then you meet and he doesn't look quite like his picture , but who cares your in love. Shortly after he becomes exactly who promised he wouldn't be.

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By *rown eyes 8Woman
over a year ago

South Eastern Spain and Scotland

"You build them up to be perfect. Everything they say is either pant wetting funny or so deep and meaningful.

Then you meet and he doesn't look quite like his picture , but who cares your in love. Shortly after he becomes exactly who promised he wouldn't be. "

Totally spot on with that comment. Well done!

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

You fall in love with an idea. The reality is never as good as what's in your head.

Can you think you have fallen in love...?Yes

Can you actually fall in love...? No, not until you actually know them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You fall in love with an idea. The reality is never as good as what's in your head.

Can you think you have fallen in love...?Yes

Can you actually fall in love...? No, not until you actually know them."

i would argue with that premis

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"You fall in love with an idea. The reality is never as good as what's in your head.

Can you think you have fallen in love...?Yes

Can you actually fall in love...? No, not until you actually know them.

i would argue with that premis"

Be my guest...

All I am saying is for example:

You spend months talking online, finally meet to discover they snore like a train. Which means you can not sleep in the same bed because say... Your a light sleeper.

Or you discover that the two darling angels you have been told all about online are the two children from hell.

Those are just two things that can seriously jeopardise a relationship that sprang to mind. There's a tonne of others.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

*You're

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Remember until you meet nothing is real.

Totally agree and found it out the hard way

He spent more time with me,than with his wife........work that out,because I can't!

No one can make you fall in love, it has to be something you are looking for, the guy picks that up, and tells you what you want to hear, to get what he wants.

Totally correct.......no one can make anyone do anything.

Funny though,and lesson learned!

Does this give the OP the right to Lie and Cheat.........I think NOT!!"

Lie and cheat? I haven't

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By *rown eyes 8Woman
over a year ago

South Eastern Spain and Scotland

Remember until you meet nothing is real.

Totally agree and found it out the hard way

He spent more time with me,than with his wife........work that out,because I can't!

No one can make you fall in love, it has to be something you are looking for, the guy picks that up, and tells you what you want to hear, to get what he wants.

Totally correct.......no one can make anyone do anything.

Funny though,and lesson learned!

Does this give the OP the right to Lie and Cheat.........I think NOT!!

Lie and cheat? I haven't "

Not meaning you at all,meaning certain men from this site

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Remember until you meet nothing is real.

Totally agree and found it out the hard way

He spent more time with me,than with his wife........work that out,because I can't!

No one can make you fall in love, it has to be something you are looking for, the guy picks that up, and tells you what you want to hear, to get what he wants.

Totally correct.......no one can make anyone do anything.

Funny though,and lesson learned!

Does this give the OP the right to Lie and Cheat.........I think NOT!!

Lie and cheat? I haven't

Not meaning you at all,meaning certain men from this site"

Ahh lol I was thinking I've never cheated or lied x

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Lust but not love "

this..

love like many words seems to be used too easily these days..

love is more than a desire to want to get hot and sweaty with someone..

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By *rown eyes 8Woman
over a year ago

South Eastern Spain and Scotland

Remember until you meet nothing is real.

Totally agree and found it out the hard way

He spent more time with me,than with his wife........work that out,because I can't!

No one can make you fall in love, it has to be something you are looking for, the guy picks that up, and tells you what you want to hear, to get what he wants.

Totally correct.......no one can make anyone do anything.

Funny though,and lesson learned!

Does this give the OP the right to Lie and Cheat.........I think NOT!!

Lie and cheat? I haven't

Not meaning you at all,meaning certain men from this site

Ahh lol I was thinking I've never cheated or lied x"

Maybe we should take some lessons lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You fall in love with an idea. The reality is never as good as what's in your head.

Can you think you have fallen in love...?Yes

Can you actually fall in love...? No, not until you actually know them.

i would argue with that premis

Be my guest...

All I am saying is for example:

You spend months talking online, finally meet to discover they snore like a train. Which means you can not sleep in the same bed because say... Your a light sleeper.

Or you discover that the two darling angels you have been told all about online are the two children from hell.

Those are just two things that can seriously jeopardise a relationship that sprang to mind. There's a tonne of others. "

well, can obviously only talk from personal experience.

as said, we chatted for a month before we even came face to face.

we chatted like old friends and by the time we actually met up we felt we knew each other, so much so, that first date night she got so d*unk she spent the night puking and pissing herself, and that really didnt put me off at all lol

her kids were exactly how she said they were.

the ONLY thing she didnt tell me about her, was she doesnt put the toilet roll on the holder the proper way, but she is learning lol.

and i was honest with her, s there is absolutely no point in lying to people you are going to meet, hopefully more than once, so we started off properly.

can see where one or other party isnt completely straight down the line, it can go wrong, but thats down to them, not the premise of love without meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can be more open online than in real life. So you can discuss more things than would have ever been discussed if you'd met in person.

I know a few people that fell in love online and are still happy 10+ years on. I know people that met in real life that didn't last a year.

Anything is possible.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"You fall in love with an idea. The reality is never as good as what's in your head.

Can you think you have fallen in love...?Yes

Can you actually fall in love...? No, not until you actually know them.

i would argue with that premis

Be my guest...

All I am saying is for example:

You spend months talking online, finally meet to discover they snore like a train. Which means you can not sleep in the same bed because say... Your a light sleeper.

Or you discover that the two darling angels you have been told all about online are the two children from hell.

Those are just two things that can seriously jeopardise a relationship that sprang to mind. There's a tonne of others.

well, can obviously only talk from personal experience.

as said, we chatted for a month before we even came face to face.

her kids were exactly how she said they were.

the ONLY thing she didnt tell me about her, was she doesnt put the toilet roll on the holder the proper way, but she is learning lol.

and i was honest with her, s there is absolutely no point in lying to people you are going to meet, hopefully more than once, so we started off properly.

can see where one or other party isnt completely straight down the line, it can go wrong, but thats down to them, not the premise of love without meeting "

That sounds like everything fell into place just perfect for you guys.

(However toilet rolls on the wrong way round is a serious issue!).

I can see how you can feel like you know someone really well and be totally comfortable around someone when you first meet. I guess a lot of it depends on everyone's definition of what love is which is also individual to everyone.

I still don't see how you can know all of those personal little intricacies that people have until you have spent a lot of time with them.

I know for years I used to think I knew D inside out and couldn't love her any more. Then the following year I'd think I never knew what I was talking about previously and now I actually loved her as much as was possible and so on and so on and so on. For years lol.

(The toilet roll battle is an ongoing one in our house as well. Though now I think she does it purely because she knows it pushes my ocd buttons!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think to fall for someone online is more a fantasy love.but it can start to become a serious relationship after a few meets and time.

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