FabSwingers.com forum: do you fall in love easy

By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

well do you? would you get engaged really quickly if they asked you to leave fab would you?

my lover asked me earlier would I have married him instead of my hubby had we met ages ago em not sure but he calls me his mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of the above and if I was'nt married now theres no way on earth id get married again.......id much rather have a harem of men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well do you? would you get engaged really quickly if they asked you to leave fab would you?

my lover asked me earlier would I have married him instead of my hubby had we met ages ago em not sure but he calls me his mrs "

No.. I've never been in love... I've loved on a way but I don't believe girls like me get to have love x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I have done and I am always open to love but loving is so much easier than being in love. On that basis I choose to stick to loving.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"well do you? would you get engaged really quickly if they asked you to leave fab would you?

my lover asked me earlier would I have married him instead of my hubby had we met ages ago em not sure but he calls me his mrs

No.. I've never been in love... I've loved on a way but I don't believe girls like me get to have love x"

what do you mean girls like you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well do you? would you get engaged really quickly if they asked you to leave fab would you?

my lover asked me earlier would I have married him instead of my hubby had we met ages ago em not sure but he calls me his mrs

No.. I've never been in love... I've loved on a way but I don't believe girls like me get to have love x

what do you mean girls like you "

Girls like me that are not really gf material.. great mistress or just a fuck but well it's always been the way.. and I make good with what I have.

I love romance just accept it won't be for me... I am happy to care for my friends and even love some of them.. but only my children love me in return.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"well do you? would you get engaged really quickly if they asked you to leave fab would you?

my lover asked me earlier would I have married him instead of my hubby had we met ages ago em not sure but he calls me his mrs

No.. I've never been in love... I've loved on a way but I don't believe girls like me get to have love x

what do you mean girls like you

Girls like me that are not really gf material.. great mistress or just a fuck but well it's always been the way.. and I make good with what I have.

I love romance just accept it won't be for me... I am happy to care for my friends and even love some of them.. but only my children love me in return.

I say this from experience: that view is a self fulfilling prophecy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well do you? would you get engaged really quickly if they asked you to leave fab would you?

my lover asked me earlier would I have married him instead of my hubby had we met ages ago em not sure but he calls me his mrs

No.. I've never been in love... I've loved on a way but I don't believe girls like me get to have love x

what do you mean girls like you

Girls like me that are not really gf material.. great mistress or just a fuck but well it's always been the way.. and I make good with what I have.

I love romance just accept it won't be for me... I am happy to care for my friends and even love some of them.. but only my children love me in return.

I say this from experience: that view is a self fulfilling prophecy.

Yup and one I never will change as it's to painful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moi , no never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been in love once, loved several times. Being in love is the best feeling in the world, however, when it goes wrong, it's the worst. I won't say I'll never love again, but I know I'll never find that again, once in a lifetime stuff!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lust not love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give my heart too easily. Wish I didn't, but I cant change what I am.

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

"well do you? would you get engaged really quickly if they asked you to leave fab would you?

my lover asked me earlier would I have married him instead of my hubby had we met ages ago em not sure but he calls me his mrs "

Yes i have but never again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been in love once, loved several times. Being in love is the best feeling in the world, however, when it goes wrong, it's the worst. I won't say I'll never love again, but I know I'll never find that again, once in a lifetime stuff!"

In response to the question asked...No, I don't fall in love easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Way too cynical at my old age, however, if a cupid's arrow hit me between my eyes, I'll know about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Did do..but learnt to not wear my hear on my sleeve as openly now...it just ends in hurt!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been in love in my life so i'm going to say no

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Heart I meant...lol

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

i gave my heart to someone once .. never again cos he threw it back in my face and now engaged again to someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well do you? would you get engaged really quickly if they asked you to leave fab would you?

my lover asked me earlier would I have married him instead of my hubby had we met ages ago em not sure but he calls me his mrs

No.. I've never been in love... I've loved on a way but I don't believe girls like me get to have love x

what do you mean girls like you

Girls like me that are not really gf material.. great mistress or just a fuck but well it's always been the way.. and I make good with what I have.

I love romance just accept it won't be for me... I am happy to care for my friends and even love some of them.. but only my children love me in return.

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Aaawww that's so sweet and so sad (^_^)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having never been in love i don't really know if i could fall for someone quickly. But if i did and she wanted to me leave fab i would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I now realise I never was in love and it's not a good idea in relation to fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well do you? would you get engaged really quickly if they asked you to leave fab would you?

my lover asked me earlier would I have married him instead of my hubby had we met ages ago em not sure but he calls me his mrs

No.. I've never been in love... I've loved on a way but I don't believe girls like me get to have love x

what do you mean girls like you

Girls like me that are not really gf material.. great mistress or just a fuck but well it's always been the way.. and I make good with what I have.

I love romance just accept it won't be for me... I am happy to care for my friends and even love some of them.. but only my children love me in return.

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"Having never been in love i don't really know if i could fall for someone quickly. But if i did and she wanted to me leave fab i would."

expect you will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really feel sorry for those who have never known love. There are many different types of love and we all strive to find the one true love but I feel there is no one true love just ones who are right at that moment in time,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i met someone I wouldn't be online at all. Wouldn't feel the need to as I would be focusing all my attention on them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really feel sorry for those who have never known love. There are many different types of love and we all strive to find the one true love but I feel there is no one true love just ones who are right at that moment in time, "

not all, I have been single for nearly 6 years now and I have no intentions of ever being in a relationship ever again, I don't strive to find my true love, if there's one thing I have learnt in my life its relationships are not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i gave my heart to someone once .. never again cos he threw it back in my face and now engaged again to someone else "

I found people that were meant to love me just hurt me the most so when I was very young I promised myself I'd never give my heart. Betrayal still hurts even without love... But my own parents showed me this lesson...Closest i came to love was my first husband.. we had been friends and partners in all sorts of trouble making... But made the world's worst couple.. to alike ..

I think that to many think they are in love .. don't get me wrong as I sit here all a bit merry on vodka and listening to soppy songs I wish I could take the chance and let someone show me love is good.... But by morning i will have toughened up.. I'll cuddle my kids and know that I have the greatest love ever and unlike my parents my children will know I love them.

Sometimes though even a cold hearted slut like me would like to hear those 3 words and know they were meant . Xx but well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If i met someone I wouldn't be online at all. Wouldn't feel the need to as I would be focusing all my attention on them. "

that feeling don't last forever love, give it 15 years and you'd be setting a couples profile up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a real shame and real sad to read

as I wish you formed a nice, warm and loving relationship with my knob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a real shame and real sad to read

as I wish you formed a nice, warm and loving relationship with my knob

knob loving is totally different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a real shame and real sad to read

as I wish you formed a nice, warm and loving relationship with my knob

knob loving is totally different

Phew, thank god for that "wipes forehead". All I got to do now is to get you to love it and I'll be happy, lol

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

falling in love too quick don't tend to work as you then realise that you don't have much in common ....not getting to know each other esp on here as it tends to be based on sex

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I fall in love easily and fully intend to do so again, though it's hard finding the right people, that bit is so much easier when you are young.

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I don't fall in love easily, I have been there 3 times in my life though. The first two, well they are both married now & the feelings I had are gone. The 3rd one....thats still hurting.

I can't imagine never falling in love. The feeling of wanting, nay, needing to devote your whole being to someone. Of giving your absolute all for their happiness & feeling their love in return - there is nothing in this world like it. I know it's an old fashioned view, but I honestly believe, deep down, that my purpose in life is to find someone to adore, care for & love with every last breath.

I'm sure the time will come.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love you Cali xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to when younger but learnt the hard way and wont fall into that trap ever again im afraid.

Heart well and truly locked away and behind a huge brick wall.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's Love Got To Do With It?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ever been in love once .. And know id never find that intense amazing feeling ever again and tbh dont think id want to as to compare it would be so wrong. When love does walk into your door id say seize it with both hands and enjoy as mine was taken from me so quickly and to watch the only man you have ever loved be taken from you ...well lets just say the angels were blessed that day .

And so to answer your question OP no I dont fall in love easy took me 39 yrs to find true love .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love love ... its a wonderful emotion

I have been hurt frequently too many to mention - from family to boyfriends and husbands .. hasn't made me believe there isn't someone out there for me now. Trick is not to wear blinkers and to be open to it

I fall in lust all the time but love - proper full on love ... Ill know it when it happens

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Nope, I don't fall in love easily.

I've had 4 long term relationships.... Only truly been in love with one of them. I'm still in love with him... as he says he is with me... but living on different continents now meant it wasn't going to work out

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I've been in love once, with my husband. I've met someone from here who has knocked me for six! We are both in shock as we were looking for light entertainment, both old cynics, we shouldn't work on paper, he's a right wing, ukip voting, capitalist, whilst according to him I'm a commie, tree hugging, union trouble maker!

Cupid has a sense of humour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been in love once, with my husband. I've met someone from here who has knocked me for six! We are both in shock as we were looking for light entertainment, both old cynics, we shouldn't work on paper, he's a right wing, ukip voting, capitalist, whilst according to him I'm a commie, tree hugging, union trouble maker!

Cupid has a sense of humour! "

You would never get bored during debates with each other

This has made me smile - good luck to you both x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did fall in love quickly with my first love but it turned out well we've been together over 17 yrs married 12 and still madly in love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes and she broke my heart

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Once....i can say i proper was in love with him....I have made mistakes and fallen for someone too quickly. However over time I've learnt not to and i believe that when the person comes along i will know about it and know that i can give him a little piece of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love ending IS painful but being in love is such a wonderful warm, exiting and life affirming thing that, for me (male), the being in love makes it all so worth the risk. I truly feel sorry for those that cannot love.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been told I'm wife/girlfriend material a few times but take it with a pinch of salt as I don't fall for men easily and I am quite guarded but when I have let my guard down I have been shit on from a great height.

So no I don't love easily.

Had a friend (someone I dated in 2007/8) almost tell me he had feelings after panicking about my safety on Thursday, but knows me well enough to know he would freak me out if he did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say yes. I've been in love but have never been loved back. I tend to get people that just want to control me. Last one wanted me to love him but he made sure he wouldn't love me by keep putting me down.

I get why Cali said that a girl here won't get it. I feel the same and worst I've been told it. Many of times I've been told your already to fuck and get bj off but I can't be seen out with you. I'm okay to fuck but god forbid to date. So now have give up wishing for another half xx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No, I don't fall in love easily. Took a long time.

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By *U1966Man
over a year ago

Devon

Ex wife cut my heart out never want to go through that again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ex wife cut my heart out never want to go through that again"

Just love again, it will put your heart back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fell in love very easily when i met my now husband, it wasnt suposed to be love but it very soon was !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ex wife cut my heart out never want to go through that again

Just love again, it will put your heart back.

It won't ha ha. Tried it didn't like it. That's twice now and that's enough times for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cupid has a sense of humour!

You would never get bored during debates with each other

This has made me smile - good luck to you both x"

Lovely to read, specially at this time of year. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fall in love easy but never with someone I've been intimate with before hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cupid has a sense of humour! "

His description of you sounds spot on!

But what a lovely post to read and brighten up an otherwise miserable Monday morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fell in love once, still totally in love 21 years later (even though he gets on my nerves sometimes) and don't think I will ever fall in love for someone again.

Just lucky, I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In response to the question, yes, I do and I've met & lost the love of my life.

Not going to again, though, as best as I can tell, too painful.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No I don't, thats why it came as a shock when I met jay. Took us a year to realise. I loved the first guy I lived with and kind of loved my husband but this is the first time I've felt like this and it still gets stronger every day

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I do love my hubby.... more so since we married last year ..lovers its more lust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, have only ever loved someone (not including family) twice in my life - and turns out one wasn't real love, just me thinking I did

The other is real, in a way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've given up on love, we spend our time looking for it, trying to make it work, or recovering when it goes wrong, I don't need the hassle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know exactly what you mean, as I'm the same.

To answer the original question on this as well, if you've known true love, then giving up something like fab wouldn't feel like a chore, because they become the most important thing in your life. However, if the emotional connection between the two of you is strong enough and you both enough the community here, then enjoying it together is better than giving it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My favourite lyric..."when love breaks down, the things we to stop the truth from hurting you "

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By *uby0000 OP Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

"I've given up on love, we spend our time looking for it, trying to make it work, or recovering when it goes wrong, I don't need the hassle "

most loves are found when you aint looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've given up on love, we spend our time looking for it, trying to make it work, or recovering when it goes wrong, I don't need the hassle

most loves are found when you aint looking"

It just feels like I've had my heart broken too many times, it gets to the point where I don't want it anymore.

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