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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is hard for an Asian guy to have a meet ???

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"Why is hard for an Asian guy to have a meet ???"

I don't know - why is it hard for an Asian guy to have a meet???

(waiting for the punch-line )

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By *ilkchocolate87Man
over a year ago

sw london


"Why is hard for an Asian guy to have a meet ???

I don't know - why is it hard for an Asian guy to have a meet???

(waiting for the punch-line )"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask the Asian girls for advice, they don't seem to struggle.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

read all of the threads about not getting meets and you'll see its not just Asian guys that have that problem......dont make it about race when it isnt

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Trust me it is about race

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Trust me it is about race"

really really isn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trust me it is about race"

How do you know that for sure? There are 100's of threads on these Forums from single men saying they can't get meets and they're certainly not all Asians!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trust me it is about race"

So why don't Asian girls struggle then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You are not in my shoes.. Read above from the guys.. Not being racist but it's true I askd few females but clearly got replay back saying don't do ethic , Asians .. So what is this something pick and choose ?? We all adults and here for fun.. Then why pushing some peoples on side no matter how genuine thy are ????

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By *oasterCockbumMan
over a year ago

Highway 61


"Trust me it is about race"

Naaahhh its no a race mate .... its mare aboot patience ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Trust me it is about race

So why don't Asian girls struggle then?"
because my friend thy come with a pussy and we have cock lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Trust me it is about race

So why don't Asian girls struggle then?because my friend thy come with a pussy and we have cock lol"

see....its not about race its about gender....told you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they are girls there are more guys on here than women so they have far more choice its not about race

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trust me it is about race

So why don't Asian girls struggle then?because my friend thy come with a pussy and we have cock lol"

I'm starting to get an idea why you're struggling from that one comment alone.

But just to add, if Asian people were seen as unwanted in some way, then women would be excluded also, regardless of the fact that they 'come with a pussy'.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"You are not in my shoes.. Read above from the guys.. Not being racist but it's true I askd few females but clearly got replay back saying don't do ethic , Asians .. So what is this something pick and choose ?? We all adults and here for fun.. Then why pushing some peoples on side no matter how genuine thy are ????"

none of the guys above your post said it was about race, just you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i go to clubs in n/west i see many many asian guys, but very few asian ladies usually indian if any, i was told by the guys they would never let there wives/gfs come to clubs?etc maybe its culture?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it is about race, more about attitude, your profile states that you are a DOM Asian guy, maybe that could be the problem, from reading profiles, a lot of women want to be in control of everything from the selection process to what happens in bed.

Being Asian seems to be a problem that you have, rather than other people,

Maybe a little tweak of your profile would help, apparently cock pictures put women off, that could also be a barrier to you getting contacts/ meets.

You are more than a cock, you are more than a colour,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" So what is this something pick and choose ?? We all adults and here for fun.. Then why pushing some peoples on side no matter how genuine thy are ????"

Yes, pick and chose is exactly what it is! I pick and choose who I want to have fun with based on looks, charm, banter, attitude, distance although that's not a huge factor but they are MY choices.

Would you agree to meet us with someone just for the sake of it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trust me it is about race"

It's got nothing to do with race. It's got everything to do with you putting zero effort into your profile. Two or three lines and a cock pic. I can see women everywhere getting wet and flustered.

Do yourself a favour. Rewrite your profile and put some decent pics up. You will see dividends in no time. Good luck

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Trust me it is about race"

some will have their preferences about race of course, as will others have theirs about other aspects..

and attitude is also one of those aspects..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Trust me it is about race"

Are you sure? Do you really think that there is no other reason you might be struggling?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen a few 'no Asians' on profiles, as to why? I don't know, but I doubt you'd get an honest answer on a public forum anyway.

I guess they might say 'my preference' which is fair enough, but are there reasons behind preferences?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No other reasons.. Only Asian lad that's all lol .. Nothing wrong in being Asian lad ??? I have asked few ladies but only get a reply back not their type only because I'm an Asian guy

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"Trust me it is about race

It's got nothing to do with race. It's got everything to do with you putting zero effort into your profile. Two or three lines and a cock pic. I can see women everywhere getting wet and flustered.

Do yourself a favour. Rewrite your profile and put some decent pics up. You will see dividends in no time. Good luck"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No other reasons.. Only Asian lad that's all lol .. Nothing wrong in being Asian lad ??? I have asked few ladies but only get a reply back not their type only because I'm an Asian guy "

Well my negative reply back to you wasn't because you're Asian! I think you're good looking and I'm sure if you take the advice on this thread and maybe add a bit more on your profile plus a few pictures it will make a difference.

Like everything on this site, people do have preferences and that's something we all have to live with. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No other reasons.. Only Asian lad that's all lol .. Nothing wrong in being Asian lad ??? I have asked few ladies but only get a reply back not their type only because I'm an Asian guy

Well my negative reply back to you wasn't because you're Asian! I think you're good looking and I'm sure if you take the advice on this thread and maybe add a bit more on your profile plus a few pictures it will make a difference.

Like everything on this site, people do have preferences and that's something we all have to live with. Good luck "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

unfortunately you guys tend to have a reputation for being disrespectful of women.

and some of your comments seem to be proving that point quite well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are not in my shoes.. Read above from the guys.. Not being racist but it's true I askd few females but clearly got replay back saying don't do ethic , Asians .. So what is this something pick and choose ?? We all adults and here for fun.. Then why pushing some peoples on side no matter how genuine thy are ????"

poor language skills may also be a factor.

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands


"Trust me it is about race"

Hmmm sorry, from my pov; it's more about things you put out there then the colour of your skin.

I block more people from the forums then I ever will from pm's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"read all of the threads about not getting meets and you'll see its not just Asian guys that have that problem......dont make it about race when it isnt"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I block more people from the forums then I ever will from pm's "

yeah since posting on the forum I've found myself on a surprising amount of block lists of people who've I've never even spoke to before lol.

Should probably stop :o

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"Why is hard for an Asian guy to have a meet ???"

And yet another "why is it hard..." threads. Search the forums, this has been covered on countless occasions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"unfortunately you guys tend to have a reputation for being disrespectful of women.

and some of your comments seem to be proving that point quite well."

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"Trust me it is about race

Hmmm sorry, from my pov; it's more about things you put out there then the colour of your skin.

I block more people from the forums then I ever will from pm's "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These threads make me laugh, so many single guys moan they can't get a meet. Iv been on this website 9 days and had 3 meets so it's not exactly difficult. I went to a club Saturday and there were a few Asians there that were getting action. It's not about race, it's about the way you come across, the way you engage with others etc, your taking it personally and making it racial. And let's face it, whining about not getting a meet isn't going to help your cause...........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I block more people from the forums then I ever will from pm's

yeah since posting on the forum I've found myself on a surprising amount of block lists of people who've I've never even spoke to before lol.

Should probably stop :o"

Well you didn't make it onto mine after attempting to offend me earlier .... I joke, of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you messaged me and I clicked on your profile, I personally wouldn't meet you because you are 6 inches shorter than me, and height is a big thing for me with being a tall woman. And your profile is also pretty basic. Stop turning it into a racial issue when you have absolutely zero proof.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I block more people from the forums then I ever will from pm's

yeah since posting on the forum I've found myself on a surprising amount of block lists of people who've I've never even spoke to before lol.

Should probably stop :o

Well you didn't make it onto mine after attempting to offend me earlier .... I joke, of course "

I never attempt to offend madam!

although i often succeed when not trying to

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"unfortunately you guys tend to have a reputation for being disrespectful of women.

and some of your comments seem to be proving that point quite well."

Excuse me but where'd you get that idea from? I assume you have spoken to ever asian male to come up with such a sweeping statement

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

white black or asian you still wagling a cock on your avatar.. I wouldnt look any further because of that alone.

I did go to your profile.. your age and height are against you from my point of view. I also do not wish to be dominated. so several things are negative for me.

If a cock messages me i tend just to delete without even looking at the message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"unfortunately you guys tend to have a reputation for being disrespectful of women.

and some of your comments seem to be proving that point quite well.

Excuse me but where'd you get that idea from? I assume you have spoken to ever asian male to come up with such a sweeping statement "

From the women who say they don't like the way Asian guys treat women.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"unfortunately you guys tend to have a reputation for being disrespectful of women.

and some of your comments seem to be proving that point quite well.

Excuse me but where'd you get that idea from? I assume you have spoken to ever asian male to come up with such a sweeping statement "

I have never found you disrespectful quite the contrary actually. But unfortunately I suppose some people just assume that all asians are the same.

you have always been very polite to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are not in my shoes.. Read above from the guys.. Not being racist but it's true I askd few females but clearly got replay back saying don't do ethic , Asians .. So what is this something pick and choose ?? We all adults and here for fun.. Then why pushing some peoples on side no matter how genuine thy are ????

poor language skills may also be a factor. "

To be fair, his command of the English language is no worse than a lot of others, who clearly aren't Asian.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"unfortunately you guys tend to have a reputation for being disrespectful of women.

and some of your comments seem to be proving that point quite well.

Excuse me but where'd you get that idea from? I assume you have spoken to ever asian male to come up with such a sweeping statement

I have never found you disrespectful quite the contrary actually. But unfortunately I suppose some people just assume that all asians are the same.

you have always been very polite to me. "

he is lovely, a true gent x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"unfortunately you guys tend to have a reputation for being disrespectful of women.

and some of your comments seem to be proving that point quite well.

Excuse me but where'd you get that idea from? I assume you have spoken to ever asian male to come up with such a sweeping statement

I have never found you disrespectful quite the contrary actually. But unfortunately I suppose some people just assume that all asians are the same.

you have always been very polite to me. "

indeed i know everyone different and i'm not saying all Asians are disrespectful of women. but it is undeniable they do have that reputation attached to them especially towards white women.

and that may be why he is having trouble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I notice he still hasn't provided any sort of relevant answer as to why Asian girls don't struggle to find meets on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could it be a culture or up bringing, issue,

Women stay at home and look after house and family, men work, provide and lead ?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I notice he still hasn't provided any sort of relevant answer as to why Asian girls don't struggle to find meets on here?"

he did....they have a pussy....which to be fair is the answer you gt if you asked the same question to a white guy or a black guy or a chines guy etc...ergo poo-pooing his race argument

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I can give you one reason why I would steer clear, and its nearly poking me in the eye.....

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"unfortunately you guys tend to have a reputation for being disrespectful of women.

and some of your comments seem to be proving that point quite well.

Excuse me but where'd you get that idea from? I assume you have spoken to ever asian male to come up with such a sweeping statement

From the women who say they don't like the way Asian guys treat women. "

Really?? I know it's late and i have had a tiring day but is that really your response? A blanket statement demeaning all asian men based on responses from random women? Did you imagine these women? Did these women speak to every asian male out there?

I know the forums are open areas and people post what they wish to but please engage brain first. I can assure you these 'women' you refer to have never met me so your statement is untrue!! If you are going to post young man at least be factual and not live in your own little bubble

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

Shame that people are confused between choice or race especially on a sex site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"unfortunately you guys tend to have a reputation for being disrespectful of women.

and some of your comments seem to be proving that point quite well.

Excuse me but where'd you get that idea from? I assume you have spoken to ever asian male to come up with such a sweeping statement

From the women who say they don't like the way Asian guys treat women.

Really?? I know it's late and i have had a tiring day but is that really your response? A blanket statement demeaning all asian men based on responses from random women? Did you imagine these women? Did these women speak to every asian male out there?

I know the forums are open areas and people post what they wish to but please engage brain first. I can assure you these 'women' you refer to have never met me so your statement is untrue!! If you are going to post young man at least be factual and not live in your own little bubble"

I think you could use the same 'blanket statement' argument with the OP, presuming that all women aren't interested in him because he is Asian. That is an equally dangerous statement to make, when I think it has more to do with his height than anything else

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Shame that people are confused between choice or race especially on a sex site

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"unfortunately you guys tend to have a reputation for being disrespectful of women.

and some of your comments seem to be proving that point quite well.

Excuse me but where'd you get that idea from? I assume you have spoken to ever asian male to come up with such a sweeping statement

From the women who say they don't like the way Asian guys treat women.

Really?? I know it's late and i have had a tiring day but is that really your response? A blanket statement demeaning all asian men based on responses from random women? Did you imagine these women? Did these women speak to every asian male out there?

I know the forums are open areas and people post what they wish to but please engage brain first. I can assure you these 'women' you refer to have never met me so your statement is untrue!! If you are going to post young man at least be factual and not live in your own little bubble

I think you could use the same 'blanket statement' argument with the OP, presuming that all women aren't interested in him because he is Asian. That is an equally dangerous statement to make, when I think it has more to do with his height than anything else "

Don't bring height into it! I know loads of midget swingers. They are not swinging at the mo cos it's pantomime season but come the new year.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shame that people are confused between choice or race especially on a sex site

"

Erm munch3r, I think that was aimed at your original post lol. Awkward!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"unfortunately you guys tend to have a reputation for being disrespectful of women.

and some of your comments seem to be proving that point quite well.

Excuse me but where'd you get that idea from? I assume you have spoken to ever asian male to come up with such a sweeping statement

From the women who say they don't like the way Asian guys treat women.

Really?? I know it's late and i have had a tiring day but is that really your response? A blanket statement demeaning all asian men based on responses from random women? Did you imagine these women? Did these women speak to every asian male out there?

I know the forums are open areas and people post what they wish to but please engage brain first. I can assure you these 'women' you refer to have never met me so your statement is untrue!! If you are going to post young man at least be factual and not live in your own little bubble"

Yes that's why i said Asian men have a reputation. not you personal have a reputation.

much like black men have a reputation for having big penises or Asian men having a reputation for small ones. it's a broad generalization, but a lot of people do operate on these generalizations.

my statement however does remain true whether they have met you or not, those girls didn't like aisan men because they felt they were disrespectful towards women.

bad experiences amongst them and their friends and wider reporting of such things in the media and cultural issues create this generalization.

is it true to all, no of course not trying to make it so is a little silly.

personally i really don't care where you're from, the colour of your skin or whats between your legs or who else you like to put between them but some people do.

Lifes shit, people are racist and judge on stereotypes, you can live in your little bubble and ignore this or you can deal with it.

but I suppose i could ask you, would you buy a caravan from a pikey?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"unfortunately you guys tend to have a reputation for being disrespectful of women.

and some of your comments seem to be proving that point quite well.

Excuse me but where'd you get that idea from? I assume you have spoken to ever asian male to come up with such a sweeping statement

From the women who say they don't like the way Asian guys treat women.

Really?? I know it's late and i have had a tiring day but is that really your response? A blanket statement demeaning all asian men based on responses from random women? Did you imagine these women? Did these women speak to every asian male out there?

I know the forums are open areas and people post what they wish to but please engage brain first. I can assure you these 'women' you refer to have never met me so your statement is untrue!! If you are going to post young man at least be factual and not live in your own little bubble

I think you could use the same 'blanket statement' argument with the OP, presuming that all women aren't interested in him because he is Asian. That is an equally dangerous statement to make, when I think it has more to do with his height than anything else

Don't bring height into it! I know loads of midget swingers. They are not swinging at the mo cos it's pantomime season but come the new year........."

I find nothing less attractive than a short man, unfortunately!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two lines on your profile doesn't say much for you.and I should think everyone knows what a cock looks like,so maybe a profile picture change of a facial one and a bit more lineage would improve your chance of getting a meet,I should imagine most people would look ,thinking gawd another two liner with a cock pic and nor even bother to read what you say about yourself.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"unfortunately you guys tend to have a reputation for being disrespectful of women.

and some of your comments seem to be proving that point quite well.

Excuse me but where'd you get that idea from? I assume you have spoken to ever asian male to come up with such a sweeping statement

From the women who say they don't like the way Asian guys treat women.

Really?? I know it's late and i have had a tiring day but is that really your response? A blanket statement demeaning all asian men based on responses from random women? Did you imagine these women? Did these women speak to every asian male out there?

I know the forums are open areas and people post what they wish to but please engage brain first. I can assure you these 'women' you refer to have never met me so your statement is untrue!! If you are going to post young man at least be factual and not live in your own little bubble

Yes that's why i said Asian men have a reputation. not you personal have a reputation.

much like black men have a reputation for having big penises or Asian men having a reputation for small ones. it's a broad generalization, but a lot of people do operate on these generalizations.

my statement however does remain true whether they have met you or not, those girls didn't like aisan men because they felt they were disrespectful towards women.

bad experiences amongst them and their friends and wider reporting of such things in the media and cultural issues create this generalization.

is it true to all, no of course not trying to make it so is a little silly.

personally i really don't care where you're from, the colour of your skin or whats between your legs or who else you like to put between them but some people do.

Lifes shit, people are racist and judge on stereotypes, you can live in your little bubble and ignore this or you can deal with it.

but I suppose i could ask you, would you buy a caravan from a pikey?

"

I've had bad experiences with Asian men but I chose not to stereotype and tar all of them with that brush.

Why wouldn't you buy a caravan from a traveller? Have you seen how much they clean the bloody things?? It will be in better condition that when they bought it!

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven


"Shame that people are confused between choice or race especially on a sex site

Erm munch3r, I think that was aimed at your original post lol. Awkward! "

Lol I wondered that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I've had bad experiences with Asian men but I chose not to stereotype and tar all of them with that brush.

"

which is fine, but some people don't think that way and are of the mind set off a few bad experiences means they'd rather just avoid the whole group :p


"

Why wouldn't you buy a caravan from a traveller? Have you seen how much they clean the bloody things?? It will be in better condition that when they bought it!"

where would you keep the dag?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"

I've had bad experiences with Asian men but I chose not to stereotype and tar all of them with that brush.

which is fine, but some people don't think that way and are of the mind set off a few bad experiences means they'd rather just avoid the whole group :p

Why wouldn't you buy a caravan from a traveller? Have you seen how much they clean the bloody things?? It will be in better condition that when they bought it!

where would you keep the dag?"

I can't do the fancy quote thing on my phone...too fiddly.

By perpetuating the stereotyping of races and genders and sexual orientation etc we are never going to stamp out discrimination so it must be challenged wherever it is seen.

And I would buy the dag a special little dag caravan

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

Op haven't looked at your profile so no idea where you are from, but a friend of mine absolutely loves Japanese men.

I do feel put out because would love a 3some with her.

But im not Japanese.:[

but that's her choice

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"Why is hard for an Asian guy to have a meet ???"

Dear OP,

Pay attention as this may benefit you. You need to realise that the people on this site are actual people who come from the real world. Now in the real world there are racist, sexist, ageist, homophobic etc etc people. There are also people who have misconceptions about other races / ethnicities & people who are just not sexually attracted to certain individuals. Some of those people will be on here too.

Now no one in the real world will come up to you and say:

"hi i'm a racist/ageist/sexist person so i wont be fucking you"

or

"hi, i dont find you sexually attractive"

or

"hi, i have misconceptions about your race so wouldnt fuck you"

therefore no one will say that to you on here either, all you may get is a no thank you.

Still with me... If people do not wish to meet you REGARDLESS of their reason dont moan about it, respect their decision cause it is THEIR DECISION!! & find someone else.

Forget your race, your ethnicity, your origins for just one moment and think why are you on here & then write your profile to say this. Its not your race that defines who you are and what you're like but the way you've grown up and the decisions you have made in life that have given you your character & personality. Harking on about it being a race issue is neither attractive or necessary.

I may have rambled a bit but in a nutshell stop complaining about it being a race issue, pit more effort in & accept a no thank you irrespective of what the reason maybe

Good luck and hopefully you will find and meet someone

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven


"Why is hard for an Asian guy to have a meet ???

Dear OP,

Pay attention as this may benefit you. You need to realise that the people on this site are actual people who come from the real world. Now in the real world there are racist, sexist, ageist, homophobic etc etc people. There are also people who have misconceptions about other races / ethnicities & people who are just not sexually attracted to certain individuals. Some of those people will be on here too.

Now no one in the real world will come up to you and say:

"hi i'm a racist/ageist/sexist person so i wont be fucking you"

or

"hi, i dont find you sexually attractive"

or

"hi, i have misconceptions about your race so wouldnt fuck you"

therefore no one will say that to you on here either, all you may get is a no thank you.

Still with me... If people do not wish to meet you REGARDLESS of their reason dont moan about it, respect their decision cause it is THEIR DECISION!! & find someone else.

Forget your race, your ethnicity, your origins for just one moment and think why are you on here & then write your profile to say this. Its not your race that defines who you are and what you're like but the way you've grown up and the decisions you have made in life that have given you your character & personality. Harking on about it being a race issue is neither attractive or necessary.

I may have rambled a bit but in a nutshell stop complaining about it being a race issue, pit more effort in & accept a no thank you irrespective of what the reason maybe

Good luck and hopefully you will find and meet someone "

This should be a sticky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is hard for an Asian guy to have a meet ???

Dear OP,

Pay attention as this may benefit you. You need to realise that the people on this site are actual people who come from the real world. Now in the real world there are racist, sexist, ageist, homophobic etc etc people. There are also people who have misconceptions about other races / ethnicities & people who are just not sexually attracted to certain individuals. Some of those people will be on here too.

Now no one in the real world will come up to you and say:

"hi i'm a racist/ageist/sexist person so i wont be fucking you"

or

"hi, i dont find you sexually attractive"

or

"hi, i have misconceptions about your race so wouldnt fuck you"

therefore no one will say that to you on here either, all you may get is a no thank you.

Still with me... If people do not wish to meet you REGARDLESS of their reason dont moan about it, respect their decision cause it is THEIR DECISION!! & find someone else.

Forget your race, your ethnicity, your origins for just one moment and think why are you on here & then write your profile to say this. Its not your race that defines who you are and what you're like but the way you've grown up and the decisions you have made in life that have given you your character & personality. Harking on about it being a race issue is neither attractive or necessary.

I may have rambled a bit but in a nutshell stop complaining about it being a race issue, pit more effort in & accept a no thank you irrespective of what the reason maybe

Good luck and hopefully you will find and meet someone "

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I have never yet found an Asian man physically attractive. I'm not saying I never will but, since I have limited time for chatting, arranging meets and meeting, it makes sense to concentrate on people I am more likely to find attractive.

Might I be missing out? Yes. I accept that and if I do, well, I do.

However, even if I was interested in Asian men and if you were local, OP, I wouldn't be interested for the following reasons:

- your cock avatar.

- calling yourself "Asian Bull". I'm not interested in a bull and, being not in the least submissive, I avoid playing with men who make a big deal of how they are Dominant or a bull.

- you're shorter than me in bare feet and I like to wear heels.

- your profile is rubbish and you've clearly made no effort.

- your English is poor.

Oh and the "we're all adults and we're all here for fun" line is ridiculous and pathetic. What am I supposed to do? Meet everyone who asks, first come, first served? Maybe I'll get a ticket machine like a supermarket deli counter. You don't find everyone attractive and you wouldn't meet absolutely anyone. Nor will I. Failing to understand and respect that is the biggest black mark against you.

Playing the race card is pathetic too. Men post on here all the time about how difficult it is to get meets but because you are Asian it has to be discrimination?

Make more effort, present yourself in an appealing way, stop whining and stop feeling entitled and you might have more luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here we go again using the race card instead of realising and accepting that you simply have not appealed to anyone enough yet.

To be honest with that attitude it will not help you.

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"unfortunately you guys tend to have a reputation for being disrespectful of women.

and some of your comments seem to be proving that point quite well.

Excuse me but where'd you get that idea from? I assume you have spoken to ever asian male to come up with such a sweeping statement

From the women who say they don't like the way Asian guys treat women.

Really?? I know it's late and i have had a tiring day but is that really your response? A blanket statement demeaning all asian men based on responses from random women? Did you imagine these women? Did these women speak to every asian male out there?

I know the forums are open areas and people post what they wish to but please engage brain first. I can assure you these 'women' you refer to have never met me so your statement is untrue!! If you are going to post young man at least be factual and not live in your own little bubble

Yes that's why i said Asian men have a reputation. not you personal have a reputation.

much like black men have a reputation for having big penises or Asian men having a reputation for small ones. it's a broad generalization, but a lot of people do operate on these generalizations.

my statement however does remain true whether they have met you or not, those girls didn't like aisan men because they felt they were disrespectful towards women.

bad experiences amongst them and their friends and wider reporting of such things in the media and cultural issues create this generalization.

is it true to all, no of course not trying to make it so is a little silly.

personally i really don't care where you're from, the colour of your skin or whats between your legs or who else you like to put between them but some people do.

Lifes shit, people are racist and judge on stereotypes, you can live in your little bubble and ignore this or you can deal with it.

but I suppose i could ask you, would you buy a caravan from a pikey? "

So correct me if i'm wrong you are making a sweeping statement based on other peoples alleged experiences and nothing you've seen yourself

As i asked you before be factual please

Oh and news flash - if you haven't picked up on this already i am of south asian decent so your blanket statement includes me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"unfortunately you guys tend to have a reputation for being disrespectful of women.

and some of your comments seem to be proving that point quite well."

Well said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you'll find all the women "find it hard" when having meat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never yet found an Asian man physically attractive. I'm not saying I never will but, since I have limited time for chatting, arranging meets and meeting, it makes sense to concentrate on people I am more likely to find attractive.

Might I be missing out? Yes. I accept that and if I do, well, I do.

However, even if I was interested in Asian men and if you were local, OP, I wouldn't be interested for the following reasons:

- your cock avatar.

- calling yourself "Asian Bull". I'm not interested in a bull and, being not in the least submissive, I avoid playing with men who make a big deal of how they are Dominant or a bull.

- you're shorter than me in bare feet and I like to wear heels.

- your profile is rubbish and you've clearly made no effort.

- your English is poor.

Oh and the "we're all adults and we're all here for fun" line is ridiculous and pathetic. What am I supposed to do? Meet everyone who asks, first come, first served? Maybe I'll get a ticket machine like a supermarket deli counter. You don't find everyone attractive and you wouldn't meet absolutely anyone. Nor will I. Failing to understand and respect that is the biggest black mark against you.

Playing the race card is pathetic too. Men post on here all the time about how difficult it is to get meets but because you are Asian it has to be discrimination?

Make more effort, present yourself in an appealing way, stop whining and stop feeling entitled and you might have more luck."

Amen!

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

My comment wont make sense to anyone but the lovely chap who made a sweetly worded blanket statement earlier but i'll give it a go...

Let me make a sweeping generalised statement against any race and see how people of that race react to such a statement & if they take it personally.

There is a huge difference between my post to the OP (which some people have appreciated) and your original generalised statement!! Though i would like to know how my writing style gave away ethnic origins or are you going to make a blanket statement about asians men and their comprehension of the english language

I dont know where rusholme is but if you're admitting there's no difference in the treatment of women by young white guys then why'd you make a statement generalising all asians

Dont worry about being blocked by anyone on the forums, some people will applaud your comments others wont my good mate tirpodius willyus usually pops up in these types of threads. Im sure you 2 will have a lot to talk about

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

Well Asian is just too broad,maybe as much as Caucasian and each has their customs and traditions.

My wife is Asian too

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By *irtyDee33Woman
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

My sons dad is Asian, he was such a laugh!!! Not seen h for years coz he didn't want my lad!!! But all race guys can be like that!!

It's purely a sexual and personal preference!!! I am not racist, I have different race friends!!!

Every body has freedom of choice

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"Well Asian is just too broad,maybe as much as Caucasian and each has their customs and traditions.

My wife is Asian too "

What !!!

An Asian woman on here!! Have you not made her stay in the kitchen and abused her as thats what we do to women

(Sorry but may as well play off the stupidity of the stereotype i'm apparently guilty of )

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