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By *reelove1969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol

if there is something you dont like about your personality, appearance and someone had a magic wand and could change it for you ..would you take them up on the offer or would you fear it would change the person you are.

Are we maybe defined in a positive way by both our good and bad point, our strengths and weaknesses.

i am lacking in the boob department but i think i would decline the offer for a boob job for the reasons stated above but wondered what others would do ?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Who is typing? Mr or Mrs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my face, so i got a load of plastic surgery to make it better

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By *reelove1969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"Who is typing? Mr or Mrs? "

priceless !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would change everything and be a brown haired barbie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks. I wouldn't change much. Not much of a concern anywhere. I can safely say I would change my personality 100% and if it changes me as a person so be it. Can't be worse on what it is now

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I have alopecia, my lovely locks have all but gone so hair.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Who is typing? Mr or Mrs?

priceless ! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im already sorted lol see i had a little cock so i went to church and preyed i said plz god would you make my cock touch the floor and my legs fell off .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would just totally change my body, there's so much i would change, yes i think it would change my personality if i had a body i liked but for the better

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By *reelove1969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"my face, so i got a load of plastic surgery to make it better "

not in a cher way though ?

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

id love to get down to a size 14 dress

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I wish I had more elegant feet...

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Wish I was under 50 and within more people's upper age limits...

Wish I was a bit more extrovert...

I know that's two - but one was cheeky - the other was serious.

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By *reelove1969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"I would change everything and be a brown haired barbie "

who would your Ken be ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

salford your joking you look real cute t me honey stop putting yaself down xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy the way I am. Not to everyones taste but hey ho, x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love everything about me. Its what makes me me! if I changed anything I wouldn't be me.

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By *reelove1969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"I would just totally change my body, there's so much i would change, yes i think it would change my personality if i had a body i liked but for the better "

thats the problem i think ...would physical changes impact on your personality ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would get rid of all my wobbly bits so I'd have a hourglass figure instead of being shaped like a barrel!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm really, really going to try and get toned in 2014. I'm veggie and find it difficult to build muscle tone. I'd like a six pack and sort of tighten up a bit - not that I'm baggy or saggy, just a bit soft.

So my body shape is something I want to change. I'm not happy with it as it is. I'm confident and self aware enough to know I'm never going to look like the models in 'Mens Health' or someplace but I can do better.

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By *reelove1969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"Wish I was under 50 and within more people's upper age limits...

Wish I was a bit more extrovert...

I know that's two - but one was cheeky - the other was serious."

we all have that on our wish list i guess ..scraping into a few others criteria

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By *reelove1969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"I'm really, really going to try and get toned in 2014. I'm veggie and find it difficult to build muscle tone."

im similar ..not veggie but tend to avoid meat and it does reduce your protein intake alot ..maybe try quorn or something similar ...good luck anyway

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By *reelove1969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"I would get rid of all my wobbly bits so I'd have a hourglass figure instead of being shaped like a barrel! "

some guys will love your wobbly bits so whilst you may achieve some new fans ..you will also lose some old ones

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By *reelove1969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"I love everything about me. Its what makes me me! if I changed anything I wouldn't be me. "

im singing off the same hymn sheet i think ...i may change my mind yet though ..interesting reading the feed back ...thanks all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm really, really going to try and get toned in 2014. I'm veggie and find it difficult to build muscle tone. I'd like a six pack and sort of tighten up a bit - not that I'm baggy or saggy, just a bit soft.

So my body shape is something I want to change. I'm not happy with it as it is. I'm confident and self aware enough to know I'm never going to look like the models in 'Mens Health' or someplace but I can do better. "

A sixpack requires constant visits to the gym, and will be hard to acquire at your age. Just tone up if that's what you want - but there are more important things about a man than that. FWIW: you seem a very OK lad, and you look fine from behind.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

My dislike about how my marriage ended andthe way he hasn't made the effort in being a father to the kids.

Thats the only thing I would change x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would get rid of all my wobbly bits so I'd have a hourglass figure instead of being shaped like a barrel!

some guys will love your wobbly bits so whilst you may achieve some new fans ..you will also lose some old ones "

I want it for myself not to achieve fans!

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By *reelove1969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"

I want it for myself not to achieve fans! "

the best reason to make any change ..i wish you success in your pursuit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I want it for myself not to achieve fans!

the best reason to make any change ..i wish you success in your pursuit "

Thanks, and seeing as that magic wand you mentioned isn't likely to wave my way anytime soon, I'll stick to the diet and exercise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy with my body , its not perfect but wouldn't change it for anybody I am what I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if there is something you dont like about your personality, appearance and someone had a magic wand and could change it for you ..would you take them up on the offer or would you fear it would change the person you are.

Are we maybe defined in a positive way by both our good and bad point, our strengths and weaknesses.

i am lacking in the boob department but i think i would decline the offer for a boob job for the reasons stated above but wondered what others would do ?"

My feet....I hate my feet

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By *reelove1969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"I'm happy with my body , its not perfect but wouldn't change it for anybody I am what I am "

just went for a perve ..boo hiss to private galleries !

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By *reelove1969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol


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My feet....I hate my feet "

are you one of the white socks guys ??

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I would just totally change my body, there's so much i would change, yes i think it would change my personality if i had a body i liked but for the better

thats the problem i think ...would physical changes impact on your personality ?"

Yes they do! I changed massively after having my boobs done. Weird I know but it gave me more confidence in general.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm happy with my body , its not perfect but wouldn't change it for anybody I am what I am

just went for a perve ..boo hiss to private galleries ! "

As I said its not perfect

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I am in the process of changing the other thing I want to change, my weight and fitness, lost just over 2 stone so far, bit more to go, would be nice to wave a wand and get me their quicker but this way I get to feel like I've achieved something on my own

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By *reelove1969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"I am in the process of changing the other thing I want to change, my weight and fitness, lost just over 2 stone so far, bit more to go, would be nice to wave a wand and get me their quicker but this way I get to feel like I've achieved something on my own "

well done ...i understand where you are coming from with the sense of achievement as well ...probably wouldnt have meant so much to you if you had just woken up one morning with your new look !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm really, really going to try and get toned in 2014. I'm veggie and find it difficult to build muscle tone. I'd like a six pack and sort of tighten up a bit - not that I'm baggy or saggy, just a bit soft.

So my body shape is something I want to change. I'm not happy with it as it is. I'm confident and self aware enough to know I'm never going to look like the models in 'Mens Health' or someplace but I can do better. "

You look fine to me, mate.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I am in the process of changing the other thing I want to change, my weight and fitness, lost just over 2 stone so far, bit more to go, would be nice to wave a wand and get me their quicker but this way I get to feel like I've achieved something on my own

well done ...i understand where you are coming from with the sense of achievement as well ...probably wouldnt have meant so much to you if you had just woken up one morning with your new look !"

Indeed. I had to cheat with the boobs, sadly they never formed properly on their own so needed sorting but the weight loss has been gradual so I'm hoping it'll stay off!! X

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Maybe loose a bit weight but that's about it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd change my halo for one that doesn't need polishing so much....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd chop my belly off. Lost a fair bit of weight but my gut didn't shrink much x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'd like to be taller but that's it. I stand tall as a short person though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would change my nose to have it straightened after having it broken 3 times. But other than that I'm comfortable in my own skin and personality.

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By *reelove1969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"I have alopecia, my lovely locks have all but gone so hair."

have had that also and wore a hat ...it happened just before my sisters wedding ...doh !! does hit quite hard as hair does alter a womans apoearance quite radically so i underlstand exactly where you are coming from

wishing you all the best with the recovery !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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My feet....I hate my feet

are you one of the white socks guys ??"

HA!!! not owned white socks since the 80's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My labia's, I've been granted to put in an application :D

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I would love to tone my stomach up! Maybe that is something I can do, so in the new year?.....Foxy needs to get off her arse!

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"I would love to tone my stomach up! Maybe that is something I can do, so in the new year?.....Foxy needs to get off her arse! "

But foxy your stomach is fine and your arse....

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I would love to tone my stomach up! Maybe that is something I can do, so in the new year?.....Foxy needs to get off her arse!

But foxy your stomach is fine and your arse.... "

Foxy's stomach is far from fine! But I can do something about it, just needs to get arse in motion lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would get rid of all my wobbly bits so I'd have a hourglass figure instead of being shaped like a barrel! "

would be in the queue for some of that therapy myself!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'd like to look more convincing when dressed, but that is about it

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By *reelove1969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol

i think at the end of this thread we could have a fab fit club and all other things we would like to change about ourselves ...pool our resources and be a force to be reckoned with armed with our new years resolutions !!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I'd like to look more convincing when dressed, but that is about it "

Maybe it's the boobs???

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"I would love to tone my stomach up! Maybe that is something I can do, so in the new year?.....Foxy needs to get off her arse!

But foxy your stomach is fine and your arse....

Foxy's stomach is far from fine! But I can do something about it, just needs to get arse in motion lol "

From my point of view its fine of course if you needed a buddy to help you work up a sweat

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"I'd like to look more convincing when dressed, but that is about it "

More convincing

You convinced me

But i am short sighted

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

there are things i want to change (my size for one) but I want to do it, i dont want a magic wand or a magic pill or someone to pay for it I want t be able to say that i made that change possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to like myself until im came on hr but the pepole on hr make you feal like shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would like to look like and be kate moss. Her life looks ok to me.

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By *reelove1969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"there are things i want to change (my size for one) but I want to do it, i dont want a magic wand or a magic pill or someone to pay for it I want t be able to say that i made that change possible."

i dont think you are alone with that sentiment ..good luck and take it a day at a time ..it wont be easy but most things in life worth attaining arent !

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I used to like myself until im came on hr but the pepole on hr make you feal like shit "

How do others make you feel like shit? We're all virtual on here and people can be hurtful but all they can do is TRY and knock your confidence only you give them the power to actually affect you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to like myself until im came on hr but the pepole on hr make you feal like shit "

For me it worked the other way around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would get rid of all my wobbly bits so I'd have a hourglass figure instead of being shaped like a barrel! "

Me too

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By *reelove1969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"I used to like myself until im came on hr but the pepole on hr make you feal like shit "

if this site aint working for you i would probably consider closing this account and trying other sites ..there are lits out there ..good luck !

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"I'd like to look more convincing when dressed, but that is about it

Maybe it's the boobs??? "

I do stand out because of them and to be honest, they do hurt my passability. However, I like the look, so I'm making the best of it

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I used to like myself until im came on hr but the pepole on hr make you feal like shit "

Don't let them! Its words on a screen!

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By *reelove1969 OP   Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"i would like to look like and be kate moss. Her life looks ok to me. "

omg ..and she dated jonny depp !!!

i sooooo want to be her !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think my body, would like to be a bit more muscular and taller. And maybe a little more confident.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i would like to look like and be kate moss. Her life looks ok to me.

omg ..and she dated jonny depp !!!

i sooooo want to be her ! "

That sounds good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would love to tone my stomach up! Maybe that is something I can do, so in the new year?.....Foxy needs to get off her arse! "

Your stomach is perfect!! :D x

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I would love to tone my stomach up! Maybe that is something I can do, so in the new year?.....Foxy needs to get off her arse!

Your stomach is perfect!! :D x"

Bless you for saying so! But you know us females always have complaints

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used to like myself until im came on hr but the pepole on hr make you feal like shit "

Then you are on the wrong site if you take any notice if the people on here....

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

id stop being so gullible where some men are concerned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would love to tone my stomach up! Maybe that is something I can do, so in the new year?.....Foxy needs to get off her arse!

Your stomach is perfect!! :D x

Bless you for saying so! But you know us females always have complaints "

That's true haha! I might be getting surgery on my labia's next year :D x

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I would love to tone my stomach up! Maybe that is something I can do, so in the new year?.....Foxy needs to get off her arse!

Your stomach is perfect!! :D x

Bless you for saying so! But you know us females always have complaints

That's true haha! I might be getting surgery on my labia's next year :D x"

I was trying to send a PM but can't, so shall I ask here?

or you can PM me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there are things i want to change (my size for one) but I want to do it, i dont want a magic wand or a magic pill or someone to pay for it I want t be able to say that i made that change possible."

But you said you loved your wand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like the way my nose looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To have more confidence in general.

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