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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You frequently see, as a reason for not seeing married men, a statement along the lines of "I don't want some irate, wronged, wife turning up on my door step!"

There are nearly 17,500 people on line at this moment. Let us see how many have actually suffered this problem. I suspect it has happened, but it is a bit apocryphal.

NB. PLEASE UNDERSTAND, this is not about the morality of cheating etc. etc. etc. but simply, "Have you had a wronged wife turn up on your door step."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I don't give anyone my address.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope xx

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Not to me but an old fb of mine has had two bunny boilers turn up at his house to speak to his wife over the years. He often says I'm the only sane woman he ever played with. That'sreally jnot a good benchmark

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

No

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had loads....we've had to move into a mobile home to put them off track!

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

no but I caused a 12 yr old marriage to break up years ago his wife saw my pics on his phone after he ASKED me to send them she threw him out there and then

found out later he wanted to get rid of her so wanted her to see the pics but let me feel guilty for months

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not to me but an old fb of mine has had two bunny boilers turn up at his house to speak to his wife over the years. He often says I'm the only sane woman he ever played with. That'sreally jnot a good benchmark "

That made me laugh. Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We've had loads....we've had to move into a mobile home to put them off track! "

Yeah, right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no but I caused a 12 yr old marriage to break up years ago his wife saw my pics on his phone after he ASKED me to send them she threw him out there and then

found out later he wanted to get rid of her so wanted her to see the pics but let me feel guilty for months"

It wasn't you that caused the marriage to break up, it was him!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"no but I caused a 12 yr old marriage to break up years ago his wife saw my pics on his phone after he ASKED me to send them she threw him out there and then

found out later he wanted to get rid of her so wanted her to see the pics but let me feel guilty for months

It wasn't you that caused the marriage to break up, it was him!"

and the wife did not turn up at hers......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand where your going with this and have to say that no, its never happened to me. However, Ive never been hit by a bus but I wouldnt step in front of one either. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great topic!

I have seen a post in the forums claiming that the wronged wife has herself joined Fab and then messaged the friends and veris listed on the hubby's account.

I guess that's the online equivalent of having her appear on your (virtual) doorstep.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I understand where your going with this and have to say that no, its never happened to me. However, Ive never been hit by a bus but I wouldnt step in front of one either. lol"

It's about the reasoning behind the decision to not meet; is the irate wife risk real, perceived or a pragmatic excuse to cover another reason for not meeting married people?

I suspect that the nature of Fab meets means the wife/husband is far less likely to turn up at a "swingers" place, because of the transitory nature of the sex event, than they would if it was a vanilla affair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I've had a wife turn up and also received a number of calls of wives & girlfriends, so it does happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kept getting abusive calls off a guys wife accusing me of all sorts and warning me off him. thing was id never met the guy or even flirted with him. Was really annoying when she kept ringing at 3am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand where your going with this and have to say that no, its never happened to me. However, Ive never been hit by a bus but I wouldnt step in front of one either. lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phil has had this in the past and his answer to the wife was we didnt know he was married, at the end of the day yes i feel sorry for the "wronged" partner be it man or woman but surely you cant lay the blame at the play couples door, everyone is responsible for their own actions

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol

There may be 17,500 people online, but do you think all of them use the forums?

*Her*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had the call , infact calls from the wife and all over a cheesy chips and coleslaw text. He lied said he was single my bullshit monitor was off. Wife was devastated as was I.

I was truthful tho as I told the wife if he had told me I would probably still have met him but she would never have found a text from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had more issues with my meets previous meets than from possible wives getting involved,it seems theres a fair amount of territory pissing among some singles and who they play with

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Not had someone turn up at my door but have had someone's gf text me after she found messages frI'm me on his phone. Turned out she was pregnant and she wanted to know when we had met etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not turned up but I've had calls and texts from two women. Stupid men for lying and even more stupid for leaving their mobiles unattended!

One was text only but I met the other, only socially, so I could answer truthfully that nothing more had happened. She dumped him anyway as I wasn't the only 'strange' number she found

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"You frequently see, as a reason for not seeing married men, a statement along the lines of "I don't want some irate, wronged, wife turning up on my door step!"

There are nearly 17,500 people on line at this moment. Let us see how many have actually suffered this problem. I suspect it has happened, but it is a bit apocryphal.

NB. PLEASE UNDERSTAND, this is not about the morality of cheating etc. etc. etc. but simply, "Have you had a wronged wife turn up on your door step.""

Only about 0.01% of the site read the forums though.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

No-one on my doorstep but I have had calls.

Only very good friends get to come to my house and after some horrible calls from someone I turned down I'm really careful about who gets my number.

As well as the wronged wife risk married men bring a lot of other baggage including paranoia about meeting anywhere public (which I insist on for safety) and nervousness about hotels and clubs. Add in the silly things like complaining about perfume and lipstick and they're just not worth it.

I have nothing to hide and no shame about my behaviour and no desire to be somebody's grubby little secret, not able to tittilate with unexpected messages and pics and not able to meet at my convenience only at his.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You frequently see, as a reason for not seeing married men, a statement along the lines of "I don't want some irate, wronged, wife turning up on my door step!"

There are nearly 17,500 people on line at this moment. Let us see how many have actually suffered this problem. I suspect it has happened, but it is a bit apocryphal.

NB. PLEASE UNDERSTAND, this is not about the morality of cheating etc. etc. etc. but simply, "Have you had a wronged wife turn up on your door step."

Only about 0.01% of the site read the forums though. "

Do you have any proof of that statistic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope not yet

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon


"You frequently see, as a reason for not seeing married men, a statement along the lines of "I don't want some irate, wronged, wife turning up on my door step!"

There are nearly 17,500 people on line at this moment. Let us see how many have actually suffered this problem. I suspect it has happened, but it is a bit apocryphal.

NB. PLEASE UNDERSTAND, this is not about the morality of cheating etc. etc. etc. but simply, "Have you had a wronged wife turn up on your door step."

Only about 0.01% of the site read the forums though. "

Isn't that 17.5 people?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ive had messages on here from an irrate wife who was tracking down people that her husband had met several months earlier...

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Had some texts off an irate wife a few years back, I'd only met her husband once, he didn't know where I lived so I just ignored the texts

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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago

South Coast

I've had irate phone calls from the wife of a 'single' guy I met on here - I simply said that she was right to be angry but that the anger would be better directed at her husband, as I was not in the wrong

I've also had a string of shitty messages from a lady on here with regards to a certain gentleman I was chatting to and planning to meet. Needless to say the territory marking was enough to ensure I steer well clear! (Batshit crazy doesn't sit well with me)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not yet but then I wouldn't accommodate a married man in a hurry and certainly not a local one.

A few years ago I met a man, we started dating I believed he was single until I got a call off his wife who he had only married 8 months earlier and they were trying for a baby. She mailed about 6 months ago thanking me, she had dumped him and met someone else and was expecting the baby she wanted.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"Had some texts off an irate wife a few years back, I'd only met her husband once, he didn't know where I lived so I just ignored the texts"

Might have been the same wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was my X who was irate , made threatening calls to the poor unsuspecting guy and tried everything in his power to find out where he lived .

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I haven't had the irate wife on the doorstep, but I have had the wife contact me in disguise of her husband!

Using his email address to write to me pretending it was him, I nearly fell for it....until she mentioned something that had nothing to do with me

So for me....I stay well clear!

I'll deal with my own shit, not someone else's!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Had a few phone calls from a girlfriend but that's about it...

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"I understand where your going with this and have to say that no, its never happened to me. However, Ive never been hit by a bus but I wouldnt step in front of one either. lol"

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By *ove bi guysWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I never met the wronged wife but I had numerous vicious calls, messages and emails from her. When I threatened to call police and inform his work we met when he was off 'sick' she backed for a while. Couple of months later my front window was sprayed with awful graffiti .... he needed a new job and wife after that !

I was lied to and mistakenly trusted him... as I have got older my radar is much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had one girlfriend track down miss giggles on Facebook and message, but we simply told her the truth ...... She then messaged Paul to let him know what they had been doing ( thinking it was behind his back too) until he explained he was there

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By *oasterCockbumMan
over a year ago

Highway 61

I got a phone call from a stroppy woman a while back sayin that shed found texts from her hubby to this number and that my missus must be carrying on with her man ..... when I tuned her in that I didn't have a missus and we conversed for a bit it became apparent that her man was pretendin to be a chick ... id stopped txting when I smelt a rat ... she foned a second time a couple of weeks later and said shed found more guys hed been txting and that one admitted to shagging him ... lol ... she also said she'd binned him ... unsurprisingly ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand where your going with this and have to say that no, its never happened to me. However, Ive never been hit by a bus but I wouldnt step in front of one either. lol

It's about the reasoning behind the decision to not meet; is the irate wife risk real, perceived or a pragmatic excuse to cover another reason for not meeting married people?

I suspect that the nature of Fab meets means the wife/husband is far less likely to turn up at a "swingers" place, because of the transitory nature of the sex event, than they would if it was a vanilla affair. "

So other reasons they don't want to meet attached people...?

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

nope never happened to us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been the wronged girlfriend twice. I found out thanks to the carelessness of my ex's covering up.

I haven't confronted the women who spoke to/met/slept with my ex boyfriends but I have certainly had my revenge.

I know 100% for a fact with both ex's the women knew that the men they were meeting were attached so I don't feel any regret or sympathy for the consequences of my actions.

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

crystal

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By *ogistical NightmaresCouple
over a year ago

Manchester Area

Ok... when I (male half of profile) had a singles profile on another site bout 7 years ago I got a call from some guy who said he had found my number on his wifes phone (was a lie, he had requested duplicate phone statements from her mobile provider). His next question was "How well do you know my wife"...... My George "I cannot tell a lie" Washington alter ego kicked in and I replied.... "Intimately" and put the phone down.

Before anyone slates me, she had left him 6 months previously and I was not the first guy that she had had "Carnival Knowledge " of

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By *rsK69Woman
over a year ago

Neath


"Had one girlfriend track down miss giggles on Facebook and message, but we simply told her the truth ...... She then messaged Paul to let him know what they had been doing ( thinking it was behind his back too) until he explained he was there "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You frequently see, as a reason for not seeing married men, a statement along the lines of "I don't want some irate, wronged, wife turning up on my door step!"

There are nearly 17,500 people on line at this moment. Let us see how many have actually suffered this problem. I suspect it has happened, but it is a bit apocryphal.

NB. PLEASE UNDERSTAND, this is not about the morality of cheating etc. etc. etc. but simply, "Have you had a wronged wife turn up on your door step.""

No...she emailed my boss instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand where your going with this and have to say that no, its never happened to me. However, Ive never been hit by a bus but I wouldnt step in front of one either. lol"

Think also the reason not so many irate wives have turned up is that the cheating hubby's tend to be avoided and so minimises the risks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So Folks. Thank so much for your comments so far.

A handful of people have had texts and messages from wronged spouses and a couple have had physical meets.

So far it looks like the statistical probability of having an irate wife turn up is virtually nil. Similar to the chances of getting run over by an invisible bus.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"So Folks. Thank so much for your comments so far.

A handful of people have had texts and messages from wronged spouses and a couple have had physical meets.

So far it looks like the statistical probability of having an irate wife turn up is virtually nil. Similar to the chances of getting run over by an invisible bus. "

Are you reading the same replies as me?

I accept that not many have had an irate spouse turn up on their doorstep. But a significant amount have had to deal with one on the phone or internet.

So it may not be a bus, possibly more like a bicycle. But a bicycle can still cause major injuries!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've had loads....we've had to move into a mobile home to put them off track! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had some phone sex with a single male

Next day I had a very angry voice mail from his wife. To be honest it was really scary. If someone came to my house I dunno what I would do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So Folks. Thank so much for your comments so far.

A handful of people have had texts and messages from wronged spouses and a couple have had physical meets.

So far it looks like the statistical probability of having an irate wife turn up is virtually nil. Similar to the chances of getting run over by an invisible bus.

Are you reading the same replies as me?

I accept that not many have had an irate spouse turn up on their doorstep. But a significant amount have had to deal with one on the phone or internet.

So it may not be a bus, possibly more like a bicycle. But a bicycle can still cause major injuries!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I kept getting abusive calls off a guys wife accusing me of all sorts and warning me off him. thing was id never met the guy or even flirted with him. Was really annoying when she kept ringing at 3am "

How did she get your number?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I've never had my car engine freeze up,in fact I only know one person who has, but I still put anti-freeze in it.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

With the proliferation of truly single men on here I have no desire to play Russian roulette by choosing the attached ones.

After all, if a woman did turn up on my doorstep because I'd been playing with her other half, whether I knew or no she's still the innocent party abduction been badly treated.

I say in my profile that I don't meet attached and many of my meet rules discourage cheaters. There may still be one or two who are so good at lying they pass through all my checks but I still do what I can to avoid them.

I just indulge in all the lovely truly single men out there.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"So Folks. Thank so much for your comments so far.

A handful of people have had texts and messages from wronged spouses and a couple have had physical meets.

So far it looks like the statistical probability of having an irate wife turn up is virtually nil. Similar to the chances of getting run over by an invisible bus. "

But your sample size is too small to draught conclusion.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"You frequently see, as a reason for not seeing married men, a statement along the lines of "I don't want some irate, wronged, wife turning up on my door step!"

There are nearly 17,500 people on line at this moment. Let us see how many have actually suffered this problem. I suspect it has happened, but it is a bit apocryphal.

NB. PLEASE UNDERSTAND, this is not about the morality of cheating etc. etc. etc. but simply, "Have you had a wronged wife turn up on your door step."

Only about 0.01% of the site read the forums though.

Do you have any proof of that statistic? "

The sites own stats say it averages about 1% of the site population use the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been the wronged girlfriend twice. I found out thanks to the carelessness of my ex's covering up.

I haven't confronted the women who spoke to/met/slept with my ex boyfriends but I have certainly had my revenge.

I know 100% for a fact with both ex's the women knew that the men they were meeting were attached so I don't feel any regret or sympathy for the consequences of my actions.

Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.

crystal"

Sounds very sinister, what was your revenge??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been wronged by a guy I fell for quite recently. I heard gossip in the pub about his new gf and piccys on fbook I did a bit of digging sure as hell there are some. I sent her a pvt msg warning her what a tosser he is and how having being his fwb or dirty little secret for over a year she should watch herself. It's a long story that's the short of it. He's not best pleased but no doubt filled her with lies as she didn't reply etc. And no doubt she's fallen for his charm as I did. But karma has a way of showing true colours. Funny but he said he stopped playing when they started to get serious!!! Yeah that's why he had gangbang piccys on his profile lol. It does come across bitter I know but having supported a guy for well over a year after he found out he was cheated on. Sent him no end of parcels when he was overseas and been his shoulder to cry on when he called etc from overseas I think what he's done is a nasty thing. But guess his ex perhaps was onto him being a cheating scumbag and that's why she cheated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a tangled web

I know there are many reasons people do stray from their partners .... no one on here can ' judge' etc

Like I said earlier in this thread I would never want to be the cause of anyone elses heartache

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So Folks. Thank so much for your comments so far.

A handful of people have had texts and messages from wronged spouses and a couple have had physical meets.

So far it looks like the statistical probability of having an irate wife turn up is virtually nil. Similar to the chances of getting run over by an invisible bus.

But your sample size is too small to draught conclusion. "

If face cream manufacturers can deduce 80% of women like their product when they asked 63 out of the 4.4 billion women in the world I hope you can cut us some slack here. Hopefully, of those that replied, we have a representative cross section.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've never had my car engine freeze up,in fact I only know one person who has, but I still put anti-freeze in it."

Most people die in bed but we still go there.

The question was, has anyone actually had an irate wife turn up at their door.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So Folks. Thank so much for your comments so far.

A handful of people have had texts and messages from wronged spouses and a couple have had physical meets.

So far it looks like the statistical probability of having an irate wife turn up is virtually nil. Similar to the chances of getting run over by an invisible bus.

Are you reading the same replies as me?

I accept that not many have had an irate spouse turn up on their doorstep. But a significant amount have had to deal with one on the phone or internet.

So it may not be a bus, possibly more like a bicycle. But a bicycle can still cause major injuries!"

The question was specifically about turning up at the door. If it was about other contact I would have drawn a different conclusion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what was the purpose?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"You frequently see, as a reason for not seeing married men, a statement along the lines of "I don't want some irate, wronged, wife turning up on my door step!"

There are nearly 17,500 people on line at this moment. Let us see how many have actually suffered this problem. I suspect it has happened, but it is a bit apocryphal.

NB. PLEASE UNDERSTAND, this is not about the morality of cheating etc. etc. etc. but simply, "Have you had a wronged wife turn up on your door step.""

I think people use this reason as shorthand for " I don't want all the crap that goes with sometimes spouse finding out they've been meeting me for sex when they said they were at pottery classes and due to my meet leaving my number on his phone having to either change my sim or put up with phone calls and texts 24/7 and now that he's sorry and told her everything the possibility that she will join fab set up several profiles and harass me that way" or something along those lines

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

*someones

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So what was the purpose?"

To find out if the widely used story of wives turning up actually happens?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there actually any need for the eye rolling? I asked a simple question as you didnt make it clear what your interest was ....it could be argued that rather than showing that people are being overly cautious, it's entirely possible that because people wont meet due to this risk is the very reason why it doesnt happen often. Or some may think that the thread was in response to you being given that reason by someone unwilling to meet you on the fly.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"So what was the purpose?

To find out if the widely used story of wives turning up actually happens? "

Widely used where?

I've always taken that figuratively rather than literally.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

To be honest we'd be more worried about people that share a couples profile verifying each others single profiles.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"So Folks. Thank so much for your comments so far.

A handful of people have had texts and messages from wronged spouses and a couple have had physical meets.

So far it looks like the statistical probability of having an irate wife turn up is virtually nil. Similar to the chances of getting run over by an invisible bus.

But your sample size is too small to draught conclusion.

If face cream manufacturers can deduce 80% of women like their product when they asked 63 out of the 4.4 billion women in the world I hope you can cut us some slack here. Hopefully, of those that replied, we have a representative cross section. "

Fair point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no, we have never had an angry wife turn up on our doorstep.

but then, we dont meet married 'single' men, so its hardly likely to.

when i used to go out running i never got chafed nipples, but i vaselined them just in case, and this is the same.

why do something when you can not do something and completely avoid the possible consequences.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is there actually any need for the eye rolling? I asked a simple question as you didnt make it clear what your interest was ....it could be argued that rather than showing that people are being overly cautious, it's entirely possible that because people wont meet due to this risk is the very reason why it doesnt happen often. Or some may think that the thread was in response to you being given that reason by someone unwilling to meet you on the fly."

Sorry for the eye rolling. It is a very simple question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it was...I thought it best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From another site a few years ago I got 14 missed calls at work.

I answered one at work.

the wife....

Felt sorry for her as I hadn't actually met the guy face to face at that point.

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By *onny BonesMan
over a year ago

a block away from heaven


"It was my X who was irate , made threatening calls to the poor unsuspecting guy and tried everything in his power to find out where he lived ."

Surprised nobody commented on this. I have seen men on here get torn to shreds when they lie to partners!!!!

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

No but we had one call her husband when he was playing with us.

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By *obb2upCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

we have suffered from this and had the phone call,he got caught writing a verification and had left our postcode in the sat nav......... so we only meet single guys now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at my door but I had the call from a very distraught woman..... Never a nice thing and if I'd known he was married I wouldn't have for that exact reason..... I think it's a hypothetical door people talk about as in they certainly don't need the hassle that appears sometimes to go hand in hand with some married men, hence ruling all of them out.

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By *ess sexyWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I WAS the irate wife turning up on the doorstep! Then again the circumstances were very different from a straying husband having a bit of fun with a stranger. She was a "friend". Despite that I comported myself quite well lol.

I choose not to meet married men because of the hassle involved, all the only contact at certain times, no perfume, don't scratch my back etc etc etc. Spoils the spontaneity!

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By *mwstaffsMan
over a year ago

brownhills

I had the wife of a man that my lodger was seeing turn up at the door once , puts me off having another lodger a little

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes wronged wife turn up here, after a meet with so called single guy, that's why, going forward we won't meet unless rang them on home number, also those that cannot accom, whether it be genuine reason, will join no thanks list, as find more often that not, can't accommodate due to partner around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would be fun seeing as I don't sleep with men

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"no, we have never had an angry wife turn up on our doorstep.

but then, we dont meet married 'single' men, so its hardly likely to.

when i used to go out running i never got chafed nipples, but i vaselined them just in case, and this is the same.

why do something when you can not do something and completely avoid the possible consequences."

I would surmise that the chances of dying when running on the road I far higher than being killed by irate wives after having met married men for sex. Is this heightened risk why you stopped running?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"we have suffered from this and had the phone call,he got caught writing a verification and had left our postcode in the sat nav......... so we only meet single guys now "

OMG! An actual meet with an irate wife? Congratulations! How did it go?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

When I was a lot younger, very stupid and ruled by my hormones I had an affair with a married man at work. This was before mobile phones and the internet.

The wife came to my door and told me how much she was hurting knowing that her husband was cheating on her. She was very reasonable with me and in many ways that was much stronger than if she had blamed me, acted angrily and become violent.

On here I have been stalked and terrorised by a woman not happy that I remained friends with my ex. I don't know if she is still on the site or not but I now do my best to protect myself.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"You frequently see, as a reason for not seeing married men, a statement along the lines of "I don't want some irate, wronged, wife turning up on my door step!"

There are nearly 17,500 people on line at this moment. Let us see how many have actually suffered this problem. I suspect it has happened, but it is a bit apocryphal.

NB. PLEASE UNDERSTAND, this is not about the morality of cheating etc. etc. etc. but simply, "Have you had a wronged wife turn up on your door step.""

I know people who have experienced that....

if you had extended the question to include if people had had phone calls of texts... I am betting the number would be larger......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You frequently see, as a reason for not seeing married men, a statement along the lines of "I don't want some irate, wronged, wife turning up on my door step!"

There are nearly 17,500 people on line at this moment. Let us see how many have actually suffered this problem. I suspect it has happened, but it is a bit apocryphal.

NB. PLEASE UNDERSTAND, this is not about the morality of cheating etc. etc. etc. but simply, "Have you had a wronged wife turn up on your door step."

I know people who have experienced that....

if you had extended the question to include if people had had phone calls of texts... I am betting the number would be larger......"

I think you are correct but it was the face to face meeting that interested me. You can always put the phone down and block the number and "spam bin" the emails.

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