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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I often see guys with pics of their asses out on here, and often wonder what the appeal for women is?

As a male, my sexual organ is made to penetrate, therefore its perfectly understandable why I would find (good) pics of a womans pussy, mouth or ass attractive, but why would a woman want to see the same view of a male, where's the appeal, what excites you about his rear?

You can't all be into prostate massage and pegging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a guy with a cute bum. Its not all about prostate massaging and pegging! Its a visual thing. I guess the same reason you find women with gym bodies attractive!

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By * n zCouple
over a year ago

leamington spa

I'm not an arse woman, much prefer a nice torso or shoulders

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like a guy with a cute bum. Its not all about prostate massaging and pegging! Its a visual thing. I guess the same reason you find women with gym bodies attractive! "

Yes but I could reason that I find gym fit women attractive because they look particularly strong and healthy, why would you describe a guys bum as 'cute'? Is it 'cute' like a babies bum, does it make you feel warm and affectionate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had the pleasure of being rimmed and toyed its worth a try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i much prefer bum pictures to cock shots.. but prefer a picture of a mans shoulders back and arms though. Guess its to show strength and definition of muscles. Knowing a guy can pin me down and have his way mmmmmmm

back to bums, i just like the curves and if tensed the muscle definition..

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Much prefer to see a bum picture than a cock picture any day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a guy with a cute bum. Its not all about prostate massaging and pegging! Its a visual thing. I guess the same reason you find women with gym bodies attractive!

Yes but I could reason that I find gym fit women attractive because they look particularly strong and healthy, why would you describe a guys bum as 'cute'? Is it 'cute' like a babies bum, does it make you feel warm and affectionate?"

By cute, I mean smooth and not hairy. Same reasoning back at you, why describe a woman as cute? I find language descriptions gender neutral hence me using the word cute. I really like having a fondle of a bum when I'm having a snog with a guy, or having my hands on the cheeks of it when sucking a cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got loads of bum pics because they are always in demand lol

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket

Dont have any cock pics on my profile, gotta leave something to the imagination, so my bum is all that gets shown

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like a guy with a cute bum. Its not all about prostate massaging and pegging! Its a visual thing. I guess the same reason you find women with gym bodies attractive!

Yes but I could reason that I find gym fit women attractive because they look particularly strong and healthy, why would you describe a guys bum as 'cute'? Is it 'cute' like a babies bum, does it make you feel warm and affectionate?

By cute, I mean smooth and not hairy. Same reasoning back at you, why describe a woman as cute? "

Its not a word I use often to describe women I like, but if I did, it would probably because I find her looks girlish, ie big eyes, sweet smile, little nose, things that make me feel warmly affectionate toward her, that's how I'd define 'cute'.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

It's nothing to do with what I want to do to it, some bums just are aesthetically pleasing. Some torsos are too, as are some arms, some legs and some eyes.

Cocks give me pleasure but I don't find most of them attractive.

It's not about the functionality of the body part, it's about what I find visually appealing.

Why do I like what I like? Well, a psychology thesis or three could be written about that.

It's like art, sculpture, food, wine... Why do we like the things we do? We just do.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Much prefer to see a bum picture than a cock picture any day

"

here you go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dont have any cock pics on my profile, gotta leave something to the imagination, so my bum is all that gets shown "

Yeah I did this but they always ask for one after few messages so thought one or two cock pics wouldnt hurt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find her looks girlish, ie big eyes, sweet smile, little nose, things that make me feel warmly affectionate toward her, that's how I'd define 'cute'."

awwww Sexybrain you charmer

(gotta love selective copy n paste)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a guy with a cute bum. Its not all about prostate massaging and pegging! Its a visual thing. I guess the same reason you find women with gym bodies attractive!

Yes but I could reason that I find gym fit women attractive because they look particularly strong and healthy, why would you describe a guys bum as 'cute'? Is it 'cute' like a babies bum, does it make you feel warm and affectionate?

By cute, I mean smooth and not hairy. Same reasoning back at you, why describe a woman as cute?

Its not a word I use often to describe women I like, but if I did, it would probably because I find her looks girlish, ie big eyes, sweet smile, little nose, things that make me feel warmly affectionate toward her, that's how I'd define 'cute'."

I think that's the difference, you are using the word "cute" in a gender specific way, describing someone as looking "girlish" whereas I don't see words in a gender specific manner.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I guess for a male bum, "cute" means neat and toned. Tidy.

It's not a word I use often to describe bums though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like a guy with a cute bum. Its not all about prostate massaging and pegging! Its a visual thing. I guess the same reason you find women with gym bodies attractive!

Yes but I could reason that I find gym fit women attractive because they look particularly strong and healthy, why would you describe a guys bum as 'cute'? Is it 'cute' like a babies bum, does it make you feel warm and affectionate?

By cute, I mean smooth and not hairy. Same reasoning back at you, why describe a woman as cute?

Its not a word I use often to describe women I like, but if I did, it would probably because I find her looks girlish, ie big eyes, sweet smile, little nose, things that make me feel warmly affectionate toward her, that's how I'd define 'cute'.

I think that's the difference, you are using the word "cute" in a gender specific way, describing someone as looking "girlish" whereas I don't see words in a gender specific manner.

"

I only used the word girlish because I was relating them to a female, there's no reason why a male can't also have big eyes, a sweet smile and little nose, they're not gender specific qualities, but you'd probably describe a male with such features as 'boyish' and would likely be attracted to them for the same reason (assuming you liked the boyish look).

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Much prefer to see a bum picture than a cock picture any day

here you go! "
I've seen it, I've seen it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its been commented to me that grabbing my small, firm arse to pull my cock further in is a real turn on .. I imagine a large flabby arse would not be so nice to grab ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like a guy with a cute bum. Its not all about prostate massaging and pegging! Its a visual thing. I guess the same reason you find women with gym bodies attractive!

Yes but I could reason that I find gym fit women attractive because they look particularly strong and healthy, why would you describe a guys bum as 'cute'? Is it 'cute' like a babies bum, does it make you feel warm and affectionate?

By cute, I mean smooth and not hairy. Same reasoning back at you, why describe a woman as cute?

Its not a word I use often to describe women I like, but if I did, it would probably because I find her looks girlish, ie big eyes, sweet smile, little nose, things that make me feel warmly affectionate toward her, that's how I'd define 'cute'.

I think that's the difference, you are using the word "cute" in a gender specific way, describing someone as looking "girlish" whereas I don't see words in a gender specific manner.

I only used the word girlish because I was relating them to a female, there's no reason why a male can't also have big eyes, a sweet smile and little nose, they're not gender specific qualities, but you'd probably describe a male with such features as 'boyish' and would likely be attracted to them for the same reason (assuming you liked the boyish look)."

I think it all comes down to preferences, hence my reference to your love of gym bodies as you have previously said its something you find attractive. The other thing I like about a picture of a man's bum is it gives you a good indication about his body shape as well.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Much prefer to see a bum picture than a cock picture any day

here you go! I've seen it, I've seen it "

It was a reminder! It was a reminder!

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By *himanMan
over a year ago

chichester

Its bumtastic !!!

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands


"i much prefer bum pictures to cock shots..

i just like the curves and if tensed the muscle definition..

"

This^^^^^

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

There is probably something deep within our psyche that makes certain body aspects and components alluring and a turn on. Some things are beyond words, such as trying to describe a persons identity/personality that would differentiate them from millions of others. I like to see a good firm neat ass on a guy, as well as many other things about him. Why? I have no clue, it is just part of the chemistry.

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

Given our distant evolution and the prevalence of other male primates using the display of their bums as part of courtship my guess is on this being an inherent human trait.

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

More subconscious than reasoned attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's nothing to do with what I want to do to it, some bums just are aesthetically pleasing. Some torsos are too, as are some arms, some legs and some eyes.

Cocks give me pleasure but I don't find most of them attractive.

It's not about the functionality of the body part, it's about what I find visually appealing.

Why do I like what I like? Well, a psychology thesis or three could be written about that.

It's like art, sculpture, food, wine... Why do we like the things we do? We just do."

Couldn't have said it better my self xx

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I love a bum in pics like Funky monkey .. round firm cheeks .yummm

Grabable and bite able oh yes.

I loath totally the bend over balls dangley arse hole pics.. I immediately check for bi/gayness as to me that is what it depicts. I cannot imagine any woman liking that.. sorry if im wrong here.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I often see guys with pics of their asses out on here, and often wonder what the appeal for women is?

As a male, my sexual organ is made to penetrate, therefore its perfectly understandable why I would find (good) pics of a womans pussy, mouth or ass attractive, but why would a woman want to see the same view of a male, where's the appeal, what excites you about his rear?

You can't all be into prostate massage and pegging? "

Not in the slightest in my case!! Bums aren't a particular turn on but they can be very attractive on a purely aesthetic level, and part of a bigger picture, ie demonstrate a toned phsyique, good hip to shoulder ratio etc. That ratio is a big trigger for me.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I love a bum in pics like Funky monkey .. round firm cheeks .yummm

Grabable and bite able oh yes.

I loath totally the bend over balls dangley arse hole pics.. I immediately check for bi/gayness as to me that is what it depicts. I cannot imagine any woman liking that.. sorry if im wrong here."

I don't like those sort either actually even though I'm bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like women perving my bum...if they want shagged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i much prefer bum pictures to cock shots.. but prefer a picture of a mans shoulders back and arms though. Guess its to show strength and definition of muscles. Knowing a guy can pin me down and have his way mmmmmmm

back to bums, i just like the curves and if tensed the muscle definition..

Well my Profile pic, Shows my back bum and arms so hope You like x

"

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"i much prefer bum pictures to cock shots.. but prefer a picture of a mans shoulders back and arms though. Guess its to show strength and definition of muscles. Knowing a guy can pin me down and have his way mmmmmmm

back to bums, i just like the curves and if tensed the muscle definition..

Well my Profile pic, Shows my back bum and arms so hope You like x

"

have you got a front bum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i much prefer bum pictures to cock shots.. but prefer a picture of a mans shoulders back and arms though. Guess its to show strength and definition of muscles. Knowing a guy can pin me down and have his way mmmmmmm

back to bums, i just like the curves and if tensed the muscle definition..

Well my Profile pic, Shows my back bum and arms so hope You like x

have you got a front bum? "

Haha ye Just realised how that read lol....

Back, bum and arms lol

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I love a nice bum, and I have no desire to go at one with a strap on! A pert, not hairy, bottom is lovely to grab and squeeze.

Funky, infinite.o, etc are perfect examples of a lovely bottom that I could happily squeeze all day long.

Agree with cinn tho, any bent over gaping arse pics or ones with veg etc stuck up them...yuk!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often see guys with pics of their asses out on here, and often wonder what the appeal for women is?

As a male, my sexual organ is made to penetrate, therefore its perfectly understandable why I would find (good) pics of a womans pussy, mouth or ass attractive, but why would a woman want to see the same view of a male, where's the appeal, what excites you about his rear?

You can't all be into prostate massage and pegging? "

the same as looking at the pic of a chest or belly I guess

something are just visually appealing they don't have to be sexual parts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could stare at Funky's bum all day and not get bored with the view

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"I could stare at Funky's bum all day and not get bored with the view "

shoosh dont say that outloud you know he will get big headed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often see guys with pics of their asses out on here, and often wonder what the appeal for women is?

As a male, my sexual organ is made to penetrate, therefore its perfectly understandable why I would find (good) pics of a womans pussy, mouth or ass attractive, but why would a woman want to see the same view of a male, where's the appeal, what excites you about his rear?

You can't all be into prostate massage and pegging? "

I'm attracted to a certain personality type ... I can't stick my dick into a personality

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By *himanMan
over a year ago

chichester


"I could stare at Funky's bum all day and not get bored with the view "
oi what bout my bum lol x

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