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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it just me or does everyone else get bored of this site after countless msgs and no replies ? Maybe its just that I'm fat and ugly !! What do you lot think ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just me or does everyone else get bored of this site after countless msgs and no replies ? Maybe its just that I'm fat and ugly !! What do you lot think ?

It's probably lack of pictures and certainly lack of avatar.

It's much easier to delete mails that you can't see a decent avatar , if you don't make an effort with the pictures, is the mail worth reading

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

I think that a married man on here for such a little time and moaning about no meets will possibly attract some less than wanted responses..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

You've been here a week... As a wise man says it's not instashag

And your married which will put some off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here's the top 3 responses your about to get

1. your married without wifes consent, that's off putting to a lot of people

2. youve got no photos

3. your bio doesn't say alot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nah, i'm fat and ugly and I get loads of reply's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here's the top 3 responses your about to get

1. your married without wifes consent, that's off putting to a lot of people

2. youve got no photos

3. your bio doesn't say alot

Oi.....what about number 4....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I?e actually been on here about 6 months but deleted it in frustration ! I've tried the putting pics up thing and the honesty is best thing !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here's the top 3 responses your about to get

1. your married without wifes consent, that's off putting to a lot of people

2. youve got no photos

3. your bio doesn't say alot

Oi.....what about number 4....

Whats number 4?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here's the top 3 responses your about to get

1. your married without wifes consent, that's off putting to a lot of people

2. youve got no photos

3. your bio doesn't say alot

Oi.....what about number 4....

Whats number 4?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here's the top 3 responses your about to get

1. your married without wifes consent, that's off putting to a lot of people

2. youve got no photos

3. your bio doesn't say alot

Oi.....what about number 4....

Whats number 4?

....

I've missed the point of that post haven't i?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Agree with the above!

Married, no pics, on for a week and expecting what???

Instashag? Not good really

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Read the one that says I?e been on here for 6 months !! Not just a week !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fat and ugly bit, is too woe is me, let people take you for who you are, or maybe they are not worth knowing.

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By *icboyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Agree with the above!

Married, no pics, on for a week and expecting what???

Instashag? Not good really

Agreed...if you dont tick more boxes then you are always going to struggle...

Get yourself to socials and or clubs...meet like minded folk...and you will see that that will make a huge difference to you...

But having said that your profile needs a bit of work...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here's the top 3 responses your about to get

1. your married without wifes consent, that's off putting to a lot of people

2. youve got no photos

3. your bio doesn't say alot

Oi.....what about number 4....

Whats number 4?

....

I've missed the point of that post haven't i?"

Oh dear,,,,,, OK I'll try and keep it simple....... Number 4 =

Thus far there are way more

responses posted in this thread than any other type of response therefore elevating

to number one spot......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been on here a few week. Met a lovely lady and meet up still.

I send messages and still get nothing. I was a lucky bugger.

I have a bio, profile pic and veri. That means nothing. You have to somehow write like a modern Shakespeare and look like B Pitt and G butler with the charm of R Brand

Which I do all of the above and get nothing. Ha ha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been on here a few week. Met a lovely lady and meet up still.

I send messages and still get nothing. I was a lucky bugger.

I have a bio, profile pic and veri. That means nothing. You have to somehow write like a modern Shakespeare and look like B Pitt and G butler with the charm of R Brand

Which I do all of the above and get nothing. Ha ha. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here's the top 3 responses your about to get

1. your married without wifes consent, that's off putting to a lot of people

2. youve got no photos

3. your bio doesn't say alot

Oi.....what about number 4....

Whats number 4?

....

I've missed the point of that post haven't i?

Oh dear,,,,,, OK I'll try and keep it simple....... Number 4 =

Thus far there are way more

responses posted in this thread than any other type of response therefore elevating

to number one spot......

That's a little embarrassing, I'm going back to bed

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Read the one that says I?e been on here for 6 months !! Not just a week ! "

Your profile say's joined = 1 week ago

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"Here's the top 3 responses your about to get

1. your married without wifes consent, that's off putting to a lot of people

2. youve got no photos

3. your bio doesn't say alot

Oi.....what about number 4....

Whats number 4?

....

I've missed the point of that post haven't i?

Oh dear,,,,,, OK I'll try and keep it simple....... Number 4 =

Thus far there are way more

responses posted in this thread than any other type of response therefore elevating

to number one spot......

That's a little embarrassing, I'm going back to bed"

Oi what you doing out of your coffin,,

you have Man flu,,,, note the word have not had, hou re halucinating delusional not thinking rationally,, its a definite case of being a man flu victim, coffin mister

Op theres nothing much to add to the posts already, other than patience ,, if you deleted your old profile because you had no luck last time what do you think has changed,?

Only you can change how you go about things,, ;-

Have fun whilst your searching and messaging,, )

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

You deleted your previous profile because you were frustrated that you couldn't get any meets, is that correct? What has changed about your approach? The same input will result in the same output. Change what you are doing if you want a better outcome.

I agree that stating you are married and cheating is better than lying about it but it will narrow your market on a site already offering slim odds.

Perhaps be clearer about what you want and can offer, especially about the accommodating. I wouldn't like the idea of a husband taking a one off shag into the marital home and I am sure there will be others thinking the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here's the top 3 responses your about to get

1. your married without wifes consent, that's off putting to a lot of people

2. youve got no photos

3. your bio doesn't say alot

Oi.....what about number 4....

Whats number 4?

....

I've missed the point of that post haven't i?

Oh dear,,,,,, OK I'll try and keep it simple....... Number 4 =

Thus far there are way more

responses posted in this thread than any other type of response therefore elevating

to number one spot......

That's a little embarrassing, I'm going back to bed

Oi what you doing out of your coffin,,

you have Man flu,,,, note the word have not had, hou re halucinating delusional not thinking rationally,, its a definite case of being a man flu victim, coffin mister

Op theres nothing much to add to the posts already, other than patience ,, if you deleted your old profile because you had no luck last time what do you think has changed,?

Only you can change how you go about things,, ;-

Have fun whilst your searching and messaging,, )

Thanks John, I am still feeling a little sore, but my MANstitution has gotten me over the worse of it and I am now on the road to recovery

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

No public pics at all will put people off.

Being married will put people off.

Also it might just be me but a married man that can accom would suggest you're going to sneak people round while the wife is at work etc. and even if I met married guys I'd find that pretty off putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Read the one that says I?e been on here for 6 months !! Not just a week ! "

That just tells people you regularly chuck a queenie fit and flounce off in a huff. Not attractive.

Get some pics, get a profile and stop moaning.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"Here's the top 3 responses your about to get

1. your married without wifes consent, that's off putting to a lot of people

2. youve got no photos

3. your bio doesn't say alot

Oi.....what about number 4....

Whats number 4?

....

I've missed the point of that post haven't i?

Oh dear,,,,,, OK I'll try and keep it simple....... Number 4 =

Thus far there are way more

responses posted in this thread than any other type of response therefore elevating

to number one spot......

That's a little embarrassing, I'm going back to bed

Oi what you doing out of your coffin,,

you have Man flu,,,, note the word have not had, hou re halucinating delusional not thinking rationally,, its a definite case of being a man flu victim, coffin mister

Op theres nothing much to add to the posts already, other than patience ,, if you deleted your old profile because you had no luck last time what do you think has changed,?

Only you can change how you go about things,, ;-

Have fun whilst your searching and messaging,, )

Thanks John, I am still feeling a little sore, but my MANstitution has gotten me over the worse of it and I am now on the road to recovery

Have you the need for a nurse still,? I m sure theirs a nurse on here that will mop your fevered brow,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here's the top 3 responses your about to get

1. your married without wifes consent, that's off putting to a lot of people

2. youve got no photos

3. your bio doesn't say alot

Oi.....what about number 4....

Whats number 4?

....

I've missed the point of that post haven't i?

Oh dear,,,,,, OK I'll try and keep it simple....... Number 4 =

Thus far there are way more

responses posted in this thread than any other type of response therefore elevating

to number one spot......

That's a little embarrassing, I'm going back to bed

Oi what you doing out of your coffin,,

you have Man flu,,,, note the word have not had, hou re halucinating delusional not thinking rationally,, its a definite case of being a man flu victim, coffin mister

Op theres nothing much to add to the posts already, other than patience ,, if you deleted your old profile because you had no luck last time what do you think has changed,?

Only you can change how you go about things,, ;-

Have fun whilst your searching and messaging,, )

Thanks John, I am still feeling a little sore, but my MANstitution has gotten me over the worse of it and I am now on the road to recovery

Have you the need for a nurse still,? I m sure theirs a nurse on here that will mop your fevered brow,

I kept asking around, but being a fat and ugly married man, no one messaged me back

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Read the one that says I?e been on here for 6 months !! Not just a week ! "

ooh a hissy fit..

that's attractive..

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"Read the one that says I?e been on here for 6 months !! Not just a week !

ooh a hissy fit..

that's attractive.."

*coughs* , Its born of 6 months AND,,, AND One weeks frustration :-

dont you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just me or does everyone else get bored of this site after countless msgs and no replies ? Maybe its just that I'm fat and ugly !! What do you lot think ?

Is you wife available to meet? We might be interested in her!

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"Read the one that says I?e been on here for 6 months !! Not just a week !

That just tells people you regularly chuck a queenie fit and flounce off in a huff. Not attractive.

Get some pics, get a profile and stop moaning."

Oh yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a little patience and change your approach

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By *r tickle 22Man
over a year ago

Sheffeld

Don't worry mate its not you i send messages out the minority of people 90% can't be bothered to send one back , even a no thanks would be nice so if I don't get a message back I just block them no point in me wasting their time again .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...let me be your best example. I'm not the best thing since sliced bread on here. And i'm certainly not from the norm with short legs and a very strange look.

It was quiet at first and i didn't get any meets nor was i that active on the site. I wanted to take my time and get to know people before i did anything else. I knew i wasn't going to get meets instantly and that a lot would say 'no thanks' to me. So, that expectation was there.

I've been patient. Poked my face around a few places here and there. And now, i'm loving it. Only thing left for me now is to explore the club scene and my adventure begins.

So, be patient and respectful - you'd see that the site isn't actually all that bad.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Is it just me or does everyone else get bored of this site after countless msgs and no replies ?"

It's not everyone, certainly. I get repies and am not bored with the site.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Don't worry mate its not you i send messages out the minority of people 90% can't be bothered to send one back , even a no thanks would be nice so if I don't get a message back I just block them no point in me wasting their time again .

Here's a thought. Maybe you're both doing it wrong.

Hmmm two people getting bad results. Which is most likely, that there is something wrong with what those two people are doing, or there is something wrong with every other person on the site?

If I tell you that some men get replies and meets, what does that suggest to you?

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By *r tickle 22Man
over a year ago

Sheffeld

Being polite doesn't cost anything if someone take the time to message you it would be polite to get a message back.

That's how I see it !

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I messaged a lady on here. I'd read her profile, wrote her an individual message which was well crafted, polite and no text speak and guess what I got in return?

That's right - a barrage of filth, disgustingly graphic suggestions, scenarios that made me wide eyed, the most intimate sexually detailed plans, ideas and what I can only describe as unadulterated physical sexual antics.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Being polite doesn't cost anything if someone take the time to message you it would be polite to get a message back.

That's how I see it !"

Only because you are only seeing it from your point of view.

This is discussed regularly on here. There are lots of very valid reasons why people don't reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One word..... PROFILE!! or lack of it!!

If you're too lazy boring to fill it out, you're probably just as lazy n boring in bed!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I messaged a lady on here. I'd read her profile, wrote her an individual message which was well crafted, polite and no text speak and guess what I got in return?

And it made your day, no doubt. Champing at the bit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here's the top 3 responses your about to get

1. your married without wifes consent, that's off putting to a lot of people "

Are you suggesting he's a polygamist as well?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not loving the hairstyle on your avatar pic

married, male, short profile, no pics and no stamina, in one week you have had enough...

Not looking to good is it

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