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By *rtemisia OP Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

Afraid of spiders?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no one is until someone tells them that they are nasty and scary.. when they were small

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By *rtemisia OP Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

Maybe genetic memory has a part to play?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its learned behaviour.

the same as shame, guilt, right and wrong.

you see your mother/friends/relatives going crazy about them and soon enough they become something scary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and sometimes bad advice from parents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no idea, my daughter hates them it drives me nuts. she's actually called me home from work before to kill one as she was stuck in the bathroom and to scared to pass it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they're hairy ugly leggy fuckers that go really fast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Afraid of spiders?

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I am not only the ones that may kill me ... I even pick up put out the window ... I was reading in a lifetime most people will swallow a spider in there sleep .

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

"Because they're hairy ugly leggy fuckers that go really fast"
so am i but id never hurt anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they're hairy ugly leggy fuckers that go really fast"

Exactly this! Its the way they move, freaks me out

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I was fine with spiders until one tried biting me on the thumb, lucky for me (well it wasnt trying to kill me) it bit my nail so didnt hurt or perforate my skin.

I never used to be scared of snakes but I cant stand looking at them on the tv, freak me right out, Ive even held them before now.

Im not sure why though, they make me want to spew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Afraid of spiders?

I am not only the ones that may kill me ... I even pick up put out the window ... I was reading in a lifetime most people will swallow a spider in there sleep .

i'm not afraid of them but I can't pick them up they just feel weird, I always use a glass and a sheet of paper to catch them then put them outside

my dad used to leave them in the house, he'd say whenever you have spider you don't have flies, I think that's why they don't bother me

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By *ingerbicky69Woman
over a year ago

EXETER

Its birds for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The film Arachnophobia with scream spider scared the be-Jesus out of me as a kid and I hate the buggers.

The speed they move is just wrong. I have the hebbi jebbies

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By *rtemisia OP Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

"I was fine with spiders until one tried biting me on the thumb, lucky for me (well it wasnt trying to kill me) it bit my nail so didnt hurt or perforate my skin.

I never used to be scared of snakes but I cant stand looking at them on the tv, freak me right out, Ive even held them before now.

Im not sure why though, they make me want to spew"

I have a pet python and he is so lovely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not bothered, when i find a huge 1, i put it outside, till then, id rather hav a few spiders, than flys and bugs! My 2yr old loves spiders, their all called charlotte(charlottes web). Loves holding my mates tarantula.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"I was fine with spiders until one tried biting me on the thumb, lucky for me (well it wasnt trying to kill me) it bit my nail so didnt hurt or perforate my skin.

I never used to be scared of snakes but I cant stand looking at them on the tv, freak me right out, Ive even held them before now.

Im not sure why though, they make me want to spew

I have a pet python and he is so lovely!"

I really dont mean to dis snakes, I love nature, this dosent mean I walk round hiking in the nude

Im also scared of cats and horses, but getting better with these two.

A lot of it is to do with I cant read them, if any of them want to attack me I wont be able to see it coming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a pet python and he is so lovely!"

I love snakes, had a python and boa. Also had pet rats but spiders do send a shiver up my spine.

Think it's down to how my Mum reacted to them while I was growing up.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Because they're hairy ugly leggy fuckers that go really fast"

Pretty much sums it up.

I've owned some pretty scary snakes in my time, one could of killed me if it wanted to it was so big and strong, was I bothered? Nope,

Anything bigger than a money spider and I'm a blubbering mess x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im also scared of cats and horses, but getting better with these two.

A lot of it is to do with I cant read them, if any of them want to attack me I wont be able to see it coming."

Cats and horses are easy to read, I can usually feel the tension down the lead rope or between my legs before they are about to do something and most give clear signals with their ears.

And cats with their tails and posture.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Im also scared of cats and horses, but getting better with these two.

A lot of it is to do with I cant read them, if any of them want to attack me I wont be able to see it coming.

Cats and horses are easy to read, I can usually feel the tension down the lead rope or between my legs before they are about to do something and most give clear signals with their ears.

And cats with their tails and posture. "

Im like that with dogs, never been scared of them, quite happy to sit on the floor and let a snarler come and check me out - stupid I know and one day I will regret it.

One minute cats are like 'Yeah do that shit

stroke me,

make me purr' next thing

have that ya bastard, you stroked me once too many times, Im going over here now, fuck you human being.

Im now looking at my hand thinking 'That fucking hurt, both my skin and my feelings, you fooled me'.

I fell off a donkey once when I was a kid and a few years back when I was trying to be nice to it a shire horse stood on my foot, It didnt mean it though, or so thats what the guy with it told me.

They are big though and I really do think people who sit on them are brave.

As for those little ol jockeys going fast and jumping shit, really brave.

I am a fanny really but I have flown birds of prey so feel I kind of even out on the man points in this one. Im back to equal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never used to have a problem with the little blighters

as I have gotten older they terrify me more and more, cannot explain it and just cannot deal with them

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By *lentyoffun40Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

"never used to have a problem with the little blighters

as I have gotten older they terrify me more and more, cannot explain it and just cannot deal with them

Same here . Never really liked them but ha an experience with one about 18 years ago . I'm sure the fucker would have bit me if I'd have Been any slower

Now 41 and petrified of the shits

Proper make me feel sick

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

my son is scared of sheep. we where picnicing in a field when he was young and rather than wee in the hedge he himself cause he thought the sheep in the next field would come and get his willy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fine with spiders. Moths on the other hand...

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"my son is scared of sheep. we where picnicing in a field when he was young and rather than wee in the hedge he himself cause he thought the sheep in the next field would come and get his willy lol"

They do, he has a point.

Kind Regards

Dirtyuker

South Wales

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate spiders creepy little feckers both me and Daz have been biten by one he didn't believe I had went to pick it up and it bit his hand so now we both stomp on them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im also scared of cats and horses, but getting better with these two.

A lot of it is to do with I cant read them, if any of them want to attack me I wont be able to see it coming.

Cats and horses are easy to read, I can usually feel the tension down the lead rope or between my legs before they are about to do something and most give clear signals with their ears.

And cats with their tails and posture. "

Plus cats and horses wont try and kill you with their massive fangs, encase you in silk and dissolve you slowly.

Well the cats might. Bastards.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Im also scared of cats and horses, but getting better with these two.

A lot of it is to do with I cant read them, if any of them want to attack me I wont be able to see it coming.

Cats and horses are easy to read, I can usually feel the tension down the lead rope or between my legs before they are about to do something and most give clear signals with their ears.

And cats with their tails and posture.

Plus cats and horses wont try and kill you with their massive fangs, encase you in silk and dissolve you slowly.

Well the cats might. Bastards. "

You made that sound quite sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my son is scared of sheep. we where picnicing in a field when he was young and rather than wee in the hedge he himself cause he thought the sheep in the next field would come and get his willy lol"

Lol when I was about 4 my Dad lifted me into a cow field to have a wee over a small hedge. This bloody cow almost licked my arse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not scared of spiders but I am of bee's

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over a year ago

"my son is scared of sheep. we where picnicing in a field when he was young and rather than wee in the hedge he himself cause he thought the sheep in the next field would come and get his willy lol

Lol when I was about 4 my Dad lifted me into a cow field to have a wee over a small hedge. This bloody cow almost licked my arse! "

What was the cows name and which field

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

"my son is scared of sheep. we where picnicing in a field when he was young and rather than wee in the hedge he himself cause he thought the sheep in the next field would come and get his willy lol

Lol when I was about 4 my Dad lifted me into a cow field to have a wee over a small hedge. This bloody cow almost licked my arse!

What was the cows name and which field

haha

Theres a photo on the net of a cow with its head stuck in the fence, the next pic shows another cow mounting it while the other cow still has its head stuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not scared of spiders but I am of bee's

Bees are friendly, wasps are evil x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are spiders that is all you need to know lol

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