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By *ackiekenny two OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Ive had an offer from a lady double my age im not sure if i would feel comfy with anything she might intend for us

so what in asking is whats you thoughts on how old is to old keeping in mind this is mainly for myself

any advice would be welcome along with the banter aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sex is sex age should not matter if you find the lady attractive....simples

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By *n need of helpCouple
over a year ago

hull

its a fuck .do it

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By *rthur WrightusMan
over a year ago

Round the Bend

Many a good tune played on an old fiddle. . . . I would have a fiddle

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

What is your age limit? I won't meet people twenty years older or younger but that's my limits.

If you feel uncomfortable just say no.

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By *ackiekenny two OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Thanks

and im not sure as she looks great just looking to see what other people think ive always said before age is just a number. And here comes the but i never thought i would have this offer on the table

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Have you met her for a coffee or a glass of wine?

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By *ackiekenny two OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Have you met her for a coffee or a glass of wine? "

Thats the idea then back to hers . Why what are you thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she looks well go for it I have a thing for the more mature woman that has taken good care of herself.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Have you met her for a coffee or a glass of wine?

Thats the idea then back to hers . Why what are you thinking "

Meet her and you'll know how you feel. Have the proviso that if it feels wrong for either party then nothing happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your upper age limit is 50 so whatsva few more years. We oldies can still play a good tune. Just enjoy eachothers company. X

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By *ackiekenny two OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Your upper age limit is 50 so whatsva few more years. We oldies can still play a good tune. Just enjoy eachothers company. X"

very true i shall decide very soon any ither advise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your upper age limit is 50 so whatsva few more years. We oldies can still play a good tune. Just enjoy eachothers company. X

very true i shall decide very soon any ither advise "

You must have been attracted to the lady to ask this question.so if she said she was twenty years younger you wouldn't have known anyway,and gone to meet her.so she is being honest,but what difference does age make,it's not as though your going to get married,it's maybe a bit of Funtime,and as other have said.many a good tune is played on an old fiddle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is a number.

If she knows what she wants and you are attracted then go for it.

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By *ackiekenny two OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Your upper age limit is 50 so whatsva few more years. We oldies can still play a good tune. Just enjoy eachothers company. X

very true i shall decide very soon any ither advise

You must have been attracted to the lady to ask this question.so if she said she was twenty years younger you wouldn't have known anyway,and gone to meet her.so she is being honest,but what difference does age make,it's not as though your going to get married,it's maybe a bit of Funtime,and as other have said.many a good tune is played on an old fiddle."

i was amd still am attracted to her nothing stopping me just wanted some advice and i think same as just about all of you thats posted thanks just had to get it out there

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By *litlicker77Man
over a year ago

Carlisle

Best sex can be with an older lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you like her as a person and are attracted to her then I don't see an issue, 52 is hardly ancient and you're hardly likely to break her in any way

Stop sweating about numbers and go for it...

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Just go for it.

My fb was 21 when we first met and I was 40 and I wasted 6 months not meeting him due to being hung up on the age thing!!! After an amazing 18 months with him before he moved away I wish I'd not wasted the 6 months dithering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be grateful for any offer right now

The least you could do is have a social meet first and see if she looks like her photos

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By *ackiekenny two OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I'd be grateful for any offer right now

The least you could do is have a social meet first and see if she looks like her photos

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Very positive stuff here i never said 52 was past it just asking for little advise and everyones help in doing so has made my mind up just to go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be grateful for any offer right now

The least you could do is have a social meet first and see if she looks like her photos

Very positive stuff here i never said 52 was past it just asking for little advise and everyones help in doing so has made my mind up just to go for it "

Good man

You might even enjoy yourself you'll only regret it if you don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your upper age limit is 50 so whatsva few more years. We oldies can still play a good tune. Just enjoy eachothers company. X

very true i shall decide very soon any ither advise

You must have been attracted to the lady to ask this question.so if she said she was twenty years younger you wouldn't have known anyway,and gone to meet her.so she is being honest,but what difference does age make,it's not as though your going to get married,it's maybe a bit of Funtime,and as other have said.many a good tune is played on an old fiddle.

i was amd still am attracted to her nothing stopping me just wanted some advice and i think same as just about all of you thats posted thanks just had to get it out there "

If your attracted to her and your getting along chatting, I don't see any issue, age shouldn't be a problem. I'd go for it it might be fucking fantastic

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

My grandmother was hagging at 76

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Grandad would have been furious they lived at 54

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"My grandmother was hagging at 76

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Grandad would have been furious they lived at 54 "

F,,,ing phone *shagging,,

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford


"Ive had an offer from a lady double my age im not sure if i would feel comfy with anything she might intend for us

so what in asking is whats you thoughts on how old is to old keeping in mind this is mainly for myself

any advice would be welcome along with the banter aswell "
would you like me to come along and hold your hand

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By *ackiekenny two OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Ooo could you do that hold me hand and make sure the road is clear aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive had an offer from a lady double my age im not sure if i would feel comfy with anything she might intend for us

so what in asking is whats you thoughts on how old is to old keeping in mind this is mainly for myself

any advice would be welcome along with the banter aswell "

You lucky bastard!!!!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

You are 26 so a rough calculation (bare with me) means... the offer must be from a lady of 52.

That is a very drillable age.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

If you are not comfortable then don't do it.

You could always be subtle yet honest then suggest a social drink to see if you feel different in person, but only if you are sure you are not waisting her time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive had an offer from a lady double my age im not sure if i would feel comfy with anything she might intend for us

so what in asking is whats you thoughts on how old is to old keeping in mind this is mainly for myself

any advice would be welcome along with the banter aswell "

So she is fifty two.....god I hope I'm not classed as too old to be enjoying this lifestyle at that young age.

There isn't "too old". Just decide what you are comfortable with and stick to that.

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By *ackiekenny two OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Ive had an offer from a lady double my age im not sure if i would feel comfy with anything she might intend for us

so what in asking is whats you thoughts on how old is to old keeping in mind this is mainly for myself

any advice would be welcome along with the banter aswell

So she is fifty two.....god I hope I'm not classed as too old to be enjoying this lifestyle at that young age.

There isn't "too old". Just decide what you are comfortable with and stick to that."

thanks and i see you only have another 12 to go lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Speaking as a woman slightly older than the lady you are wondering about I would say don't meet her. If I thought anyone was asking other people for advice on whether or not to meet me based solely on my age I wouldn't want them. This isn't because I'm sensitive about my age but because I like a man who knows his own mind when it comes to sex. This lady has made her mind up about you presumably without asking the internet and in so doing has shown discretion and the fact that she is clear about what she wants.

If you do meet I hope you both enjoy.

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By *ackiekenny two OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Thanks nice couple

well shes not on here well i dobt think she is and ive only asked for advice i would like to and am going to meet her

i wasnt doing a pole to say the majority says do it then i will

and thanks again

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Thanks nice couple

well shes not on here well i dobt think she is and ive only asked for advice i would like to and am going to meet her

i wasnt doing a pole to say the majority says do it then i will

and thanks again "

That's ok.

In my mind discretion doesn't just apply if the person is likely to see or hear what you're saying. Think if any other older women who might have thought about meeting you read this.....

Genuinely though I do hope that if you meet you have a great time

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