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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I feel due to the mobile app,that many more fake profiles are being created...So I feel that everyone on the site should be verified by cam..In this day and age everyone should have the technology to do this...cams only cost £7.49...I admit may be hard to do/inforce...

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I feel otherwise.

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I feel due to the mobile app,that many more fake profiles are being created...So I feel that everyone on the site should be verified by cam..In this day and age everyone should have the technology to do this...cams only cost £7.49...I admit may be hard to do/inforce..."
does being verified on cam mean genuine swinger ? I don't think so its pointless ..im only intrested in meeting gnuine wingers not people who only cam and there are far more of them than genuine swingers in my opinion .

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By *ornieandhotCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

We never do cam

Think our veris prove we are real

D x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I dont mean to verify if their a genuine swinger..but is an actual genuine person,because where im from you just get alot of women joining who are usually Ex jealous boyfriends using their pictures....

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By *n need of helpCouple
over a year ago

hull

met them on here

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!


"I dont mean to verify if their a genuine swinger..but is an actual genuine person,because where im from you just get alot of women joining who are usually Ex jealous boyfriends using their pictures...."
Well im sorry as I said im here to swing so genuine swing verifications are what im looking for not cam verifications that say people are either male or female .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But instead of photo verification where you have to hold a piece of paper with your name/face in picture..you have to do that by cam...because fake profiles usually have fake meeting verts...

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Cam verifications tend to be on most of the "fake" profiles you get.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You dont understand...instead of being verified by a picture by the site..you show your cam to the people who run the site,so they know your a real person...

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"You dont understand...instead of being verified by a picture by the site..you show your cam to the people who run the site,so they know your a real person..."

But that's not what a cam verification is.

And I suspect the people who run the site have better things to do with their time than look at a succession of horny people who think that because it's by webcam it has to involve some kind of masturbation.

I don't cam and any website which has a rule which says I have to will just have to manage without me. I suspect that will hold true for many of the single women on the site. So you might reduce fakes but you'll also reduce the genuine ones too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think perhaps you need to spend a bit more time chatting to people if you are falling for Trevor the trucker. Meet veri's are the only ones we are interested in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No you show your face to be verified on cam..it makes it safer for women,many fake profiles have fake meets in them..Just say if a man got hold of your pictures and was pretending to be you,and set up a profile,and then started to arrange meets where you live...this would never happen if you had to show your face on a cam,when you set up a profile..

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

OP you are aware it's possible to fake on cam.

You can record someone else's cam then show it instead of your true image.

I think you need to step away from their being one, magical solution and start to hone your selection process if you are interacting with a lot of fakes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But you can spot when a cam is just a recording,so that aint a problem...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are over 7000 people online at 1:30am how many staff do you think the site has?

Verifications are peer to peer, which makes the system viable.

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"You dont understand...instead of being verified by a picture by the site..you show your cam to the people who run the site,so they know your a real person..."

oh my god do you have any understanding of the logistics of that and how unfeasible it would be ?

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"But you can spot when a cam is just a recording,so that aint a problem..."

But you obviously struggle to detect fake profiles or you wouldn't have such a bee in your bonnet about this.

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


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But you obviously struggle to detect fake profiles or you wouldn't have such a bee in your bonnet about this.

"

The hidden need behind the need is revealed for all to see

This site gives you every option under the sun to be your own internet detective and ignore anyone you think is fake, there will always be fakes it is impossible to stop it however if you are pro active and sensible with good filter you wont get stung by them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Erm no i have detected many fake profile for the site... I get ask by the chat/site moderators for feedback on the fake profiles...

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Erm no i have detected many fake profile for the site... I get ask by the chat/site moderators for feedback on the fake profiles..."

Keep doing that and you wont have to worry about fakes.

I repeat there is no way to eradicate them from a website like this all we can do is report suspect profiles (which tend to get taken down).

A mandatory webcam verification would be a logistical nightmare and would discount huge swathes of the site that only access it through a mobile device.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Erm no i have detected many fake profile for the site... I get ask by the chat/site moderators for feedback on the fake profiles..."

And yet you are not paying any attention to the feedback from other site users who are telling you that nother only is your suggestion logistically unfeasible but that they wouldn't be willing to do it.

We are all asked to give feedback on fake profiles - that's what the report button is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks 2 you all for feedback...all I want is a site safer for women..from Ex boyfriends with pictures of them...

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Thanks 2 you all for feedback...all I want is a site safer for women..from Ex boyfriends with pictures of them..."

So there are no such things as fake male profiles, or fake female profiles started by females etc ?

odd thing to say

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There is,but a female fake profile would probably be more at risk...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks 2 you all for feedback...all I want is a site safer for women..from Ex boyfriends with pictures of them..."

I think that is a minority problem, if it's a problem at all.

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"There is,but a female fake profile would probably be more at risk..."

I'm sorry I don't understand what would a fake female profile be at risk from ?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"There is,but a female fake profile would probably be more at risk...

I'm sorry I don't understand what would a fake female profile be at risk from ?

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I'm not getting this either. This plan makes it safer for women how?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Also, how do those who only use the site via smartphone do this enforced verification?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Very easy to understand...A man sets up a female profile,easily done with just pictures..if you had to show face on cam.2 prove you was that woman .cant be done..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very easy to understand...A man sets up a female profile,easily done with just pictures..if you had to show face on cam.2 prove you was that woman .cant be done.."

So another guy contacts the profile messages and phones to arrange a meet and finds its a fake, and reports it... whats the risk?

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"We never do cam

Think our veris prove we are real

D x"
same with us

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Thanks 2 you all for feedback...all I want is a site safer for women..from Ex boyfriends with pictures of them..."

Surely if you want to make things safer for women the first step would be to ask actual women what they want/need from the site?

Fake profiles set up with pics of an ex are generally more troublesome to the men who contact them than the woman whose pic is used. In fact most of these women never know the profile exists.

And it's just as easy to get pics off the internet as it is to use pics of an ex.

The other flaw in your argument is that you cite profiles set up on smartphones to be a problem and suggest camming would be the solution. Even though its not possible to cam on a smartphone or other mobile device.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"Very easy to understand...A man sets up a female profile,easily done with just pictures..if you had to show face on cam.2 prove you was that woman .cant be done.."
... Not getting this? So why not confirm by a phone call? And a man sets up a female profile with fake pics how are females at risk? Sorry i aint getting it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm verified left, right and centre. Don't think i can prove to be any more genuine.

Those that genuinely want to use the site to actually meet and 'swing' won't mind being verified through any method i don't think.

...that being said. Profiles that are photo verified are a from me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Phone call could happen......because a man can pretend to be a woman arrange a meet,saying she likes 2 be rough/etc...its happened a couple of times from this site,a woman being sexually assaulted because of a man pretending to be a ex girlfriend...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Phone call could happen......because a man can pretend to be a woman arrange a meet,saying she likes 2 be rough/etc...its happened a couple of times from this site,a woman being sexually assaulted because of a man pretending to be a ex girlfriend..."
Think you will find that if your fantasy scenario had happened there would be at least two men in jail for every occasion, and it would be all over the news.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Phone call could happen......because a man can pretend to be a woman arrange a meet,saying she likes 2 be rough/etc...its happened a couple of times from this site,a woman being sexually assaulted because of a man pretending to be a ex girlfriend...Think you will find that if your fantasy scenario had happened there would be at least two men in jail for every occasion, and it would be all over the news."

There was at least one fairly well known example of this, they even made a tv programme about it.

But the guy in that instance was Herr actual boyfriend and used more sites than fabswingers setting her up as someone who had a rape fantasy. In fact no-one from fab was comfortable with the set up (please come to this address and don't say anything just act out my rape fantasy) all the guys who turned up were from other sites.

This kind of behaviour is however as rare as stranger danger is to children: it happens and when it does is plastered all or the media and terrifies people but is highly unlikely to happen to anyone we know.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Phone call could happen......because a man can pretend to be a woman arrange a meet,saying she likes 2 be rough/etc...its happened a couple of times from this site,a woman being sexually assaulted because of a man pretending to be a ex girlfriend..."

I very much doubt it.

How can the 'phone call happen if there's no woman to speak to?

Even if a guy arranged a meet pretending to be a woman and gave her address, when the meet turned up and the woman said she knew nothing about it, most meets would leave. They'd be confused, but they wouldn't barge in anyway.

I don't understand why you are so determined that women are so badly at risk. If we were, there wouldn't be any women here and the police would issue warnings!

I reckon there are far more men pretending to be women to get their rocks off than men intending to set up meets for a woman who knows nothing about it.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Phone call could happen......because a man can pretend to be a woman arrange a meet,saying she likes 2 be rough/etc...its happened a couple of times from this site,a woman being sexually assaulted because of a man pretending to be a ex girlfriend...Think you will find that if your fantasy scenario had happened there would be at least two men in jail for every occasion, and it would be all over the news.

There was at least one fairly well known example of this, they even made a tv programme about it.

But the guy in that instance was Herr actual boyfriend and used more sites than fabswingers setting her up as someone who had a rape fantasy. In fact no-one from fab was comfortable with the set up (please come to this address and don't say anything just act out my rape fantasy) all the guys who turned up were from other sites.

This kind of behaviour is however as rare as stranger danger is to children: it happens and when it does is plastered all or the media and terrifies people but is highly unlikely to happen to anyone we know."

It's highly unlikely to happen at all, I'd say. A few isolated cases does not make a terrifying risk to all women make.

And I really don't see how the OP's suggestion would do much to protect women.

If individuals use sense when meeting others, this site works quite well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel due to the mobile app,that many more fake profiles are being created...So I feel that everyone on the site should be verified by cam..In this day and age everyone should have the technology to do this...cams only cost £7.49...I admit may be hard to do/inforce...does being verified on cam mean genuine swinger ? I don't think so its pointless ..im only intrested in meeting gnuine wingers not people who only cam and there are far more of them than genuine swingers in my opinion ."

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