FabSwingers.com forum: Being verified?

By *undelicious OP Couple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

What is everyone's opinions on profiles with no verifications or photos, yet have been members for a long time?

Personally we feel if you are going to join a site like this? Then you obviously want to meet like minded people for fun and friendship.

But every day we see profiles where the people have been members for long periods of time but are not verified in anyway and have no pictures....

So what's the point of them being on here?

(These people are all obviously time wasters / pic collectors) IOHO.

We know the easy answer is to just ignore them, or change our preferences to miss out on non verified people & even block them... But surely admin etc can see where ourselves & probably a lot of other people on here, can see where we are coming from.??

We see profile after profile on a daily basis, stating "must have veri or photos" before contacting us. So it can't be just us who have mentioned this or would feel a change is required.

What are people's thoughts on this issue (are we being unreasonable) to suggest maybe something like a time scale to get verified etc and if you don't, then you are removed from the site.

Genuine couples & long standing supporting members on here, (such as ourselves) would then benefit from browsing profiles which are known to be genuine.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

The site provides chat rooms for members. This will naturally attract people who only want to chat and have no interest in becoming verified. Are you saying that shouldn't be allowed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you are worrying about something that really shouldn't affect you.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I personally would avoid profiles on here for a very long time with no veris but I don't care that they are on here. Doesn't affect me really.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

My thought are you play your way and let others play theirs.

If you don't want to meet people that haven't been verified then only search for verified profiles. It's not hard is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally would avoid profiles on here for a very long time with no veris but I don't care that they are on here. Doesn't affect me really. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are people's thoughts on this issue (are we being unreasonable) to suggest maybe something like a time scale to get verified etc and if you don't, then you are removed from the site.

Its been said many times..

Lots dont want to get verified or photo verified.

And others will just keep resigning back up and not get verified..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has to start somewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet mostly married straight guys, they would not want a verification from me, and due to discretion I would never leave a verification for them, and that suits us fine.

People use the site in many ways, some for 100% safe sex, some for meeting, some for the forums,

The more the merrier, each of us has the choice how we stay safe and arrange our meets, verifications on some profiles, lead you to people who do bareback, people who have had or have STI's, so are one way of tracing someones published sexual history.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also how about those with multiple ids who are just self verifying.

As someone once said about newspapers "the only thing I believe is the date and I double check that".

The same level of circumspection applies to the internet in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what about the poor person that joins the site and then life gets in the way to them being "active" on here for a considerable period of time ...........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would you really want to meet someone who had dozens and dozens of veri's? I certainly wouldn't, what are they trying to prove?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those with no verification those with no pics those who say they go bareback those that have cock pics those with bad grammer or spelling in their profile... The list is endless .. Ban and hang the bastards

Oh im all alone now

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"What is everyone's opinions on profiles with no verifications or photos, yet have been members for a long time?

Personally we feel if you are going to join a site like this? Then you obviously want to meet like minded people for fun and friendship.

But every day we see profiles where the people have been members for long periods of time but are not verified in anyway and have no pictures....

So what's the point of them being on here?

(These people are all obviously time wasters / pic collectors) IOHO.

We see profile after profile on a daily basis, stating "must have veri or photos" before contacting us. So it can't be just us who have mentioned this or would feel a change is required.

What are people's thoughts on this issue (are we being unreasonable) to suggest maybe something like a time scale to get verified etc and if you don't, then you are removed from the site.

Genuine couples & long standing supporting members on here, (such as ourselves) would then benefit from browsing profiles which are known to be genuine."

Believe it or not some of us don't need the opinions of others in deciding who to invite into our beds. I meet men without verifications having a whale of a time on site. They don't live on here just pop in when the need arises.

Look at it as another filter for you: win/win!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally would avoid profiles on here for a very long time with no veris but I don't care that they are on here. Doesn't affect me really.

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us too.lots of them are fake.guys pretending to be couples .we had it they contact you want a dirty chat can't put you with the woman to chat to verify she exists or says their wife come on can they bring someone else but they got no pic? We just ignore them now .poppyxx

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"what about the poor person that joins the site and then life gets in the way to them being "active" on here for a considerable period of time ...........

...a life outside of Fab?!! Who are these freaks!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

" would you really want to meet someone who had dozens and dozens of veri's? I certainly wouldn't, what are they trying to prove?"

Why would you think they are trying to prove anything

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

If you have lots of verifications you're not worth meeting. If you have no verifications you're not worth meeting. If you have just one verification on show you must be a fake self-verifying.

I try and use my judgement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"what about the poor person that joins the site and then life gets in the way to them being "active" on here for a considerable period of time ...........

...a life outside of Fab?!! Who are these freaks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want to meet unverified men. But I do read their profiles and like they say, we all joined here with no veris, so every newbie needs a chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A profile with no veri's after a year...

Single female profile- I'd assume it was a guy and ignore them.

Couple profile- possibly still a guy. If they were interesting I'd chat and see where it lead.

Single guy profile- I'd think it was a guy that hadn't had a meet yet. Again I'd chat if he was interesting, and see where it lead.

Other than that I wouldn't be bothered by it. There are plenty of 'fake' people with veri's. I just chat to the ones I like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps they were simply doing other things. I'm sure not all of them are time wasters or pic collecting perverts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not verified I'm photo verified, but not by another user, it's not something I want to get into, after all why should I sleep with someone just for the sake of getting a verification if that's what I have to do then this is not the site I thought it was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not verified I'm photo verified, but not by another user, it's not something I want to get into, after all why should I sleep with someone just for the sake of getting a verification if that's what I have to do then this is not the site I thought it was

Web cam gets you verified too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or going for a drink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the op is being unreasonable to be honest. I have been here quite a while now and stil do not have any verifications, not my choice but you roll with the punches.

I did get photo verified early on and update my profile regularly but did not get the joy I wanted, now I enjoy other parts of the site (the forums for example) and even bacame a site supporter, should I be banned as I have do not any published meets??

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

" would you really want to meet someone who had dozens and dozens of veri's? I certainly wouldn't, what are they trying to prove?"

I like having verifications, they are reminders of good nights and also help me to remember who I've met, as I've the short term memory of a Goldfish.

Regarding being on here for a year with no verifications, I've set my filters to block them. Past experience is that I'd get messages, but nothing ever came of it. Least of all me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that social verified? Meet verified? Someone you know who got you to join fab verified ? People will make their own mind up x

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