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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is body size an issue for people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well yeah, considering we all have personal preferences.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

it most certainly is for some....

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"it most certainly is for some....

"

Master of the Understatement!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well yeah, considering we all have personal preferences."

I don't mean in general what about individual?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it is, women should be a size 10 to 12 UK, preferably 5' 6 inches tall.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is for me but I'm doing something about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well yeah, considering we all have personal preferences.

I don't mean in general what about individual?"

On and individualistic basis I have no physical attraction to 'BBWs' if that's what you mean. Not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot maybe say no ...... But would they be seen in public with some .. No .. shag yes if no one can see .. I have seen some posts here over the years people saying that . To me it shows what some really think if they said the truth about size but will say what ever to get sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is body size an issue for people?"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Of course it is, women should be a size 10 to 12 UK, preferably 5' 6 inches tall."

Although the average size of a woman is 16.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm big and I'm trying to lose it, and get a lot of negativity about trying to lose it. Many people say I'm fine how I am and then others thing I'm doing it for a man! Which is bollocks it's a personal thing for me no one else x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Of course it is, women should be a size 10 to 12 UK, preferably 5' 6 inches tall.

Although the average size of a woman is 16."

Just because thats the average size, doesn't mean its the desired size....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends on what you are looking for , it's so individual some have preferences or body types they prefer and others don't ... Personally I like curves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The average isn't necessarily the healthiest though. People in general are a lot less fit in this country because lifestyles have changed so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm big and I'm trying to lose it, and get a lot of negativity about trying to lose it. Many people say I'm fine how I am and then others thing I'm doing it for a man! Which is bollocks it's a personal thing for me no one else x"

Quite right! It's all about how you feel. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is body size an issue for people?"

You won't get a true answer on here as people will say anything! But if you are/aren't happy with yourself then focus on that and never what other people tell you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The main problem is a fb of mine keeps nagging about me wanting to lose weight. He says he likes the way I look, don't know how I win this argument

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a shag anything with a pulse kinda guy, need to have some sort of attraction. Generally like women size 10-14 obviously there are exceptions but not into super skinny or bbw. I personally just don't find I'm attracted to 18+ size women, just doesn't do it for me.

I've had a big beer belly in the past and soon realised how much I hated the look of myself, can't say I'm happy with how I look now but know I'm happier than I was before.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm big and I'm trying to lose it, and get a lot of negativity about trying to lose it. Many people say I'm fine how I am and then others thing I'm doing it for a man! Which is bollocks it's a personal thing for me no one else x

Quite right! It's all about how you feel. Good luck!"

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The main problem is a fb of mine keeps nagging about me wanting to lose weight. He says he likes the way I look, don't know how I win this argument"

He is nagging you to lose weight? Or nagging because you want to?

Either way, it is your body and your decision.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The main problem is a fb of mine keeps nagging about me wanting to lose weight. He says he likes the way I look, don't know how I win this argument

He is nagging you to lose weight? Or nagging because you want to?

Either way, it is your body and your decision."

Because I want to x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The main problem is a fb of mine keeps nagging about me wanting to lose weight. He says he likes the way I look, don't know how I win this argument"

Tell him your not happy so your changing it. If he does not like it find another fb.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all like different things and find different things attractive! Does it really matter? No! If we all liked the same thing the world would be a very lonely and boring place!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We all like different things and find different things attractive! Does it really matter? No! If we all liked the same thing the world would be a very lonely and boring place! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all like different things and find different things attractive! Does it really matter? No! If we all liked the same thing the world would be a very lonely and boring place! "

Surely if everybody liked different things it would be lonelier?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The main problem is a fb of mine keeps nagging about me wanting to lose weight. He says he likes the way I look, don't know how I win this argument

Tell him your not happy so your changing it. If he does not like it find another fb."

Your body so you do what you want. Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all like different things and find different things attractive! Does it really matter? No! If we all liked the same thing the world would be a very lonely and boring place!

Surely if everybody liked different things it would be lonelier?"

Not sure how you figure that, everyone's different!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Personally I like ladies with curves.

However, if I met a lady with a personality whom I adored, I would love her whatever her figure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all like different things and find different things attractive! Does it really matter? No! If we all liked the same thing the world would be a very lonely and boring place!

Surely if everybody liked different things it would be lonelier?

Not sure how you figure that, everyone's different!"

Here's how I figured it out.

When people like similar things they come together with people with similar interests.

When people like different things they go away and do those things themselves.

Therefore if everybody liked a different thing they'd maybe have less to talk about in common.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We all like different things and find different things attractive! Does it really matter? No! If we all liked the same thing the world would be a very lonely and boring place!

Surely if everybody liked different things it would be lonelier?

Not sure how you figure that, everyone's different!

Here's how I figured it out.

When people like similar things they come together with people with similar interests.

When people like different things they go away and do those things themselves.

Therefore if everybody liked a different thing they'd maybe have less to talk about in common.

"

Typical group theory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all like different things and find different things attractive! Does it really matter? No! If we all liked the same thing the world would be a very lonely and boring place!

Surely if everybody liked different things it would be lonelier?

Not sure how you figure that, everyone's different!

Here's how I figured it out.

When people like similar things they come together with people with similar interests.

When people like different things they go away and do those things themselves.

Therefore if everybody liked a different thing they'd maybe have less to talk about in common.

"

The op was specifically asking about people's figures and physical appearance....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think women look better with some shape and curve a straight up and down stick figure is not as attractive in my eyes although I hate my own figure (size 16 ) ... Not my shape as such but can't seem to tone the belly area after my children. It does get me down at times

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think women look better with some shape and curve a straight up and down stick figure is not as attractive in my eyes although I hate my own figure (size 16 ) ... Not my shape as such but can't seem to tone the belly area after my children. It does get me down at times "

It shouldn't you look great x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think women look better with some shape and curve a straight up and down stick figure is not as attractive in my eyes although I hate my own figure (size 16 ) ... Not my shape as such but can't seem to tone the belly area after my children. It does get me down at times "

I hate my tum too, after carrying children, there's not much that can be done. I think you look fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The main problem is a fb of mine keeps nagging about me wanting to lose weight. He says he likes the way I look, don't know how I win this argument"

you win the argument by doing what you want to do. No fb of mine would have a say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think women look better with some shape and curve a straight up and down stick figure is not as attractive in my eyes although I hate my own figure (size 16 ) ... Not my shape as such but can't seem to tone the belly area after my children. It does get me down at times

It shouldn't you look great x"
thankyou

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The main problem is a fb of mine keeps nagging about me wanting to lose weight. He says he likes the way I look, don't know how I win this argument

you win the argument by doing what you want to do. No fb of mine would have a say. "

Very true. He won't mind sexercise lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think women look better with some shape and curve a straight up and down stick figure is not as attractive in my eyes although I hate my own figure (size 16 ) ... Not my shape as such but can't seem to tone the belly area after my children. It does get me down at times "

Sadly you can't spot train fat off specific areas, it comes off the whole body as it decides, usually the belly areas last.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think women look better with some shape and curve a straight up and down stick figure is not as attractive in my eyes although I hate my own figure (size 16 ) ... Not my shape as such but can't seem to tone the belly area after my children. It does get me down at times

I hate my tum too, after carrying children, there's not much that can be done. I think you look fab! "
and u look great also. ... But having had children yourself u understand . Dunno how some women get back to the before child figure . Jealous muchly lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I like ladies with curves.

However, if I met a lady with a personality whom I adored, I would love her whatever her figure. "
That's really sweet xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only my own ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think women look better with some shape and curve a straight up and down stick figure is not as attractive in my eyes although I hate my own figure (size 16 ) ... Not my shape as such but can't seem to tone the belly area after my children. It does get me down at times

I hate my tum too, after carrying children, there's not much that can be done. I think you look fab! and u look great also. ... But having had children yourself u understand . Dunno how some women get back to the before child figure . Jealous muchly lol"

Thankyou I dunno, I don't get jealous, there's lots of things I dislike about my body, few of which I can do much about, I may not be everyone's cup of tea, but I'm certainly some people's! Focus more on what you do like!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mummy tummies go away eventually if given the chance.

All women have curves don't they?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Of course it is, women should be a size 10 to 12 UK, preferably 5' 6 inches tall."

You don't fancy women anyway!

Besides, I am a size 10. I'm just a well insulated size 10. Insulation is good, the government says so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mummy tummies go away eventually if given the chance.

All women have curves don't they?"

After giving birth to twins, I got back down to a size 10/12 with daily exercise, stayed that way a fair time, stretch marks stayed, just faded slightly, loose skin stayed....not everyone can spring back, some can (lucky them!), but not everyone. I can honestly say, a mummy tummy would be the last thing to put me off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mummy tummies go away eventually if given the chance.

All women have curves don't they?

After giving birth to twins, I got back down to a size 10/12 with daily exercise, stayed that way a fair time, stretch marks stayed, just faded slightly, loose skin stayed....not everyone can spring back, some can (lucky them!), but not everyone. I can honestly say, a mummy tummy would be the last thing to put me off! "

Some actually lose weight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mummy tummies go away eventually if given the chance.

All women have curves don't they?"
. Mine hasn't ... My youngest is 12 ... I have done healthy eating plans ... Lost weight gone to the gym and concentrated on my problem areas and gone swimming ... But still there ... Infact it looked worse when I lost 2 much weight ..Like extra skin that won't go back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mummy tummies go away eventually if given the chance.

All women have curves don't they?

After giving birth to twins, I got back down to a size 10/12 with daily exercise, stayed that way a fair time, stretch marks stayed, just faded slightly, loose skin stayed....not everyone can spring back, some can (lucky them!), but not everyone. I can honestly say, a mummy tummy would be the last thing to put me off!

Some actually lose weight!"

I'm sure they do, however when I was at a size 10, I don't think I needed to! Was far too thin for my shape anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The main problem is a fb of mine keeps nagging about me wanting to lose weight. He says he likes the way I look, don't know how I win this argument"

I think he's being rude. You are all that matters. Some will prefer bigger, some will prefer smaller. It's you that has to be happy.

Men and women both have body issues. Even the really slim, toned people have issues- they might want to be a bit more toned etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You get some bigger men who only like bigger woman as it make them feel better about themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mummy tummies go away eventually if given the chance.

All women have curves don't they?"

No they don't. Some people have less elastic skin and no amount of dieting will shift it. In fact it can make it look worse.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"The main problem is a fb of mine keeps nagging about me wanting to lose weight. He says he likes the way I look, don't know how I win this argument"

There doesn't need to be an argument. You do what's right for you and tell him to like it or lump it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You get some bigger men who only like bigger woman as it make them feel better about themselves. "

Some men just like bigger women....

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I'm a fat woman but I don't fancy fat blokes.

Maybe that's unreasonable or unrealistic or something. I don't know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The main problem is a fb of mine keeps nagging about me wanting to lose weight. He says he likes the way I look, don't know how I win this argument

There doesn't need to be an argument. You do what's right for you and tell him to like it or lump it."

I've told him that lol he's slowly cing round x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a fat woman but I don't fancy fat blokes.

Maybe that's unreasonable or unrealistic or something. I don't know."

Not at all unreasonable. You're a woman but you don't fancy women.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"The main problem is a fb of mine keeps nagging about me wanting to lose weight. He says he likes the way I look, don't know how I win this argument

There doesn't need to be an argument. You do what's right for you and tell him to like it or lump it.

I've told him that lol he's slowly cing round x"

It's his problem, not yours. Let him worry about adjusting his attitude.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I'm a fat woman but I don't fancy fat blokes.

Maybe that's unreasonable or unrealistic or something. I don't know.

Not at all unreasonable. You're a woman but you don't fancy women. "

Erm...actually...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mummy tummies go away eventually if given the chance.

All women have curves don't they?

No they don't. Some people have less elastic skin and no amount of dieting will shift it. In fact it can make it look worse."

Never said dieting would. Like everything else depends on lifestyle (before and after), exercise, approach, time etc. etc.

Some are luckier than others. Some are more determined than others.

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By *ingerbicky69Woman
over a year ago

EXETER

After having my own football team ive got a wee mummy tummy its part of what makes me me. Big or little,wobbly bits that jiggle, round bums,flat ones, stretch marks on mummy tums. Size 8 or 18 never every forget you are a Queen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'd say body size is an issue for everyone, I doubt there's anybody on here that would meet latterly any body size from a size 0 to 30 stone +

I can't believe that

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

if I hadn't had my kids id still have a figure!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mummy tummies go away eventually if given the chance.

All women have curves don't they?

No they don't. Some people have less elastic skin and no amount of dieting will shift it. In fact it can make it look worse.

Never said dieting would. Like everything else depends on lifestyle (before and after), exercise, approach, time etc. etc.

Some are luckier than others. Some are more determined than others."

Apologies. For some, no amount of determination, time, exercise will make a difference. Some excess skin can only be surgically removed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a fat woman but I don't fancy fat blokes.

Maybe that's unreasonable or unrealistic or something. I don't know.

Not at all unreasonable. You're a woman but you don't fancy women.

Erm...actually... "

Sorry! I thought you were straight. Oops. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm big and I'm trying to lose it, and get a lot of negativity about trying to lose it. Many people say I'm fine how I am and then others thing I'm doing it for a man! Which is bollocks it's a personal thing for me no one else x"

Ditto x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep definitely, bbw's are such a turnoff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mummy tummies go away eventually if given the chance.

All women have curves don't they?

No they don't. Some people have less elastic skin and no amount of dieting will shift it. In fact it can make it look worse."

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Attraction is the issue for me. I have met very toned men, skinny men, very fat men and everything inbetween.

I am short, fat and shaped like a Weeble. Dome like it, some don't. As long as my boobs are bigger than my tummy I don't worry about it too much. I was a miserable, pinched looking thing when I was a size 8/10 and I can't look at pictures of me like that without thinking of the misery I was then.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

my daughter is 7 and a half stone small frame big baby she cant do anything about her tummy cos no muscle there to tighten anyway I want more grandkids

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

We are not models & don't expect to meet models...we'll suffer the odd ones lol!

We like people as its their minds that make them sexy not always their body, we have been with some of the UK's top porn stars & some of them (not all xx) are as sexy as a wet fish...looks are not everything guys.

When a person gets over the "shallow faze" they then start to enjoy life to the full...wait & see.

We meet couples any age, size, colour & always have & in 15 years had only one bad meet as the guy (part of a couple) was pissed out of his head & become abusive.

Only figures that are important are those that fall through the letter box in the shape of a bill lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it really shallow to find some body shapes/sizes unattractive?

I can see how as you get older you start to see older people as more attractive than perhaps you would have when younger - so maybe it works likewise as you get fatter? But I can't imagine there will be a certain age at which I won't care how people look to find them sexy.

If I'm wrong in that I guess it could be fun..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apologies. For some, no amount of determination, time, exercise will make a difference. Some excess skin can only be surgically removed. "

You see that on the programmes about really fat people losing weight too quickly. Must be heart breaking having put in all that effort.

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex


"Is it really shallow to find some body shapes/sizes unattractive?

I can see how as you get older you start to see older people as more attractive than perhaps you would have when younger - so maybe it works likewise as you get fatter? But I can't imagine there will be a certain age at which I won't care how people look to find them sexy.

If I'm wrong in that I guess it could be fun.."

We work with dozens of women mostly 40+ & a size 16 or over as John's niche & specialty is making lager ladies look glam & also they are the best sellers in hardcore films.

We do shot the smaller ones but only rarely as they are not in demand as the curvier ladies...look at the download sites to see our point.

We meet for swinging normal average people any size for fun & can say hand on heart we have enjoyed ourselves...

Its not because we are big or old as we have been doing for 15 years when i was once a size 10 & John had a six pack but we still meet all sizes then lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it really shallow to find some body shapes/sizes unattractive?

I can see how as you get older you start to see older people as more attractive than perhaps you would have when younger - so maybe it works likewise as you get fatter? But I can't imagine there will be a certain age at which I won't care how people look to find them sexy.

If I'm wrong in that I guess it could be fun.."

I don't think it's shallow at all to find different size people attractive.

I actually think it's more shallow - and a bit rude - when people get all huffy about other people's preferences.

If someone doesn't fancy me for whatever reason, I respect that.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Is body size an issue for people?"

for some its an obsession or a stick to beat others with..

hey ho..

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex


"Is body size an issue for people?

for some its an obsession or a stick to beat others with..

hey ho.."

Have to agree lol!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I don't think it's shallow at all to find different size people attractive.

I actually think it's more shallow - and a bit rude - when people get all huffy about other people's preferences.

If someone doesn't fancy me for whatever reason, I respect that. "

Absolutely. Some men are almost tentative when I've contacted them and they reply to say they aren't interested. I appreciate them wanting to be polite but it really isn't an issue for me.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Is body size an issue for people?

for some its an obsession or a stick to beat others with..

hey ho.."

A stick with which to beat others and a means of feeling superior.

I feel like telling some of them that they come across as extremely dim, (because they do), and at least I can diet and exercise if I want to...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on the person looking,but for the person they may be happy with there size,or just maybe they cant,due to health issues,everyone is individual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it really shallow to find some body shapes/sizes unattractive?

I can see how as you get older you start to see older people as more attractive than perhaps you would have when younger - so maybe it works likewise as you get fatter? But I can't imagine there will be a certain age at which I won't care how people look to find them sexy.

If I'm wrong in that I guess it could be fun..

I don't think it's shallow at all to find different size people attractive.

I actually think it's more shallow - and a bit rude - when people get all huffy about other people's preferences.

If someone doesn't fancy me for whatever reason, I respect that. "

I agree. I'm still intrigued as to whether tastes change with size as they do with age or whether it's more of a resignation/acceptance.

Kind of makes sense that the less fussy you are the more fun you could have, but would it be the best fun? Different topic I guess.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Is it really shallow to find some body shapes/sizes unattractive?

I can see how as you get older you start to see older people as more attractive than perhaps you would have when younger - so maybe it works likewise as you get fatter? But I can't imagine there will be a certain age at which I won't care how people look to find them sexy.

If I'm wrong in that I guess it could be fun..

I don't think it's shallow at all to find different size people attractive.

I actually think it's more shallow - and a bit rude - when people get all huffy about other people's preferences.

If someone doesn't fancy me for whatever reason, I respect that.

I agree. I'm still intrigued as to whether tastes change with size as they do with age or whether it's more of a resignation/acceptance.

Kind of makes sense that the less fussy you are the more fun you could have, but would it be the best fun? Different topic I guess."

I'm fat and fussy. Some people are outraged at my cheek.

I care not one jot. I'd rather have no sex than fuck someone I am not attracted to. Fortunately that's not necessary.

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By *ingerbicky69Woman
over a year ago

EXETER

Its all about confidants I think. Some days I feel like a goddess other days I feel like a flump.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get loads of nice comments about my curves. Gives me so much confidence. Wud love more fabs though lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is body size an issue for people?

for some its an obsession or a stick to beat others with..

hey ho.."

that works both ways though, eat right, go to the gym, put done.effort in to maintain a healthy body and you will get far/thin people who do nothing try to belittle you an tell your wasting your time or that it's pathetic etc.

Personally I like having some.muscle makes life easier, I like that I can eat shitloads an love my food, I like the feeling of being exhausted and the reward my body gives for it in terms of elevated mood.

And for the "gym us for meatheads" crowd

" No man has the right to be an amateur in the matter of physical training. It is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable."

I bet you'll be surprised who said it x

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Is body size an issue for people?

for some its an obsession or a stick to beat others with..

hey ho..

that works both ways though, eat right, go to the gym, put done.effort in to maintain a healthy body and you will get far/thin people who do nothing try to belittle you an tell your wasting your time or that it's pathetic etc.

Personally I like having some.muscle makes life easier, I like that I can eat shitloads an love my food, I like the feeling of being exhausted and the reward my body gives for it in terms of elevated mood.

And for the "gym us for meatheads" crowd

" No man has the right to be an amateur in the matter of physical training. It is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable."

I bet you'll be surprised who said it x

"

The pope?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"" No man has the right to be an amateur in the matter of physical training. It is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable."

I bet you'll be surprised who said it x

"

I wasn't surprised by who said it, only that its a much older statement than I thought it would be. He's right though, strength is a wonderful thing, and it reminds me of another saying I once heard, to the effect of

'There is no man in the world, who didn't at some point in their life want to be a strongman.'

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Is body size an issue for people?

for some its an obsession or a stick to beat others with..

hey ho..

that works both ways though, eat right, go to the gym, put done.effort in to maintain a healthy body and you will get far/thin people who do nothing try to belittle you an tell your wasting your time or that it's pathetic etc.

Personally I like having some.muscle makes life easier, I like that I can eat shitloads an love my food, I like the feeling of being exhausted and the reward my body gives for it in terms of elevated mood.

And for the "gym us for meatheads" crowd

" No man has the right to be an amateur in the matter of physical training. It is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable."

I bet you'll be surprised who said it x

"

not saying its right for anyone to have a dig at another person from whichever end of the scale so to speak..

its an easy swipe for some to have a pop at someone who is large build, kids in short trousers do it ...

how often one hears anyone of whatever age being similarly chastised along the lines of 'hey, guy with the washboard stomach you look horrible' is questionable tbh..

have worked with guys who were very much 'muscle types', others who looked like a good breeze would snap them and guys who were chunky..

often when push came to shove mental attitude was what was apparent..

on the who said that have no idea and if honest less interest..

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