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By *allen angelz OP   Woman
over a year ago

oxon

Went out Saturday night, as the night got under way met a guy I've seen afew times. He was out with a mate of his. At the end of the night all went back to his room, did try to swing a 4 some but that was a no go, after abit I got bored with the Convo had the guy I was with stand in front of me, his mate was say next to me talking to the other fella, I got my guys cock out and started to suck it. Was I right or wrong doing it as the others were so close to us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends why it was a no go before you forced a live sex show on the other two people in the room and what their reaction was after I gguess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I think you should have moved to the bedroom. If they weren't interested in playing. But that is just my opinion. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally, I think you should have moved to the bedroom. If they weren't interested in playing. But that is just my opinion. Xx"

This!

I'm a little confused, if it wasn't going to be happening why would you instigate it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am sure they didnt mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally, I think you should have moved to the bedroom. If they weren't interested in playing. But that is just my opinion. Xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was there a reason why you could'nt have taken it somewhere private or did you think the other guys would have changed their minds seeing you on your knees?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Went out Saturday night, as the night got under way met a guy I've seen afew times. He was out with a mate of his. At the end of the night all went back to his room, did try to swing a 4 some but that was a no go, after abit I got bored with the Convo had the guy I was with stand in front of me, his mate was say next to me talking to the other fella, I got my guys cock out and started to suck it. Was I right or wrong doing it as the others were so close to us "

Really you are the only one who can be the judge of that ! By there reactions! And his of course !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 02/12/13 23:55:54]"

Needed more Horny men on here to make that statement work lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you were told they weren't interested but decided to try your luck anyway? How would you have felt if the boot was on the other foot and after saying no to some kind of sexual act someone just decided to go ahead anyway

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

wouldn't have bothered me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think you were wrong... But that's just my view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you were totally wrong. You disregarded their views as you knew it was a no-go and their subsequent involvement (even though it was only watching) was non-consensual.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I think you were wrong and that I would view it as sexual assault. When people say no it should mean no.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I think you were totally wrong. You disregarded their views as you knew it was a no-go and their subsequent involvement (even though it was only watching) was non-consensual."

Snap. You got there before me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wrong ... Would you have done the same if it was you're friends in the room?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm affraid you are wrong in my opinion. Since when did no mean, "Go on, give it a try, you might like it". You put your friends in a particularly invidious position.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry I also think your wrong they said no you decided to carry on which is unfair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you haven't stated what their reaction was

but i agree would you have done it in front of your own friends??

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I'm wondering why you've asked the question, you've already gone and done it no matter if people think you where right or wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you did it with the guy whos flat it was then i dont see a problem.

if they wanted to join in they could have.

they knew what you were interested in as you already mentioned about a 4 some, so they have the option to fuck off out the way.

however, if it wasnt the bloke whos flat it was, then its a little distasteful and tactless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion wrong thing to do .

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Your boyfriend should have stopped you with "time and place!" since that concept seems to have eluded you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you were totally wrong. You disregarded their views as you knew it was a no-go and their subsequent involvement (even though it was only watching) was non-consensual."

^^^^^ this. They'd already said no to a 4sum and in my oppinion you put them in an embarrassing situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was a no go why then push the situation. No means no.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Non consensual sexual activity is always wrong, being a woman does not make it ok in fact with sexual liberation comes responsibility.

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By *allen angelz OP   Woman
over a year ago

oxon

Thank u for all posts, looks like I was I'm the wrong!! Wasnt in a flat or house just a room, I was with a guy I've seen afew times from here, his mate found a female in town, was totally unaware of what was going on. But the party did break up and they went to his room, lesson learnt

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