FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Long time no speak?

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just me, or has anyone else had an influx of messages along the lines of 'Hello Stranger, long time no speak' from people you know you have never ever messaged? And even if you doubted yourself, as I site supporter you can tell from the stats on their profile that you have never messaged or winked at them?

Is this some kind of new ploy to get those of us that have been making full use of the site (ie putting it about a bit!) to think we must have spoken to them and forgotten, and so we'll be guilt tripped into making contact just in case we've lost track of those we've met/had contact with?!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one of those today. Worth a try I suppose.

It didn't work with me though.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I usually get the one's starting 'I see you winked me'. As I am a site supporter I can check their profile and message back 'no I didn't!'

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had one of those today. Worth a try I suppose.

It didn't work with me though. "

I've had at least 10 this last week...it's as if a memo has gone round with this as a suggestion! Either that or I really am overdoing it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Yeah I think its just another way of trying to stand out from the crowd, we had one doing this and neither of us could place him nor had we messaged him previously but he went on and on as if we had.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I usually get the one's starting 'I see you winked me'. As I am a site supporter I can check their profile and message back 'no I didn't!'

"

Not had that yet...will look out for it!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was a conference for single men this weekend ... "Swimming with sharks, how to be a successful single male on Fab"

The "haven't spoke in ages" ploy was the first session

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank god its not just me ..and thank god I can check I mean i,m always forgetting some faces ....oh wait scrap that cocks I meant lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was a conference for single men this weekend ... "Swimming with sharks, how to be a successful single male on Fab"

The "haven't spoke in ages" ploy was the first session "

Nearly spilled my wine then!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

I've not had that particular line but I often get 'thanks for the wink'....I have only ever winked once on 11 months.

Its a good chat up line! After all who would remember conversations from 6/8/12 months ago. Brownie points for being inventive!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

Just to add that I know copy/paste ALL conversations into the Notes. My memory is not so good

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

would probably work on me as i have a shocking memory lol!

Ruby x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a message that started with welcome back...

Lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 01/12/13 19:42:33]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I got a message that started with welcome back...

Lol "

Oooh I got one of those yesterday. What amused me what he'd only been on Fab for 9 weeks, so dunno why he thought I'd been away.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I had one yesterday thanks for the wink.. that didnt work. I dont wink that often and know I havent in ages . silly boy.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me, or has anyone else had an influx of messages along the lines of 'Hello Stranger, long time no speak' from people you know you have never ever messaged? And even if you doubted yourself, as I site supporter you can tell from the stats on their profile that you have never messaged or winked at them?

Is this some kind of new ploy to get those of us that have been making full use of the site (ie putting it about a bit!) to think we must have spoken to them and forgotten, and so we'll be guilt tripped into making contact just in case we've lost track of those we've met/had contact with?! "

what do you measn you don't remember us after all weve been through , im upset now.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got one saying he'd not seen me on here for a while. I'm on here all the frickin time ffs!

Must be a memo that all the single guys got.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it just me, or has anyone else had an influx of messages along the lines of 'Hello Stranger, long time no speak' from people you know you have never ever messaged? And even if you doubted yourself, as I site supporter you can tell from the stats on their profile that you have never messaged or winked at them?

Is this some kind of new ploy to get those of us that have been making full use of the site (ie putting it about a bit!) to think we must have spoken to them and forgotten, and so we'll be guilt tripped into making contact just in case we've lost track of those we've met/had contact with?!

what do you measn you don't remember us after all weve been through , im upset now."

Sorry....seems I'm getting forgetful, must be old age creeping up on me!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There was a conference for single men this weekend ... "Swimming with sharks, how to be a successful single male on Fab"

The "haven't spoke in ages" ploy was the first session "

It all makes sense now. So were the 'thanks for the wink', 'not seen you online for a while' and 'welcome back' suggested as alternatives for the more experienced?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 01/12/13 21:18:56]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and when you say you've not spoken to them before or you don't remember them it's " oh I got a new account" or "I changed my name"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was a conference for single men this weekend ... "Swimming with sharks, how to be a successful single male on Fab"

The "haven't spoke in ages" ploy was the first session

It all makes sense now. So were the 'thanks for the wink', 'not seen you online for a while' and 'welcome back' suggested as alternatives for the more experienced? "

I'm not giving away all the secrets

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Gets pen out and makes notes

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

i had one guy message claiming that we had slept together previously ...now i am abit ditzy but geez !!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me, or has anyone else had an influx of messages along the lines of 'Hello Stranger, long time no speak' from people you know you have never ever messaged? And even if you doubted yourself, as I site supporter you can tell from the stats on their profile that you have never messaged or winked at them?

Is this some kind of new ploy to get those of us that have been making full use of the site (ie putting it about a bit!) to think we must have spoken to them and forgotten, and so we'll be guilt tripped into making contact just in case we've lost track of those we've met/had contact with?!

what do you measn you don't remember us after all weve been through , im upset now.

Sorry....seems I'm getting forgetful, must be old age creeping up on me! "

don't worry you haven't forgot anything weve never spoke befor just trying my luck,

if it works for one ect

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top