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By *ee Viante OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Does anyone reply to them? With hi or something else? Does anything ever come of replying to them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't. And nothing comes of it

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

It can do...

But as long as it's polite I reply politely.

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

Yes and yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We did once, we got Hi so we sent Morning and got Hi back again

Gave up with that one

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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)

From a blokes point of view it's always puzzling when you get a Hi msg. Specially when a profile says please put thought etc when msgs..

I will reply but only if there's something in a profile that I like and I can do a reply to.. If nothing then no reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on who its come from and whether I like the profile,I read profiles before I open messages

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"It depends on who its come from and whether I like the profile,I read profiles before I open messages"

Hi

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By *ee Viante OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I tend to think if they haven't got the imagination or ability to have a conversation beyond just "hi" that it won't go anywhere. Perhaps I'm wrong and need to try it and see.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"Does anyone reply to them? With hi or something else? Does anything ever come of replying to them? "

Yes, yes and yes

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

hi de hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never sent a hi message. But my messages usually depend on whats on their profile..i do tend to write paragraphs though lol

...i need to get the balance right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reply, unless they are ugly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends on who its come from and whether I like the profile,I read profiles before I open messages

Hi "

That's cheating!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone reply to them? With hi or something else? Does anything ever come of replying to them? "

Depends on the profile and occasionally the pics attached...shallow I know!! Generally though no I don't bother to reply because I've usually got messages of more than one syllable to reply to and they'll take priority

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Hi"

"Hi"

"Hi"

"Hi again"

*delete

Think she got bored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on my mood but mostly delete

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By *ee Viante OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

With a message saying hi and a 1 or 2 line profile, it doesn't give me a lot to go on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My no 1 message is 'Nice Legs' and the answer I give is 'ta'! lol

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I get hi.

Hi how's your weekend been

You had a good weekend

You had any fun

How are you finding this site....now that makes me chuckle. I often reply to that one with "as I have a long list of verification s I must like it!!"

I just don't bother with them.

If I do reply its with "being mum as normal"

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I get hi.

Hi how's your weekend been

You had a good weekend

You had any fun

How are you finding this site....now that makes me chuckle. I often reply to that one with "as I have a long list of verification s I must like it!!"

I just don't bother with them.

If I do reply its with "being mum as normal"

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

We really try to respond to everyone - even if it's a polite no. However, if we've not had a chance to be on much then messages are responded to by those who've shown a personality and having read our profile.

So yes i have responded to "hi's" but don't think it's ever developed further. If that's the only effort they can put in to the first contact then it doesn't bode well...

My other bugbears;

"When are you free to meet..."

"What u lookin 4"

"Nice tits, what size are they..."

"Can i cum over"

I realise it's hard to know what to say, if i'm sending the first message on behalf of us it's difficult, but come on....!

Ruby x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends, if they have made an effort with their profile or not.

Most haven't though.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Lol sometimes I just say hi and then delete both messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've sent a proper message before to a guy, no reply back and they think we are rude.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I say hi back and see what develops. Generally not a lot.

hi

hi

what you up to?

I'm sat here at a computer.

Are you meeting?

No I'm not in a meeting. It would be rude to be on the computer if I was.

I mean are you looking for a meet.

No, I'm on the computer.

And so on....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes of course x

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn


"I say hi back and see what develops. Generally not a lot.

hi

hi

what you up to?

I'm sat here at a computer.

Are you meeting?

No I'm not in a meeting. It would be rude to be on the computer if I was.

I mean are you looking for a meet.

No, I'm on the computer.

And so on.... "

Lol

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