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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

!Dont people agree its rude too send a friend request wi!thout sending a message 1st. We have them all the time. So we message them asking you sent friend request without. They read it n delete lol. Rude people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait till they're offline, accept the request, look at their friends only pics then delete them off your friends list again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wait till they're offline, accept the request, look at their friends only pics then delete them off your friends list again. "

hehe lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait till they're offline, accept the request, look at their friends only pics then delete them off your friends list again. "

there you go.

tbh there is a chance they see posting on a forum as having conversation with you lol.

does this mean we can have a friend request now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait till they're offline, accept the request, look at their friends only pics then delete them off your friends list again. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol if you wanna meet then yea lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think its rude its a option the site has given them that they are using

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait till they're offline, accept the request, look at their friends only pics then delete them off your friends list again. "

do that all the time.especially locals to see if we know them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"!Dont people agree its rude too send a friend request wi!thout sending a message 1st. We have them all the time. So we message them asking you sent friend request without. They read it n delete lol. Rude people!"

I wouldn't say it was rude but a bit strange yes you wouldn't call someone a friend without getting to know them first tho so I agree there a message and chat if u get on and both agree to friend request the yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and fab a pic so they know you have looked lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"!Dont people agree its rude too send a friend request wi!thout sending a message 1st. We have them all the time. So we message them asking you sent friend request without. They read it n delete lol. Rude people!

I wouldn't say it was rude but a bit strange yes you wouldn't call someone a friend without getting to know them first tho so I agree there a message and chat if u get on and both agree to friend request the yes "

very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so do we,we even fab one of their pics,just so they know we have had a nosey.we remove the fab a few days later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wouldnt say no lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"wouldnt say no lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and fab a pic so they know you have looked lol"

Brilliant!!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It doesn't really bother me, unless they've made zero effort with their profile. It used to, though.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Wait till they're offline, accept the request, look at their friends only pics then delete them off your friends list again. "

Haha, I like your sneaky style!! I think that's what it is most of the time - a lazy request to view your private pics, sometimes you get guys on dating sites ask to view them without chatting first. Slight lack of social skills!

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"Oh and fab a pic so they know you have looked lol

Brilliant!! "

Oh I'm definitely doing that next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can't just be about pics though. Even I get friend requests from people I've never chatted to.

Maybe they think it means you're then actual friends in real life or something.

Weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait till they're offline, accept the request, look at their friends only pics then delete them off your friends list again. "

Oooooo

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I get so many its ridiculous. I deleted 70 or so recently along with winks without looking. I do think its rude to send without asking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind. If they look fit we accept them. Sometimes that leads to a chat after pics have been perved.

If they're mingers we ignore and don't have to worry about further requests.

Either way I'm grateful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ignore them,ive had them from some really good profiles but if they can't say hello then I can't be bothered to even look at them,I don't even open them when they're offline to have a look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and fab a pic so they know you have looked lol

Brilliant!! "

I thought so too

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I just ignore them. Leave them unanswered though, then they can't send another.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Not really. I think it's a bit daft but there are prob some on here that accept a request from everyone that asks.

I just ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait till they're offline, accept the request, look at their friends only pics then delete them off your friends list again.

there you go.

tbh there is a chance they see posting on a forum as having conversation with you lol.

does this mean we can have a friend request now?"

Note to self, start befriending random forumites who post on same threads. Though i suspect this trend exisits already

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get so many its ridiculous. I deleted 70 or so recently along with winks without looking. I do think its rude to send without asking"

70 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just ignore them. Leave them unanswered though, then they can't send another. "

This is what I do. It says on my profile not to send them but they still do. Mostly from one line, silhouette profiles without pics!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think its rude its a option the site has given them that they are using"

agreed. but I don't send any out unless I've already chatted because so many people get pissy about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait till they're offline, accept the request, look at their friends only pics then delete them off your friends list again. "
I do this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I leave them sitting there for a while then delete en masse, they soon get the message not to do it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"!Dont people agree its rude too send a friend request wi!thout sending a message 1st. We have them all the time. So we message them asking you sent friend request without. They read it n delete lol. Rude people!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can see why you are sent them OP.

mm

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"!Dont people agree its rude too send a friend request wi!thout sending a message 1st. We have them all the time. So we message them asking you sent friend request without. They read it n delete lol. Rude people! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"can see why you are sent them OP.

mm"

you like what you see?? X

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

If I accepted every unsolicited friend request then I might as well have all pics on public and none on private.

I just leave them sitting there and they can't send another one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"can see why you are sent them OP.

mm

you like what you see?? X"

well it would be very rude not to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"can see why you are sent them OP.

mm

you like what you see?? X

well it would be very rude not to"

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I don't think its rude its a option the site has given them that they are using

agreed. but I don't send any out unless I've already chatted because so many people get pissy about it."

Put some clothes on quick, your legs are turning blue!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put it down to they just want to see the hidden pics

well it doesn't work unless messages are exchanged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait till they're offline, accept the request, look at their friends only pics then delete them off your friends list again. "

we do that if an invite sent without chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think its rude but they do mostly get ignored. Really doesn't bother me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait till they're offline, accept the request, look at their friends only pics then delete them off your friends list again. "

Sounds like your fortunate enough to receive them from others that actually have pics to see!

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