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By *ichael123456 OP   Man
over a year ago

west midlands

Do winks work .. ??? ? I prever to send awink to first see if I get a reply

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

They might for some, I personally don't even check my winks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the idea of winking, of a flirtatious gesture to let people know that I think they're hot and am interested if they are. And I always check my winks, but it seems most people demand a message instead. In the real world I wouldn't walk up to strangers and ask them for a shag. Normally there's an exchange of facial expressions and body language that initiates a process.

I guess since this is a swinging site people don't like to beat around the bush, so to speak.

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

I always reply to a wink. But that doesn't mean I want to meet though

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By *ichael123456 OP   Man
over a year ago

west midlands

Thats what I thought ifi went up go a lady in the pub and sid fancy a shag I'd prob get slapped so I wi k athem and see what happens

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By *ichael123456 OP   Man
over a year ago

west midlands

Someone wink me plz lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to us, a wink is a sign of interest.

if its replied to its a suggestion the feeling is mutual.

then its up to the original winker to send a message.

if it doesnt come then fine, otherwise we chat in the hope of finding some mutual interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wink a lot ... if I see someone I like I give them a wink

Im a winker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had some shags via a wink...amazingly they never needed to message back.....

ok kidding..but its a useful tool to get a little attention back...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind winks - if I like the look of them - I will send a message x as has been said previously, there needs to be a starting point, and while I agree it is a swinging site, there is nothing wrong with a bit of flirting first!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

did this work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strange as we dont normally respond to winks but just lately we have started to wink back or send a short message saying thanks for wink and not had one response lol makes you wonder why they botheted to wink in first place unless by mistake lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" did this work? "

the wink led me to wank...so yeahhh all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I wanted to wink just to make you feel better, but you've blocked blokes winking at you.

So there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I wanted to wink just to make you feel better, but you've blocked blokes winking at you.

So there. "

I wouldnt wink...cos u have psycho eyes

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

We reply to messages apart from 1 liners but don't bother as such with winks as they come accord as lazy

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By *uckoldandWifeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We ignore winks and friends requests and one liners and any combination of those three.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We reply to messages apart from 1 liners but don't bother as such with winks as they come accord as lazy "

right deleting wink..thats one shag less u have...shame...and just to say I'am certainly no...

och cant be bothered finishing my sentence..yawn,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get winks from people who are out of our distance range and wanna see if we're interested, which is fair enough as it gets the job done and wastes less time than a message. However when someone winks us and we message them saying hey thanks for the wink, sometimes they don't reply to us. We tend to send out winks when peoples profiles sound good but they have few pictures, don't wanna message them sounding really keen for us to then not find them attractive. Same with if they have nice pictures but little profile text, they may not be great conversationalists and again don't wanna seem too keen then have to be like... Actually we've changed our minds. We rarely get any replies to winks though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get winks from people who are out of our distance range and wanna see if we're interested, which is fair enough as it gets the job done and wastes less time than a message. However when someone winks us and we message them saying hey thanks for the wink, sometimes they don't reply to us. We tend to send out winks when peoples profiles sound good but they have few pictures, don't wanna message them sounding really keen for us to then not find them attractive. Same with if they have nice pictures but little profile text, they may not be great conversationalists and again don't wanna seem too keen then have to be like... Actually we've changed our minds. We rarely get any replies to winks though. "

I'd most definitely wank back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont take much notice of winks unless they're a local. Then I'll go and perv said profile and possibly wink back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont take much notice of winks unless they're a local. Then I'll go and perv said profile and possibly wink back "

Aberaeron...wheres that? fancy a shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont look at my winks and i dont wink at anyone feel its a bit pointless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wink a lot ... if I see someone I like I give them a wink

Im a winker"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i tend to look whos winked but its rare i will wink back unless its someone i know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wink as it's a subtle way of saying I'm interested .I always respond to winks with a thank you. I don't see a need to overeact with winks it certainly doesn't mean I want to sleep with you. So guys lighten up it's just a compliment to you means you got something special.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont take much notice of winks unless they're a local. Then I'll go and perv said profile and possibly wink back

Aberaeron...wheres that? fancy a shag?"

not local to glasgow lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I can say they don't work for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when you are not a paying member, a wink is the only way of letting someone know you have looked at their profile, besides sending a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I like the winker and his profile I'll wink back and see how we go from there. Otherwise it gets deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont take much notice of winks unless they're a local. Then I'll go and perv said profile and possibly wink back

Aberaeron...wheres that? fancy a shag?

not local to glasgow lol"

I travel lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont take much notice of winks unless they're a local. Then I'll go and perv said profile and possibly wink back

Aberaeron...wheres that? fancy a shag?

not local to glasgow lol

I travel lol"

Start driving, you've pulled. I'll see you in about 8 hours x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it really that simple?

I'm struggling to pull further than 40 miles away.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

If someone winks I look at their profile. If I like the look of it I will send a message or wink back. Depends on my mood. If they are not for me I simply ignore them.

I use them exactly the same as an initial message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

seems a bit of mixed feeling over winks...i personally use them as a first contact...its not being lazy...why write a message that very few people reply or appreciate??

Perhaps it could be addad to a profile if they want the wink facility??

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I think its the adolescent in me I like receiving winks

strangely, I never send them as I m never certain how others perceive them so if I m interested in anothers profile I ll message them,,;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are a great way of breaking the ice potentially but as many say,some people don't even check them.

Would hazard a guess that if some females/couples checked all their winks,they would never be off the site

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