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By *uby0000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

do you know instantly if you are going to get on with that person not that spark its about personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am usually blindfolded, lubed and ass in the air, in a dark room, so no idea who it is or what he looks like, frightening, but very sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not instantly. But pretty soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They say first impressions count, so yes i usually know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think there has to be an attraction there for you to have gone to meet them, sparks flying? Mm good if it happens but every fire has to start somewhere lol

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By *uby0000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

all about that gut feeling which I really believe in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a knack of being able to tell if someone would be up for being in a fwb/fb relationship ( for want of a better word) I don't know how I just do lol

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

The first meet I had was to go to a party I was a nervous wreck but within 2 mins we were chatting like we'd known each other for ages, when obi picked me up for the Kent social it was less weird as We had chatted at length via pm so I thought we would be ok. Most of my meets I've spoken to a fair bit before hand so would be surprised if we didn't get on. That's partly why I meet like I do, I wouldn't want to meet someone after a few messages without being fairly sure that we wouldn't get on well x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I usually build up a repor before I meet them . so unless they smell I know beforehand

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By *uby0000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"I usually build up a repor before I meet them . so unless they smell I know beforehand

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that's where I go wrong lol

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"The first meet I had was to go to a party I was a nervous wreck but within 2 mins we were chatting like we'd known each other for ages, when obi picked me up for the Kent social it was less weird as We had chatted at length via pm so I thought we would be ok. Most of my meets I've spoken to a fair bit before hand so would be surprised if we didn't get on. That's partly why I meet like I do, I wouldn't want to meet someone after a few messages without being fairly sure that we wouldn't get on well x"

Hottie, are you sure they got a chance to speak?

You have a very warm and open personality and I can't imagine anyone struggling to get on with you at some level.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually know soon after meeting if we will get on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once kissed someone on a first meet and there was a spark like a mini electric shock.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I can generally get on with most peeps. It's more a question of them getting on with me.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"The first meet I had was to go to a party I was a nervous wreck but within 2 mins we were chatting like we'd known each other for ages, when obi picked me up for the Kent social it was less weird as We had chatted at length via pm so I thought we would be ok. Most of my meets I've spoken to a fair bit before hand so would be surprised if we didn't get on. That's partly why I meet like I do, I wouldn't want to meet someone after a few messages without being fairly sure that we wouldn't get on well x

Hottie, are you sure they got a chance to speak?

You have a very warm and open personality and I can't imagine anyone struggling to get on with you at some level.

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It'll go one of two ways with my nerves, either I freeze and don't say a word or I won't shut up. Usually the second. If that doesn't scare them off once I calm down it's usually ok!! Lol x (and thanks lickety that's a very sweet thing to say) x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I usually know when I see them whether it will be taken further.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I usually chat for a while first so get an idea of their personality prior to any meet. Hopefully no shocks. Even though there has to be a spark.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I spend a lot of time getting to know someone first! Therefore if I agree to a meet I usually know it will play out well, it doesn't suit a lot of men but it's the way I do it and wont change...if they want instashag, they are free to move on to the next profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually chat for a while first so get an idea of their personality prior to any meet. Hopefully no shocks. Even though there has to be a spark. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do you know instantly if you are going to get on with that person not that spark its about personality"
....Yes ..Its all in the eyes Big give away.xx

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