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"What the hell am I doing standing waiting for a shop to open at midnight when I've got to be up at 4 just so my son can have the latest console " | |||
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"Makes you a better Mum than me. " I'm not convinced that makes someone a good mum..... | |||
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"I'm a dad " lol i know it wasnt me who made that comment, but im guilty of i see the avatar is female and i'll presume im speaking to a female | |||
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"I'm a dad " You are a mad dad. How many people are in the queue with you? | |||
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"my mums going to asda at 8am to buy me a tv for crimbo gotta love black friday " And I'm available at very reasonable rates, too. Just watch where you store the remote control. It's very good of you to do that for your kid. | |||
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"my mums going to asda at 8am to buy me a tv for crimbo gotta love black friday And I'm available at very reasonable rates, too. Just watch where you store the remote control. It's very good of you to do that for your kid. " lol im not buying my daughter a tv.. shes only 3 my mum is taking pitty on me that my screen is damaged.. gotta big black splodge on it and lots of lines across the bottom | |||
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"My OH did the same at Hamleys when there was whisper of a delivery of telly tubbies And a Tracy Island was the very first thing I bought on ebay I think we've all been there " No we haven't. We don't all have more money than sense | |||
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"My OH did the same at Hamleys when there was whisper of a delivery of telly tubbies And a Tracy Island was the very first thing I bought on ebay I think we've all been there No we haven't. We don't all have more money than sense " How do you know they havent been saving up for the last year? Big assumption there. | |||
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"My OH did the same at Hamleys when there was whisper of a delivery of telly tubbies And a Tracy Island was the very first thing I bought on ebay I think we've all been there No we haven't. We don't all have more money than sense " I think its more about the gesture to go out of the way to provide something you know your child would love | |||
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"My OH did the same at Hamleys when there was whisper of a delivery of telly tubbies And a Tracy Island was the very first thing I bought on ebay I think we've all been there " I didn't but their nanny did for both those things | |||
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"My OH did the same at Hamleys when there was whisper of a delivery of telly tubbies And a Tracy Island was the very first thing I bought on ebay I think we've all been there No we haven't. We don't all have more money than sense " Why are you making the ridiculous and completely wrong assumption that ive got more money than sense? Because that is just an insult! Have you never done your best to treat your children to something they want? | |||
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"My OH did the same at Hamleys when there was whisper of a delivery of telly tubbies And a Tracy Island was the very first thing I bought on ebay I think we've all been there No we haven't. We don't all have more money than sense How do you know they havent been saving up for the last year? Big assumption there." well if I had to start work at 4 am I wouldn't see getting a games console as a priority.....it doesn't hurt kids to wait for things..... | |||
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"What the hell am I doing standing waiting for a shop to open at midnight when I've got to be up at 4 just so my son can have the latest console " It's called love simple | |||
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"I'm a dad " oops sorry Dad My OH and Son have to wait until Christmas for their PS4's..bet you will have one happy boy | |||
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"My OH did the same at Hamleys when there was whisper of a delivery of telly tubbies And a Tracy Island was the very first thing I bought on ebay I think we've all been there No we haven't. We don't all have more money than sense Why are you making the ridiculous and completely wrong assumption that ive got more money than sense? Because that is just an insult! Have you never done your best to treat your children to something they want? " I just don't understand the must have it now mentality thats all. | |||
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"I've got 5 kids 2 step kids and a grandson I'm ok for money and I earned it but I live to give them pleasure and I can be tired tomorrow knowing how much he will be smiling " | |||
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"My OH did the same at Hamleys when there was whisper of a delivery of telly tubbies And a Tracy Island was the very first thing I bought on ebay I think we've all been there No we haven't. We don't all have more money than sense " I suspect its a Black Friday deal so probably about saving money. | |||
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"I've got 5 kids 2 step kids and a grandson I'm ok for money and I earned it but I live to give them pleasure and I can be tired tomorrow knowing how much he will be smiling " so I guess christmas will be kind of an anti climax this year then? | |||
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"I've got 5 kids 2 step kids and a grandson I'm ok for money and I earned it but I live to give them pleasure and I can be tired tomorrow knowing how much he will be smiling so I guess christmas will be kind of an anti climax this year then?" Why's that | |||
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"My OH did the same at Hamleys when there was whisper of a delivery of telly tubbies And a Tracy Island was the very first thing I bought on ebay I think we've all been there No we haven't. We don't all have more money than sense I think its more about the gesture to go out of the way to provide something you know your child would love " I go out of my way everyday for my kids. otherwise I wouldn't work as damn hard as I do. | |||
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"My OH did the same at Hamleys when there was whisper of a delivery of telly tubbies And a Tracy Island was the very first thing I bought on ebay I think we've all been there No we haven't. We don't all have more money than sense Why are you making the ridiculous and completely wrong assumption that ive got more money than sense? Because that is just an insult! Have you never done your best to treat your children to something they want? I just don't understand the must have it now mentality thats all. " No need to be so rude about it though,im far from senseless,im far from rolling in cash and my children are far from being spoilt brats | |||
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"I've got 5 kids 2 step kids and a grandson I'm ok for money and I earned it but I live to give them pleasure and I can be tired tomorrow knowing how much he will be smiling so I guess christmas will be kind of an anti climax this year then? Why's that " dude if you don't know the answer to that then you don't need to explain to me why you're stood in a que when you have to be at work at 4, and as far as I'm aware tomorrow is the first day the ps4 is for sale, not the last. | |||
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"My OH did the same at Hamleys when there was whisper of a delivery of telly tubbies And a Tracy Island was the very first thing I bought on ebay I think we've all been there No we haven't. We don't all have more money than sense I think its more about the gesture to go out of the way to provide something you know your child would love I go out of my way everyday for my kids. otherwise I wouldn't work as damn hard as I do." Thats great.. im sure the OP does the same. If he wants to stay up thats his call. He earnt his money and if he chooses to treat his son to a gift i think its a lovely gesture | |||
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"This thread was never about money we all have different ideas if what expensive is, it was more about the things we do to bring a smile to our kids faces just nice little surprises " Well i knew what you meant | |||
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"This thread was never about money we all have different ideas if what expensive is, it was more about the things we do to bring a smile to our kids faces just nice little surprises " | |||
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"I've got 5 kids 2 step kids and a grandson I'm ok for money and I earned it but I live to give them pleasure and I can be tired tomorrow knowing how much he will be smiling so I guess christmas will be kind of an anti climax this year then? Why's that dude if you don't know the answer to that then you don't need to explain to me why you're stood in a que when you have to be at work at 4, and as far as I'm aware tomorrow is the first day the ps4 is for sale, not the last." It's just a suprise for him I've done it for years with different consoles and games and Harry potter books teletubbies etc, we will still have a lovely Xmas I will take my grandson to hamlys this year to see Santa as my kids don't believe anymore my son has seen his mum twice this year and if I want to spoil him I will and I won't feel bad about it | |||
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"I've got 5 kids 2 step kids and a grandson I'm ok for money and I earned it but I live to give them pleasure and I can be tired tomorrow knowing how much he will be smiling so I guess christmas will be kind of an anti climax this year then? Why's that dude if you don't know the answer to that then you don't need to explain to me why you're stood in a que when you have to be at work at 4, and as far as I'm aware tomorrow is the first day the ps4 is for sale, not the last." Who is to say his son is aware of what his dad is doing for him. Could still be a surprise on xmas day. Stock of new products sell out mighty quick. He is just making sure he gets one early | |||
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"Once a fortnight or so I convert my daughter's brown car back into a silver car " Lol, I hear ya' | |||
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"Unbelievable!! A dad is standing in a quex to buy his son a console as a gift! He is not bragging or saying " I am richer than you" We hope your sons face lights up when he opens the gift Christmas Day!! There's nothing more enjoyable than seeing a child's face light up! " | |||
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"This thread was never about money we all have different ideas if what expensive is, it was more about the things we do to bring a smile to our kids faces just nice little surprises " do you have a flask of something hot with you | |||
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"This thread was never about money we all have different ideas if what expensive is, it was more about the things we do to bring a smile to our kids faces just nice little surprises do you have a flask of something hot with you " It's not cold but I need a pee | |||
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"I've got 5 kids 2 step kids and a grandson I'm ok for money and I earned it but I live to give them pleasure and I can be tired tomorrow knowing how much he will be smiling so I guess christmas will be kind of an anti climax this year then? Why's that dude if you don't know the answer to that then you don't need to explain to me why you're stood in a que when you have to be at work at 4, and as far as I'm aware tomorrow is the first day the ps4 is for sale, not the last. Who is to say his son is aware of what his dad is doing for him. Could still be a surprise on xmas day. Stock of new products sell out mighty quick. He is just making sure he gets one early" Don't think so babe. | |||
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"I've got 5 kids 2 step kids and a grandson I'm ok for money and I earned it but I live to give them pleasure and I can be tired tomorrow knowing how much he will be smiling so I guess christmas will be kind of an anti climax this year then? Why's that dude if you don't know the answer to that then you don't need to explain to me why you're stood in a que when you have to be at work at 4, and as far as I'm aware tomorrow is the first day the ps4 is for sale, not the last. Who is to say his son is aware of what his dad is doing for him. Could still be a surprise on xmas day. Stock of new products sell out mighty quick. He is just making sure he gets one early Don't think so babe." First off please dont call me babe.. Secondly its actually non of our business what the OP chooses to do. I think its a lovely gesture though | |||
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"This thread was never about money we all have different ideas if what expensive is, it was more about the things we do to bring a smile to our kids faces just nice little surprises " I understood that. It's bonkers. I spent a weekend making a car once and I will be trekking around Winter Wonderland with them. | |||
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"This thread was never about money we all have different ideas if what expensive is, it was more about the things we do to bring a smile to our kids faces just nice little surprises do you have a flask of something hot with you It's not cold but I need a pee" Empty the flask and use that. | |||
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"I've got 5 kids 2 step kids and a grandson I'm ok for money and I earned it but I live to give them pleasure and I can be tired tomorrow knowing how much he will be smiling so I guess christmas will be kind of an anti climax this year then? Why's that dude if you don't know the answer to that then you don't need to explain to me why you're stood in a que when you have to be at work at 4, and as far as I'm aware tomorrow is the first day the ps4 is for sale, not the last. Who is to say his son is aware of what his dad is doing for him. Could still be a surprise on xmas day. Stock of new products sell out mighty quick. He is just making sure he gets one early Don't think so babe. First off please dont call me babe.. Secondly its actually non of our business what the OP chooses to do. I think its a lovely gesture though" Sorry hun, Don't get on your high horse just because you're wrong luv. | |||
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"Ive removed posts so if youve quoted they have gone too sorry" I thought I was going insane! | |||
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"Ive removed posts so if youve quoted they have gone too sorry I thought I was going insane! " Sorry | |||
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"Ive removed posts so if youve quoted they have gone too sorry" Me too, I wondered what was going on as I tried to take them off | |||
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"I've got 5 kids 2 step kids and a grandson I'm ok for money and I earned it but I live to give them pleasure and I can be tired tomorrow knowing how much he will be smiling so I guess christmas will be kind of an anti climax this year then? Why's that dude if you don't know the answer to that then you don't need to explain to me why you're stood in a que when you have to be at work at 4, and as far as I'm aware tomorrow is the first day the ps4 is for sale, not the last. It's just a suprise for him I've done it for years with different consoles and games and Harry potter books teletubbies etc, we will still have a lovely Xmas I will take my grandson to hamlys this year to see Santa as my kids don't believe anymore my son has seen his mum twice this year and if I want to spoil him I will and I won't feel bad about it " I'll say it again..... I saw your reply.... You said he doesn't know you're there.... I think that's brilliant. And it will be well worth standing there for half the night. x | |||
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"Ive removed posts so if youve quoted they have gone too sorry I thought I was going insane! Sorry " That's ok, I like the thread better now. | |||
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"What the hell am I doing standing waiting for a shop to open at midnight when I've got to be up at 4 just so my son can have the latest console " aw you, you spoil him but that's what mums are for eh? Mine spent the whole three weeks she stayed with us doing our house chores, she was my virtual slave, I loved it! LOL | |||
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"As we're talking about doing things for the kids can anyone advise me on Furby's? I can't work out what I am supposed to get, what they need to make them work and whether the dog will attack them." They interact with iphone apps. The dog might be scared to death of it. Just talk to them and they react. Put them near music and they dance. | |||
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"What the hell am I doing standing waiting for a shop to open at midnight when I've got to be up at 4 just so my son can have the latest console aw you, you spoil him but that's what mums are for eh? Mine spent the whole three weeks she stayed with us doing our house chores, she was my virtual slave, I loved it! LOL " I'm still the dad | |||
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"Ive removed posts so if youve quoted they have gone too sorry Me too, I wondered what was going on as I tried to take them off " Ooo did you hear the Twilight Zone theme music at the same time? | |||
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"What the hell am I doing standing waiting for a shop to open at midnight when I've got to be up at 4 just so my son can have the latest console aw you, you spoil him but that's what mums are for eh? Mine spent the whole three weeks she stayed with us doing our house chores, she was my virtual slave, I loved it! LOL I'm still the dad " you are a diamond dad x | |||
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"I think we all do stuff for our kids similar to this but I have a friend who really goes too far and defrosts their cars in the morning for them before she leaves for work" Sometimes it can be over kill while I have been ill my mum has been popping in lol last week she decided to pick up the leaves in my front and back garden lol she ended up doing the neighbours paths too I did tell her to stop but she would'nt listen x | |||
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"OP I dont know about you being mad, but seeing as youre out and about can you just nip to Tesco and get me a pint of milk? Thank ya kindly " If I drop that to Manchester I will be late for work | |||
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"As we're talking about doing things for the kids can anyone advise me on Furby's? I can't work out what I am supposed to get, what they need to make them work and whether the dog will attack them. They interact with iphone apps. The dog might be scared to death of it. Just talk to them and they react. Put them near music and they dance. " The kids don't have iPhones. The old ones didn't work with phone did they? I just want them to do the being able to talk to them and dance with them stuff not create a reason for children to beg for iPhones. | |||
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"I think we all do stuff for our kids similar to this but I have a friend who really goes too far and defrosts their cars in the morning for them before she leaves for work Sometimes it can be over kill while I have been ill my mum has been popping in lol last week she decided to pick up the leaves in my front and back garden lol she ended up doing the neighbours paths too I did tell her to stop but she would'nt listen x" bless her. My dad used to leave his car on my drive for me when it was raining and I had to pick the kids up from school...never said a word just did it | |||
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"OP I dont know about you being mad, but seeing as youre out and about can you just nip to Tesco and get me a pint of milk? Thank ya kindly If I drop that to Manchester I will be late for work " If you get three different Furby's I don't need them until 23rd. | |||
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"As we're talking about doing things for the kids can anyone advise me on Furby's? I can't work out what I am supposed to get, what they need to make them work and whether the dog will attack them. They interact with iphone apps. The dog might be scared to death of it. Just talk to them and they react. Put them near music and they dance. The kids don't have iPhones. The old ones didn't work with phone did they? I just want them to do the being able to talk to them and dance with them stuff not create a reason for children to beg for iPhones." We don't have iphones, the Furby works fine without. It's just an extra really. (gimmick) They talk and dance and burp and laugh. | |||
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"As we're talking about doing things for the kids can anyone advise me on Furby's? I can't work out what I am supposed to get, what they need to make them work and whether the dog will attack them. They interact with iphone apps. The dog might be scared to death of it. Just talk to them and they react. Put them near music and they dance. The kids don't have iPhones. The old ones didn't work with phone did they? I just want them to do the being able to talk to them and dance with them stuff not create a reason for children to beg for iPhones." you mean you've not got them matching iphones for their Furby's? | |||
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"If doing it purely for love of kids, why the need to broadcast, just a thought" Maybe boredom had set in while he was in the queue. | |||
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"As we're talking about doing things for the kids can anyone advise me on Furby's? I can't work out what I am supposed to get, what they need to make them work and whether the dog will attack them. They interact with iphone apps. The dog might be scared to death of it. Just talk to them and they react. Put them near music and they dance. The kids don't have iPhones. The old ones didn't work with phone did they? I just want them to do the being able to talk to them and dance with them stuff not create a reason for children to beg for iPhones. We don't have iphones, the Furby works fine without. It's just an extra really. (gimmick) They talk and dance and burp and laugh. " THANK YOU. Now I just have to go shopping for them. | |||
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"My OH did the same at Hamleys when there was whisper of a delivery of telly tubbies And a Tracy Island was the very first thing I bought on ebay I think we've all been there " No, we haven't. We had the money to indulge our children, we didn't. | |||
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"many years ago all our son wanted for christmas was a football, he told everyone that asked him what he wanted - a football, so we assumed someone would buy him one, there was one present delivered to our door that was a square box that looked like a football would fit inside, christmas eve I had the bright idea to look inside this pressie just to make sure it was a football ... it wasn't it was a DRUM (yes the person is still alive that gave my 3 year old a drum), so christmas eve at 8 pm we are out looking for football for him, we found a 99p ball in a garage .... wrapped it up and the following morning his face lit up ........ yep that was the present that made his christmas - and ours when we saw his face the following morning ... its well worth the standing around queueing when you see THAT look ... good on you Dad " So lovely I think I can speak for most it's quite unbelievable the things we do go through ....? For our babies... Like I said its up there^^^ an the illusion of being a nutter was shattered l | |||
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"If doing it purely for love of kids, why the need to broadcast, just a thought" Sorry I was bored won't do it again | |||
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"many years ago all our son wanted for christmas was a football, he told everyone that asked him what he wanted - a football, so we assumed someone would buy him one, there was one present delivered to our door that was a square box that looked like a football would fit inside, christmas eve I had the bright idea to look inside this pressie just to make sure it was a football ... it wasn't it was a DRUM (yes the person is still alive that gave my 3 year old a drum), so christmas eve at 8 pm we are out looking for football for him, we found a 99p ball in a garage .... wrapped it up and the following morning his face lit up ........ yep that was the present that made his christmas - and ours when we saw his face the following morning ... its well worth the standing around queueing when you see THAT look ... good on you Dad " Absolutely brill story and that is what being a parent is - not being the first in the queue for something but being totally in tune to a childs innocent rquest | |||
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"Black friday tomorrow ..Mum used to sit outside all night at shops sale time. well done you is there a large queue" It's not a sale thing - PS4 was released at midnight and its a being the first to have one queue (and pay top price as well) | |||
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"Black friday tomorrow ..Mum used to sit outside all night at shops sale time. well done you is there a large queue It's not a sale thing - PS4 was released at midnight and its a being the first to have one queue (and pay top price as well)" Or 'being the parent that chose to queue to make sure your child had it for Christmas because you know that, that is what will bring the look that you so love to see on to their face Christmas morning?' | |||
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"My OH did the same at Hamleys when there was whisper of a delivery of telly tubbies And a Tracy Island was the very first thing I bought on ebay I think we've all been there No, we haven't. We had the money to indulge our children, we didn't. " So you have never once indulged your children? You have never bought them something that they have asked for as a christmas or birthday present? Or got them a treat for the sheer pleasure of it? | |||
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"Black friday tomorrow ..Mum used to sit outside all night at shops sale time. well done you is there a large queue It's not a sale thing - PS4 was released at midnight and its a being the first to have one queue (and pay top price as well) Or 'being the parent that chose to queue to make sure your child had it for Christmas because you know that, that is what will bring the look that you so love to see on to their face Christmas morning?'" | |||
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"We all love our children - but looking at this thread and others people's ideas on parenting and what makes a good parent are significantly opposed. Sadly, our self-absorbed society has told parents to help their kids feel good about themselves, that it’s the parents’ duty to make their children happy. But underneath it all, kids don’t need parents who make them happy. They need parents who will make them capable. " Oh my word!!!! if only id known all this before I completely ruined my children and turned them into materialistic brats with no sense of self worth all because of a telly tubbie one christmas!! My children are now well grounded teenagers studying for their A levels with part time jobs to pay their way,they're decent kids despite their extremely poor upbringing and overly and madly indulgant parents that did all they could to make them feel crap | |||
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"The guy is making a gesture for his son nothing more or less. It isn't about him trying to say he's better than anyone or loves his children more than anyone else it was a humorous remark he made about the daft things people do in my opinion. " I've read the thread again and I still agree with that. If the OP was rich and trying to show off, he would have had his butler stand in the queue. | |||
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"We all love our children - but looking at this thread and others people's ideas on parenting and what makes a good parent are significantly opposed. Sadly, our self-absorbed society has told parents to help their kids feel good about themselves, that it’s the parents’ duty to make their children happy. But underneath it all, kids don’t need parents who make them happy. They need parents who will make them capable. " You are making huge, sweeping and massively judgemental comments here based on one guy queuing to but a PS4 & some people saying they've done similar things. You simply cannot comment so negatively on other peoples parenting with so little evidence its neither reasonable nor sensible. | |||
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"We all love our children - but looking at this thread and others people's ideas on parenting and what makes a good parent are significantly opposed. Sadly, our self-absorbed society has told parents to help their kids feel good about themselves, that it’s the parents’ duty to make their children happy. But underneath it all, kids don’t need parents who make them happy. They need parents who will make them capable. You are making huge, sweeping and massively judgemental comments here based on one guy queuing to but a PS4 & some people saying they've done similar things. You simply cannot comment so negatively on other peoples parenting with so little evidence its neither reasonable nor sensible." | |||
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" my kids love me enough without expecting me to do stuff like that! I like to try and spend money on things we can do without having to be glued to the tv for hours." | |||
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" my kids love me enough without expecting me to do stuff like that! I like to try and spend money on things we can do without having to be glued to the tv for hours. " I may of missed it but I didn't see the op mention anywhere that their kids 'expected' them to do it. | |||
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"What the hell am I doing standing waiting for a shop to open at midnight when I've got to be up at 4 just so my son can have the latest console " you not hear of pre ordering? its great, you go to the shop put a deposit on it then when it comes into the shop they put your name on one and put it aside for you to pick up at your convenience, try it | |||
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"My OH did the same at Hamleys when there was whisper of a delivery of telly tubbies And a Tracy Island was the very first thing I bought on ebay I think we've all been there No, we haven't. We had the money to indulge our children, we didn't. " Did they just get a piece of coal or something then ? | |||
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"My OH did the same at Hamleys when there was whisper of a delivery of telly tubbies And a Tracy Island was the very first thing I bought on ebay I think we've all been there No, we haven't. We had the money to indulge our children, we didn't. Did they just get a piece of coal or something then ?" My father always said he got a piece of bread and a piece of cheese. You could eat the bread but you were only allowed to smell the cheese. Thanks for the help last night I now have three Furby's ready to make the boys smile. | |||
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"I've got 5 kids 2 step kids and a grandson I'm ok for money and I earned it but I live to give them pleasure and I can be tired tomorrow knowing how much he will be smiling so I guess christmas will be kind of an anti climax this year then? Why's that dude if you don't know the answer to that then you don't need to explain to me why you're stood in a que when you have to be at work at 4, and as far as I'm aware tomorrow is the first day the ps4 is for sale, not the last. Who is to say his son is aware of what his dad is doing for him. Could still be a surprise on xmas day. Stock of new products sell out mighty quick. He is just making sure he gets one early Don't think so babe. First off please dont call me babe.. Secondly its actually non of our business what the OP chooses to do. I think its a lovely gesture though Sorry hun, Don't get on your high horse just because you're wrong luv. " Shes not wrong just because her opinion is not the same as yours | |||
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"My OH did the same at Hamleys when there was whisper of a delivery of telly tubbies And a Tracy Island was the very first thing I bought on ebay I think we've all been there No, we haven't. We had the money to indulge our children, we didn't. Did they just get a piece of coal or something then ? My father always said he got a piece of bread and a piece of cheese. You could eat the bread but you were only allowed to smell the cheese. Thanks for the help last night I now have three Furby's ready to make the boys smile. " Wasn't me who helped with the Furbies, I know nothing about the little furry buggers | |||
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